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Outer Game MetalHist/r/seduction10/04/26 04:21 PM
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Field ReportMetalHist/r/seduction15/03/26 11:38 AM
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Field ReportMetalHist/r/seduction20/03/26 10:02 AM
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I had a post written initially towards this comment but I felt like it was too aggressive towards you I don't get it. You seem to be agreeing with me lol. I agree with this post of yours and the other one in this thread. edit: oh, i'm stupid. YOu were reply to the other dude lol
/r/seduction20/04/26 08:23 AM
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since this sort of approach is not done by anyone locally it will probably be taken as very strange. exactly. Same in the UK for example.
/r/seduction18/04/26 01:13 PM
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disagree
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:14 PM
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it also doesn't actually really matter what you say, tbh. It's not the sentences (or the techniques, such as pushpull, that come out as sentences since we are verbal creatures) that actually create attraction. It's just you. I saw a vid earlier of a Todd V student saying all of the 'right' stuff and all he got was rejection. It's kind of irrelevant. Think about RSD. We've seen vids of tyler pulling by talking about vegetables and absolute nonsense. We've seen Julien pull by doing what everyone i…
/r/seduction18/04/26 11:30 AM
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Probably depends on ones own definition. I might call it a rejection, but others maybe wouldn't. I tend to think of it as a rejection when I feel like the girl 'wasn't interested'. So if I walk up too a girl and say hi and maybe do the stuff the books say (cold read, pushpull blablabla) and she doesn't seem remotely receptive, bad body language like she wants me to go away (even if she doesn't say 'go away'), barely responds and doesn't ask me questions etc to the point I bail, I call that a rej…
/r/seduction18/04/26 08:04 AM
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take some xanax! make you calm as a hindu cow lol. YOu'll get all the girls
/r/seduction17/04/26 08:10 PM
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they same game is about finding the girls who wanna bang you, basically I note that guys with a good approach to lay count, other than being good looking, are good at spotting IOI's and knowing when a girl will be receptive
/r/seduction14/04/26 04:02 PM
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looks get your foot in the door. But you usually need some game to seal the deal But obviously if you are not her type there's no magic techniques that will make her attracted. We've all read all of the books and tried the methods by now (I hope). Game went mainstream a long time ago. Vids on pushpull are all over tiktok at this point lol
/r/seduction14/04/26 03:01 PM
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Hard to argue with that. We certainly see that with very average looking, old, rich, famous rockstars with hot 21 year old GF's! But then, at that point, it's not about 'game', is it. And certainly not helpful for the userbase on reddit who probably aren't gonna be rich and famous or be in the next rolling stones
/r/seduction14/04/26 09:21 AM
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i do'nt tihnk people deny that it's impossible to get laid as an ugly guy. But in that situation you'd need too approach a hell of a lot of girls until you found a girl who thought you were hot. I think the pushback is on that old school marketing that claimed you could make a girl attraced to you and want to sleep with you, even if you are 4ft and obese, if you use simply use game/ pushpull etc (say things like 'you and me wouldn't get along', 'you look like trouble' etc and other PUA tech) or …
/r/seduction14/04/26 09:14 AM
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so it’s clear then, that the system works. but that's like saying tinder 'works'. Manson was the definition of 'tidner in person'. Say hi, make your intentions clear and see if she feels the same way. Honesty and vulnerability
/r/seduction13/04/26 08:02 PM
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doesn't it kill their business model, though? If we're at the point as we seem to be, where basically everyone, including the PUA coaches themselves, more or less admit that game is something you do to bang girls who are already attracted to you (since you can't force attraction in someone) then is there much need to pay one? I mean, just how smooth do you need to be to bang a girl who thinks you're hot and si is very compliant when you approach her etc? I mean, is it only the guys who literally…
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:42 PM
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that's the attitude I think if you realised how often all the coaches and stuff 'actually' get rejected despite their 'advanced game' you'd feel a lot better I was doing some heavy research on this a few months back and the numbers are quite interesting! Effectively, it is a numbers game for them as much as it is you. They can approach a tonne of girls and use 'game' on her and get nothing. I'm talking about stats from people like Paul Janka, Nick Krauser and a handful of other apparent experts.…
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:07 PM
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I think that part relies on attraction which isn't in your control. You can have a good convo. Tease her, pushpull and stuff (game) but tbh, it guarantees nothing. As they say, it's a number game. Approach enough girls and some will give you their number
/r/seduction12/04/26 08:30 PM
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My experience and that of PUA's i've met certainly aligns with that view Although I think there's guys on here who won't like that idea lol (I think some people want to hang on to the idea that a rejection just meant you needed even more pushpull lines and stuff to MAKE her attracted, as opposed to admitting it was never in your control)
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:30 PM
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cool. So basically embrace that it's a numbers game kinda thing. I agree
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:18 PM
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Nice game/cold approach recap if she doesn't want to give her number (day game) or flirt back (night game) after 'introduce yourself adn make some small talk' do you just move on to the next set and accept defeat with that particular girl and that she was simply not 'gameable'?
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:38 AM
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whats the most powerful game concepts you learned to make a girl attracted to you, evne if she thinks you are ugly for example Something like a pushpull? (so saying too her something like 'You're kind of cute. Too bad you're not my type' or something?)
/r/seduction12/04/26 08:35 AM
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sounds like you're running game and implementing what people have told you. But 'game' isn't black magic and you can't make a girl want you, so don't stress the ones where you opened, teased and what not and she wasn't into you. It's normal. Just keep going as it's really a numbers game, and the guys who tell you they attract and sleep with most girls they approach are obviously either lying out of their butt (selling courses or just living a double life on the internet) or they have a massive a…
/r/seduction11/04/26 11:27 PM
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haha, fair point. But joking aside, i'm certain that a good handful or seddit readers can easily approach a girl and say 'hi', what are you up too? what's your name? Can i get your IG?'' without doing something completely ridiculous. And from there 'set up a date and bang'. As I say, the instructions given from all of the guys on seddit who 'apparently' bang 100's of girls per year is very far from 'advanced' (again, unless we are saying 'basic social exchange' is advanced). But what happens to …
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:25 PM
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thing is, 'advanced', makes it sound like it's a special skill. I read a post the other dude wrote about his method and it's literally base level social skills. So assuming one isn't lying or banging complete dogs, then the guys getting laid lots are just good looking dudes playing on tutorial mode. But then, I'm confident any redditor would get them results if they were transformed into a chad for a day if you see what I mean.
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:19 PM
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apparently you're my alt!! Nice to meet you!! :) lol he's certainly upset about something!! lmao
/r/seduction11/04/26 12:35 PM
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Just dress well and talk nicely I think everyone's already doing that, dude lmao. This sub cracks me up
/r/seduction11/04/26 12:00 PM
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people run out of things to say when tehy are talking too a girl who isn't attracted to them. (she is literally malking it her job to make you run out of things to say haha. She doesn't want to talk) SO that's never really a true issue as far as i'm concerned. You just move on from that girl and find one who is down to chat and flirt. With that girl, she will be contributing so much that one won't run out of things to say
/r/seduction11/04/26 10:57 AM
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exactly!! haha. I saw this many times!
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:16 PM
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indeed. I used to cold approach with a dude who was a literal male model. It was BRUTAL!! haha.
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:59 PM
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if they can't afford or find the books, i'm here to give them the same info in the books so they can go out tonight and test whoevers method. It's a positive. Try not to always see the negative in things.
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:31 PM
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that's grim! I'm glad that the whole financial barrier seems to be almost uniquely a US thing! I'm in Europe and I honestly feel like girls don't care at all about how much money you make! I've never been asked anything close to that in 30 years. I guess US is all about money and looks whereas where I live it's just looks. LIKe, a really really good looking broke/unemployed dude will absolutely clean up!!
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:08 PM
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make a profile of a really good looking guy and be ready to have your mind blown haha
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:05 PM
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Nonsense. I don’t flirt with women and have bedded hundreds i flirt and bedded thousands
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:36 PM
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what are you talking about lol. i'm happy to share all knowledge (UNLIKE others who run away whenever someone asks them a question about what to say to create attraction using whoevers methods). You don't want this knowledge being public? Re-read the post
/r/seduction10/04/26 04:47 PM
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well at it's core, 'game' is really just flirting. When you break down all of the techniques like teasing, breaking rapport, pushpull etc that these dating experts teach, it's just flirting (which of course leads to sex when you do with a girl who is attracted to you) So I do'nt see what's so bad about it. Don't you flirt with girls you like? If so, you are 'running game'
/r/seduction10/04/26 03:47 PM
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in reality, it all comes down to just being her type. Most things will work if so. And if you're not her type, then no amount of stuff in PUA books helps. Field tested
/r/seduction10/04/26 01:02 PM
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It's all about being her type (by type, I just mean that she thinks you are hot, basically) I saw such an extreme example of this, the weekend just gone. And I saw and heard the whole interaction play out because the dude was next to me at the bar. He wasn't even that good looking to be quite honest, but he was big and black, and some cute young blond girl basically approached him. From there he was just like 'what's your name?', 'where are you from?....oh, really? bet bet....'. Just no game as …
/r/seduction06/04/26 05:02 PM
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Which are best place to meet women realistically? where would you recommend me to go and why everywhere, although you can be met with very cold reactions in 'non social' places like the street and in teh day time. Especially in certain countries. I'd recommend 'social' places. Pubs etc do women even like it when man approaches her in bar or nightclubs If she thinks you are hot, then yes. Cold approach is a numbers game. You try to find the girls who are attracted to you I dont know how that happ…
/r/seduction04/04/26 12:21 PM
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i'm not sure what industry nights are, but maybe it's a bit like there used to be a bar/club near me that done 'airport nights' and it was always full of air hostesses (who I think would show their airline ID to get cheap drinks?) on like a Tuesday night. So me and my friends used to go out to them However, even though it was full of girls, it didn't make it easy i'm afraid! haha. It still requires good looks and finding the girl who is attracted to you. There's no free lunch!
/r/seduction31/03/26 09:32 PM
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If you do 20 sets with poor results or you just weren't their type. I mean, would you be surprised if some average looking Joe went too a convention full of 10/10 18 year old models (say there's 30 of them there) and didn't pull?? lol. Fact is, only like 0.5% of men are gonna pull in that environment
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:40 PM
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On the other hand, only the girl in the club required any game Give yourself more credit. Both girls required game. You'd very likely have messed up and not got the lay if you didn't have game/social skills (unless you are a mega giga chad) Don't forget that game isn't some black magic where you can attract any girl you want. That's just PUA marketing nonsense. It's all about finding the girls who want you. And then having basic social skills (game) to not mess it up. It'd never have went anywhe…
/r/seduction27/03/26 11:54 PM
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probably just meant that despite being around girls, girls weren't really interested in him. Being around girls doesn't magically make girls think you are hot, as he found out. It's all about raw attraction in them environments
/r/seduction27/03/26 01:40 PM
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You can definitely pull girls who don't give you an IOI; Because not all girls will give one, even if they like you. Or sometimes it's very subtle. Or sometimes they won't even see you etc. I've done it a lot But what you can't do it pull a girl who is very unattracted to you. LIke, she'd swipe hard left on you on tinder fast. Approaching off of IOI's as lots of men do just means your hit rate/appraoch to lay ratio will be super high. Approaching any hot girl you see without IOI's is also cool, …
/r/seduction26/03/26 05:31 PM
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I think it's only people who are making money from it who claim it's anything special, tbh. I mean, it's really just basic social skills. People who really 'learn' things from reading PUA books etc are the people who 'learn' when they read about how to wait until someone answers a question, and then use some of the things in their reply to ask a new question or make a comment on. The other part of game is flirting. Which most people can do, and it's good, but the problem is that it doesn't actua…
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:26 PM
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yes. And more importantly, the opposite is also true. That's why we still often see the pickup coaches approached a girl, she's clearly not interested, he spends ages trying to do all of his PUA stuff, and it still ends in a rejection lol
/r/seduction25/03/26 07:58 AM
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one can only hook up with girls who think he is hot. Them girls will sometimes approach you and 'make the move' (as you've seen) but others who want you will be a bit more shy and only give little IOI's which can be missed. If you notice a girl checking you out a few times though, it's best to go in. It doesn't matter what you say and stuff. Just say hi and say whatever comes to mind. If you are her type it'll be fine. If you approach girls who don't give you IOI's (which is fine, and I do it) t…
/r/seduction24/03/26 06:25 AM
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pretty much
/r/seduction23/03/26 10:33 PM
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some dudes hit the genetic lottery lol. It's that simple
/r/seduction23/03/26 01:18 PM
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what sounds like is missing is flirting (which is what all game is, really. i.e pushpull and teasing and stuff). But I don't believe it will 'build' attraction for you. You're either her type or you aren't, effectively. (i.e flirting with a girl who isn't attracted to you is kind of unwanted. A bit like that 'Human resources' meme where teh good looking dude flirts and she blushes, and the ugly guy says the same thin and she calls the HR department! ahaha)
/r/seduction23/03/26 08:59 AM
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yeah, just 'natural game' is the consensus from this thread. No rules kinda thing
/r/seduction22/03/26 06:05 PM
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Lol he is not wrong haha! He must have been so disappointed with everyone in the bar that night. Tonne of hot girls who weren't into any of our ugly asses!! No guy pulled lmao. But he'd definitely have crushed it. Dude look like a meat-headed version of Henry Cavill and taller! lol
/r/seduction22/03/26 06:02 PM
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yes, I agree. I always assume attraction when I walk up too a girl. But of course if she tells me i'm not her type and tries to walk away/ignores me so that it feels like i'm talking too a brick wall as she displays really bad bodylangues/asks me to go away etc, then i've never ever seen that ship turn around, even with professionals with infield, so I tend to wish her a good night and find a new girl who might be attracted
/r/seduction22/03/26 05:09 PM
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important to realise the difference between a playful shit test and a girl who wants you to go away because you're not her type, though.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:56 PM
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they say it's a numbers game. 90 rejections isn't much. Especially if you are going for really hot girls who are way hotter than you! Just jeep going (or drop standard slightly if you wanna get laid bad)
/r/seduction22/03/26 10:02 AM
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what was your daygame approach/technique? What tech did you use to make girls attracted even if for example they thought you were ugly? that's what i'm trying to learn! every booki buy and test feels like a scam/doesn't work
/r/seduction21/03/26 10:35 AM
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someone here said it was a "obsolete method of Game, that has been improved upon many times over". I'm trying to look for the best attraction material and someone said I need to look elsewhere (i think the user mentioned adam lyons and gambler?)
/r/seduction21/03/26 09:40 AM
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We were drunk and said "fuck it let's get him here" and tried getting him there but he was kind of like "no not interested" in his vibe. When she saw that she literally went "ok im good, ill find someone else, im not chasing him". everyone here says girls chase teh guy who acts like he isn't interetsed though. Weird
/r/seduction20/03/26 11:24 PM
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he's probably got the game part down since he's here and all the info is here and easy to find. Everyone here should know all about game. But yes, the hard part is getting to the point where you are hot enough to get IOIs which is what he wants
/r/seduction20/03/26 11:22 PM
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quiet sub. Are there any others on here out of interest?
/r/seduction20/03/26 05:21 PM
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what do you do if she is not attracted then? I think the idea is that you can do things like tease her and disqualify (like 'you and me wouldn't get along. We'd always fight and i'd always win' to get attraction). There's also negs. And finally a big one was Demonstrate higher value. Kind of telling her stories about how you date models and are preselected etc
/r/seduction19/03/26 08:23 PM
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To me it feels like when you start talking too a girl who is attracted to you, everything you say (within reason) is good enough. When i've approached girls who seemingly aren't interested in me, todd v game, along with any other techniques ive tried, hasn't helped. Maybe the game of cold approach is really just about raw attraction. Like waht you feel when you see a pretty girl. It works both ways I guess
/r/seduction17/03/26 08:24 PM
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yes. Although I often feel as though when I pull, it's very little to do with any method or even verbals used, to be perfectly honest
/r/seduction17/03/26 08:21 PM
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Where: Day time club When: 3 days ago What I said to open: "You look like trouble in the most adorable way" (from todd V) After that:I have to get back to my friends (false time constraint) but to tell me your story briefly' (got that follow up from Todd v too) How did it end: She wasn't interested. How long: 30 seconds or so. I done a few teases to try to build attraction but I wasn't her type and I bounced out
/r/seduction17/03/26 04:36 PM
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does feel harder. Sometimes it's like you feel the 'difference' in terms of attractiveness between you and her is just ridiculous and like you'd be completely wasting everyones time Although I did make a point of approaching the very hottest girls I saw on the weekend. Some model looking girls None of them were interested unfortunately- even used some game techniques i've learnt but not a flicker. Good to try, though! Felt good to say I gave it a shot
/r/seduction17/03/26 04:24 PM
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handshake feels a bit formal in a pickup situation
/r/seduction15/03/26 08:51 PM
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Bar with 90% women? You sure that’s not a lesbian bar? LOL It was a day time thing. I went too another daytime event a few weeks back (a 90's music event at a club) and there was also a very crazy ratio where women massively outnumbered men. Not sure why it's the case, but it seems to be a thing! I’m glad you didn’t ask “why did I do wrong?” Sometimes the night just went on like that. for sure
/r/seduction15/03/26 01:01 PM
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One time a female friend told me that women feel men have lost the art of reading body language I was told something similar by a very cute female work colleague. In her case, it was about how guys 1/ can't tell when she's not interested. Guys approach her. He's not her type and so she gives one words answers etc to politely tell him she's not interested but they keep trying and trying 2/ guys not realising when she wants him to approach. She says sometimes she'll stare at guys and smile etc, an…
/r/seduction13/03/26 06:31 PM
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Made me think of that family guy bit where the suicide bomber was looking forward to his "72 virgins in heaven", and when he got there, it was a load of nerdy MALE PC gamer virgins lol
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:11 PM
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yes, where i live at least, it feels like bars are the last remaining place where you're at lest somewhat safe to try to hit on a random girl. Although even then, many can be very unreceptive (hostile) and it's best to only approach girls who are giving you lots of signals that they are attracted to you
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:46 AM
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i'm assuming this sort of thing varies a lot based on location/country/type of gym? My gym in Germany was the same. People would never ever even think about talking to each other randomly. It was the least social place in the world. I tend to think the US is quite different from most of the rest of the world when it comes to socialising with strangers, though. I must admit
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:43 AM
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thanks for the advanced seduction guide, good sir
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:21 AM
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has she been checking you out etc? Otherwise, deffo just leave it
/r/seduction12/03/26 11:57 PM
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I read Robert Greenes book a few days ago. He's supposed to be the King of seduction
/r/seduction12/03/26 11:30 PM
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