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Just say that your weekend was good and thank her. The ball is in her court to agree to a date and state her availability. If she doesn’t, it means she’s not interested.
/r/seduction09/03/26 10:59 PM
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I’ve related to the girl in this situation, and if I was her it would absolutely break my heart and shatter my trust of anyone showing me interest for years if someone decided to ‘use me’ this way without telling me they have no interest in me whatsoever. If you do anything with her, you have to let her know you don’t like-like her and you never will.
/r/seduction05/06/25 12:23 AM
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No, just that it’s scarier to be her because 1) she isn’t as strong and has far smaller chances of fighting someone off, and 2) she has an added target on her back on accounts of being a woman, cause not only can they attack her for the same reason they attack you (robbery, etc), but they are more likely attack her sexually as well. Both your fears matter. It’s just scarier to be her. It’s not a competition you want to win.
/r/seduction02/06/25 04:07 AM
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Now imagine walking in those same areas as a woman. How do you think the experience would compare?
/r/seduction01/06/25 03:18 AM
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Here’s me with ADHD feeling attacked, lol. I’m intelligent, workout, eat well, and my attention drifts, ok??
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 06:15 PM
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The Wall in particular is one of the stupidest things Red Pillers try to convince people of. As if women’s body somehow age differently than other humans and as soon as we reach 30 we might as well be expired, wtf. I’m currently 30 and in the best shape of my life, because I take care of myself. Meanwhile RPs who think using moisturizer and sunscreen is too effeminate will have leathery skin by 40. As for the ‘baggage’ they say women accumulate: Life happens to everyone. Baggage accumulates in e…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 02:09 PM
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So do older men not have debt or accumulate emotional baggage or…?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 06:31 AM
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I’ve recently read ‘Come As You Are’ by Emily Nagoski and I’d say it’s a must read for any woman affected by the patriarchal ideas around sex and female sexual function. It’s written by a sex educator and includes a lot of the important sex studies ever done, and it states that, “Thirty percent of women are reliably orgasmic from vaginal penetration alone. The remaining 70 percent are sometimes, rarely, or never orgasmic from penetration alone. The most common way for women to orgasm is from cli…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 12:08 PM
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That woman is absolutely not representative of most women/people. There will always be extremes, but you shouldn’t look to extremes for representing the majority. If she’s truly feeling suicidal for one month without a boyfriend my guess is she’s been suicidal her whole life but has used anyone available to try to ease her own pain. I certainly don’t want to be in her shoes, and neither should you. Please be kinder to yourself. Male loneliness isn’t women’s fault. Please recognize that being ang…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/22 10:46 PM
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When used, this phrase means, “This man is not good to you so stop wasting your time trying to fix him or please him and just let him go because at this point the only things you’re getting is sex and validation which is a bare minimum standard a hundred other guys can give you but those 2 things alone are not worth it when you’re being mistreated and taken advantage of”. The phrase is true only because it’s specifically talking about ‘low quality ‘dick’’, which is a reductive term but is referr…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 12:39 PM
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Thinking is the brain, they likely were talking about the neural pathways that were either created or reinforced like habitual associations and behaviours. The good news is that any change done to your psyche can be undone (especially since it happened later in life and not in your young/teen/developing years. (Just guessing you’re older than 23-25). Unfortunately some sort of therapy is the answer, but it doesn’t have to be done at the therapist’s office. You just need to work on unpairing thos…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 01:20 AM
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Just a clarification for anyone reading those stats: it doesn’t mean 70% of women file for divorce, it means that of all the divorces, 70% are filed by women. (And there are no stats whatsoever that say they’re doing it because of finding someone better.) Alright that’s all.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 09:45 PM
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Depending on whether they took care of their skin with sunscreen moisturizer minimum alcohol and junk food, sure. But most men have been told that that’s not masculine to do so unfortunately many are quite wrinkly in their 40s.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 05:04 PM
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I thought RP said that you would have more choices as a 40-year-old than as a 25-year-old? Because they say when you’re 25 you’re still kind of maybe shy or still accumulating resources and the women around you are dating chads or older rich men.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 05:01 PM
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I think the sexual attraction probably comes from trauma and being neglected or mistreated by their fathers. I’m the same way. But it’s not actual physical attraction. It’s just a deep longing to fill a void by someone who’s the same age.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:56 PM
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Good point. “Women only want money and status, they’re shallow like that. Therefore we need to accumulate money and status… But that’s what gives us actual value as opposed to the value of looks women have which will disappear after 30.“ It’s like.. they hate the standards they have to live up to while simultaneously identifying with and standing by those same standards to make themselves feel superior. It’s like they’re trying to comfort themselves with something that hurts them.. It’s sad.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:53 PM
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So he could ask why someone would lie about something like that. But he’s asking why she won’t sleep with him, 23 times. That ‘but whyyyyyyy’ energy is what makes it sound like entitlement. Just being confused about the whole virgin thing would be understandable. Him making one or two posts would be understandable. But it’s how he’s going about this that is making it obvious how entitled he feels to sleep with her.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 11:42 PM
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He’s posted this exact question on 23 subs asking why she won’t sleep with him… Sounds entitled enough don’t you think?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 11:34 PM
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If I was spewing extreme sexism and calls to violence I’d understand why I was being banned.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 08:07 PM
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Bravo! 👏🏼👏🏼
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 03:12 AM
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I agree with what you’re saying I’m just saying there’s more to it than that. It’s not like hetero women are now less hetero lol, or that they’re asexual or something. They would gladly include a man into their life if the man added to their life’s happiness instead of subtracted from it. Many aren’t interested anymore because time and again the men they’ve dated ended up net-subtracting from their life. It takes a lot of emotional labour to be with someone you can’t really communicate with who …
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 06:50 PM
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The article literally says that women aren’t into men as much, but that doesn’t mean they don’t find men sexy/desirable anymore, the info you’re leaving out is that they’re not into as much men because a large portion of men they encounter don’t meet the rising communication/etc standards. Women are not as interested anymore because they expect better and aren’t wasting their time and energy on looking as much, because of how often they’re disappointed.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 06:24 PM
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Ok I love that you’re referencing Treasure Planet, that’s all I want to say, have a good day sir.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 06:19 PM
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For sure. A guy who can handle rejection is a really attractive trait. It shows that he’s secure, confident, respectful, and in control of his emotions. :)
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 05:24 PM
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As another commenter said, this saying is usually about guys being celebrated/appreciated for doing bare minimum, especially things that nobody bats an eye when women do. A big one I’ve dealt with is how men handle rejection. Women are so used to men handling it badly that when they handle it well it almost makes us want them back lol, cause when they respect our boundaries they’ve now basically shown themselves to be some of the most emotionally mature guys we’ve interacted with so it makes us …
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 04:14 PM
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Oh ok. You never know on this sub, lol.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 01:21 AM
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But.. They’re misogynists, and don’t sound educated at all.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 01:02 AM
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RP has decided that ‘youth’ is only the time before 25/30. They’re not the time police, lol. Ask a 70 year old if a 30 year old is ‘old’, they’ll laugh in your face lol. I’d say until 35 at LEAST is ‘youth’, but again, time is a spectrum with no definite start/stop between the life stages. Also, true youth is as much personality and behaviour as it is numbers. I know people younger that take themselves way too seriously and come off much older than they are. And I know women in their 50s that ar…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 10:20 PM
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Not an ego trip at all, it’s a fear & safety thing. If she gives you a fake number it probably means she doesn’t feel comfortable outright saying, “I don’t want to give you my number”, which is most probably because through the interaction with the guy she saw that he doesn’t take no for an answer. We deal with a lot of guys that keep pushing and pressuring and those kinds of guys can be the type to get aggressive from rejection, and girls would rather give him a number and leave safely than ris…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 07:01 PM
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I understand the pain of not being believed, but the people who are most likely to be dicks about this aren’t gonna read this to understand, they’ll read it to pick apart even more, and the people who believe you probably won’t feel the need to read this cause they already believe you. (I’m proving myself wrong here because I both believe you and read this, lol.) I’m just saying your time and energy aren’t worth people like that, and no amount of logic is going to convince them to just be decent…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 03:28 AM
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“It was late! Coffee keeps me up!!”
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:18 PM
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A lot of things aren’t our choice and are out of our control in our lives. You shouldn’t be angry about them all, it won’t serve you. If you make reality the enemy you will always lose. It’s not your choice to be single. But whether you’re content being single or not IS your choice. People come into this world and are born in slavery and a life of violence and are murdered before their 15th birthday. Nothing is owed to you, we all get the luck of the draw and have to accept our hand and make the…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 03:41 PM
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Then your dating pool would be 0, but you wouldn’t feel as shitty as you do now. You’d know that there are simply no women ‘good enough’ for you, and that you deserve ‘good enough’ and that you’re content being by yourself and enjoy your own company more than the company of someone who doesn’t add value to your life. Many people are happily single/celibate, because they’ve learned to fill their cup in other ways (which is an attractive quality, and may actually lead to someone ‘good enough’ beco…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:19 PM
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I’m not dense, I believe you missed her actual point. She was specifying the ‘any’ part. Women absolutely like ‘some’ men a lot, just as much as some men like ‘some’ women. Her point was that she believes there are more men that have the mentality of, “I don’t care who, I just want ANY woman” than there are women who have the mentality of, “I don’t care who, I just want ANY man”. She’s saying she believes that there are more men who prioritize quantity over quality than there are women who do th…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:13 PM
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Why does hearing about a lot of men not having standards make you feel shitty?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:10 PM
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I literally never said they did, bro. Again, look up intersectionality. White women aren’t your enemy and are not the reason you feel so inadequate or hopeless. You’re angry at the systems that have created these hierarchies you find yourself to be low on, as you should. But also recognize that systems are external, and although they may affect your life in ways you can’t control, there’s a lot that you’re in control of too, like self-worth, self-love, confidence, strength, intellect, passion, e…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 02:13 AM
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MOC benefit from affirmative action and having more power in their ethnic communities than WOC so…. Look up intersectionality. Everyone has pros and cons to being them. But anyway this is an exredpill forum but you seem to speaking quite redpilly, I’d look into that and try to deconstruct why you feel the way you do and believe the things you do.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 01:46 AM
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Best quote ever hahaha.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 02:44 PM
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Did he? What was his answer? He could’ve just deleted them cause he didn’t want her finding out and losing the chance to get with her.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 03:15 AM
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I don’t understand. Women masturbate. Relationship status has nothing to do with chances of orgasm. Edit: I misunderstood your comment. I thought you meant more orgasms single vs in a relationship, as opposed to more orgasms in one night hookup sex vs relationship sex.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 02:49 AM
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I heard somewhere that if I guy says he’s slept with that many girls it just sounds like none of the girls came back for more. Cause ‘satisfied repeat customers’ would keep the net number lower.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 12:57 PM
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Breakups and divorces exist, so all is not lost.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 07:03 AM
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It’s not because girls are used to getting what they want, it’s because they’re used to most boys wanting to have sex with them, so someone who doesn’t want to is refreshing, which may make her like them more, because he’s showing that he likes her for more than just what she’s constantly being told gives her value. But if you actually just want to have sex with her but you make you think you don’t - to have sex with her - you’re just playing games with her mind, which is not a good thing to do.
/r/seduction12/12/21 05:26 PM
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Hm well cutting short really just works in a place where you think you’ll see her again, like school or a club you’re both in (like dancing for you). But you need to be really careful there because girls scare easily and get uncomfortable when they know you like them and that they have to keep seeing you or bumping into you. So if you have a chat with them, you don’t have to make it clear that you’re interested in them, they can usually tell just by the fact that you approached them. Have one ni…
/r/seduction10/12/21 01:38 AM
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Girls out of politeness and/or fear are likely to go along with a conversation they don’t really care about. If they all had conversations with you and ‘seemed into it’ but then didn’t want to go further, it’s likely that you were kinda forcing a conversation on them. You need to find a way to figure out if they actually want to talk to you or are just kind of submitting to your request for a conversation. I second what someone else said, where you cut the convo short and leave it to them to ini…
/r/seduction09/12/21 04:56 PM
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Yeah it doesn’t sound like a woman wrote this at all.
/r/seduction15/11/21 10:45 PM
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Why didn’t it live up to it?
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:03 AM
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Sometimes they’re just enjoying the view, doesn’t mean they want to be approached or are romantically available. Don’t worry!
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:29 AM
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Big disagree. The post made OPseem like a great respectful guy which is actually attractive. He saw a girl as more than just something to kiss. That’s what girls like. Not someone who follows a script to force a situation he wants.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:17 AM
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I’d disagree that most women would choose the first. There’s nothing wrong with how you described the second guy.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:06 AM
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You’re saying the hotter the girl the more likely she is to be responsive than the less attractive ones? I’d think it would be the opposite.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:02 AM
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Why would you swipe right on someone you thought was horribly unattractive?
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:25 AM
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I’d say more accurately: a fear of being rude. (A rational fear)
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:41 AM
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So you heard a girl say what she doesn’t like and your first instinct was to do that exact thing? Did you even find her attractive? Would you have approached her if you hadn’t heard her conversation?
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:29 AM
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What do you say if she can tell what you’re doing and says “no, I don’t think you should”. What’s a non-awkward way to end the interaction?
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:31 AM
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Refusing dating apps because of the high guy to girl ratio?
/r/seduction01/06/21 06:15 PM
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This is great! So happy for you! Skin care intermediate here: after you finish that face polish, I recommend switching to chemical exfoliants instead of physical exfoliants, as physical exfoliants can be a bit rough on the skin and cause tiny micro tears as you rub them in. Chemical exfoliants like AHA (also called glycolic acid) and BHA (also called salicylic acid) are the most popular/recommended, and they still get rid of dead skin buildup and clean out your pores.
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:56 PM
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The ordinary, the inkey list, and revolution, are 3 popular cheaper brands with good reviews.
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:47 PM
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Interest... Onion... Italy
/r/seduction21/05/21 09:19 PM
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This. Guys put girls on too high a pedestal, a standard nobody can live up to. Leads to disappointment on the guy’s end and unfair expectations on the girl’s end.
/r/seduction04/05/21 06:18 AM
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