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Thanks. I'm personal friends with a few of the Love Systems coaches, so I may just ask them, I haven't yet because I forgot their real names and my social media is turned off. So I have their numbers but don't know what it is labeled. I've met Mr. M and would love to learn from him personally, even if the company is dissolved. A short Asian guy who gets hot tall blonde girls in a club, his game must be solid. I'm an above average height, pretty good looking, very fit and fashionable Asian.
/r/seduction20/11/21 10:06 AM
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Duh… Even if he wasn’t and was pretending to be, she would assume he is.
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:22 PM
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Always hug. Or half hug.
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:00 AM
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Keep seeing her and having sex with her. You'll want to build up sexual experience while you have the golden opportunity. Will help a LOT in future pick ups.
/r/seduction12/11/21 04:25 AM
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Different for everyone. By major crush I’ll use my personal definition of “love” aka “pair-bonding” (scientific term for love). For me it takes about 3-4x the length of the relationship (only the duration we were mutually in love and together officially). My sister takes 1/4 the amount of time of the relationship. But she’s a literal model and I believe she is sociopathic. She explicitly enjoys making guys cry and tell her they love her and beg her. She’s done this numerous times. Yikes. Life is…
/r/seduction11/11/21 10:11 PM
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Read the book: The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden. It is everything you’ll ever need to know about self-esteem. Top 3 books of my life, and I’ve read 2-4 books a week since 2009. Literally.
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:32 PM
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Only skimmed this. The details don’t matter. Text less, be more busy, focus on your passions and purpose as a real man. Also, just make an explicit move on her. If she says no or anything other than an explicit yes, then next her. Ask her to hang out, pick some casual thing. Coffee, etc. Or a walk in a park (idk if that’s casual but I love doing that).
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:31 PM
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You didn’t make one approach? That’s not failing. That’s just nothing. Bro, solo cold approach is the pinnacle of learning seduction. You should not be doing this so soon. It’s scary and takes mad balls. The rejections can be harsh as fuck. But so can the successes, since you’re out alone, it shows you’ve got huge balls. When I solo sarge I approach groups of girls clubbing or such who look straight up like models. Habit. Doesn’t mean I get them. It’s just an interesting thing what usually happe…
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:29 PM
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Congrats to the OP! I am not sure how to use this reddit app. Anyways, more will come! You just broke the dam! Niagara falls results is coming ; )
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:20 PM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction23/11/20 03:57 AM
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Playing hard to get as a guy is very difficult when the girl is inherently attractive. Probably one of the rarest qualities I've seen in all the players I've known and been out with. And I'm friends with several coaches. Just adding that note. Oh, one good piece of advice I've gotten is this: Don't PLAY hard to get. BE hard to get. A lot of the community doctrines and techniques we use are to imitate high quality / alpha guys. "Don't text her back immediately", so we wait 20 minutes to reply so …
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:48 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:44 PM
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Where is there flaming or malicious comments between users? I don't really know how to use reddit (not sarcasm).
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:33 PM
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I don't think it is beneficial to diminish someone (even if it is done with positive intention, as I believe your intentions were with your post) when giving them advice. Saying he is emotionally immature has no beneficial impact on him. Or telling him he doesn't have an abundance mentality either. It is more productive to tell him how he can acquire the abundance mentality or exactly where he is being "emotionally immature". I still dislike the connotations included with such a phrase. Avoiding…
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:32 PM
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I am genuinely curious, how does one maintain a one-itis for a particular girl for the duration of several years? Were you dating or talking romantically for a long period of time? I can only imagine the reasons off the top of my head could be: You were dating for a long time, or were intimate in some way, like fuck buddies or close friends. You never cut contact and maintained a high level of contact, at the very least from your side it was a high level, she does not need to reciprocate or repl…
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:18 PM
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That's a real book title? I'm going to look it up. Thank you.
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:15 PM
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Oh, I misread this several times lol. I thought you said "How can I approach a woman for casual sex" then your thread said "I want to approach guys for casual sex". */Eyebrow Raise* Can you provide further details about yourself and where you are and the type of guys you want?
/r/seduction27/09/20 05:48 PM
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yikes indeed
/r/seduction27/09/20 03:29 PM
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My post had a major point, but the ramifications are too far spreading for me to hit every point. So I simply hit the main ones. You can still succeed with women as a misogynist, but you will not live a happy life. A mentor of mine who is a master pick-up artist has over 200 cold approach lays. He is very jaded and borderline or full-on sexist. He has been suicidal for so long, the women he had sex with and his success in seduction was to fill a hold in his heart. The bottom line of my post, wit…
/r/seduction27/09/20 08:56 AM
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Pure curiosity, but what do you considerate intermediate or how are you judging yourself as that? Literally, complete curiosity.
/r/seduction27/09/20 03:29 AM
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I did not get the 9's and 10's. My game is not sharp or tailored for that at the moment. I've only gotten one 9 in my life. An objective 9, not the inflated ratings that 90% of guys use lol. I'd say approach the game like anything else. I do not recall exactly what I did in Sweden. Don't smile too much, that's submissive. Language is not a problem, almost everyone speaks English. Um. I don't recall any differences from gaming in the U.S.
/r/seduction27/09/20 03:28 AM
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Where are you from and why are you in Sweden? I loved Stockholm when I went there. The girls are 9's and 10's everywhere.
/r/seduction27/09/20 02:58 AM
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Word.
/r/seduction26/09/20 05:56 AM
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Hmmm... I think it depends a lot. I've succeeded with both. Hot girls are rarely alone though, I'll say that. Every MAN here should be capable of these 2 things: The courage to approach hot girls alone. The ability to approach a group and get the girl. ​ Logistically I think a group is harder, but girls LOVE when girls have the balls to approach while they're in a group. An ex of mine I met with her mom while they were both at the gym. And the hottest girl I've ever gotten from a cold approach w…
/r/seduction26/09/20 05:36 AM
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Yeah, it's been a tough struggle. I had one last year and this year, but the last one before was like 5 years ago. How your life is going, your relationships, and overall mental health definitely impacts this. I was working out and in great shape. Getting lots of sunlight (improves mood and produces vitamin D naturally, it's a natural anti-depressant). Hanging out with positive and cool friends all the time. Talking to multiple girls and going on regular dates and banging girls semi-regularly. I…
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:09 AM
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Line breaks man...
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:53 PM
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Am I misreading this post? Cold approaches are for meeting girls you have absolutely no social connection with. On a bug, in the street, in a bar, in a library, in your class, etc. Some situations are higher yield than others, MAYBE park is better than street (I honestly don't know or care), but to each his own. Both scenarios are valid options, and I'm sure there are those who are better at each.
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:25 PM
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Is this how my poems come across? Holy shit................................... (Not trying to insult you, but damn my poems must sound like this)
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:23 PM
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A fake smile is very negative. I'd say allow yourself to naturally do what happens. I've been told by a wing that I smile TOO MUCH, because of nervousness and I thought it was attractive. But smiling too much can come across as insecure. Be more relaxed and laid back. Act as if you already have her.
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:22 PM
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How old are you and how old is she? School is incredibly vague. But from what I can tell, you're just a random guy who has a crush on her for no logical reason and you're biochemically going to get yourself to fuck up, you can't act like an attractive male when you're this attached to a girl who hasn't earned it. UNLESS you are out of her league and this attraction is mutual. Anyways, make a move on her, find out with finality. If she reciprocates, move forward. If she rejects you, then next her…
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:21 PM
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Excuses. What are your seduction goals? Ask yourself this. Then ask yourself, are your goals worth this discomfort and going through this dislike? Simple as that. If the answer is yes, then keep pushing. If not, then cheers! Find your next passion and pursuit and the best of luck to you.
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:19 PM
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Russell Brand is also a good source if you want to see sexy on video from masculinity.
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:31 PM
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Good question, I would have to think about that one. I read one book a week and a lot are not that helpful.
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:24 PM
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Good. Now keep up the good work. You've just done what most guys are too afraid to do.
/r/seduction25/10/19 06:26 AM
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No. Not until you're literally 100% emotionally over her and 100% certain you wouldn't get fucked with emotionally again. I'm assuming this happened because you made this post.
/r/seduction22/10/19 08:40 AM
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Just do it. Start with something simple like a punch on the shoulder or brushing an arm when laughing. Not a good habit, but you can also verbalize it. "Where's my hug?" It's not the most attractive thing, but you're still learning. Training wheels.
/r/seduction22/10/19 08:39 AM
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You have more assets than you realize. A lot of the guys with the best game I know started learning game right after ending a long relationship. You have sexual experience, you're comfortable around women, and you can pick up on cues that "pure" cold approachers won't be able to, the sort of cues that show up only after you spend enough time with a girl. Are you completely over your ex?
/r/seduction22/10/19 08:11 AM
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I take it you’ve never taken improv classes before. You get what you put into it. And what you try to get out of it. Of course you won’t use the same humor that you use in class. You learn how humor works and what makes things funny, it’s about fundamental generalities. It can make you more extroverted and charismatic. You’re not trying to succeed at improv, just improve yourself and make yourself funnier and the above mentioned qualities. Nothing in my post mentioned success in improv. It doesn…
/r/seduction27/08/19 12:32 AM
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Brush it off, keep going.
/r/seduction25/08/19 02:42 PM
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For future reference, you'll be surprised at how often girls are interested in you and you aren't reading them correctly. I made it a habit to always go for the number or date no matter what signals I was getting when I first started out, and some of my lays were from girls I was certain had no interest in me. Your mind can play tricks on you. The most attractive woman I have ever had sex with I didn't think was into me at all. Funny story about that, I sort of ignored her because I assumed she …
/r/seduction25/08/19 02:35 PM
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Why did she send you a picture of her little cousin? The line sounds fine, it just doesn't seem like you're taking the conversation in a productive direction...
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:03 AM
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Call it a hang out. If the word date hasn't been specifically used yet, don't use it. If she uses it, don't flip and disagree. Go with the flow, you're already in.
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:01 AM
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You desensitize yourself to it through exposure, and learn coping mechanisms. Unless you're a sociopath (their brains are wired differently), you will always experience a small amount of anxiety when you're sober. Just keep doing it, and build momentum. Do things that scare you. Step outside of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:47 AM
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It happens, countless reasons could have contributed. Don't dwell on it and just make your next approach.
/r/seduction24/08/19 02:10 PM
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Most important is to get yourself emotional distance from her. Good stuff. Just keep moving forward.
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:50 PM
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Cut contact with her. You lost her if you're friend zoned. Get another girl. If you want her, you should know you're not capable of doing so right now, not as you're emotionally seen by her or by how you feel towards her. Try again in a few months, but cut contact completely until you've gotten a few more lays under your belt and she has faded into obscurity.
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:28 PM
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Most people in Europe (where I went) speak English when I visited... What part are you in? I've only been to Sweden, Italy, Wales, England, Scotland, and Ireland. I know friends in Norway and Germany and the Czech have fluent English speakers... Bilingual is much more prevalent there. To answer your question, seduction doesn't require the same language. On my trip to Italy, I one of my natural buddies slept with a girl who didn't speak any English. All body language and tonality.
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:20 PM
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If you've heard that much about him, are you her shoulder to cry on regarding him? That changes the situation completely. I'm assuming you're trying to get a girl who simply has a boyfriend. Suddenly changing the dynamics by telling her to STFU about her BF would be something I can't predict the outcome of. I assume she badmouths him. Even if she does, don't do it yourself. I'd avoid the topic but don't explicitly tell her not to talk about him. He's a non-issue. He doesn't even register on your…
/r/seduction24/08/19 11:10 AM
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Self-esteem and real world successes are cyclical. You need both and they feed into each other. You haven't psychologically grown into your "new skin" yet. You're a hot guy now and girls want to fuck you. But you've been conditioned by years of the opposite experience. My friend wrote this post and it is my bible for self-esteem: (The author is nicknamed the father of self-esteem for his contributions to the self-esteem movement and how it impacts us) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/…
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:49 AM
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I'm doing that soon too, except alone, and a large dose. Do your research on psychedelics separately. This isn't the right place to find out about them, unless someone with lots of experience with psychedelics AND seduction while on them can chime in. That said, my understanding and opinion is to just enjoy the experience. If you're tripping, ddon't be so focused on seducing the girl then. Don't reduce the dose just in-case you want to be seducer-man. Enjoy your first time tripping. Do some rese…
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:45 AM
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I missed the part about you not having game. You mean you're very inexperienced? In that case just rack up as much experience as possible. Snapchat is a safer and easier way to contact close a girl but you might end up in her follower land permanently. If you can get the phone number, do that. Otherwise use snapchat as an indirect route to her number. I don't know anybody who's utilized snapchat to set up a meet up without a girl's number.
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:40 AM
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I never use snapchat. Although I'm pretty old school. Girls ask me for my snapchat and I have to find it but never use it again, and I always emphasize that I rarely use it. I'm not a snapchat expert nor have I utilized it to get me laid, so I won't KJ (keyboard jockey) here about something I don't know about. I'm just posting to say you can get laid without it and it's not crucial by any means. I've laid girls off of video games online, literally. Your post reminds me to try out instagram and s…
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:37 AM
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Do you mean literally baking cupcakes and cakes? I only hear that word in the context of smoking marijuana so I always get confused. lol. Real baking can be a great hang out idea, I've only done it once as a first date, and laid the girl on the second date. Instead of asking for signals, since you're so inexperienced, just ASSUME she is interested. Interpret EVERYTHING as a signal. The smallest gesture as interest. Hell, this can actually generate attraction in some cases if you play it right, b…
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:33 AM
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There is no perfect moment, period. The first few moments may be ideal, especially for those who get stuck in their heads a lot, the longer you wait, the more neurotic you become and less likely you are to approach. I'm one of those stuck in head guys. But great advice on occasionally bending your will by doing things you don't want to every day. I'd only add one caveat to that. Change yourself. Change yourself into the kind of person who DOES WANT to do these little things every day. Even intro…
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:28 AM
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Just sit near her and talk to her, like any other girl you'd be trying to lay. Try to keep talking to other girls as well, don't let her be the sole person on your mind. The fact that you're making a post about one individual girl already shows you're more invested emotionally than you should be at this point.
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:28 AM
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At like he doesn't exist and don't bring him up. If she brings him up, change the subject SMOOTHLY. DO NOT badmouth him. To people against pursuing those in relationships, deal with it, that's life. Most attractive girls are going to be taken already. If you can get her while she has a boyfriend then the relationship wasn't that strong to begin with. Nobody owns anybody. Relationships are just lines drawn in the sand, washed away by the shores.
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:26 AM
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Don't chase, replace. Why try to fix a situation when you can meet a new girl and start fresh?
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:22 AM
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Being well groomed and dressed nicely makes a huge difference too.
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:20 AM
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Confidence stems from both internal and external foundations, both feeding into one another. You need to believe in yourself while also having solid real world experiences which validate your confidence and this cyclical pattern continues. Fake it til you make it at first, since you lack the real world experiences from what I'm gathering. Once you do it enough you'll rack up some successes and have more real memories for your confidence to fall back on. Note: Even the best of us feel down and la…
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:45 PM
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Transition it outside of instagram, make yourself real, get her number. I hope you're within physical meeting distance of one another.
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:41 PM
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Just go for it. I've gotten plenty of numbers and dates from girls while they were working OR and ESPECIALLY in crowded places where people can hear the two of you. It's almost attractive, being the ballsy guy that can do that without caring what people think. Also, once you start the conversation, if your focus is proper, the background and other people will fade away and you won't even notice them. Things like this are so far outside of most people's realities that it doesn't register. Many pe…
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:39 PM
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Adapt to situation, get girls now. :)
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:29 PM
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Find out what her living situation is and if it's feasible lead the way to that. It doesn't have to be at either of your places too, by the way. I've ended dates in the back seat of my car and then we parted ways. Just noting that you can be creative with solutions, often there's more options than you realize. You can change your own living situation too. What's wrong with bringing girls to your parent's house? I've done that countless times and have no qualms about it. If they're against it, ha…
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:07 PM
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Giving more context to your situation might help too. Age and level of experience tell us almost nothing. Are you a student? Who do you hang out with? Etc. Also, dating websites aren't scams. Half my lays are from those, approximately, and you can occasionally get a genuinely attractive girl off there. It's a good way to rack up experience, especially for dates, since it's easy to get dates off of online dating websites and apps, you can stack multiple dates a week. It is largely a numbers game …
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:37 PM
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I think you must be exaggerating literally never having gotten a single match or reply... There's too much advice prevalent out there so I'll just zero in on your question: ​ Work on your fundamentals, fashion, grooming, getting fit, whiten teeth, posture, confidence, tonality, etc. above all else. Kissing girls is easy, I bet you simple didn't see the opportunities you had, and when you're more experienced, you will see them looking back. Just meet a lot of girls, ask them on dates or to "hang …
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:22 PM
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