Metal_Cello Archive

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3	How to not seem needy when you kind of are Lack of romantic experience isn't necessarily a turn off, but it can be a lot of pressure being someone's "first." It can feel like there is a responsibility (especially as we get older) to provide a great first experience rather than simply a first. In our teenage years none of us really know what we're doing, and a lot of us are having "firsts" with other people, or our true firsts are the other person's seconds, etc. We all bumble around and kind of get to learn intuitively, and there is no e…	/r/seduction	25/10/20 11:43 AM
6	Alpha Males Do Not Exist (?) I smell incel	/r/seduction	14/06/19 07:49 PM
2	How to become comfortable with my masculinity? Also, there is no set definition of masculinity. Girls are attracted to all sorts of "masculinity." Jist he comfortable with yourself and your personality, and guaranteed there are girls out there for you	/r/seduction	21/03/19 05:51 PM
2	How to become comfortable with my masculinity? Don't worry about having a gf. Confidence is key, no matter how old you are. And to many girls it won't matter that you're a virgin (especially in high school, shitloads of people are; and even into your 20s). On another note, it isn't crucial to be in a relationship or in love with a girl in order to lose your virginity with her. It is more important that you trust her. She should be someone you feel comfortable around, someone who doesn't make you feel judged, and who you think will be worth s…	/r/seduction	21/03/19 05:50 PM
1	Am I going overboard on a second date? Sounds like a nice date. Ice cream is a good idea, but a casual dinner after hiking might be good too. See how you both feel. Maybe staying in and cooking something simple together is always an option. It's difficult to say what's overboard. If you think you're reading the person right then do your thing. My bf's and my second date ended with me staying over, and for breakfast he laid out a really nice spread, and made a traditional tea from his region, fancy tea cups and all. I really loved it,…	/r/seduction	21/03/19 03:06 PM
1	Is it ok to just want casual sex? Just be up front. Maybe be more tactful than "I just want to bang," but make it clear you just want something casual, not serious. If you feel bold enough, say you simply want a FWB. It's probably better to mention this before going out on a date, when you're just talking with her. Let her know that if she doesn't want something strictly casual, then you don't want to waste her time. Even if she says no to the date, she will respect you for that. ***Be careful though. Lots of guys who are usuall…	/r/seduction	15/03/19 11:26 AM
1	The REAL Problem with Men today... The candle scenario is different from what the guy in the video was proposing. You two were already interacting in some way. You didn't just randomly approach her for her. In your example, from the female perspective, the interaction began as innocuous (even if that was just a lead in to asking her out). It's much more comfortable. That's the element that was lacking. I don't know a single guy who thinks he's entitled to women. I'm glad you don't. It seems you keep good company. But I'm guessing…	/r/seduction	14/03/19 09:16 AM
0	The REAL Problem with Men today... There lots of "Nice Guys" and "Incels," and they are so filled with hate and rage there is always a risk they will become violent. I think women are generally more on guard when it comes to relationships and dating because of this. We are not yet at the point as a society where all men accept that they are not entitled to women. Unfortunately, there are quite a number of people like that, and I think that is reason enough to be wary. I have also personally experienced dangerous strangers. I have…	/r/seduction	13/03/19 04:35 PM
1	The REAL Problem with Men today... No, I don't, and I by no means pretend to. Though keep in mind, being flattered is one thing, people like to feel attractive. But as far as the interaction going further than that, this particular approach in unlikely to be successful. Many women are wary and on guard against such behaviour.	/r/seduction	13/03/19 04:19 PM
0	The REAL Problem with Men today... The real problem isn't that guy in the hat (as the arrow deceptively makes it seem). The REAL problem is the guy in the mohawk. I can confidently say as a woman from NY, people randomly coming up to me would not make me want to do anything except move to an even more public location, get the hell away from that person, or be much more drastic. The world is dangerous, and we have to be in our guards. There is no "non-awkward\non-creepy" way to do what this guy is promoting.	/r/seduction	12/03/19 02:34 PM