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MetalBeholdr/r/ExRedPill15/11/20 05:01 AM
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MetalBeholdr/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 12:57 AM
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The way I see it...these are legitimate issues that men face. The problem is that some people use them do discredit the issues that women face, or blame women for the issues existing
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 03:22 AM
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Also, virginity is fetishized
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 12:38 PM
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Shallow women or women with pre-existing confidence issues, maybe. Not nearly as many as they'd lead you to believe though
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 07:00 PM
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I've heard of it but I don't quite think it fits me. I genuinely would be okay with casual sex in a certain setting, I'm just not comfortable with the rituals, risks, and vulnerability that is associated with it. We're all different though and we like what we like so it's not too important to me what I'm called
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 10:34 PM
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That really depends on your standards, and I'm not talking about looks. For me, I can't just go home with someone I don't know. That entire aspect of dating is just closed off to me because, frankly, I don't understand it. I'm not saying I'm opposed to doing it with a complete stranger, if the situation was right, but something about me as a person, or how I interact with others, just makes those situations not really feasible or likely to occur. Any kind of relationship for me has to build slow…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 03:17 AM
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:'( It's possible. I can't say I care too badly though, I've been a little preoccupied with other stuff over the last year so it's not a huge deal that I'm not seeing people lol. I just wanted to offer a counter-argument.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 05:51 PM
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We're all just walking clumps of cells at the end of the day. My theory is that this has a lot more to do with why men are attracted to women, and vice-versa. I'm sure a lot of that is just how we're brought up and told to view the opposite sex. It's probably linked to hormonal development on some level, too. I think also that men on average have a more "all or nothing" approach to attraction whereas women tend to think through their feelings on the matter. Men will dive headfirst into any roman…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 05:39 PM
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I'm 22 and I still struggle with acne, so I have a routine that involves moisturization, oil control, etc.. and for the most part I keep my skin semi-clear. I also shave, groom, hit the gym, shower, and style my hair. I may start using makeup soon as well. I'm not the most "blessed" person in the planet but I am fit (compared to average, I'm not a bodybuilder), well-groomed, at least a little style-concious, and generally somewhat put-together, visually speaking. I can't say I recieve the attent…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 05:30 PM
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I don't think that at all, and I definitely do feel more motivated to talk to someone if I'm attracted to them. It's a necessary condition for me to be romantically interested, but not a sufficient one
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 07:40 PM
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There's more than one way to do things, but I never approach someone just because I like how they look. If there's something else about them that I vibe with I'll talk to them about that
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 06:20 PM
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Doesn't feminism advocate for the eventual transition away from gender identity as a factor of a person's self-image? I'm not trying to be abrasive. If I'm missing something, let me know. I'm always open to new ideas
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 01:05 AM
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But feminism does support the partial or total dismantling of gender roles, so someone who intentionally adheres strongly to them, whether identifying as trans or cis, is arguably not (totally) feminist, at least as I understand it. This might be a bad take though.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 12:39 AM
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As someone who still struggles with incel feelings sometimes: it's about jealousy. I have a body count of 2. That's from one 3+ year relationship and one regrettable hookup. I still feel like an incel sometimes though, especially when someone with a body count of 8 or 9 or 500 talks about theirs. My ex had one that was ~10 when we met. At first I didn't care, but as time went on I couldn't live with the fact that she was my first (and at the time, I thought my only) when I was just "another one"…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 01:12 PM
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You aren't disgusting. He is. Fuck your husband, he's projecting his insecurities on you. Next time he says something like that, just leave and let him manage his own shit while he thinks about his entitlement problem.
/r/RedPillWives02/04/21 05:36 PM
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Yes, very much so. Bad people stay bad when they are rewarded for bad behavior, and TRP rewards bad behavior. Thus, the cycle continues
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 03:59 AM
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The fish analogy, while strange, gets the message across and I agree, that's actually kind of my point. I don't know about you, but positive reinforcement/validation is a huge motivator for me, likely due to my narcissism. So, what I was trying to get across, was that a community that let me exchange misogyny and perceived superiority for those things was a formative thing for me. It felt relevant at the time to what OP was talking about. Lastly, I have been trying to be responsible for my actio…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 11:23 AM
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Also report it though. Just ignoring this is allowing them to continue reinforcing these mindsets off each other. People (women) could be greatly harmed by someone who thinks like this and it shouldn't be tolerated
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 02:54 PM
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I like everything you said here but Jesus man, those typos need correcting. For real though, good post. Just terrible formatting. But good post.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 11:32 PM
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Thanks for the kind words :) Yeah there's definitely a mix of reasons a person could get involved in a cult like TRP but I don't think it makes too much of a difference when at the end if the day, it's still a self-serving and irresponsible way of dealing with your problems. I think more avenues for healthy self-expression could help the "wounded men" type avoid the mindset but that's a discussion for another time. You don't sound radical to me, that term just gets thrown around a lot anymore
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 01:49 PM
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I'm definitely a narcissist, as much as I hate to admit it. I was able to treat me ex horrible, and still find myself manipulating others to get what I feel I'm entitled to from them. The red pill community has a lot of what narcissists are looking for: validation, excuses, a clear and easy scapegoat, and reaffirmation that you are "better" than other people (women, in this case) The red pill movement fed my narcissistic tendencies throughout my formative years, and I'm still trying to undo that…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 05:56 PM
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I will say, some people you encounter on tinder and similar apps are trash. But that's the men too
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 06:44 PM
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Reading this made me feel a lot better, thank you
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 07:05 AM
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Thanks for the response and the advice. It really helps to hear from others sometimes :)
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 01:30 AM
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I thought I was just struggling because I'm a terrible person...it's kinda nice being told that the situation is difficult for more people than just me, so thanks for that
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 01:23 AM
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Not necessarily, it's because I feel like I take more than I give, and I'm narcissistic, misogynistic, and can be manipulative/controlling as well. Because I'm aware of these things, I know I shouldn't date until I've been to therapy for a while at least.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 01:15 AM
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"Loneliness sucks" about sums it up I think. I can't stand being alone every night, and that's what ultimately pushes me into the same pitfall every time. I was in a long-term relationship until about 6 months ago, and it's hard not having someone to just...exist around. But it makes me feel gross that I can't commit to not trying to date, when I know it's the right thing to do
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 01:05 AM
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Don't blame yourself for being wit someone like that. He had issues, as did you, but his he coped with by hurting others. It's a pattern I recognize because I was a lot like your ex in my long-term relationship, and despite doing my best I sometimes still am. My ex tried to blame herself when I would say or do something hurtful, which breaks my heart looking back. When I wasn't in an "episode" I'd tell her that she was perfect and beautiful, and when I was I'd talk about how bad I wanted to rais…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/20 01:44 PM
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Thanks for this
/r/ExRedPill15/11/20 05:33 AM
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I needed to hear this. I'm guilty of all of this behavior recently.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 05:12 PM
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