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Count your macros. If you dont know what macros are, look them up. You need to be counting calories, use myfitnesspal to track it. If your serious about losing weight, this needs to be your number 1 priority. You'll learn about portions and know when your over eating. Mike Matthew's Bigger Leaner Stronger (Amazon) is a good starting book, goes over the lifestyle change. Goodluck!
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:13 PM
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I cannot agree enough. I've had a very successful relationship so far doing the same thing OP and what this comment suggests. Once you figure out that's how the game works, you play by it. "Whether or not you want to play the game, the game will be played" -someone, probably
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 10:12 PM
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Meditation. I use the headspace app, since it’s been the easiest to follow and learn how to. You’ll be more mindful of your thoughts and emotions because you’ll be more present (being aware of everything that is happening in front of you vs think about what your going to do next, or thinking about the past). It’ll help you let go of all stupid shit going on in your life. I like to pair meditation right before I hit the gym. Helps me focus on the mind to muscle connections (and since I go to the …
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:34 PM
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Honestly dude, it just takes one guy whos got a helluva lot more game than you to take it to the next level. I know how you feel, but LDR's are definitely not worth it. Start looking elsewhere brotha. Best of luck to ya
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:15 AM
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Damn, this is solid advice. Brah-vo
/r/askTRP12/11/17 02:12 PM
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There is a reason why its recommended here more so than any other book on sex. I'm not going to sell you on it, but it should be the next book you read if you like sex
/r/askTRP10/11/17 02:33 PM
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Sex God Method, you can find a pdf online for free
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:51 PM
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OPTIMAL.... look up the definition of "optimal" OP never said anything about low testosterone... So yeah, for every last little "tweak" my advice still stands... lol
/r/askTRP31/10/17 08:51 PM
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Aluminum Free Deodorant
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:59 PM
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Pretty much what this guy said. Also, your 22 and finding a chick that's everything your looking for is almost impossible. She's literally at the prime of her life, whereas you still got at least 10-12 years before you actually hit yours. If you've read the sidebar, or Rollo's books, you'll understand. She feels on top of the world with all the attention she's getting. Keep spinning, and never be the one to say love you etc... I hate writing this, because I know how you feel...
/r/askTRP29/10/17 12:15 AM
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Eggs, Rice, Refried Beans. Invest in a good rice cooker, one that you can set overnight. I bought a Zojirushi for $120 5-6 years ago, doesn't over-cook the rice, makes restaurant quality, etc... I buy most my stuff at Costco. For my lunches lately, I cook 3 eggs scrambled, throw it in a container with refried beans weighed out, and put it in the fridge. When I wake up, I portion out the rice thats already made inside the tupperware and take it to work. I have Kirkland salsa and an Guacamole pack…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:11 PM
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This needs to be the top comment for sure on this post. Heed warning fellas...
/r/askTRP18/10/17 01:58 PM
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Lots of red flags here. I'd move on
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:25 PM
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Women are fucking awesome. If I may, GOOD Women are fucking awesome :) Thanks for the link, most appreciated brotha
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 02:49 PM
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Your talking Phosphocreatine, or Creatine Phosphate. Creatine Phosphate cannot be taken supplementally; however, Creatine Monohydrate can, which is what I'm talking about. There is no "buzz" on creatine either way
/r/askTRP07/09/17 07:03 PM
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Dude, you don't understand how Creatine works. Creatine promotes water absorption into the muscles. Muscles that are hydrated work more efficiently. Thats why when you try and lift after a night of drinking, your performance is shit. Creatine CAN help you lift more, but only because your overloading your muscles with more water. The key is to drink MORE water, otherwise you're not using it to it's full effect. Gotta go back and do your research bud. There is no "buzz" from creatine. Also, for al…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:27 PM
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Anyone read about metals found in deodorants? When your applying deodorants on a daily basis to your armpits, that has to lower T production. Anyone know of any products without these T lowering chemicals?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 06:10 PM
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It took her almost a month to find suitable water bottles to carry out and about What brand of water bottle? I have a Nalgene 32 oz plastic water bottle I refill multiple times a day. Looking to make the switch to metal after this post
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 06:02 PM
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lol "endured" hahahaha, I fucking welcome them now ;)
/r/askTRP29/08/17 05:54 PM
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This book has been sitting on my dresser for over a month now. I need to stop the excuse of not having time and finish it.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 02:20 PM
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I know how you feel. When you come to the realization that life isn't at all what you grew up to believe it would be. That it's cold, dark, and can be incredibly depressing at times. The feeling of being completely and utterly alone in this world, despite having friend's and family around... You have to eventually just get over this. You need to find the hobbies that you used to enjoy growing up (productive ones, not video games.. but thats just my personal opinion). You also need to find purpos…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 02:17 PM
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I don't understand why there is so many downvotes on this post. This post is a home-run. There must be too many "nice guys" around here down-voting because of the "manipulation" topic. To those of you who disagree with manipulation, just remember this: "The Game will be played whether you choose to participate or not" If you've come here, there is an EXTREMELY high probability that you did so because at some point in your life you were (or still are) being manipulated. Don't play the fool.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 01:57 PM
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Example: I went with my chick to Costco. I arranged the shopping cart so that nothing has to be taken out of the cart, with the barcodes facing up. I chose a register with a cutie ringing people up. As I'm giving her my membership card, I say hi and give her a great smile. I then make a comment "Will you look at that, see how easy I made that for you?" while giving her a cocky half-smile. Cutie responded well with that comment as she gave me the "I wanna fuck you eyes" while my girlfriend watche…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:33 PM
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You make her jealous by talking/flirting to girls IN FRONT of her, not while watching TV... lol Need to brush up on your dread game.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:13 PM
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Dude, you're wasting people's time by asking "hypothetical" questions. Dick move man. Man up and read the sidebar, the rest will take care of itself
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:31 PM
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Sounds like your the rebound guy. I wouldn't invest in her if she's talking about her ex in front of you. That's a clear red flag. If she valued you, she wouldn't be talking about another guy in front of you. Demote her to plate and continue to work on improving yourself. Also, if she talks about leaving, MAKE her leave. Don't talk about seeing her later. Ignore her for however long you deem necessary to drive the point across. NEVER reward bad behavior. You gotta nip that shit in the butt REAL …
/r/askTRP23/08/17 02:51 PM
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If she's being disrespectful to you, you're fucking up. You're acting beta in her eyes, and she is shit testing you. If you take it, you're just validating to her that your a bitch. IMO, if it's come to this stage in your relationship with her, you gotta break it off and work on yourself. Secondly, there is no "plate/ltr" ... It's either LTR, or your plating DIFFERENT women, not both. If you were, in fact, plating multiple women, and she knew about it, AND you demonstrated that you are a high va…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 02:16 PM
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I used to work at a place that would talk mad shit all the time. You gotta remember that they, too, are giving you shit tests. The fact that their giving you a hard time on your preference is indeed a shit test. You basically have to dish that shit right back at them. Something like "Yeah, idk man, getting in bed with a fat sweaty woman doesn't sound too appealing to me personally." or something along those lines. Pressure flip in those circumstances. If you continue to allow people to talk shit…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:40 PM
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It all depends on the type of friendships you build. If you're around friends who are continually trying to improve themselves, and you build that relationship up, you'll be fine. However, if you're the only one who is continually in the pursuit of improving yourself, most of your friends will hate you. They'll never say it to your face, they'll be fake. I invested in the wrong friends earlier in my 20s, and its kinda biting me in the ass right now. When they say its lonely at the top, it's fair…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 01:49 AM
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The game will be played whether you choose to participate in it or not. Don't be the sucker
/r/askTRP20/08/17 01:45 AM
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I've found those that keep parroting the same shit over and over are the ones that tend to still be bitter about this reality, so they must continue to say it. I dont disagree with the other things you've parroted, but when you say you cant control people, I think your fucking wrong. If that wasn't the case, there wouldn't be stories of mass suicides caused by charismatic individuals (I cant think of that cult religion that drank cyanide or w/e). All I'm saying is that you think you can't contro…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:54 PM
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6 months? Not even a challenge... I'll be waiting for you outside of the anger phase
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:33 PM
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some needed more work than others ^ THIS too!
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:23 PM
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I've got my girl ready for a threesome... Can you really tell me that I'm doing it wrong? Manipulation is a POWERful tool ;)
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:21 PM
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This is true, but while its my turn, she'll do what I tell her to (i.e. control)
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:16 PM
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Lol, you keep doing you bro, and I'll do me. It's all my perception of reality anyways, right?? ;)
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:07 PM
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Idk man, I got my current girl crazy about me. As long as I continue on my mission, and continue the self improvement, I dont see a reason why I wouldn't be able to hold this power over her. This is all based on my experience though, so take it for what you will
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:41 PM
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Yeah, I feel like were definitely on the same page. Just because you're in an LTR, doesn't mean you shouldnt stop yourself from keeping options open. I continue to chat with women when I can, just to keep my game up, and she'll notice it too. You really have to let them know that you can and will be ready to walk away. I tell my LTR that I've made a bunch of sacrifices in my life so far to get where I've gotten today, and I told her along with this that if she fucks up, I'll cut her loose. This …
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:14 PM
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When people say they "mold" their LTR, what they mean by that is that the woman that their with is fitting into HIS lifestyle. If you demonstrate to a woman that you are a high value man, she's going to do everything that she can to keep you happy and satisfied. She will start to do more things for you. She will basically complement the life that you lead. You gotta look at it like a "captain of the ship" attitude, where you are the captain and she is the first mate. I've actually used this anal…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:01 PM
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I actually disagree. If you demonstrate to a woman that you're a high value man, they will do everything that they can to be the woman of your "dreams" The problem with what you mention about "rubber banding" is that a lot of guys can't hold up the frame that they have when they started the relationship (i.e. they get feelings, woman slowly wears him down, etc). The rubber banding idea is saying that you have no control over the woman, which is the exact opposite of what the sidebar teaches us. …
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:53 PM
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I bought this book years ago, way before I knew anything about TRP. It's not a hard-fast rule that "if her arms are crossed, shes defensive" type of thing, but reading this book does help. I'm sure youtube also has some good stuff too.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 01:30 PM
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Do you have any readings for this type of stuff? I find this topic really really fascinating
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:14 PM
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Although you're just parroting the standard line, I can't argue that truth. You answered my question without really answering my question though. You can very well have feelings for a woman (we're not all fucking robots like everyone else here may think) and still be able to cut them off without notice. Sure, it'll suck, but that doesn't mean you cannot develop feelings. I've practiced making sacrifices in my life, so much that I've gotten to the point where I'm entertaining the idea of a threes…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:41 PM
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Who the fuck said anything about marriage... lol
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:28 PM
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Finally, some actual advice. Thanks brotha
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:17 PM
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Her last relationship was with another female (plays on her softball team, she wasn't remotely attractive impo, which threw me off, since my LTR is attractive). Seemed pretty mild sexual experience with the last relationship though. I've brought a lot out of her since the start of the LTR (thanks to SGM). Done a few (her) firsts with her too. I will definitely be incorporating both at the same time, otherwise it wouldn't really be a threesome. From what I've read, gotta put continued emphasis on…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:50 PM
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Fucking in public and getting tag teamed by two guys are two totally different things, but maybe that's just my perception of it.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:42 PM
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Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. I asked her what were her desires, and a lot of it was just fucking in public. I'll be surprised if she wants that down the road, in which the answer would be fuck no. I've been reading previous posts on answers users have given since posting this. I need to contact some of these users and asked how it went afterwards. I'm pretty fuckin excited tbh.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:05 PM
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When I tend to hold eye contact with another guy for longer than a second or two, I'll smile or hit em with a grin and greet them (or a bottoms up head nod). When I tend to hold eye contact with another chick for longer than a second or two, I'll hit em with a cocky grin, and if that doesn't make them look away, I'll follow that with a wink which usually always seals the deal. Sometimes even a half-wink is all you need, but make sure your smiling when you do it. Women pick up on even the slighte…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 06:37 PM
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When I hold eye contact longer than necessary, one of my favorite things to do is hit em with a slight (but cocky) smirk and an eye wink.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 06:38 PM
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Dude, I felt this same way last year before I found TRP. I've lost 100 lbs, I get asked occasionally if I'm an actor or model (live in LA), tall, etc etc. I'll occasionally feel the same way you do in regards to hobbies and such. Have you looked into learning something new? Like taking an interest in investing? Now that you have some disposable income, you can start learning how to invest that extra money. What other things do you like? I found for me, playing volleyball in a couple leagues and …
/r/askTRP24/07/17 06:45 PM
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Read The Sex God Method. Sounds like you need work on Immersion, among other things.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 05:45 PM
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You've got to be kidding me... Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" I would have left them with the bill, not have even said goodbye. You're worth more than that shit. Or are you?
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:44 PM
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Yeah, I've actually cut back significantly in the last two years, but I definitely have room for more. I meal-prep all my food, I dont go out to bars and shit anymore. I used to have no car payments, but I took the VW TDI emissions scandal buyback and reinvested it into a newer TDI where Im basically paying $1k before taxes on the car, but the car is 4 years newer, half the mileage, and fully loaded. If you know the TDI's, they are commuter cars. I have no CC payments as I pay them off every mon…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 08:20 PM
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Dude, this post is awesome. I happened to see it, and I'm glad I read it. I absolutely agree with you 1000% on the way you view TRP right now. I go on it occasionally, just to get a dose of how fucked up life can be, but I'm at the point where I feel like I've learned all that I can (besides book recommendations). I've been straight hustling over the past year, and I'm easily going to clear 6 figures. This post inspired me to nut up and get cracking on investing. Only other investing I've done s…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 07:57 PM
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I'd like to suggest all of you new guys to read How to Be a Star at Work which has helped me in my career.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 08:57 PM
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The sidebar is all the "posts" and links on the right hand side of the sub. Start with the sidebar on the TheRedPill subreddit and go from there. Continue to lift, because if you lift properly, it'll only make your BJJ training even more effective. You want to build a well-rounded physique, it'll help in almost every aspect of your life. I have a trainer now after lifting for about 10 years, but because I didn't do it properly, I have quite a bit of muscle imbalances. I was also 100 lbs heavier …
/r/askTRP16/05/17 04:02 PM
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You're going to have good days, and you're going to have bad days (right now, probably more bad days). You're probably a little depressed right now, which is okay, because you've taken the "rose colored lenses" off. What you need to do is find out what you like to do, what hobbies you enjoy. For me, its been volleyball and landscape photography (the latter because I dont have to rely on people and I can go on adventures). You need to start re-framing your mental perspective. Right now you're ego…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 03:54 PM
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Sidebar. Read as much of the sidebar information as possible. You're two months in, you got a lot more to go. After you think you've read all the material, start reading books that has been recommended from the sidebar. Search for top posts of "all time" and go through those. Your LTR is going to start to really shit-test you (actually, all your friends... basically everyone is going to start shit-testing you, but keep at it), so stand tall and firm. Always be aware of what your doing and saying…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 03:40 PM
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I feel you on this post. What you should ask yourself is what you used to like to do in high school? Did you play any sports? If so, I bet you could go revisit that. I started playing volleyball again 4-5 months ago. At first, it was really hard to find places to play, but I stuck it out and now I'm in 3 different leagues and go to open gym 2 nights a week. What I really like about sports is that I've been lifting for 10 years, and I feel like I can now utilize my physical prowess in volleyball.…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 03:34 PM
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Yeah, I think you both posted some real solid advice. I'd just like to add I think it really also depends on the woman that you do it with. If she has a strong family background (i.e. strong father-daughter relationship), is really submissive, and miraculously has a low n-count, it all boils down to how solid you are with TRP principles and not allowing yourself to be broken down. Idk, maybe I'm overly optimistic, and I'll find myself 15 years down the road just as bitter as a lot of older guys …
/r/askTRP15/05/17 07:32 PM
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You're missing the whole point. The problem is premature ejaculation, not higher levels of sex drive. Sure, if OP was getting pussy all the time, but was still horny as fuck, then okay... jerk it. That's not his problem, so I'm outlining the logic behind it. You're missing the point and cant accept that I'm right in this situation. You also haven't given any examples of your side of the argument. Get outta here lol. I already spent enough time on this...
/r/askTRP15/05/17 01:47 PM
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I think you're trying to rationalize why its "okay to masturbate" An alpha doesn't have to masturbate, an alpha has abundance mentality. An alpha can get his pleasures taken care of by many different women. He doesn't care about the worries about pleasing the other girl, if she has a good time or not, that's not his worry to shoulder. It's in the mindset of the alpha not giving a shit that makes him attractive to other women. OP clearly has performance anxiety. OP has come to AskTRP because he h…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 01:36 PM
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LOL... If he's cuming in 20 seconds, I'm pretty sure he's not going to "cum even faster" than that... I've read pretty much all of the sidebar content, and I can't remember where, but it said to stop jerking it, which I tried, and had positive benefits. Sure, it made me horny as hell, and I woke up a few times where I would have fucked anything, but it helped me in this department. I found I was taking more risks and putting myself out there with women. Take the advice or don't, doesn't matter t…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 12:27 PM
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Used to have the same problem before I stopped jerking it to porn. Seriously should try it for 3 months, if you see no improvement, fuck it and go back
/r/askTRP15/05/17 05:30 AM
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Do you masterbate? If so, quit that shit... immediately. I stopped fapping last year around October. Any time I climax now is from a chick. I swear to you, you'll be more focused, you'll have more drive to meet up with chicks, have less anxiety (because you'll be horny as hell). There seriously are so many reasons why you should stop. I've never looked back. Read The Sex God Method. Figure out your weak areas - Dominance Emotion Variety Immersion and start working on that. If you're really worri…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 05:25 AM
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During the time OP collected himself in the bathroom the second time, he should have started an audio recording on his phone (on iPhones, not sure the feature's available on others). Went back in, described the situation again for the record with leading questions, so that he covers his ass. This situation could have gotten a lot worse if she wanted to be a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 01:15 PM
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I'm actually looking into any family members that have old cars they would sell me. Invest or save the money I don't spend on the car.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:45 PM
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Ironically, I had bought the TDI because they're known for being fuel efficient, and diesel engines can run 300k+ without issues. I would keep the vehicle if I didn't have to get the required modification installed on it. In the grand scheme of things, it was suppose to be my commuter car, running it into the ground while I saved for other things, then enjoy a nicer luxury ride later in life. Kinda sucks that this scandal happened, otherwise it would have been a no-brainer for me tbh. She's run …
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:42 PM
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I actually find it the exact opposite. After being woke, I see more Blue Pill than I've ever seen Red. It's more rare to see an RP'er
/r/askTRP27/04/17 08:26 PM
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I found out from a buddy this past week that he's had an STD for over 3 years now. It comes up every month or so like clockwork. When he told this chick (at the time he found out), she didn't give a single fuck in the world. Wear a fucking condom dude. And never, NEVER EVER, bust inside some chick without a condom.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 08:23 PM
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Gotcha, I prob don't do that shit enough. Thanks for the clarification
/r/askTRP24/04/17 09:51 PM
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be unreactive towards non sexual activities. This doesn't mean grabbing a meal together is bad, it does mean during that meal, or before it, or right afterwards, there's at least petting or at most getting off. Extend this rule to anything required in your deal. Would you elaborate on this for me? Everything else makes sense tho
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:23 PM
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She's 27, hasn't hit the wall just yet, but I definitely think her thinking/strategy has changed due to current age and wall approach, based on info I've gathered.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:13 PM
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Well, I'll be honest, she hasn't even once broached the topic of a commitment, which has me thrown off a little. I guess I'll just let time do the telling and not think about it too much. Excellent tip about the commitment part, and with the view on what an LTR means for different people.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:39 PM
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Appreciate the perspective
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:26 PM
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This makes more sense. She's stubborn and doesn't want to be the first one to say it. I'm more stubborn, plus I wont be the one to say it first, regardless of how I actually feel (also because it's Illimitable Man's Maxims which I strongly agree with). Yes, I do want an LTR, so I guess I'll wait it out. I'm not giving her the exclusive option until this last requirement is fulfilled. But then again, maybe she wants the relationship before she says it. But before others jump in, you're right, I s…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:23 PM
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I've been doing a shitty job at cultivating prospects tbh. I've been focused on myself and various aspects of my life (even pre-TRP), but that part has been lacking. Those other questions are great, but I suppose I'm more curious as to why its not happening. Then again, I'm putting too much emphasis right now on whats going on in her head, than just focusing on my own.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:31 PM
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Well, from what I've read here, if she hasn't said those 3 words in a certain time frame, you should start looking elsewhere. I suppose thats been the only thing I've been waiting to hear from her. I see it in her eyes, clear as day though, so should I just be happy with that? Everything else has been green flags tho
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:16 PM
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He needs to understand the sidebar readings more. Shouldn't have to make an ultimatum in the first place. (See LTR Red Pill game in 8 parts) She doesn't deem his SMV to be high enough, otherwise she wouldn't be acting this way.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 07:44 PM
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Time to next. There are lots of warning signs with this one: her need to keep around guys to validate herself is a big red flag. Orbiters = validation givers. I personally wouldn't even give her the option. Also, you don't argue with a chick, arguing means your on an even playing field. She doesn't respect you if she's going with another dude to a show, and staying with him. Fuck outta here with that bullshit. Hard pass!
/r/askTRP04/04/17 07:31 PM
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if your woman is constantly vying for control, attempting to take the reigns of the budget, making major non-domestic decisions, then that is all on you. It is totally your fault and you have allowed beta behaviour to become part of your habits and character. This right here gentlemen. If you are getting feedback from her trying to take control, you're slipping.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 01:15 PM
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Yeah, if you can link/give me the original or 1st edition, that would be great. Would be appreciated brotha
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:35 AM
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Which version of Think and Grow Rich book did you read? Mind linking that for me (or anyone who's read that already)? It's been on my list of reads I read reviews on amazon that there are multiple versions, saying the newer versions have been changed and have lost some of the meaning.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:26 PM
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What he was saying, except be careful on your replies, since there could be a sexual harrassment issue if your not careful.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 06:03 PM
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If your friend just introduced you to TRP today, he should have advised you to start with the sidebar and all the readings associated with that. It's plenty of stuff to learn. If you're just here surfing the most recent posts, you're time could be better spent elsewhere (ironic, I know, considering I'm replying to this comment). I would suggest The Rational Male, or the TRP handbook first. Your rose colored glasses will soon be removed
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 12:40 AM
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Need them to love you is still a plugged-in mentality; however, I do agree they will never love you the way you want them to.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 08:18 PM
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Oh, I already have the book list lined up. Taking baby steps, testing the waters before making the dive
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 03:45 PM
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Rollo, I just want to say that I love reading the stuff you post. As someone that has been recently unplugged 8 months ago, I've read both of your books, and I really just want to say thank you for contributing your knowledge to this community. It's been a real game-changer for me. Btw, I have two close friends that I just talked into reading your book (as an intro to TRP, as this sub is a little too brash for a plugged in male to start, yet safe enough for me to recommend as a starting point), …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:57 AM
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This gives me hope. Thank you for sharing. I continue to find the stuff you write fascinating. Kudos Also, LOL at anger mode omega trolls here
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:59 PM
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Reading your previous comments in the post above, plus the comments in this post makes me fascinated at the life you've had. If you wanted to have a kid, how would you do it? I'm 31 and single as fuck, no prior anything. Maybe its the blue pill conditioning, but I want a kid, but afraid of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:57 PM
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Where the fuck are the mods on shit-posts like these?!? You want to learn TRP, but you dont want to take the time to read the side-bar, like your some entitled little kid. Use the sidebar for fuck sake. Also, its spelled offense
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 01:12 PM
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It's totally not worth it. I was invited to a St. Patty's day cookout with a bunch of friends, but I hard-passed on that shit because I'm afraid the next time my "friend" starts talking shit, I'm going to go nuclear on him and shut him the fuck down. I feel like that's my only option at this point, because I've tried doing other things without it working, and it just makes me look bad, yet I'm the one trying to save face for my "friends" sake. The real issue, is that I've allowed it to happen to…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:56 AM
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If there was one advice that I could give you that could instantly help you with your game is this: "fake it till you make it" You may think that being humble is the best way to go (which is blue pill conditioning), but honestly, being cocky goes so much further. Just putting on the "show" of acting cocky in front of women (i.e. walking slower than normal, with your head held high, shoulders back, chest up) might be weird at first, but they really eat that shit up. Then when you talk, just keep …
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:48 AM
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Thats the thing dude, I WISH my high school buddies would be there for me, but its just not like that. I was the fat chubby kid growing up. I was self conscious of myself, and I was the class clown. I knew how to make people laugh, and I grew thick skin to deal with it. About 10 years ago around 2007 I was almost 300 lbs, I quit playing video games and just started working out, reading books like "How to Win Friends and Influence People" or books like "How to make people like you in 90 seconds o…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:30 AM
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Honestly dude, if you're in great shape, it might be the psychological you need to work on. Do you ever find your ego saying things like "you cant do this, or that" or trying to talk you out of your ideas? I have/had that same problem, where I didn't believe in myself due to the fact that my self-talk was so negative all the time. I'm not going to say its going to change overnight, because nothing does. But what you should do is everytime that little ego of yours says your not good enough, you c…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 08:07 PM
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I'm very good, and I mean, very fucking good at figuring people out. It's in part of learning how to be "like-able" that I've honed this skill over the last decade. I've cut that switch off, but use it when I want to to get what I need out of people. How I've learned to deal with people who like to take subtle shots at you, is to basically dish that shit right back at them, but make sure you do it with stuff they are REALLY subconscious about. Try this next time: when your chubby friend starts s…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 07:47 PM
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Sounds like you've taken the "rose colored glasses" off. I think I'm in the same boat, and it's been a bitch of a pill to swallow. Isn't it fucking hilarious how after you swallow the red pill, all the people who you thought were you're friends are all a bunch of fucking fakes? When you stop putting in the effort, you realize how much of a one-sided friendship it was all along. Would agree with some other commenters that it's the anger phase for sure lol. Seriously, how the fuck does anyone on T…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:19 PM
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I've received so much in the last 8 months of being on TRP, reading Rollo's books, reading posts of contributors, etc that I've wanted to give back, but never thought how. Might take you up on this, but will want to make sure there is a take-away with the post.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:46 PM
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I thought about it, but idk how my story would really contribute to TRP.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:35 PM
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I'm 6'2" 200lbs at 10% bf. I"m really fucking good looking too, graduated with an engineering degree, working in the satellite engineering field. I never used to look like I do now, was almost 300 lbs, geeky beta. I know exactly what you're going through. I went through a phase after transforming my body, and in fact, I might still be getting over the after-effects of the change. People in general fucking suck. You probably wish your circle of friends are better to you than you are to them, but …
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:20 PM
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Obligation is blue pill thinking. Men on Valentine's Day feel obligated to buy things for women. I think you should do some more reading on the sidebar, various books recommended from the sidebar, external links, etc. Re-frame your thinking You are her Captain, and she is your deckhand. You are steering the ship, making the decisions, and that comes at a price. You have to have an abundance mentality to effectively see this, but in order to have that mentality, you have to be striving to be the …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 07:57 PM
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You lost me at I asked to read some... Unless she's showing you to try and validate herself to you, you shouldn't be giving a single fuck about looking through her dating app, let alone messaging guys for her. That's like a dude going through a chick's phone messages, it shows insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 07:28 PM
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You should NEVER feel obligated to buy her anything. When you buy her something, it should be because you are rewarding her good behavior.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 02:41 PM
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I would like to remind all of you that can relate to this post: Your parents raised you the only way that they knew how. We are, in fact, the products of our parents upbringing. This is not to say this is an excuse, because we can only hold our parents accountable for so long. Once we are cognizant of the realities and the problems that we have taken on from our parents, it is solely our responsibility to go about fixing these issues that affect our daily lives. You CANNOT play the victim card, …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 03:08 PM
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I wear a basic t-shirt 95% of the time when I'm not at work, black jeans, and a pair of black van's slip-ons. I can pull this off because I have the physique to back it up. Put some effort into that shit, impress others I don't frankly give a shit about impressing others. Do what's best for your own interest, even if that is "sweats and a stained shirt" ... rock the fuck outta that bitch
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 02:03 PM
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At some point, she's going to be looking for commitment. It's important that SHE brings up this conversation. Not you. Get ready for shit tests galore here. But if you are truly a high value male, she will start doing things for you to EARN your commitment. That's the thing, you don't initiate the LTR. If you are doing the best of YOU everyday, eventually she is going to want commitment. If not, then she was never that into you in the first place. It's a win-win, and you have to trust in the pro…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:18 PM
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I try not to eat any carbs 2-3 hours before bed, or any food within an hour or so of going to sleep. Go to sleep at the same time everyday. (we are creatures of habit, and our circadian clock doesn't like change). Dim the lights 30 minutes or so prior to getting into bed. I like to read a book before I end up going to sleep. It relaxes me, and gets me to knock out quickly. Although optional, I really swear by this Republic of Tea Get Some ZZZ which helps me get a better night's sleep. I take it …
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:30 PM
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"You're either competing, or your not" -Pete Carroll
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:18 PM
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This fucking hits home with me soooo well. I've been working out for 10 years, I get IOI's like a motherfucker, but I've just recently been awoken to TRP. Correcting posture is such a bitch, and making more eye contact has been a tough process, but it's been something that I've been trying to practice everyday. Used to be a little beta bitch, still trying to get woke. The posture will not go away overnight, definitely need to continue working out, while incorporating a chin-back, lift the back o…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 01:15 AM
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Do NOT ask her since they are first/second timers. I don't ask, ever. Read her body language, and pay attention to her breathing. Immersion is a big part of the game. I personally like to play some music if I bring them back to my place (add "Bonobo" to your Pandora station, great background music), it'll make everything feel smoother. Whisper things you want to do to them before you do it. Just talking to her in a deeper voice will turn her on. Make sure that you're warmed up before penetration…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:49 PM
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The term "fertile myrtle" applies here. Let this be a lesson to all other TRP'ers not to tread lightly with single mothers. Shit didn't just "happen" for no reason...
/r/askTRP25/02/17 07:45 PM
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For the love of all things TRP, read this book The Slight Edge and realize that shit isnt going to happen overnight! You need to make a conscious effort into little actions daily, which will compound (interest) into significant changes with time being on your side. You are young, time is on your side Do not give up on women. Take it from a 31 year old who blew his 20s being a little beta billy bitch. Stop feeling sad for yourself. Read The Rational Male (which, if you've been a lurker, you SHOUL…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 06:25 PM
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This made me laugh wayyy harder than I care to admit. Thank you for that.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 06:18 PM
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Just be prepared you're going to get shit tested by the people who know this information/ask. Hold your frame without getting defensive. Confidence goes a long way, and you cant let them know you might be self conscious of the age difference. (edit: its not weird, run with it and enjoy it while you can)
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:46 PM
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First off, why did you call her to break up with her? If you're going to attempt to shit-test her, you need to do it in person. If you want to gather as much data as possible, you need to do this in person. You will gain so much more valuable information when talking face to face (i.e. non-verbal communication like body language, where the eyes go, etc). It might be best to end the relationship anyways, just from reading the language in your post, it sounds like you need to find yourself, and fi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 06:56 PM
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Posts like this add absolutely nothing to the sub... Congrats on going to the gym? Seems like a validation post imo
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:40 PM
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If it's in the early stages, you should make her follow you with whatever your doing. Shows leadership, and you dont run into situations like this in the future. "Hey, grab X from the fridge, do Y for me" etc etc.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:21 PM
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Social Media is a game, just like everything else in life. If you're good at playing this game, you can really use it to your advantage. Times change, and so does technology. I find a lot of users on here are bitter with social media tools like Snapchat and IG (fuck facebook, but thats just me). Keep your snaps short and to the point. Don't post 10 second long pictures, no one cares to look at that shit for THAT long, keep it STRICTLY under 5 seconds max. Also, ONLY check snap stories a max of o…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:45 PM
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There REALLY needs to be MORE articles like this on TRP. Well said
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 02:30 PM
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