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Field ReportMeta-h/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 12:49 PM
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Work through them all with the thought of just having a good time; don’t let your mind off this. If a woman is good LTR material they will show it over time. Don’t even let it be a possibility for 3 to 6 months; a month or two is not nearly enough time to determine if they’re truly psycho. Better yet, if they are good LTR material they won’t even push you to exclusivity or dig into what you’re doing on the side, ever… Always let them make the early and voiced emotional commitment and you can dec…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/23 12:12 PM
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Seriously… it is never the actual girl. Its just that you don’t get to have that one girl. It’s this ridiculous fantasy trick your mind plays that there is actually one rare truly amazing girl who has beams of sun shining from her slit. If/When you do close these fantasy girls, the reality is that after getting to know them, they’re standard. You think you’re getting Rocky Road or Neapolitan Swirl Pussy Surprise ice cream or some other extravagant flavor, but they’re all Vanilla.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 01:03 PM
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Been considering same phone setup as smart phones are great tools of distraction. Re: questions from girls, curiosity is not a bad thing, but framing it is everything. Try something like this. “I’m a member of a group that uses a private cell network and this is their standard issue phone.” She’ll ask questions and you just avoid. She’ll think you’re either a secret agent or cult leader, but she’ll be curious. “I’m on call and this is the phone the organization gave me.” She’ll think you’re invo…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 12:33 PM
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The same thing all women seek to achieve, attention from guys they can’t or shouldn’t get it from and better provisioning.
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:58 PM
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If she wanted to, she could, but she has little desire to do so. She’s only messed around once and it was really just to show she could, not because she actually had sexual attraction and wanted to. She has zero interest in dating.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/22 02:49 AM
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“living out your values and being who you want to be, even when in a relationship” This the cornerstone of happy LTRs. In much of your language/mindset you talk about balancing and you appear to be trying to reconcile TRP with traditional relationships/values. I get it… have the girl and your balls too. Here’s the deal, you can have a solid LTR and still spin plates. It’s easy to do this if you NEVER STOP SPINNING PLATES. Much harder to retrain an LTR/Wife after you’ve given her monogamy. Requir…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 12:31 PM
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The simple answer is that if you can't reach it in a definable, realistic and near term amount of time, something is out of order and you need to put a nearer term goal (want) in place instead of the Ferrari dream. For me I don't view it as killing off the want, unless it's truly unattainable, i.e., to fuck Marilyn Monroe. It could just be a multi-part goal, where you don't even allow yourself to think too much about the Ferrari until you're making Ferrari money.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 04:45 PM
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Internal mastery is a beautiful thing. Love this post. Ton of truth in the quoted section below. This concept is so distracting and a point of inefficiency for many men. If you have a target that you can't readily attain in a set, reasonable amount of time and measure your progress to get there, it's a dream or not reasonable. ​ Always be able to tend to NEEDS within a short time period - ideally by yourself.If you have a NEED you can not meet, you already lost control.You then have to spend mon…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 04:30 PM
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This young buck needs a damn break. Yes it could be BS, but somewhere in the world there is a red pilled young guy doing just this and if this is our guy, it’s a pretty uncool welcome by the community. Just because he’s putting forward a story of a young red pilled dude having mad success, doesn’t mean it’s bullshit. This is what it’s all about. There are going to be some at the far end of the spectrum and that is a great thing. For any of us that have applied these principles, we should know be…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 01:20 PM
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Once this clicks, other shit starts to fall in place. It’s funny how being yourself without apology makes other people think you’re rude. This really confuses people because their lack of confidence makes them take everything personally. It has nothing to do with others. It’s really their lack of self worth and inability to exist in a place where people don’t coddle them. I’m not your babysitter. Stop whining and be better.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 04:23 PM
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Yep Vetting is absolutely the key for any LTRs. For plate land though, they just need to be hot and not annoying.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:29 PM
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Can’t agree more. If you’re flirting with and fucking women at work, you better have a good exit strategy. No matter how hot they are, women at work might as well be viewed like they’re dudes. You always see execs that think they can’t be touched getting cleaned out for this one. Just not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:09 PM
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Completely agree. Gets to the point where it’s a pain in the ass because of the texting and coordinating and remembering the right names. A couple of newer plates along with longer term every once while chicks that require zero maintenance seems like the sweet spot.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:54 PM
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When you keep spinning plates for a while, it comes. That is near saturation point though for me. I got to the point where I was spinning 5 at once and it just gets to be too much. Shit I just called them all girl because I would forget names. They stack up like a line and it almost becomes self-maintaining.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 02:57 PM
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Of the five points you put forward I think passing all congruence tests is most key. When you do this you’re showing that you’re frame is unshakable and then she has once choice left. Enter your frame or move on. This cuts through a lot of BS.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 02:31 PM
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This is beyond terrifying. Where did you find this? And that female death tribunal - WTF - just a bit of irony and hypocrisy. Part of me wishes we could run this as a simulation and watch how long it would take for that world to completely implode.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 02:20 PM
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Man I have been there, but TRP can pull you out. What I’m going to say feels wrong initially when you’re in that heartbroken phase, but it works. Nothing helps you get over a girl like new ass and lots of it from as many different girls as you can get with. Do it like a chore at first, but it breaks the spell. After a while you will be like WTF was I thinking. After that never believe them or let them get that close again. Once you get your shit together she is likely to come back. Don’t ever ac…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 12:52 PM
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I’ve done a bit of international travel and I would agree that the women in Europe are generally not like the feminist women you find here. Most of the 8s and 9s I met we’re down to earth and cool almost like a non-feminist 6 to 7 in the US. You never know if the novelty of being foreign and the Alpha perception of the US may play into this though. Access is most definitely the issue and the deal is that long distance dating is delusional because it takes away from the time you could be using to…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 11:12 PM
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I think it’s much simpler than this. The hottie girls get to explore sex at a younger age with their pick of the best alphas while the young men get the shit end of the stick until their mid 20s. Men and women even out in mid life until the wall obliterates most women at 30 to 35 latest. After that they get little attention and definitely not from the primo alphas. Then the best alphas, even older can get their pick of the hottest chicks. Old chicks are pissed cus now they’ve got a beta. The tim…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 08:07 PM
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This is definitely true across the board if you’re in an idealized state where you don’t need anything from anyone. If you’re independently wealthy from birth with built in bitches sucking at the teat, or if you’ve created it by becoming self made, then you can do all of this. Sad truth is that most of us need something from someone (money, good job, social position) and have to get it by working and negotiating with others and yes taking some degree of shit. The main thing is to make sure you’r…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 05:31 PM
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Yep, the return in person is magnitudes of order better and with hotter chicks. Online is nearly a complete waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 02:00 PM
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Definitely rejection is better than regret. Other lesson. Always continue to escalate if they’re feeling it. If they’re down, then start to lead them. Take ‘em to another bar or get them to your place. Take it all the way as long as they’re letting you. My numbers are about a 15% conversion to fuck a girl the first night I meet her. That’s not the common path, but some will let you, so always lead them there. Don’t deal yourself out. Let them do that, not you.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 01:48 PM
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Been on OK Cupid recently and deleted profile. The amount of energy to return or what we can call the E/R ratio is stupid. I do way better at bars. Online women have the illusion that they have a lot of high quality options and aren’t going to be motivated to make a move. They’re just letting it come to them with what appears to be the reinforced hope that they’re gonna get an even better guy. In person there are a lot of weak dudes so they don’t get approached as much, aka, they don’t think the…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 01:29 PM
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Definitely, give me the unvarnished truth regardless of what it is. Society at large doesn’t agree with us right now, so it takes courage and persistence, but you can’t argue with the biological behavioral truth as evidenced by the results of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 03:35 PM
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Man this is the stuff that sets you free and it never comes without cost. There is no man that is either Alpha or Beta, but just a mindset that allows you to exhibit Alpha or Beta actions. Even after spinning plates for a while (old school David DeAngelo player), getting married and then moving my marriage status to open, I oneitis blue pill fell for the first girl coming out of my marriage. She was super manipulative and had read books like 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction and she live…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 01:36 PM
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Love seeing this here because it’s just part of the details that create the full package. Sorry but you can have all the game in the world, but if you’re not taking care of the basics, they’re not sticking around. I like long lasting but understated colognes, i.e., a girl I met last week as she got close to my chest says “ohhh... you smell good” as she cuddles up to me. I like this approach because it’s really only for the girls that give a shit to get close enough and when they do, it’s the ici…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 01:17 PM
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I’d like to say I have this mapped out, but I don’t. Overall I think it’s exposing him to the right ideas and showing him how I interact with women. Luckily his mother and I are open, so I can get away with a lot more in front of her. This is good because my son can see how I approach women. Obviously I’m not gonna talk in depth sexual strategy with him, but the main thing I’m trying to do is make sure he takes an abundance approach to girls and never develops the Disney oneitis mindset. This me…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 01:04 PM
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I know, even though my mindset is different now, every once in a while, she’ll sneak back in via dreams. I wouldn’t even like her now in the real. It’s like you need a damn exorcist to get rid of that subconcious BP connection to a specific chick when they get that deep. Archaic wetware... guess there is a survival lesson to be learned there.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 04:52 PM
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Dude... this shit was painful as fuck to read. I think mostly because I’ve been this a couple of times before, but never again. It was the last bitch that brought me to the RP (typically is) and for that I thank her manipulative ass. Man I took the RP willingly, without any fight and decimated the BP beta. I couldn’t revive his BP ass to save my life. Not saying that I always play my cards right - still learning, but the desire for some longing for something outside of myself is dead. Not sugges…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 12:21 AM
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She’s a vapid bitch, but so is Mac Miller if he did this because of her. Personal responsibility for ones own actions are on each of us and nobody else. If you’re a beta junkie, that’s on you and nobody else. Don’t like the scenario you’re in, flip the script.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 07:16 PM
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Hilarious but predictable. Man you can’t put TRP truth on display like that so publicly in a bar and expect it to be cool. Peoples minds start to explode. Yes there are big fucking double standards out there, but it’s not changing and the choice is between being a man, being responsible for my actions, having the agency to create and hold frame vs being a lost ass HB9 with no understanding of even what the hell is going on in her head. There is no choice. RP men are some of the few people that h…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 02:23 PM
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The bottom 80% should be non-existent for anyone wanting to make a difference. The bottom 80 shouldn’t even be in the picture for anyone who is truly a competitor at anything. The mark is the top 5% of the 20, aka the top 1%. Any other target, will justify settling for less than you could otherwise achieve.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 05:59 PM
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Agree with most of this post. Baselining this: Cocky - an arrogant, condescending dick that thinks he can do anything, even without a pertinent frame of reference or history to show he can. Confident - a self-assured, trial tested man that comes across as highly capable because he’s proven to himself that he’s willing to commit to an endeavor to make it happen and has the tenacity to see it through.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 03:09 PM
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And this is why I have a 9 year old son that I am RP’ing the shit out of. Last Saturday morning, instead of cartoons, we watched Jordan Peterson together and talked some basic RP concepts and when the time comes, he’ll be ready for this entitled Gen Z crew. His mom is not happy that I’m intro’ing him to these concepts at such a young age, but her only frame is mine, so she can sit back and watch.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 12:47 PM
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