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There’s no rationalizing with these people. I just came from a forum where a girl thinks being punched by her boyfriend is somehow different from being “beaten” and is doing anything she can to save the relationship, then I come here and read some asshole who has probably never dated before and completely lacks the empathy to realize why no one is interested saying women accept no faults. SexyPACMAN or whatever - you’re just wrong. Usually I can see many perspectives and understand why someone c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 08:36 PM
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What if social issues have more to do with the advent of shit like the Internet vs back in the day where hanging out with people actually involved quite a bit of face to face contact? I took until 2016 to get a smartphone and distinctly remember feeling a bit down when out with friends. The attention that used to be paid to one another was now paid to scrolling their newsfeeds. There’s a plethora of information claiming that more screen time can lead to reduced empathy, for one. And if one lacks…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 01:36 AM
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Settling is the idea that you could have better. I think it reflects more on the personality of the “settler” than anything. Everyone “settles.” Everyone. But it doesn’t feel that way to us. If you feel you could “have better,” that relationship is doomed to fail. Resentment will build, a toxic relationship is all you have from the minute one tells themself they have settled. On the other hand, everyone is settling because everyone is human (including their partner). I think covid has highlighte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 03:31 PM
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Please cite. If I’m guessing what you’re implying, women have higher standards yet when Two women date each other they are more likely to report domestic violence...therefore high standards do not correlate a happy relationship. If that’s what you’re saying, absolutely correct. HOWEVER: it isn’t going to change anyone’s biological hardwiring. Plenty of shit humans do makes zero sense, and the majority of decisions we make as a species is emotion based. We know it isn’t logical. If you’ve ever fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 11:36 PM
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I agree with the title. The world is overcrowded. Some points had some truth to them, others not so much. Assumption that women who remain single remain childless? Nah. Not true. Assumption that women are better at sitting than men? Lol depends. My girlfriend plays d&d, a male dominated activity from what I’ve seen, and it’s a whole group of men who are amaaaazing at sitting on their ass. I did at first assume women are better at sitting, but then I thought for about 5 seconds and the vast numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:54 PM
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Not sure who the average person is. We all argue with each other. Some people? Absolutely? My opinion? It’s totally fact based. the other opinions are wrong 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:38 PM
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I never claimed to go to “slut walk” events. Preferences for dating are and should be discriminatory. Let’s assume you’re as ugly as I am: do you want ugly kids running around as miserable as you are now? Being ugly sucks. If you spread it on, you’re only perpetuating suffering for a load of semen that wasn’t even that enjoyable to shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:55 PM
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Do you not think it’s biologically hardwired into women to be picky? Look at how gay men fuck bs lesbians as an example. Lesbians go bajillions of years without sex all the time (generally hella low “n counts”). Gay men often get on Grindr and have huge “n counts.” I don’t think women are only putting men to high standards. Look at it like that and women just happen to have high standards, which makes sense given the risk of pregnancy (obviously not having gay sex, but that’s likely a vestigial …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 10:39 PM
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You’re right: men and women aren’t equal. Both women and men know it. Growing up female you learn that most of the shit people say to you is garbage, bullshit spattering in your face. (Edit: “women can do anything men can do!” Hah fuck those people. Then you see and read contradictions everywhere...like literal science about how women of the exact weight as men will be about half as strong on average. And you have everyone fighting against you for wanting to do men’s shit if it’s physical...they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 10:04 PM
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Could you cite these claims? Some of these are things that are true, but I’m curious of the following: Preferential treatment for jobs (all jobs? University jobs? Privately owned businesses? Please cite because I’m 100% it isn’t “all jobs.” I could believe for university or something non profit.) 2. Same answer better grade. 3. Promotion claims (again, and this is likely a sub sample of “all jobs” and likely biased at that. My workplace is female dominated, yet more men are in power. Same goes f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 03:57 PM
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Nope. Transition to live as a “lesbian” and then complain that women are “transphobic” when you get laid just as little, even less, than a hetero dude. The problem is not your gender...it’s your sexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 03:45 PM
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Good thing I love sodium.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 03:42 PM
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I wish men understood what it’s like to feel small and incapable as an adult - no I don’t wish this on anyone...I just wish they could empathize, even sympathize with that. Not only being told “you can do anything!” From a young age but given no practical skills whatsoever (“oh! A man will do it for you!”), but then growing up in an individualistic culture significantly smaller and weaker as the average woman than the majority of men. It honestly feels like a disability imo (being female does). …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 03:19 PM
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Go on Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 02:33 PM
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Best comment yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 02:32 PM
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I would argue men are just as irrational as women. Is it rational to commit genocide?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:02 PM
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Most women offering fake friendships after a rejection are doin so out of fear. I’ve seen it happen. Some incel seeming guy (you know, the angry kind), gets rejected and the girl REALLY wants to get as far away as possible from him, but to soften the blow, she offers friendship instead. Those women are not bummed when this dude doesn’t wanna be buds. But imagine yourself in similar shoes: you have a friend you connect with. He ends up wanting to date and you’re not interested. You wish to contin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:30 PM
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Tbh I think it brings a sense of security for both parties, but that sense of security is bound to change over time if the relationship wouldn’t have been good anyway. Is it a false sense of security? it seems to be in modern days. Commitment makes it easier to get through the tough times I’d think. Fighting more? If you can’t leave, you’re more likely to find solutions, to work things out. But tbh it depends on how people view marriage. People nowadays just run over for a divorce. Marriage isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:10 PM
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For gay guys, yes it works. Everyone else? Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:52 PM
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Jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:50 PM
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Masculine AFAB (passes as male), 30, yes. It’s gotten better because I have gained confidence with age, met the right girl, and can completely be myself while attracting women. No “game” needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:47 PM
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I’m curious about this too, mostly because as a young girl my interests seemed to be male dominated. Why didn’t the other girls like skateboarding? Video games? Even random stuff I wouldn’t guess is segregated like speed solving a Rubik’s cube? Why do little girls/boys raised in a “gender neutral” still segregate on interests? Unfortunately for feminists, I think it’s a hardwiring phenomenon. I also think the “gay gene” (probably a slew of them and epigenetic phenomena combined) is related as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:45 PM
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I am, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:32 PM
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I still pass as male, though. I used to date stealth (as in not tell women I was trans unless it was about to go somewhere). Why was I able to get dates with more women than a lot of the guys here if it’s all about something I clearly am incapable of understanding? That way of dating lead to more rejection once I tell hetero women I’m not male. But the fact I was able to attract females at probably a higher rate than you, when these women assumed I was male, is interesting and throws kinks into …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:20 PM
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I would guess the same going both ways, though. Are you not critical of female appearance? If not, that’s probably indicative of your standing in the whole “mating hierarchy,” right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:09 PM
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no dude. An alpha woman would fuck women too. Evolutionary benefit? Maybe the population not continuing to increase exponentially. I wonder if homosexuality becomes more commonplace when a population is too dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:02 PM
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Agree with this answer. I was thinking that men born now with “alpha” type traits are often in jail, fortunately or unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 02:02 AM
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Could you name behavioral traits that are predominantly a thing than hetero females consider attractive in males (that doesn’t go both ways like confidence or something unisex like that)? I’m not telling you you’re wrong, as studies show scars in men to be attractive for likely primal reasons (I’d say scars are usually behavioral imo), but I’m having trouble of thinking of other things more “alpha” related. Can’t really think of a ton of other things that seem to be sex specific other than non m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 02:01 AM
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Bruh I have slightly over a 2” erect clitdick and I’m doing quite well in the lady department. Dick too small to make her cum? Pro tip: use your mouth, hands, toys. My gf never dated a chick in her life (only biological/“cis” men before me) before you say “BuT LeSBIaNs R dIFfErEnT.” Your dick could get blown off in war and most women would find that guy hotter than the majority of pansy guys these days with full grown dicks. Women don’t care half as much about penis size as men think. Study afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 01:44 AM
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Oop you called it 15ish min before someone said exactly that. Where did that talking pt even come from??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:11 PM
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Wait what’s wrong with bald men? I don’t even like men and I’d rather be with a bald guy than a single mom.... Edit no offense to moms. I just don’t like kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:23 PM
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How you gonna be a crackhead before you try crack bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:22 PM
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Why do we post so many exceptions to stuff here? Ok there’s anecdotal things, where you can find specific cases for...just about anything, and then there’s trends, which is what is studied in actual science (generally). Outliers can be interesting, but no sane person uses outlier data to apply to the rest of the data points.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:35 PM
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You didn’t answer the first question. Did the 19 year old claim dating older men are gross And then date him? I think you’re likely talking about different people with different dating preferences. When does it go from “he is a creep” to “go girl?” Well, women, just like men, don’t all share the same opinions on stuff. Mind blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:31 PM
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I agree. I haven’t read the comments below yet, but I predict it to be similar to religions with nuanced differences that religious people magnify. I’ve heard it here before: “but men are straightforward when they lie.” So it’s somehow “less bad” that a man does a thing in a different way than a woman annnd vice versa. I’m happy to see some people noticing the same elephant in the room. Yes, it’s really there. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:22 PM
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Smizing! Fucking Tyra banks!
/r/seduction08/10/20 05:19 AM
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How do you define “game,” by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:13 PM
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By “game,” do you mean basic social skills? Did me wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:26 PM
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Depends on the couple. There are people out there who claim it works, and I’ll take their word for it. But any blanket solution is a “one size fits al” type deal, when irl there is no one size that can fit an entire population. My partner and I? Fuck no. I don’t want anyone else; she doesn’t want anyone else. We would constantly be jelly of each other 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:46 PM
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Why do the girls at work tear each other down? It doesn’t seem like a mating thing. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:42 AM
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Hit the nail on the head right there. “The way I lie is inherently better because....” 😂 The self awareness of these people blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:33 AM
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I think there’s some truth to it. Biologival investment is important to consider in this context. If having sex risked a male of also getting pregnant, stuck with a kid or having to go through a traumatic abortion or even take a plan B (I hear it is painful to use, in case some of the men here don’t know) just for potentially not even getting to orgasm from some good looking person on top of them, I think men would also be invested in quite more than just looks. Yes, legally speaking, there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:40 PM
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I can agree with this. While i have stereotyped (though I was raised female) boys getting taught the whole “personal responsibility “ thing, it’s a rarity to see either sex claim responsibility without qualifying said responsibility (this not actually admitting to doing something wrong). I originally agreed with OP, but come to think of it, rich white guys that shoot people up are seen as being the VICTIM of “affluenza.” Clearly that Dylan roof guy denied personal responsibility for being person…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 07:46 PM
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I agree with this. I think that it hurts both sexes. A woman denying personal responsibility when she is truly responsible is hurting her own development (along with those around her). A man being told things are always his fault can also make him feel powerless, angry, and ironically, potentially be in denial when he is responsible as well. Or he could go to the other extreme, assuming “men are evil” and “women are victims,” making him not realize something like abuse. I don’t like how there al…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 07:32 PM
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I don’t think women do it on purpose. I can’t speak for straight women, as I’m not one, but what I see is younger girls trying to please guys, who are also growing up and making shit decisions (regardless of gender, duhhh), and they end up getting hurt in the process. (Note: so do men; no shit, but this isn’t what the thread is about). “Nice guys”, from what I have seen are guys who do not approach women much. Who do you think hot Stacey (or whatever people call the chick attracting a shitload o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 07:25 PM
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Depends on the woman. I’ve actually asked quite a few hetero women what they like about men. Growing up a lesbian I never understood the appeal of men (other than wishing I were male, but honestly more for self defense and sports purposes), but the girls I was surrounded by LOVED guys, particularly older ones. I’ve heard quite the range of answers, from “they do stuff for me,” to “they’re hot!” To things about them being strong, brave, and the funniest answer, “because women are bitches.” But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:49 PM
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If orgasming into a hot woman is a payment, sign me up!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 03:32 PM
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Why doesn’t chad have to pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 12:29 PM
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Because males and females are different. Fundamentally similar but different enough to keep things interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:01 AM
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Maybe you’re interpreting the image incorrectly. You’re assuming that this dude sits inside a lot. In my experience people who are minimalist have a personality of not wanting to be stuck at home. I would interpret this picture as someone who is outdoorsy. Maybe he is a huge backpacking fan and isn’t home much. Or maybe he travels a lot for his job. There are a multitude of reasons, not at all relating to class (I assume you mean socioeconomic class?), that would have someone not spending loads …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:49 PM
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Y’all be hanging with some PSL bitches. Where do you find these women? Has OP not heard of minimalists? Many of them are women (or they’re at least very beautiful men who have wonderful vocal control), though I do not know the ratio. This group takes stereotypes and makes them a rule and then plays victim for some arbitrary shit they saw a small sample of women do (talk about a low n count...how many female friends have you dudes had, and how many male friends for y’all women on here...I’m talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 03:45 PM
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This sub made me realize how glad I am that I’m gay. I used to pray to some fake Jesus Christ that I could be normal one day, and tbh I’m so glad I am not. I learned that straight people have it about as shitty as rich/famous people (not sarcasm, some of the most miserable people I have ever seen are loaded as fuck, conventionally attractive, have everything they could ever desire (not sure why but it makes me glad to not be loaded and defff wouldn’t want fame). Having all the options they could…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 06:23 AM
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Nah. My fiancée makes more $ than me. She’s an IT nerd and I work at a non profit as a microbiologist. She didn’t even know what I did for a living when we had our first date I’m pretty sure. And her sister was dating a sugar daddy type person (well, this individual thought that women just want stuff/money/to be showered in gifts), and she ended up feeling smothered and cheated on him with someone who makes like $12/hr but has a better personality. That’s right y’all: my fiancées sister cheated …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 06:01 AM
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I’ve been known to do this. It works because it’s honest, blunt, and takes balls to say. Yeah there’s times you’ll get rejected, but that’s part of something taking balls...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 05:41 AM
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Uhh idc if you have sex at all, much less fuck dudes. I was making an equally serious argument, and let me give an example to parallel. Let’s say I’m attracted to bearded ladies. They’re a rare breed. Nothing wrong with my tastes, BUT I don’t think I should go around complaining that no bearded women want to date me when there aren’t many of them. In no place in that argument do I say one has to fuck anything But bearded women, cool. What I did say is that you should have awareness that your pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:57 AM
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i don’t know his entire friendgroup! That’s also oddly specific. Does your autistic programmer friend also have a similar friend? 😂 this gives me hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:48 AM
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Nah. My argument is that you have fewer women to choose from, especially for life partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:51 PM
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Most women aren’t skinny af, and those who are won’t be if you reproduce with them. Cellulite is actually a less widely known secondary sex characteristic. Curves are natural, and if you live in a country where food is not scarce, you won’t have a very big selection if you like skinny women. I have noticed that trans women and young women tend to lack curves, so you have options there, but again: few choices to begin with, and once they reach a certain age the curves will develop unless they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:19 PM
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From what I’ve seen, charisma. The most notable guy I remember was a pal who worked w me at the pizza joint. He had a shitload of missing teeth and had to work there while he was in the halfway house from jail (also for selling drugs). Other than that, balding, “creepy middle aged man” look who no one would guess he got laid like he did. I thought he was lying until I walked in on him and this girl sucking his dick in the night shift. Anyway, dude ends up proposing to this trust fund girl, age 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:46 PM
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Bro you’re as far from wrong as you could get. My bud who worked at a pizza joint with me had like one tooth, not even kidding. He was balding, ugliest fucker ever, and every. Single. (Straight) Chick. In that entire establishment had sex with him. He legit got the HOTTEST girl there and is engaged to her now. He is in jail now, but she is staying with him...or at least she has for the past two years of him being locked up. She got with him at age 19. This all checks out to the question. And he …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:25 PM
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Total - 4. Good ones? 2 with 1 toxic one (first one isn’t notable as great or toxic...we broke up bc she moved, and only dated several months). GREAT relationships? Nothing beats the one I’m in now. NOTE: The number I listed is not my “n count.” I have had one one night stand and a couple fuck buddies. I’m only counting things that lasted (and my first). I’m 30...I take a lot of time in between relationships to feel myself again. Current one just 2 years. Longest was 4 years, but it was also the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:21 PM
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Yeah I wouldn’t listen to this garbage. I could easily have given up years ago. I’ve been cheated on by multiple women and physically abused by one of them. If I applied those experiences to “all women,” I’d be one angry, undatable person. It’s just like when women say “all men are like this.” Feels a bit shitty right? That’s because it is complete garbage. All anyone of any group arent any type of way. This is where stuff of any “ism” stems from. The irony is that some feminists talk so much sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:25 AM
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Nope. I’m not into makeup. I’ve been told I’m being “tricked,” but I call bs. Hair? Sure...women’s hair is gorgeous. But I def prefer to look at bald women lacking makeup to most men. Women age much better too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:51 AM
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Having curves imo is a hella attractive trait. My partner is heavier than me...and HOTTER. If you’re going by that I’m “hotter” than her. Am I actually? Hell no. Sorry bruh but if you want a stick figure date a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:41 AM
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Fully agree with the abundance hypothesis. Relationships are hard, and I think both men and women nowadays have this illusion of a. Abundance, and b. Some bs “happily ever after.” Combine the two and many are ditching their partner at the first sign of a problem. Blech :/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:29 PM
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🤣 I’m not fired; I QUIT!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:24 PM
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Yeah this is too extreme for me. Im of too high quality to understand the words a “uterus owner” has typed. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:23 PM
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I am probably biased due to my sexuality, but from what I’ve noticed, women tend to be the more attractive party in relationships. Rarely do I see a gorgeous dude with an ugly chick, but the other way around? Alllll the time. Are some of these hot women just dating rich guys? Absolutely. However, I know many couples where the guy has a low wage job and the woman is working on her PhD or something. My old bioinformatics program had several gorgeous women with unattractive, low wage men. The perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:24 PM
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This is about the comment that women weren’t ever oppressed oppressed by men, but rather, “biologically disadvantaged.” I think you’re pretty close to hitting the nail on the head, but there’s one part you didn’t mention here. The debate seems to stem from how people define oppression itself, and when modern feminism gaslights everyone into pretending that males and females aren’t sexually dimorphic, it makes debates hella weak. Biological disadvantage is a huuuge part of what I believe people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:05 PM
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I’ll speak for myself. I came close to marrying a woman that used to punch me in the face...dumbass me. Whether I “count” as a man or not (idc), I didn’t have ay options as a butch woman. And tbh, we are social animals and I’ve seen many people of both sexes fall into the “better to be with an abusive person than alone.” Non romantic example: my grandmother was abused repeated by my alcoholic aunt but continued to bail her out of jail, even when she was the person who had been abused/called the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:56 PM
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What’s a trad con? I appreciate your honesty 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:46 AM
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Thanks for your kind response! I found this post interesting, so I’m going to respond to your points. Yes. Group polarization. Fuck it’s all over reddit, everywhere. The number of places that ban users for having a mildly differing opinion...its so bad that most people are switching between shitloads of reddit accounts just to be able to post without being banned for being a complex human being with nuanced opinions.i think most people have had that fear of being doxxed and harassed, especially …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:33 AM
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All I’m seeing here is everyone fearing men (including men). Power and fear go together. I’m afraid of cops because they could fuck my life up. Male parents guard their daughters more heavily than their sons because females are biologically smaller, weaker, and were often raised lacking survival skills with the assumption we would find a man to “take care of that stuff.” Anyway, my parents aren’t afraid of who I date because I date women, and I’m always significantly stronger than the women I da…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:01 AM
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I disagree. Just because it’s sociological in nature doesn’t make it less intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:12 AM
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Not sure what world you’re from, but both myself and my partner are over the age of 30 AND we BOTH watch porn and talk to our exes. 😂 And I am willing to bet a large sum of $ that we are happier than a shitload of sexually repressed and easily jealous couples. Why do so many people have hang ups on talking to exes? It feels like the more mature thing imo than avoiding them. So we fucked before? Ok. So I’m hanging with someone who has fucked my partner? Okay. We aren’t with our exes for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 02:09 AM
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I’m an ftm so I think I can speak on the effects of t on sex drive: yes, of course t increases sex drive...or for me, masturbation frequency. Of course I come onto my partner a lot, but I did that before. I don’t really desire sex with a partner more than previously, as I want a quick orgasm much of the time, and considerate partner sex doesn’t allow for that. So ehhh? Also I wouldn’t say t made me waaaay more sexual. I want more orgasms, but it isn’t insanely more. Of course, I was a very sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:24 PM
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A guy surrounded by hot chicks is like a girl surrounded by a fuckload of $$$$$. Right?! Guys want hot girls, and girls want rich guys. Simple logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 02:32 PM
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I like this comment. Also does no one upvote here? I see great comments often with no upvotes. Is it just that divided in here or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:17 PM
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Women have sex appeal and men have resources. What’s your point? Some women have little sex appeal and some men, few resources. All this proves is that both men and women can be pretty shallow. Shit I know I am. My ex used to be obese and was not really hit on by many ppl until she lost weight. I saw her old pics and probably wouldn’t have noticed her before either. I’d never say that to her face, as I don’t want to hurt her feelings, but all these videos do is expose human nature...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:04 PM
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I thought men invented marriage. Families were bummed they birthed a female, and they sold their daughters off to some man, a lot of times abusive. This shit still happens a lot of places. The woman has no say in who she is with. She is often a girl, a young girl sold off by poor families because they don’t know what else to do. Women aren’t trying to exploit male resources there; men AND women are. The way this is worded sounds like the victim herself is trying to exploit the male she is with. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 03:56 PM
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You’re assuming these “high quality women” do not get divorced. I know so many dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:11 PM
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Best comment here. Reminds me of this guy, Mickey, back in high school, who kept trying to get me to go try meth at his garage. I always got in trouble around that guy. Glad I was afraid of his garage and meth mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:29 AM
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Well, when it comes to expectations on paper vs real life, some of the people you would initially reject, based on some arbitrary criterion you’ve made up, may surprise you. I met my fiancée on tinder. TINDER. I was just looking to date and was convinced this was going to be a casual dating type thing. Based on initial interactions via tinder, I was neutral feeling about a first date. I almost didn’t even go. We have hella more in common than expected, and the way we communicate with one another…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:25 AM
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Not to double post, but the woman on the right is way hotter. Left looks below the age of 18, and I like WOMEN, not girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:03 AM
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honestly women like “but-his-faces” all the time too. We are assuming this is exclusive to straight men only. NOPE. You seen some of the amazing bodied guys with ass faces both men and women get with? Probably men and women both process the face more than the rest; it gives a lot of genetic information. But of course the body matters. Anyway, onto the original argument: ...porn? Do you watch porn at all? There’s literally porn of every body type, every race, every size, every 394748483th gender,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:01 AM
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I agree with the thread title, but I would edit the men part to “people.” As if anyone was suited for the world we currently inhabit.... it seems pretty fucking clear that this goes outside of gender itself. I’m thinking of how domesticated we live. Sitting at an office chair all day (jobs that py a living wage and involve getting off ones ass have decreased something like 80% since the 1950s), when our bodies and brains literally were designed to move. No shit we are all full of mental health a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:17 PM
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Dannnng yo. Good luck.🍀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:20 PM
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I guess I’m too simple to understand that. Pussy hat whipped???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:12 PM
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Rebound seconded. But not sure how to determine if I’m that guy or not. How are you able to tell? Do you usually prefer someone’s last relationship to have been x amount of time ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:09 PM
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I disagree with the cheating thing (edit - cheating once meaning always being willing to cheat...ppl grow the hell up sometimes). My partner cheated on a guy waaaaaaay back, like a decade ago, and she hasn’t had any infidelity issues since. I mean I understand why that’s a dealbreaker, but once? Nah. More than once/recently, I’d be running.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:00 PM
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Dang you got a LIST Bruh. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 02:52 PM
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Eh not really. I’ve noticed younger women tend to desire to separate themselves from other women (aka “not like other girls”) by being anti feminist. They usually get older and change their minds tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 02:50 PM
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This just in: women have varying personalities and sex drives JUST LIKE MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:01 AM
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Things we can learn from this thread: if a woman has a body, there are many men out there (and probably a lot of women too) who will find her attractive. What a revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 01:44 PM
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Comment cracks me up! Lol. so many people go through life totally unaware of their hypocrisies. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 01:36 PM
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Yeah so many people are responding that “most men” like blahblah because their friend group tends to prefer xyz. All this shows is that friend groups usually aren’t that diverse. One of the articles linked up there is talking about socioeconomic status and body fat/breast size preferences and how they differ. I think it’s no secret that men who grew up wealthy prefer skinny women and those who didn’t generally go for higher body fat. It makes total sense. Come to think of it, would not consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 01:34 PM
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I’ve def been banned from various feminist subs. Never an MRA one (creep my posts if ya want but I have multiple accounts like every other redditor). I like to debate, which either strengthens my own arguments or the opponents. You’d think that if feminism were so perfect they’d like a casual debate. The arguments would be too strong to refute. I once got banned from a feminist sub for disagreeing with the OP who claimed that men can’t be feminists...that’s it. All I said was that my father is a…
/r/MensRights31/08/20 04:58 PM
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I think he is trying to say that logic goes out the window when a gigantic man is telling you to do a thing. Have you ever felt fear and thus not thought logically in the moment? An activated amygdala causes a decline in cognitive function because the body is getting ready to fight or retreat, even freeze when stimulated too much.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 04:03 PM
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Someone with shitty opinions had money. That’s it. It happens all the time...just look at the entire world of politics.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 03:37 PM
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Anyone remember that Farragh chick from 16 and pregnant whose cry face got turned into a meme? I think we can find plenty of evidence of coarse attitudes towards expression of feeling, BUT the numbers of homeless males is likely to be a better argument towards the lack of gender equality in that aspect. Feminism generally focuses on male CEOs while ignoring downsides like homelessness...
/r/MensRights31/08/20 03:33 PM
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Oh shit maybe for a social media job now that I actually think about it. I cannot believe boomers pay people to maintain a social media account for them, but hey, that’s dope as fuck for whoever gets that job. I’ll stick with science 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:49 PM
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The problem is that everyone is a hypocrite about something, but most people are, for some reason, unwilling to own up to their own faults. It’s like that statement my dad taught me (I think it’s famous): “when you point the finger you have three pointing back at yourself. So many people of both sexes complain about the opposite sex being like this or that, when in reality the problem is generally them. That claim about (straight) women desiring the top 20% of men/chads or whatever is the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:00 PM
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Have you heard of “transmaxxing?” It’s a relatively small incel group that sounds a lot like “mommy’s nice guy” but coping through transition to live as a “woman” while still holding rage for women. Also noteable: they don’t believe trans is real at all. I can’t really knock them for not believing in true transness; I constantly debate with myself on transition being a coping mechanism for severe outliers not fitting sex stereotypes and often being gay rather than a true identity. However these …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:46 PM
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I have nothing to debate with you about in terms of hook up culture. It’s gross, and I think both sexes want more than that but after someone gets hurt, it seems to become a “battle of the sexes,” with men and women alike just trying to fulfill selfish desires, looking at the opposite sex as not totally human, a piece of garbage, etc. Men and women in the 21st century have so much hate for one another. It isn’t just incel males who are hurt. Don’t fall into the trap. If you try and get back at p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:21 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:50 PM
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Can you explain what a “mommy’s nice guy” is? Also what you mean by the “I don’t give af bias.” I can absolutely agree that growing up/socialization is incredibly important for who we turn out to be. One thing feminists don’t really discuss regarding socialization is brain plasticity and just how much those developing years of life shape ones brain. However, from what I’ve seen, both men and women can have incredible variance in socialization within their own sex. I know that I’ve met women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:42 PM
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There was so much pressure from people on social media for us to stay together that I felt embarrassed to tell anyone what was happening. But it took until year two to realize that there was any abuse at all. I thought I was being too emotional or something was wrong with me until then. The model of “masculine person abuses feminine person” was all I had. I just applied it to gay relationships (therefore if anyone could be abusive it was me because I had short hair and wore clothing from the men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:02 PM
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Depends on the woman. Some women have been considered ugly their whole lives. They don’t have as much to lose as a woman with no personality who has only relied on her appearance her entire life. But to argue the other way: if you were hot, wouldn’t you use it to your advantage? I’ve never been much of a looker, but I’d take it any day over anyone spending bajillions of hours a day and money on looking “good.” Think influencers: they’re making bank now based on being hot (generally), but looks f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:42 AM
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I’m more cautious now. I learned that some people just want eye candy for their stupid social media. My ex would post happy pics of us right after hitting me, verbally degrading me, etc. I changed in that I find people who constantly are posting to Instagram or pull out their phones every five seconds to be unattractive, and I don’t trust those people. Also learned to listen to my gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:19 AM
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Ok so in another thread I stepped down on the “men and women can’t just be friends” bs because I’m a trans guy (and maybe there’s something else going on, but once testosterone gets brought into the picture, I think I can speak from experience.) Confidence? Sure. A bit increased. To the point of delusional thinking that my female friends wanna fuck? Nah (unless they literally do, which has happened, but not often). Aggression? I guess. I definitely have a shorter fuse....but if you take the diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:15 AM
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Yeah I met my fiancée on tinder. She doesn’t play games, I don’t play games...we work. Tho I will say it’s hard to find that pot of gold on tinder. The game playing that goes on between both men and women on that app is ridiculous. Like grow either some balls or ovaries and be real with the other human being you were supposedly interested in from the start. Rejection is a huge part of life in general, and I think everyone would be happier if the game playing bs didn’t happen. Yes, rejection suck…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:27 PM
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What the fuck is your issue? I must be asexual because I have close male and female friends and don’t want to fuck any of them. Yeah if a girl from tinder or something wanted to be friends back when I was single, I’d jump at the opportunity if she became interested, but that friendship started out with attraction on at least my end. But I also never became close friends with women from tinder unless we started out wanting to be friends (yes that is a thing; some of us are lonely enough we value …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:08 PM
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