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Yeah I did but it's not worth it if you're targeting long Term, strategy was cockiness , negging and challenging qualifiers that creates the status difference, we had tons of sex but then I became soft then she revealed she had a bf and I was "just" an affair.
/r/seduction22/07/26 06:20 PM
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Not just shit it's diarrhea !
/r/seduction22/07/26 07:45 AM
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I do all that, another important element is your location and race.
/r/seduction20/07/26 12:37 PM
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Your issue here is emotional investment, you gotta do it much later after she does ,aka after months of dating maybe 6 months or an year, attaching too early is sign off neediness and woman can sense it and backoff immediately.
/r/seduction19/07/26 01:11 PM
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Even pro PUA like mystery age Tod V had said the purpose of gage is to become a confident man and find a right person.
/r/seduction12/07/26 07:01 AM
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What's the idea behind us framing ?
/r/seduction27/04/26 09:07 PM
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Yeah but much later in dating aka once she already has your attention and it's attracted to you.
/r/seduction07/02/26 05:43 AM
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Same here 30M india in Bavaria (most conservative part of Germany) still mangaed to go on dates with natives and getting likes on Apps, so its not impossible,but definitely harder as women have their preferences and not everyone is comfortable dating other races
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:34 PM
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Great observation, dude. This basically sums up my dating life after 5+ years. I especially liked your first point a lot of people expect perfection even though they come with their own flaws and past trauma. And the moment you make a small mistake (one you’re totally willing to fix), it’s instantly, “I can find someone better!”
/r/seduction15/10/25 07:32 PM
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Yes, it’s actually worse than being a jerk because a jerk at least projects a false sense of confidence and indifference which is attractive. I’ve been there, done that. Even after understanding all this, I’ve still found myself losing self-worth when dating attractive women and becoming needy. That’s when you slip into being the so-called “nice guy” agreeing to everything, afraid to upset her, scared to lose her. But that’s not the same as being a good man. A good man has a spine. He speaks his…
/r/seduction14/10/25 04:01 PM
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Read Mate after that repeats some stuffs, but explains women's perspective very well.
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:45 AM
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Mate: Become the Man Women Want and Models: Attract Women Through Honesty
/r/seduction01/09/25 12:01 PM
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Mate, Models, Alabaster girl, Mystery method I found these helpful.
/r/seduction31/08/25 06:12 PM
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So… you want her back? Here’s the counterintuitive playbook (a mix of hard truths + mindset shifts): Neediness kills attraction: over-availability and pedestalizing her lowers your value. Time to reset. Step back and detox: take a break, clear your head, distract yourself with things that aren’t her. Prioritize yourself: Health and fitness Work, studies, and projects Hobbies you genuinely enjoy Scarcity is attractive: reduce availability, don’t chase. A little distance creates pull. Upgrade your…
/r/seduction25/08/25 02:47 PM
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That's great I have gone through your content and it's quite valuable, and will you be making the pdf version freely available?
/r/seduction19/08/25 04:29 AM
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Truly poetic 🔥
/r/seduction18/08/25 02:39 PM
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True that although that does involve some extra level of efforts isn't checking with multiple people spending time, distributing energy than focusing, although, I don't think that's any other rational way!
/r/seduction15/08/25 04:04 PM
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I’ve noticed this too at first, it was very difficult. The key is mastering the art of self-control, being at peace with yourself, and having high self-acceptance. When we believe a woman is “above our league,” that’s when problems start. We become needy, she senses it, and often, she pulls away. The solution is to practice the mindset of abundance. Go on as many dates as you can with women you genuinely connect with. Over time, you’ll develop a sense of abundance realizing there are countless a…
/r/seduction12/08/25 06:27 PM
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True that.
/r/seduction11/08/25 02:14 PM
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I did find those traits and got needy.
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:31 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction11/08/25 03:16 AM
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Gotcha thanks mate 👍
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:37 PM
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Thanks a lot man, this is far the most useful and meaningful answer, although I wonder how did you learn it? A someone who has been dating for years and read several dating books still I do mistakes when I meet attractive women.
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:30 PM
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This make lots of sense, so have high value/stance don't lose your edge until she starts investing more than you do?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:24 PM
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Got it so stay low and give just enough to sustain until new signals come in than escalation from self?
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:55 PM
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Yes, my experience mirrors yours closely. As someone who has read numerous books on dating and relationships many of which advocate investing in yourself more than in your partner it’s incredibly challenging. Sometimes, acts of goodwill seem beneficial for the relationship, tempting me to invest more, only to face heartbreak in return. I’ve come to believe the only viable approach is adopting a stoic mindset: refrain from investing emotionally unless she begins investing in you more than you do …
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:15 PM
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According to Dr. Robert Glover, a Nice Guy is a man who sacrifices his own needs to please others, chases external validation, and avoids conflict. He lives by covert contracts like: “If I’m good, people will love me.” “If I meet others’ needs, they’ll meet mine—without me asking.” In short: boundaryless, approval-seeking, secretly resentful. By contrast, the Alpha Male—the so-called dominant male with access to resources and mates a leftover fantasy from the animal kingdom. In reality, 99.9999%…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:12 AM
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Kudos to your courage and efforts 🌟
/r/seduction13/04/25 05:19 AM
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I made a small mistake at point and ruined my chances, never chase ever, it plummet your chances a lot.
/r/seduction27/02/25 08:38 PM
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You'll need a mindset change, as you derived joy from chase you won't get it here, maybe you invest those skills on her, like making every date with unique, teasing her, surprising her, playing with her, you are successful womaniser after all. You know how to excite a woman.
/r/seduction01/02/25 06:02 AM
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Well if you're putting enough efforts and still not sustaining it, she's probably not interested! Otherwise it's usually easier, she'll ask you questions every you give a bit of space after some generic random questions.
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:13 PM
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She was into you from beginning ! that it !
/r/seduction21/10/24 07:20 PM
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Yes, as others have pointed out, attraction can be quite binary initially—often based on physical appearance. However, many factors beyond looks can influence attraction over time. For example, let's say a woman finds you attractive enough to smile at you. Later, she learns that you’re involved in animal welfare, which happens to be something she deeply cares about. That shared passion can enhance her attraction, making her more likely to initiate a conversation. It's a reminder that while first…
/r/seduction20/10/24 05:53 PM
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It’s been a while since I read Antifragile, but if I recall correctly, the main idea is about embracing a series of small failures to foster improvement rather than remaining inactive and waiting for a Black Swan event to disrupt everything. I’m not sure if that’s what you’re referring to.
/r/seduction19/10/24 05:42 PM
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Pretty similar to ideology of Antifragility, aka systems that gain from disorder, only thing being you need to have high fail tolerance, its not easy to watch yoourself fuck up 100s of times and not feel pain !
/r/seduction19/10/24 03:16 PM
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I wouldn’t say meditation deserves all the credit, but it has played a significant role in my life—especially when it comes to staying present, finding peace of mind, and observing the natural rise and fall of emotions. Learning to let go, particularly when someone leaves or things don’t go as planned, has been one of the most valuable lessons meditation offers. These insights, combined with the lessons from numerous failures and setbacks, have shaped my perspective. When life threw challenges m…
/r/seduction19/10/24 01:08 PM
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Absolutely! Meditation is especially effective after some physical activity. Starting with just 8 minutes is perfectly fine, and over time, you can extend it to an hour or more. For most people, 20-30 minutes of mindfulness meditation a few times a week is enough to see real benefits. If you're just getting started, I recommend the book Mindfulness in Plain English by Bhante Gunaratana. Also, check out Andy Puddicombe's TED talk—it's a great introduction to mindfulness and will help you get star…
/r/seduction19/10/24 05:53 AM
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I’ve mastered what you called 'the art of acting unbothered,' though it took time. For me, it was a result of facing constant failures at various stages of relationships. At first, it was deeply traumatic, but over time, I became numb to the patterns of ups and downs. Eventually, I learned to observe my emotional cycles with a sense of detachment. Another thing that has significantly helped me is meditation, which I’ve been practicing for several years. It’s given me the clarity and calm to navi…
/r/seduction18/10/24 05:45 AM
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Well, True to some extent because girl might act nice to not offend you !
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:47 PM
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There are lot, epimstyle already mentioned one which is great for hookups, some others are below books : Flirtology (by Jean smith): Purely focuses on conversations. Dating essentials for me (by dr Grover): Best book I have read on dating. Models by Mark Manson: Focuses more of how to be aithentic self when approaching woman(good for beginners). No more Mr Nice Guy : Good to read if you have problems of being tooo nice !
/r/seduction15/10/24 02:44 PM
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Yeah, as I said still have emotional anticipations as I am new, need to get rid of those and stay neutral, as most of things I ready are theory, applying it after long time.
/r/seduction15/10/24 02:38 PM
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I am still at early stages , you probably are pretty advanced seducer !
/r/seduction15/10/24 02:36 PM
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Yup HOTAPE :humor, openess of body language, touch, attention, proximity, strong eye contact and opposite of those are signs of disinterest.
/r/seduction14/10/24 08:36 PM
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I read flirtology by Jean Smith, quite an amazing book, she mentios some great practice session on how to start convo with random strangers as well.
/r/seduction11/10/24 01:13 PM
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OP is right I tried it and most seemed happy, I left online dating after I moved country and had very minor successes.Although converging till you set date is hard and takes a lot of practice.
/r/seduction08/10/24 03:38 PM
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That's creepy dude
/r/seduction07/10/24 04:23 AM
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* Certain parts of Europe, Germans don't give a shit, czechias are nice
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:49 PM
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You already lost the game when you consider her out of league, if you put her on pedestal you can't win.
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:48 AM
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I faced similar challenges when I first started navigating these situations, but I found ways to overcome them through a balanced approach to communication and interaction. The key lies in gradually escalating the connection in a way that feels natural and comfortable for both of you. When you're talking and she’s engaging with you, showing interest, that’s your cue to begin establishing a more personal connection. The first level of escalation should be subtle and respectful—start with basic, n…
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:01 PM
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Maybe you lack the game to escalate enough, maybe you just give platonic vibes.
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:30 PM
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You need atleast a base level of attraction to begin with ! being average joe/obese won't even draw attention, conversation skills are super important, no denying howver to reach that stage you need confidence and hitting gym and body positivity helps in boosting that a lot !
/r/seduction26/08/24 03:35 PM
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Isn't Poland conservative.
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:53 PM
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Zan Perrion author of Alabaster girl.
/r/seduction25/07/24 05:28 AM
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I too was in your position around same age, read "No more Mr nice guy" by Dr Grover, it's a gem, author is certified marriage and relationship councillor.
/r/seduction17/07/24 04:32 AM
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If she's not responding positively to in next steps , she's not interested in you romantically anyway, may be you are a decent guy that's why she replies, at the same time disinterested in romance as she avoids next steps, 2 weeks is decently long enough to talk.Move on mate
/r/seduction03/07/24 05:04 PM
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Imagine the amount of hatred she might have had against her ex-husband to do such a heinous act !
/r/MensRights10/01/24 03:22 PM
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You are living in delusion buddy,wake up to reality !
/r/MensRights28/12/23 01:46 AM
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Nothing! A 20-year-old has no value unless your parents are wealthy or you are about to go to some prestigious university, men have to create value to be considered valuable and men are loved conditionally unlike women, kids, or pets.
/r/MensRights27/12/23 03:48 PM
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And she belongs to streets
/r/MensRights19/07/23 02:45 PM
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Yeah, That's also true however it's an outlier case, to always be rejected then something must be unappealing about that person.
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:35 PM
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Guys this is absolutely true since I research it a lot it's called self-limiting beliefs if you don't respect yourselves don't expect women to respect you! for more details read "dating essentials for men" by Dr. Grover, phenomenal read it is.
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:19 PM
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Have an anti-fragile mindset , every rejection is an info of an error on what not to be or do ! Learn improvise and tackle next with non-attached mindset.
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:34 PM
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Well, that's easy! girls don't flirt with guy friends! once you ask her out you gotta escalate in levels, aka starting from general warmup conversation you move to banter and flirting then more bantering and flirting to see if she reciprocates then the next level is physical escalation like touching gently around arms, shoulders, etc, each level you gotta check her reciprocation, if she's reciprocating very well dude she's into you! For quality flirting check checkout the H.O.T.A.P.E method by J…
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:28 AM
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The lesser you care about outcomes higher your chances to get better dates.
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:15 AM
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Not necessarily guys with great jobs do take coaching lessons from dating coaches , it matters a lot how you are behaving, isn't what PUA is about showing off the status to attract women ? its not great thing to do, but you get the gist right ? Giving more options confuses her.
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:21 PM
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Assertiveness raises the value, aka asking let's grab a coffee at so and so at so and so time is superior to would you like to grab a coffee whenever you are free(shows weakness and gives her more power to decide), so assertiveness equates to confidence and decisiveness, some of most attractive traits in men, being straight to point helps to get rejection and acceptance faster too. ->I usually go for : Hey i heard so and so is interesting let's go for it (simple isn't ?) and these are possible r…
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:45 PM
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Well here they are : 1)Models by Mark Manson 2)Dating Essentials for Men by Dr. Robert Grover. 3)The Tactical Guide to Women by Dr Shawn T. Smith 4)The Game by Neil Strauss.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:02 AM
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It's alright, you shouldn't have mentioned about guts thing that reduces your status as a confident guy, hence chances are that she will value less, although its fine still you have time, create scarcity next time, let her text you 1st then you reply with a delay that further date will be delayed because you're having a busy week, (it's hard to game of self-control I know but worth, as it keeps her waiting) and yes fo try to read good books on dating, ping me for good ones.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:47 PM
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That's true dude, to play you need engaged players if they aren't attracted in 1st place, it's not a game at all!
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:56 AM
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That's true dude, to play you need engaged players if they aren't attracted in 1st place, it's not a game at all!
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:55 AM
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Yeah, sort of overly attached to a point where you don't care about your stuff like working hard, hitting the gym and other constructive habits which made you attractive in 1st place.
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:54 AM
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Very true, it's mentioned in many dating books like models when Mark mason mentioned her investment in you should be higher than yours in her to maintain the bond, In dating essentials by Dr. Grover calls it fusion when you are spending too much time together which is again dangerous, it's bit of dick move but only by a bit in order to maintain the better bond you gotta play a bit, nothing comes naturally! you gotta practice.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:58 PM
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No you are saying it passively , it should be confident and firm like : ->Hey lets have raunchy sex !(Direct & Sex) ->Let's explore each other without clothes.(Funny & sexy) ->Let me eat you out while you shout my name (Will turn her on & you can proceed)
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:58 AM
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Well, things are different with men, you can't simply ask him to kiss, he might be thinking out pushups in the background! , you need to raise sexual tension, and it's much easier for women to turn on men, men are visual and to the point, so you need to give strong signals,aka wear something hot and mention it to him during the conversation, touch him more than usual he'll understand it. -Well to keep the conversations going, you need to delve into topics he's interested in and ask him about his…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:31 AM
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For most men including me that's what only mattered however as you grow older you to start thinking past then, we are all sexual beings why would women be having vagina if it's not about sex ? So no it's not a bad mindset just another preference, so FWB seems suited for you and make sure you are really maintaining yourself well(well groomed,gym etc) that would attract women to sleep with you and if you are genetically gifted (tall, muscular) then you don't have to put much efforts.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:07 AM
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True that !
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:48 AM
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Well, that's pretty much true, if one is an actual loser and shines with PUA tricks, things will wear out in little while, the Game helps in setting things in motion/polarization etc, why do you think really intelligent well-earning men join dating coaching? Well unless of course, you look like Bard Pitt these are unnecessary!
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:12 PM
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It's pretty valid however, things are not that simple, pretty ladies have lots of options in dating apps and things going on, to capture their attention you have to play the game to check the polarity ->Fuck yes r damn no, the game allows it to do it in a faster efficient way.
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:16 AM
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True, otherwise PUA wouldn't be this famous.
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:14 AM
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As you went without expectations anything is okay, having intercourse is not the end !
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:41 PM
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Looks like Onitis, you got emotionally attached too soon, she got what she wanted ->"your attention" and moved on, move on it's not worth it, she's just causally playing around.
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:52 AM
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This ! Yeah they need validation from men and see their value raising when men approach them and there power increase when they reject.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:58 PM
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This is really good, exposes there mindset how she wanted to act as unique and hard to get and her ego broke when much better looking friend approached you
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:55 PM
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I think I might in a similar boat, will try the last shot of asking her out before I close my chapter.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:08 AM
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No women are designed to too be approached and they are generally passive by nature's design, ofcourse there are exceptions, women in bar already get hit by many men they won't have time for you ! One exception being if you are super good looking genetically gifted and super confident guy you might have chances.
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:30 AM
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Awesome dude 👍, you could have elaborated the story nonetheless good move, I too got it similar way, haven't asked out yet though.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:03 AM
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That only works if she was in some sense interested in you atleast a bit !
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:17 AM
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Most important part is she must feel wet when you are there ! So seduction begins the moment you enter her room: Some tips: -Smell really good. Well groomed hair and beard Dominant body language she must feel you will be ramming her real hard in sometime. -Biggest turn on would be your confidence level, you must impart it. So well groomed good smelling dominant you will be entering in her dorm she's already bit turned on, now will talk and escalate it by making out out softly then she her recipr…
/r/seduction07/12/21 10:46 AM
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high on weed !
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/21 09:32 AM
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Clearly evident she's playing hard to get and will continue to play mind games to get your attention,block her and swipe more !
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:35 PM
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This is really good man !
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:57 PM
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You did absolutely right thing mate as per the book ! You polarized women , ie you either date her make her your gf or you move on there is no inbetween, hence you saved time and now you can date more in that time also you retained your dignity and kept her wondering this guy has strong sense of character and doesn't give a fuck, so yeah an Alpha move 👍
/r/seduction18/05/21 06:56 AM
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Don't loose enthusiasm mate, great 1st move though ,make every meet entertaining and enjoyable !
/r/seduction30/04/21 12:31 PM
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Happens sometimes dude neediness is number 1 think women find repugnant, hence emotional self control is needed.
/r/seduction03/03/21 10:59 AM
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Typical traits of psychopath.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/21 02:12 AM
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Seduction is manipulation, if you ask women honestly open your legs she most probably won't, that's why we use tactics.
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:00 PM
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I literally did everything mentioned here😐
/r/seduction07/01/21 07:12 AM
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You must actively ask them out,worst thing that can happen is rejection ! it's better than mindless hoping!
/r/seduction01/01/21 12:02 PM
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Right ! He should take step forward ask them for date of he's interested.
/r/seduction01/01/21 11:59 AM
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There's a book called no more Mr nice guy , where author explains cause of nice guy is the way of his upbringing lack of proper care from parents,dysfunctional relationship with father etc.
/r/seduction18/12/20 05:41 AM
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Just like Cal Newport days 'be so good that they can't ignore you'.
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:00 AM
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This looks like copied from YouTube channel Psyc2go
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:05 PM
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Write a book dude please!
/r/seduction03/12/20 02:42 AM
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The book is pretty detailed if you have finished that you should try No more mr nice guy,which is even more deeper look into male demeanor and how to improve self from core.
/r/seduction23/11/20 04:34 AM
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It's on how to approach women with confidence,face rejections still have raised self esteem and proceed.
/r/seduction23/11/20 01:11 AM
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My pals I would suggest to read a book called Models by Mark manson quite an eye opener.
/r/seduction21/11/20 04:26 PM
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This is very important to me 🔥 I have seen women getting attracted to me because of physique, communication and bit of decent looks but then I get too needy do too much unasked and the girl loses intrest in me ! now I got why !!!
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:13 AM
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Baniyan means sleeveless shirts not wife beater ! Otherwise translation is fine.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/20 01:37 AM
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