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No, but I'd date a woman who was like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:23 PM
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I salute you, sir. But a random woman who had no connection with your prior partners would not have known about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:12 AM
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I agree with you in principle. I disagree with those who say that sex work is inherently non-consensual. I'd argue that to a degree, all work under capitalism is non-consensual, not just sex work. That said, a high proportion of prostitutes (possibly the majority worldwide, unfortunately) are victims of human trafficking, while many others engage in survival prostitution. The difficult part is that it is not easy to tell them apart. So I would be EXTREMELY cautious about patronizing prostitutes …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:35 AM
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Because it's not like you can just tell which men will focus on your pleasure and which ones just want to use you to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:34 AM
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I was partially joking, but I agree with you. This is why 'women are bad at dating'. Women are expected to be passive, not active.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:07 AM
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My response would be “Get as much money out of him as you can and then use it to buy me dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:56 PM
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Obviously, dating a man is a dealbreaker for me, but let's focus on the "paid for sex" part. After all, women do pay for sex sometimes, plus my prospective partner could be a trans woman who paid for sex before she figured out her gender identity. To me, it would come down to a) the circumstances of the sex and b) how do you feel about it. On one extreme end, if you knowingly had sex with someone who was being trafficked, then you are a rapist in my eyes. On the other extreme, if you went to a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:38 PM
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Sadly, I believe you are correct. There is a reason that the "useless lesbian" archetype exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:21 PM
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If anything, we might get a certain pleasure out of it. All those thirsty men dumping money on someone they'll never get to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:44 AM
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Yeah, well, we get four boobs to play with, so I say it’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:26 AM
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You’re probably on to something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:12 AM
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That is absolutely the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:45 PM
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Hmm, opinions seemed to have shifted since I made this post last night (I think it was in the moderation queue for a while).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:32 PM
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FIGHT ME
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:04 PM
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Lesbian here. Yes. Yes. Probably not. I hate the smell of cigarettes. Yes. Yes. I'm graysexual, so sex isn't a priority to me. Yes. Yes, but I'd push her to get help. Yes. Yes. Honestly, given that I very much want to be a parent but can't biologically, I'd consider it a plus. Yes. Yes. Yes, although I'd want some physical intimacy before marriage. Yes. YESYESYES. If we can figure out a plan for us to be financially stable, sure. But I'm not exactly in a lucrative career path myself. Yes, if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:51 PM
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A woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:26 AM
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Not at all. If it's women degrading women, then the power is still in the hands of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:10 PM
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The difference is that a man who watches mainstream degrading porn identifies with the men (the ones doing the degrading) while a woman who watches mainstream degrading porn identifies with the women (the ones being degraded). If a woman exclusively watched porn of women degrading and abusing men, then that would also be disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:51 PM
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Well, when a woman is watching that sort of thing, she's probably identifying with the woman. So she might have a degradation or misogyny kink. Not going to judge. Honestly, as long as she isn't watching child porn and we keep an open line of communication, I'm pretty cool with it. Porn can be an outlet. If that's ALL she's watching, then that's a warning bell for some kind of trauma that needs to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:43 PM
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For a man, yeah. I mean, if it was only a small percentage of the porn he watched, that I could overlook. The disturbing part is when it's the main thing, especially since there's a lot of misogyny coded into modern porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:20 PM
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I'm a lesbian, so men aren't even on the list of potential romantic partners, but if I found out that a male friend watched a lot of porn that was especially degrading towards women, it would really give me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:45 PM
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r/AreTheStraightsOK
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:21 PM
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I have had friends of both genders before and after I came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:20 PM
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You do know that gay marriage is a thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:03 PM
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No. Incels are pathetic, but rapists and murderers are monsters. Women who send love letters to murderers are absolutely deranged and I do not stand with them. As some have pointed out, incels can work on themselves. I won't say that I'd date a former male incel, because I wouldn't, but I am a lesbian who wouldn't date Brad Pitt or Henry Cavill, so don't take that personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:41 AM
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Thank G-d I’m a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:40 PM
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People like who they like. My standards eliminate all men, on account of me being gay as fuck. And I don't see a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:53 PM
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I mean, my standards eliminate all men before they even have a chance, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:52 PM
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Yes. I would prefer that I not be any man's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:22 AM
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There are probably multiple reasons. It's well known that many victims of sexual assault seek out cnc (consensual non-consent) roleplay or content as a way of coping with their trauma. This may be another form of that. Also, the idea of men being violent towards women is so common in our culture (and, sadly, our reality) that it's just on people's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:11 PM
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I'm not one of those women, but my guess is that for at least some of them, watching that porn helps them scratch a particular kink that would be dangerous for them to explore in real life. There are many fantasies that would be extremely dangerous or even fatal if you actually did them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:33 PM
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I concur, hence my preference for homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:32 AM
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For me personally, there are two issues. The biggest one is finding a woman (or enby) who would at all be interested in me. A straight, bisexual, or pansexual women can easily find straight guys. But I'm a trans woman who still looks like a guy. A straight woman (aka the majority of women) won't be interested, and neither will many if not most lesbians. So my pool is limited to bisexual and pansexual women and enbies, plus lesbians who are open minded enough to date a trans woman who still looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:53 PM
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For me personally, there are two issues. The biggest one is finding a woman (or enby) who would at all be interested in me. A straight, bisexual, or pansexual women can easily find straight guys. But I'm a trans woman who still looks like a guy. A straight woman (aka the majority of women) won't be interested, and neither will many if not most lesbians. So my pool is limited to bisexual and pansexual women and enbies, plus lesbians who are open minded enough to date a trans woman who still looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:51 PM
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Yes. I know several people who are in stable, long-term relationships. I also know divorcees. In fact, I know people who are both. My father divorced his first wife after five years and just celebrated his 38th anniversary with my mother. My brother has been with his girlfriend for six years and living together for most of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:11 PM
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Porn can be an addiction. So can video games, alcohol, gambling, and caffeine. That doesn't mean they are bad for everyone. Some people have an addiction. Others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:06 PM
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I think it is up to the couple to define those boundaries. What works for one couple may not work for another. For some couples, your proposal may be a good one. On the other hand, there are couples with an open relationship. The key here is communication and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:02 PM
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His male gender identity. She is now a woman. Other than that? 6, I think. I'm an introvert too. We can stay inside and snuggle. I could also handle 7 - I mean, I have a one-bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:14 AM
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See, it's comments like this that make me glad that I'm a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:02 AM
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The idea that men should not show emotion is incredibly toxic. It is almost certainly a major factor in male suicide rates. It must be aggressively opposed. Those who promote it should be reviled and ostracized.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:19 PM
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Exactly. I obviously wouldn’t be interested in dating/fucking any man, but I could absolutely be friends with a guy who puts a lot of effort into self improvement as long as he didn’t think it made him superior to others. I could even be friends with a guy who is a “player” as long as he’s honest about his intentions towards the women he sleeps with and doesn’t abuse or take advantage of them (and also doesn’t poach any bisexual women I’m interested in). My problem with red pill theory is that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:07 PM
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Lol! Happy pride, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:02 PM
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Looked it up. It's a myth based on one study from the 1980s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:59 PM
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One word: lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:45 PM
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Not a man, but that’s irrelevant. I have ethical objections to most AI artwork given that it is usually derived from stolen work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:36 PM
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It's because the many of these issues are caused by the patriarchy. Just as it has forced women into the role of meek, submissive housewife/babymaker, patriarchy also forces men to be tough and strong, discouraging them from showing weakness. It's a subtler form of oppression in that it doesn't make them into second-class citizens, but it does hurt men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:23 PM
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We are not a hive mind. Please remain where you are. A squad has been dispatched to your location to explain this. Do not be concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:07 PM
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No, but that has less to do with the "significantly smarter" part and more with the "man" part. I would absolutely date a woman significantly smarter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:56 PM
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That's capitalism for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:55 PM
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Being a lesbian naturally makes it more difficult, as your dating pool is smaller. The majority of women I meet are going to be straight and not interested in dating a woman. Also, lesbian bars are gradually dying out - although there is one in my area I should check out...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:51 PM
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None of my female coworkers at my last job were single (except the one who was a nun). I already asked out my closest female friend locally and she turned me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:49 PM
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Political orientation matters quite a bit to me, given how important my own political values are to me. It's not a matter of attractiveness, but rather of compatibility. Given that I am a socialist, I am extremely unlikely to be compatible with a conservative woman (not that there are many conservative women interested in dating trans women to begin with). Even a moderate liberal woman might prove incompatible, if she's a strong believer in capitalism. Fortunately, leftism and socialism are much…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:21 PM
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Very close. But I’d argue that sleeping together edges it out on account of the vulnerability and trust required.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:55 PM
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You aren’t. We are beyond your comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:50 PM
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I concur entirely. Polyamory is already destigmatized among the queer community, although there are multiple reasons why queers will always be more open to polyamory than straights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:13 AM
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Or it’s Alice having multiple girlfriends, some of whom are each other’s girlfriends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:54 PM
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Queer people have an innate advantage when it comes to polyamory because they can be interested in the same people their partner likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:53 PM
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I agree with this, ESPECIALLY the point about men being able to be open about their emotions. I firmly believe that the number one cause of toxic masculinity is this idea that men must appear strong at all times, so when they are hurting, they clam up and then lash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:23 PM
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What makes you think that I want ANY man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:46 AM
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There are a few. Obviously, getting my career off the ground a big one. I also have a first draft of a novel I want to edit and publish, but I haven't worked on that in months. I'm also running this collaborative RP/worldbuilding project that will kick off in a week or so. The other big one is my transition. I'm still not able to pass as female, which is probably the source of my near total lack of romantic confidence. I'm hoping to get bottom surgery this year. Above all, furthering my transiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:52 AM
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Not all women want men...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:56 AM
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I support every man getting an AI girlfriend. Meanwhile, every woman can get an ACTUAL girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:54 AM
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Traditionally, women's value was largely tied to their beauty. Unattractive women were (and often still are) seen as worthless. Men, on the other hand, aren't supposed to care about their appearance. Instead, were told to focus on their skills and personal growth, because that's what defines their worth as people. To be clear, these standards should be discarded, and I have no issue with any man who artificially enhances his beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:16 PM
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My opinion is that women are just bad at giving signals period. My evidence comes from lesbian humor, a standard feature of which is women being completely unable to tell that the other woman is actually interested in them romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:09 PM
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The gap is 12 years - totally understand if it's too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:48 PM
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Yes, which is my reason for preferring a virgin. I want my first time to be her first time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:25 AM
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*checks list* So... how flexible are you on age? Because I meet pretty much everything else (including the politics)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:12 AM
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Red Green 6' Muscular More than me (not hard since I'm unemployed) Higher than me (see above) Don't care Virgin Jewish Lesbian 25-37 (I'm 34) Anarcho-syndicalist with DeLeonist tendencies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:10 AM
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I think it's reasonable to ask if one partner (in your scenario the man) has a high libido, but if the other partner says no, the first partner should be willing to stick it out. That said, I'd be more concerned about the reason for the break and what it says about the relationship. If my partner told me that they wanted to take a month off of sex, my first act would be to get some kind of therapy for her. Now, if the break is longer, or even becomes indefinite, then I could see it becoming a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:26 PM
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I'll answer both these questions (with all genders changed to female). The only part of a woman's romantic or sexual past that could give me pause is if she'd cheated on a partner. I really don't like adultery. If she'd been in a bad relationship (especially if her partner had been a man and she was a closeted lesbian) or if she regrets what she did, I'd probably let it go. I would also have no problem with polyamory as long as everyone involved is aware and OK with it. (Also, switching the gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:17 PM
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I've never met a women who thinks she deserves that kind of man. A lot more women probably want that type of man but won't refuse a man who fails to meet the above criteria. Of course, that might be because I tend to run in mostly queer circles. I've seen occasional discussion of lesbian sugar mommies, but the overwhelming preference among lesbians is to find a partner with similar interests to them or who "completes them" in some way (usually by having strengths that match with their weaknesses…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:18 PM
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Date women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:26 AM
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Yes, the possibility exists that there is a theoretically better person out there. But what makes a person viable as a long term partner isn't just looks. It's personality. It's shared interests. Oh, and said person has to be interested in you as well. And finding those things out is not easy. It takes time to get to know someone well enough to figure this out. So you're assuming people will destroy their existing happiness for the mere possibility of finding someone better. From your replies, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:23 PM
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No. If you just say "let's get coffee" she might say yes just to avoid conflict. Men are known to react very negatively, even violently, when women reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:31 AM
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Sex work is real work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:37 PM
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Obviously I wouldn't do this with a man, but with another woman? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:34 PM
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The same could be said for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:49 PM
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> but speaking in general, including genitals. I'm not sure what you meant by this. It feels like a word is missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:22 PM
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> most women don't want to be lesbians Unfortunately true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:52 PM
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The solution is obvious: remove the man from the equation entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:45 AM
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> And don't threaten me with a guy who doesn't play video games...🤓 Yeah. Can we get an extra point if we remove this one from contention?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:07 PM
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Muscular body (want to be held and protected). This one could pretty easily be swapped for 1 or 12 Romantic (I love affection and intimacy more than sex) Makes me laugh (does this need explanation) Is a woman (I am gay) Also, 10 is an absolute deal killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:06 PM
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I can speak to both sides of this, being a trans woman who lived as a man for most of her life. I'll freely admit that I was attracted to the vast majority of my female friends, but I also liked them as people. In a few cases, I asked them out or told them how I felt, they said no, and that was that. A couple of cases actually led to a date, with one leading to my first romantic relationship. Others I see more as siblings. I'm still presenting as male, so the issue of my male friends being attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:53 PM
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Adoption and surrogacy exist. What about infertile heterosexual couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:15 AM
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Yeah, that's BS. I don't just want a girlfriend for sex. I want a girlfriend for love and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:45 PM
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Finding partners is definitely a struggle, given the reduced size of the dating pool. It's probably why pride pins have become so popular. It's even harder for trans people, whose appearance may not match their gender identity. I identify as female, but I still look mostly male, so a lesbian who sees me probably won't be attracted to me. There's a reason the only dating I've done since coming out has been online through social media. I think there's an interesting parallel between gays and other…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:52 PM
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First of all, changing it to a girlfriend/wife because lesbian. My question would be why? Why did she do this for her ex but won't do it for me? I can see a few reasons, only one of which is "she cares more for her ex than me". If it's a hobby or something else, maybe she's lost interest. If it's something sexual, it could be that she's trying to create a boundary. Maybe she felt obligated to do this thing in the past but is more confident in herself and what she wants. That could also apply to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:00 AM
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Ah, that makes more sense. It's not that autistic women are refusing to date autistic men, it's that autistic men have trouble initiating anything while neurotypical men don't. To me, this gets back to the question of why men are more likely to approach women than vice-versa. What I find interesting is that within the lesbian community, it's a running joke that lesbians are terrible at telling that another girl is interested in them. This leads me to suspect that it's more of an issue with women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:07 PM
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Hmm. I've never encountered the stereotype within the autistic community (or at least the parts of it I'm in) but numbers don't lie, so there's clearly something going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:12 PM
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I think a lot of it has to do with autistic women being underdiagnosed. Many of the criteria for diagnosing autism were designed with boys in mind. I doubt that the stereotype of autistic women not wanting to date autistic men is true. I'd actually prefer an autistic partner, someone who understands me more closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:49 AM
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0 and 0. This applies regardless of which definition of "body count" we are using.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:01 AM
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I concur, but I have an obvious interest in getting more women to reject men entirely...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:32 PM
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chuckles in lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:18 PM
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Lesbianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:01 PM
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Guys 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:57 PM
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Frankly, bad family environments seem like the norm in queer circles. You have all the normal troubles plus homophobia and transphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:01 AM
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Once or twice a week. My libido is pretty low. What matters most is the intimacy. If we’re not going to sleep in each other’s arms most nights, that would be a sign that something is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:56 AM
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I’m attracted to zero types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:49 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:18 AM
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It's even harder when your social circle leans to the far left. So many red flags! (ba dum tish)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:35 PM
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5' 7", ~195 lbs. Overweight, but not obese. I've got a definite belly that I'd like to lose, but it's hard to motivate myself to work out regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:33 PM
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Most people don't. I'd say the line is when video games begin to interfere with other life activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:21 PM
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Women need to get better at actively showing their own attraction. My evidence for this is the popularity of the "useless lesbian" archetype where lesbians have a lot of difficulty figuring out if another girl is into them. Of course, it would help if we could get some data from the gay men community. Some of this might be due to actual gender differences, but I suspect that the main issue is a culture that still expects men to pursue and women to be pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:16 PM
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Yes, but not because he commented on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:11 PM
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laughs hysterically in lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:44 PM
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"If he's leaving you because just because he got with a more attractive person, then he never saw you as anything other than a sex object, and you're better off without him."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:42 PM
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I usually know immediately. That said, I've found my attraction increasing or decreasing over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:37 PM
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Sounds like a plan. dates other women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:35 PM
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It's like looking into bizarro world for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:05 PM
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The number of women on dating apps who turn out to be looking for someone to have a threesome with them and their boyfriend, and are not up front about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:47 AM
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The common theme is that I'm still attracted exclusively to woman. As for how I can be a straight man for so long... well, I've honestly been questioning my gender for a decade. I never really had a strong sense of "I am a man". I wished I had been born a woman, but felt that transitioning would be too difficult. What changed was not my sense of who I was, but my desire to do something about it. I recognize that it can be difficult to wrap your head around, and I appreciate you for trying. You m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:56 PM
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It's not that complicated. I identified as a straight man for most of my life. Then, last summer, I came out as trans. But my sexuality hasn't changed, so now that I identify as more feminine (still figuring out where exactly I am), logic dictates that I am a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:42 AM
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Absolutely. I also wouldn’t have a problem dating a single mother whose ex is still alive. After all, there’s a rather common explanation for why a single mother is looking to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:36 PM
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You’re partially right. You should never compromise your happiness for the sake of a relationship. But you should also make sure that your standards aren’t getting in the way of your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:32 PM
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It takes a lot of courage and guts to stand up to blackmail. I would not begrudge anyone giving in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 06:22 PM
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4/10. Being attracted to me is a major turn on, while I’d find a woman who was attracted to me for my money repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:15 PM
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All things being equal, the latter, seeing as how I'm a 30-year-old virgin. I think we'd be more compatible that way. Unless she's gone through a major personality overhaul, I doubt I'd get along with someone who went out all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:40 AM
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You don’t happen to live in the Seattle area, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:54 PM
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Right now, I’d be unable to support you. In a few years, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:52 PM
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I did read your post history. The fact that you’re really into history bumps you up at least two points in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:14 AM
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How about we get married now for financial and health benefits, work for a while until we’re financially comfortable, and then have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:08 AM
2

Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 01:09 AM
6

I don't hang out here enough to know anyone, so I'll just take the fattest three. That'll give me a decent food supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 08:23 PM
2

I’m fine with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:18 AM
1

Not that I can recall. Most of my coworkers are female, and they do their jobs well. The guys are actually worse, in my experience, although that might be because most of the male servers are high schoolers, while the core of veteran servers are almost all women. We do have one workplace couple, actually. Both are leads, and usually work different sections. No drama that I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:37 AM
2

The Swedes will win. While the English fight amongst themselves, the Swedes, their ranks swollen by immigrants, will once again storm the shores of Britain to raid, pillage, and eventually conquer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:28 AM
2

In my experience, the Syndicalists generally prevail thanks to their command of the Rust Belt industries. Other times, Long comes out on top. Rarely do I see MacArthur pull through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:24 AM
0

Hell does not exist, and the maximum period in Gehenna is 12 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:58 AM
2

The Wall is a massive barrier of mostly ice stretching across the northern border of the Seven Kingdoms, separating it from the wild lands beyond. The Wall is one hundred leagues long (three hundred miles) and reaches over seven hundred feet at his highest point, although some foundation blocks in hilly regions, such as near Greyguard, send it nine hundred feet in the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 11:38 PM
1

Based on just that? Tie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 07:54 PM
1

9/0.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 03:16 AM
3

I seek the Grail!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 06:35 PM
4

Depends where you live. In the Seattle area (where I used to live), and at Penn State, most girls I see are at least moderately attractive. My guess is that many RPers also live in areas that have higher proportions of attractive women. Probably at least some of them are also college students. Also, you can be overweight without it being very visible. Weight categories are AFAIK based on what is healthy, not what is attractive. There's always that minority of men who like heavyset women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 12:43 PM
1

No penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 06:13 PM
1

Yes. For some people (like me) children feature very prominently in their desires for a relationship. Ideally, a couple should have that conversation fairly early in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:44 PM
1

Probably. It would depend on the circumstances. I don't see much moral distinction between hooking up and seeing (or being) a prostitute. I would want her to get an STD screening before we start having sex, but I'd probably do that for any woman who had had multiple sex partners before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:40 PM
1

James Holden from The Expanse novels. He's got a hero complex the size of Jupiter. It's not enough for him to do the right thing in his personal life. He has to try to help everyone, to save everyone. He barely makes any overt moves on Naomi. She tells him she doesn't know if she wants to be with him. He waits. She decides she wants him. They screw. He even admits in his internal dialogue that he'll do just about any little thing Naomi wants (though they have plenty of disagreements about import…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 08:23 AM
3

Current life. I love living way too much to stop at 27. Besides, I'm in a good place now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 07:36 AM
3

He has nuclear weapons and a first-rate military. And while the French military did not participate in the Iraq war, they were leading the charge in Libya, and have also intervened in North Africa against Boko Haram. France is also one of the most populous and wealthy nations in Europe. Oh, and they have a permanent seat on the UN Security Council. France is a major power.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:45 PM
1

Aside from the circumcision issue, I support all those things. I also consider myself a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 08:21 PM
1

So what? That's her prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:51 PM
3

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:49 PM
1

If they're shitty friends, then obviously I wouldn't want to be around them. But if they're decent friends, then I'd be fine with that. Not everything in life revolves around sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:43 PM
3

When people hear "addiction", they picture some meth-head on a corner, trying to score. They don't for a second stop and think that their dependency on weed or social media, whilst not life-threatening, is certainly deleterious in the long-run. This was me three years ago. Got into recovery, now two years sober, graduated college, and have a full ride scholarship to grad school.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 02:36 AM
2

I assign no moral judgements to your sexual preferences. If your preferences are too high, don't expect too much success. Also, the prevalence of obesity varies widely. Living in the Greater Seattle area, most women I see are not what I would consider "fat". Neither are most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 06:59 PM
2

I see. In that case, there is clearly only way to ensure that my woman does not cheat on me...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:35 PM
1

Patriarchy restricts the role of women in society to that of wife and mother, thus discouraging or outright prohibiting women from entering the sciences and engineering, handicapping our technological development. Gender equality = women can be scientists & engineers = more bright ideas = faster technological development = you get a replicator for Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:50 PM
1

shrugs I might. I've been attracted to masculine women before. Different strokes and all that.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 02:42 AM
1

I can agree to this. I guess one difference between me and many redpillers is that I think it would be a good thing if women adopted some traditionally "masculine" traits.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 08:38 PM
2

shrugs I've known women do the same sort of self-analysis. Check out any 12-step group and listen to any woman there discuss her past failures just as I have.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 04:30 AM
1

I do not dispute that, except that I find the "male" part unnecessary. I also know women who do control their emotions. Then again, either - or both - of us may be suffering from confirmation bias.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 04:26 AM
8

If men are driven by logic and reason, then why did I, a man, skip entire weeks of classes when I knew damn well that it would hurt me academically? I'll tell you why. Emotion. My anxiety overpowered my sense of reason. I think that the Red Pill theorem that men are rational while women are emotional comes from the following thought process: A man believes that he is rational. He sees women around him making irrational decisions based on emotions. He concludes that this is based on a difference …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 02:19 AM
-1

The thing is though women aren't super logical creatures, they are driven by their emotions And this makes them different from men how?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:06 AM
1

Factually, you are correct. However, manipulating people into sex is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:38 AM
4

Gettysburg. First of all, it is one of the manliest movies ever (SO MUCH FACIAL HAIR). Second, if you do not at least mist up when Longstreet is unable to give the order to launch Pickett's Charge, then you have no soul.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 10:31 PM
4

Am I happy that I'm still a virgin? No. Am I happy overall? Yes. I just got my bachelor's, I'm applying to grad school, I have a nice apartment, and my life is pretty together right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 07:02 PM
1

He might have said that they'd gotten a quick courthouse wedding for residency purposes (she's American). They did have a wonderful wedding. I was best man. And yes, they're still together after 4+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 09:18 PM
1

I could, but I consider those people at least a little messed up. I say "a little" because some of them recognize that their own urges are not positive ones that should be followed. Those who don't recognize this are supremely messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 08:43 PM
1

I think a (Canadian) friend of mine said at his wedding that he and his wife had already been common law married after living together in Canada for over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 08:41 PM
1

Ask girls out. Starting with Joel's sister. Context: Joel's sister was my first girlfriend at 23. Even if the relationship had gone exactly the same (nearly three months of bliss followed by an abrupt but amicable breakup), having that happen five years earlier would have been pretty good for my self-esteem and given me more confidence in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 08:41 PM
1

And after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 04:26 AM
3

First of all, the minute a girl mentions a boyfriend (or fiancé, or husband), I back the hell off. Here's why: If she has a boyfriend who she's committed to, then she obviously is not interested in me. If she has a boyfriend she's not committed to, then she's interested in cheating, and I want no part of that. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, then she's lying, and I want no part of that. I've never encountered a situation where a girl told me that she has a boyfriend and I later found any eviden…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:28 PM
1

the wall is very real Then we have only one choice. We must tear down the wall. Get the Mongolians.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:13 PM
2

Why are any engineers or more intelligent members of the duke student population present? They were too busy studying to have sex. Also why she didn't have any premeds or law students. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:33 PM
1

High School Never Ends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 05:45 AM
1

He didn't want bruises just before the honeymoon. We ended up going to an arcade, then to a nice sushi restaurant, then back to his parents' place to play Cards Against Humanity (as we'd done every other night that week).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 02:09 AM
1

Just to be fair, I would fucking grossed out if somebody tried to throw me a bachelor party with a female stripper, and I'd definitely end friendships over it. When I was Best Man for a friend, he had two rules for his bachelor party: no paintball, no strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 07:40 PM
2

I would be pretty uncomfortable, so I'd ask her why she wants a male stripper. I certainly won't be having female strippers at my bachelor party.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 07:39 PM
2

I got it from a quote from the start of a book (Uncharted Territory by Tom Anderson). The full quote is: When I was a little boy, I wondered "what is Revolution?" For all the children in the park spoke of nothing else. I asked my father and he said "Revolution is an affront to human nature, a challenge to God and Kings!" I asked my mother and she said "Revolution is a sad tale of blood and suffering." I asked my brother and he said "Revolution is the glorious overthrow of everything in the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 07:01 PM
1

Revolution (noun): to go in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 06:53 PM
2

It's my handle across the internet. It happened to be the name of my most recent D&D character when I first registered on the (now defunct) Wizards of the Coast forums. I've kept using it because it's completely unique - googling "Meshakhad" will get nothing but my Internet posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 05:18 PM
3

If one of her friends is a hoe, your girl will most likely cheat. I'd be less concerned with her cheating and more concerned that she's making friends with garden tools.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:16 AM
-5

My ex and I set more reasonable bounds. Talking to the opposite sex, or even looking at attractive people, was entirely allowed.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 11:40 PM
7

For your average woman, yes. Sadly for Ms. Jolie, she has a gene that gives her close to a 90% chance of developing breast cancer (fyi, breast cancer is the leading cause of death among females in the West). Is a double mastectomy drastic? Yes. But it drops her chances of developing breast cancer from 90% to 0%. For her, it was probably the sound move. And with her fortune, top-level reconstructive surgery was probably pocket change.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:59 PM
4

No. I believe in freedom of speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:42 PM
1

My first and only relationship was with a nerdy girl. It was awesome right until she broke up with me. And no, she didn't dump me for someone else. In fact, AFAIK, she hasn't dated anyone since.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 06:56 AM
1

Yes. Of course, the occupation afterwards would be a nightmare. ISIS the terrorist organization, ISIS the idea, may endure for decades. But ISIS as a pseudo-state can be easily defeated. And it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 08:48 PM
2

Forget ISIS. They're already losing. If they get stronger, other nations will join the fight. The Israelis, Jordanians, and Turks are still sitting on the sidelines. The Gulf States have only sent in air strikes. And that's not even getting into the notion of a major Western or Russian intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 07:53 PM
2

Why marry a roleplayer? They make things more interesting in the bedroom, to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 03:41 AM
4

As long as they don't act on it, it's perfectly harmless. Non-consensual scenarios are very popular in erotic roleplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 03:00 AM
1

That's shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 06:53 AM
1

Do people seriously attack you for being a lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 06:14 AM
1

I was joking. My uncle's a lawyer - city prosecutor, actually. He puts bad guys in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 05:50 AM
1

It is if you trample others in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 05:49 AM
1

Use rules and order to gain power for yourself. Source: Pathfinder Ultimate Campaign
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:16 PM
3

Well, at least your night job is honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:13 PM
2

This sounds exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 01:00 AM
3

physics!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 08:40 PM
1

Both. If you hate this movie, you are a misogynist. If you love this movie, you are a misandrist. There is no in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:31 PM
1

Indeed, thou wert a nincompoop! /s
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 05:33 PM
1

Count, not court. What font are you displaying in?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 12:12 AM
1

Have to disagree. I count several girls as friends. Our friendships are built entirely on shared interests. I suppose it does help that none of them are relationship prospects.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:50 PM
1

No, you did not delete Facebook. It's still there!
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:17 AM
4

Everyone needs to have someone poke fun at them from time to time. It's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 10:25 PM
1

Try removing and reattaching your penis.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 06:37 PM
6

Marry a guy who owns a sports equipment store?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 10:23 PM
1

I think he might object to you asking another man to marry you...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 10:23 PM
0

I've heard some women complaining about this, but they always frame it as "we should get rid of the draft altogether!" Plenty of women are okay with registering for the draft. Especially since the chances of the draft being used in the near future are negligible.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:09 PM
-3

I don't know of anyone who doesn't think women should be subject to the draft, save people who want to abolish the draft entirely.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 11:41 PM
3

The number of women I have seen working in technical and professional fields makes me question your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 01:53 AM
3

I got bitten by a radioactive feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:10 PM
1

Never seen that. The articles I've read mostly deal with the debate between sex-positive and sex-negative feminists. The latter are the ones who want to restrict sexuality, and are more likely to see male sexuality as "toxic". For the record, I consider myself a sex-positive feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 07:13 PM
1

Being a sex worker indicates that you didn't plan your life properly Or you had a shitty life. Most likely a combination - you had crap happen to you, and you didn't make the best decisions when dealing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 09:52 PM
1

It may be that we're just seeing different aspects, but my measure of the situation is that the sex-positive feminists are growing in influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 09:51 PM
4

Most sex-positive feminists I know want it to be legal to both buy and sell sex, albeit with plenty of regulation to make sure everything is safe (ie regular STD testing) and that scumbags aren't using the legal sex trade as a cover for sex slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:13 AM
5

Ah. In that case, I disagree that sex work equals low impulse control. If anything, what I've read about sex workers indicates the opposite - they have to put up with whatever their clients want, even when it is not what they want. Not dissimilar to other customer service positions, when you get down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:10 AM
6

It's not strictly speaking a "feminist" myth. Most feminists I know are "sex-positive feminists" who think sex work should be completely legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 01:19 AM
5

It could also be that, in many cases, sex work pays well. Escorts can make enough to live a middle-class lifestyle. And I imagine many are single mothers. For them, sex work may mean they can keep their kids fed, clothed, housed, and in school, and either have the time to care for their kids themselves or pay for childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 01:18 AM
3

FTO?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 01:15 AM
8

My view is that you consented to consume alcohol, so you are responsible for actions you take while under the influence. There is a point where a woman (or man) becomes unable to consent to sex, but it's around the falling-down-drunk point. Obviously, if a person is tricked or pressured into consuming alcohol, then they are not responsible for what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:45 PM
1

To me, it might. If she was doing them because she was a nice person, it would dramatically improve her attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:38 PM
4

Going by all of those, you (OP) shouldn't get married. It sounds like you'd be happier single. Me, I want to get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:35 PM
1

I don't deny that there are biotruths. I just find anecdotal evidence unconvincing, especially about the way people think. Show me a large-scale peer-reviewed study published in a respected journal of psychology or sociology, and we'll talk. I also find that, in general, the average differences between men and women are smaller than the average difference between two random people. So while on average, men and women may react differently to X, that does not mean that all men react one way, while…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 02:32 AM
1

I don't think she's necessarily insecure. Insecurity might be a reason, but she might also just be the kind of person to enjoy casual sex. I can't really speak to what others believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 02:22 AM
8

Campus rape policy should be to hand it over to the cops. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 09:55 PM
1

No, as long as you don't think less of anyone whose preferences are different from yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 02:30 AM
2

Yes. I do not believe that marriage constitutes ongoing consent to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 05:18 PM
2

Not a bad idea, but how do you prove what someone was thinking? This is of course what makes rape and consent so maddening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 05:15 PM
2

I have heard this as an explanation for why men dominate the Darwin Awards. For every super-genius there's the guy who tries to cut open a grenade with a chainsaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 05:21 PM
1

How about we get someone to beat the shit out of him and call it a day? Maybe make him play a game where the refs ignore any fouls against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 05:16 PM
1

You seem to have a dominant personality. I tend to view the dominant male/submissive female paradigm as cultural rather than inborn, but that doesn't mean that there aren't many dominant males. If you end up in a comfortable, happy relationship with a submissive female, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 09:13 PM
1

Hack off the legs of anyone over 6'?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:33 PM
1

I'd be a little concerned about it, but I could also see it being real. Just have the 20-year-old man's family make it clear to the 42-year-old man that if anything happens to their son/brother, the 42-year-old man will soon be... less of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 09:48 PM
4

1) Blue Pill 2) I tell her that I'll be right over. And then I make good on my word. If she thinks she needs outside help, I'll trust her judgement. I'd rather come over for nothing than not come over and then find out that her boyfriend put her in the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 09:42 PM
1

Neither should be charged with a crime, unless there is evidence of actual sexual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 04:42 PM
1

Non-eunuchs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 10:05 PM
2

"Knowledge is power. Hide it well."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 10:00 PM
1

I believe so. Of course, it is impossible to prove one way or the other. I am the only person whose love for others I can verify. For all I know, everybody else is faking it. Although I'm pretty sure the dogs aren't faking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/14 03:19 AM
1

That is a problem. But not a big one. Like many things in our culture, there is a problematic backlash against the old order, but it's yet to become as big a problem as the old problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/14 03:16 AM
2

I don't care that it works. I find a philosophy that treats women as inferior to be morally repugnant. When TRPers make statements about "all women", I tend to take it personally, particularly with respect to the women in my life that I care about. Like my mother. My cousins. My sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 04:48 AM
1

Having a preference for thin women isn't the problem. I prefer thin women. It's when you belittle and insult a woman solely for not being thin that you cross a line.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 04:29 AM
1

Know your enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 04:27 AM
1

What's on second.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 04:25 AM
1

Regardless of gender, I tend to view people with high partner counts as... well, the best metaphor is the old D&D alignment spectrum. People with high partner counts are likely to be "chaotic", more free-willed, less disciplined. The reverse does not hold true, as someone may desire a high partner count but be unable to get it. If the count is above 10, I would probably be less attracted to that person, not because I would assume that they would cheat, but because I would assume that our persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 04:22 AM
1

If this conversation were happening 200 years ago, I would challenge you to a duel, as you have just insulted my mother, my sister, my grandmother, my cousins, my aunts, and MANY of my friends.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 07:37 AM
1

That a man might commit suicide after a divorce is hardly surprising. Divorce is traumatic. My point is that the claim that a woman would never put the life of her man ahead of her own continued existence is false.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 07:40 AM
1

See my link above. That was the second or third result when I Googled "wife dies saving husband"
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 05:13 AM
1

INCORRECT http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/hero-wife-dies-saving-husband-wild-driver-article-1.1274410
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 09:28 PM
25

Yep. You're a rapist.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 08:20 AM
0

Which totally explains how my parents got together when they were both in their 30s, and have been pretty much living the "fairy tale American suburbia dream" (nice house, stable marriage, high-paying job, 2 kids) for the last 27 years. How did they do this? Well, because my mom delayed raising a family in order to focus on her career, when the time came for her TO have kids, she didn't have to quit her job to take care of them. So now you have both parents working full-time in high-paying jobs,…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 12:42 PM
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