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| 6 | What about emotional connection in all this? | Methylenie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 05:03 PM | |
| 4 | Asking for sex is/is not sexual harassment | Debate | Methylenie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you experience street harassment? | Question for Men | Methylenie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 03:34 PM |
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| 3 | Asking for sex is/is not sexual harassmentDigital rectal exams should also come with a free prostate massage, whether or not the patient wants it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Asking for sex is/is not sexual harassmentThat's true, but the question is that would simply asking the masseuse if they provide sexual services (or even if they are a prostitute) be considered as sexual harassment. Sure, it may be rude and stupid, but is it harassment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Asking for sex is/is not sexual harassmentYou'd probably ask yourself and do the research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Asking for sex is/is not sexual harassmentI think the problem here is "btw". In dealing with people - men or women - a good rule of thumb is to know the answer to the question before you ask it. Good point, the article implies people do their research online about what services are provided before hand. But the world is full of stupid people and some of 'em are gonna have a belief that all masseuse are also prostitutes, or all asian masseuse are prostitutes. Then some young massage therapy students gonna get a shock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Asking for sex is/is not sexual harassmentEspecially since the job is already "rubbing a naked body." Medicine involves naked bodies, but I guess doctors are paid enough they don't have incentive to provide a happy ending with their prostate exam. This isn't really a debate. Massage parlors can be fronts for brothels where prostitution is illegal, so there is a skeevy kind of expectation that goes along with it. This was my understanding, but according to the article posted in the OP, a trainee ran out crying. I don't work in the indust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Asking for sex is/is not sexual harassmentAccording to the article, yes, but not everyone does. Also, it's sometimes the masseuse themselves that decide to prostitute, without the establishment even knowing about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you experience street harassment?Yeah, that's where I think tone matters. There is a boisterous tone that implies 'omg tits, I like titties!' and a more aggressive/sarcastic tone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Do you experience street harassment?But why say something affectionate in an angry voice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you experience street harassment?I don't really see it as discrimination in the usual sense, more so doing it to people that they're sure they can win a fight against. I imagine groups of guys could target a lone guy. "Doesn't matter who it is, as long as they can't bash us." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you experience street harassment?Thanks for the reply, exactly what I was asking. Mind you, I'm only considering the aggressive type cat call which purpose is to make someone feel uncomfortable for lulz. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you experience street harassment?Yeah, that's why I mentioned the guys do this when they're at clear advantage. Him and his mates, a car, element of suprise vs me walking alone with no witness. I don't know if its a gender thing or not, hence the question. I actually think guys would cop more threats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Do you experience street harassment?Thanks, that's exactly what I was asking about. I don't expect guys to get calls of 'hey, jump in my car bitch" but different words said in the same tone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: Do you experience street harassment?You enjoy it even if it's said in the "hey wassup faggot" tone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 03:52 PM |
| 0 | In the midst of my first argument as a RPW, I need the wisdom of this community.Here's what Id do: Put extra effort in to be as agreeable as you can ( I Believe You are here aldeady!). This means assume he is not being combative and there are other explanations, such as a misunderstanding. Monitor your feelings to check when you're getting irritated, this is a signal to start spinning non combative explanations for his behaviour, than react. For example, the shrew busniess. Why we he react like that? Maybe in his experience people bullied him with pretentiousnes. And instea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/16 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do men push for, encourage or even ‘demand’ early or casual sex only to later demonize or punish women for giving in?Does it actually happen like that? I thought it was two differnt types of guys - the ones doing the complaining are different from the guys getting the sex. And the guys getting the sex are just fuckzoning. She was never LTR material in the first place but still okay to have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/16 11:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The mainstream (and women) are beginning to accept RP "truths"I neither agree or disagree. It really depends on how we define red pill truths are and what is feminism. For example I believe traditional gender roles (red pill truths?) describe women and men on average, they may not necessarily apply to the individual. Lets take "women don't like responsibility", does this mean mean women should not be allowed to be neurosurgeons? What about that one woman who thrives on responsibility? But on the other hand, we shouldn't be surprised that there is a pay gap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/16 04:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Saying a women who got drunk around strangers and raped was practicing poor judgement is not victim blaming and is good. Same goes for a woman who distributes nude selfies to unknown men.Now, back to the point of intentions. While bad judgment and responsibility may overlap, they are not the same thing. A woman is not responsible for sexual assault if she is drunk around strangers. This is probably why we have laws - to safeguard us from people who's interest is to commit the crime. if I leave wallets in a car people who really could use that money, it's going to be difficult to resist not taking it. It's nice to be considerate of them and hide your valuables to lower the tempta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/16 03:41 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Saying a women who got drunk around strangers and raped was practicing poor judgement is not victim blaming and is good. Same goes for a woman who distributes nude selfies to unknown men.I guess it depends on what you really mean when you say bad judgement. Firstly... The line of bad judgement is subjective Sure, both of these things are bad judgement. You're doing something risky for fun, so anything like that is all bad judgement. The line (i.e. how risky something is considered) is based on subjective experience. For example, I have walked from the train station to my car, which is parked in a deserted factory area 10 min away, for several years as a young woman. While doing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/16 03:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If feminists claim that men are not entitled to sex from women, they cannot also believe women are entitled to emotional support and care from men.Agree with the topic of the CMV, but disagree with what the OP has written about it, because the arguments do not support the premise in the title. The sentences before the first quote is Don't say or act like you are serious about someone, make out with them, and then avoid them. Can I say this clearly enough? This is important as it changes the meaning of that quote significantly. This is about avoiding being deceptive with your intentions, such as scoring one nighters out of people wanting a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Women who wear tight/revealing clothing shouldn't get upset when men oggle them.The problem lies with what is classified as ‘tight/revealing clothing’ that should be acceptable to ogle. This video is a parody on the ’10 hours walking around new York’ showing a woman with a hijab. But their point still stands - men will ogle that hourglass shape, so basically need a hijab to hide that. As femininity itself is sexualized, it’s not easy to look feminine while staying in style. Sweatpants and loose Ts are unfeminine. Showing off part of that hourglass shape is intrinsic to fema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Would all women cheat on their boyfriends/husbands with Chad if they could get away with it?I could probably do it and get away with it, if we don't count my own guilt making me confess it. I don't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 08:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexBecause of empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why is it considered victim blaming to suggest women can take certain precautions to lower the likely-hood that they get raped?Some of the problem is those precautions don't really work. In my experience, I'd give this rape prevention advice: Don't be young. After puberty, the younger you are, the greater the risk for assault. Reduce this by attempting to look fat, masculine and older. Why not masculine and young? Boys are at high risk for sexual assault too. Don't be shy and bashful, especially about sex. Perps are attracted to that. In fact, be sexually aggressive in public to reduce your chances. Don't be socially aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/16 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?That's because it's these traits combined that make someone a creep, not one alone. A random little kid is pushing my boundaries, so what? If someone without any power does creepy stuff, it doesn't matter because they can't act on it, so it's not really creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Is sex actually easy for all women to get, or just high smv onesIf you think 'I really can't stand them, they're nasty but doesn't matter had sex' there is a good chance you're using them for sex. But if you think 'wow hot, I scored tonight' it's more likely you're having a ONS and not using them. How they feel is a different story as intentions can be misread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 03:23 PM |
| 3 | "More men have weird fetishes than women" Do you agree or disagree with this statement?I am not convinced vaginal excitement is the parallel of guys getting hard. I wonder why they don't measure clit engorgement. I'd think that's closer to subjective arousal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 03:12 PM |
| 7 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?He doesn't seem the slightest bit uncomfortable about approaching even though he's a stranger. But it's not that he's confident, he gives off this vibe like I'm not really a person, so it doesn't count as social interaction. He pushes boundaries. Whatever I don't want, he wants it. Therefore creepiness is subjective and is based on my own personal (lack of) desires. Begins to feel like one of those pushy charity collectors near train stations. Ignores indicators of disinterest. Gets creepy when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 02:52 PM |
| -2 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?Typically you have to be unattractive to be creepy. But being unattractive doesn't make you creepy. Like sexual harassment is unwanted advances without backing off ASAP. If a random stranger did that, it would be creepy. But if my boyfriend behaved in the exact same way, it would be hot. And even if his intentions (unknown to me) were to creep, I wouldn't find out because I accept the sexual advance, so he doesn't get a chance to harass. However if I did find out about his intention (eg to delib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 02:18 PM |
| 2 | The Coxswain Post revisited. Submitting to a new partner: How much, how soon? Pt. 1Submitting, in this case, is not to simply say 'fine, lets do it your way' in a passive aggressive manner. The early stages are to see if core values line up, because if they do, it's easier to trust your partner. Your partner should care for you, otherwise you can be taken advantage of. It seems the OPs boyfriend has this inflexible idea that the OP is at risk of cheating (or at least from her view point!) at rowing. The OPs job wpuld be to understand why he feels that way. Once you understand,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/16 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How much do you think men care about how good the sex is for women?I think it depends on how much the woman is attracted to the guy and how much she thinks he is attracted to her. It seems to be when there is a huge spark, you don't have to put much thought into it, you just do what feels good and it works out. I envisage a bad lay to happen if I myself were ambivilent on the attraction but under the impression the guy is attracted to me. But turns out nope, he actually thinks im ugly but 'needs to get laid, no one else said yes, so he's pounding away with a ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/16 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD: Is bad sex better than no sex?Depends what you mean by 'bad sex' as there is boring and there is uncomfortable. Boring is not necessarily a big deal - the risk with a submissive is it ends up boring. Responsibility on me if I can't make it fun somehow. Risk with a dominant is they can make it painful emotionally. If I knew the outcome, no sex is preferable to both (ie in hindsight) but chancing it, I'd rather chance boring sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/16 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do Bluepill and Feminists argue that sex is a collaborative process between men and women?I don't know what kind of biology 101 you're taking. Any genetically inheritable trait that exists in men will also exist in women, but with a vastly reduced prevalence. This doesn't make sense, because it sounds like you're saying anything that's genetically heritable men will get more than women. We do have 22 other pairs of chromosomes to also contain heritable information. If you're talking x and y traits, this is specifically called 'x-linked recessive inheritance'. You are correct there. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/16 07:25 AM |
| 2 | CMV: the success of obese women with healthy men on Tinder disproves the common Bluepill meme that incels have excessively high standards for sex partners.They mind. For the right man, they'll take that risk and work not to get pumped and dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/16 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Is this woman's experience standard? Article: "I'm Fat and I Have Sex with Hot Strangers"I think so, especially online. No matter how ugly, I think there are plenty of guys willing to have casual sex with you. The hard part is finding those guys and making sure they're safe. Anxiety = no sex. The catch? The majority of women don't want casual sex. For the average woman, getting the ol' 'pump and dump is a terrible experience but that average man would probably be happy with that, unless he happened to fall in love with a stranger. Only if he pays. The women that do want casual sex a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/16 01:20 PM |
| 1 | What about emotional connection in all this?Sorry, I don't know myself which is why I asked. I think I do know, just can't explain it so that's a bit useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/16 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: would you have sex with a hot guy that you disliked?I'd think they're subconsciously about getting her preggers before other guys in the guise of her pleasure. Women often talk about how dick size doesn't matter to them but these guys listen to the one size queen, and every other guy talking about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: would you have sex with a hot guy that you disliked?Women love famous guys. Also statistically more likely to fall in love with someone you know about I wonder how many love letters a female spree or serial killer would get. Aileen? Brenda? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: would you have sex with a hot guy that you disliked?If I inherently distike someone, that makes them sexually unattractive. There is no 'lol, what a creeper, but I'd fuck him anyway lol'. Now if it's a person that's disliked by many people around me and/or have cold personalities, they might actually still be attractive. I don't hate anyone for the traits described above until it gets personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 01:31 AM |
| 3 | maybe the progressive alienation between men and women isn't that bad if sexbots will be a thingI thought about that and I assume sex bots would be expensive as a startup cost. The incel example I had in mind are those who just want to lose their virginity for starters and can afford a hooker once or twice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/16 10:51 PM |
| 2 | maybe the progressive alienation between men and women isn't that bad if sexbots will be a thingI'm actually curious what would happen and if its sufficient. And who would it help? One could say porn and wanking (or using a fleshlight, better than being an incel. A realistic looking/physically feeling sexbot would be better than a fleshlight. But there are hookers, and many incels still reject that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/16 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: An incel-curing pussy fairy posted on r/confessions. What're your thoughts, red pills, MGTOWs, and incels?I wonder who is doing the downvoting on the comments? I guess the 'omg I'd give anything even to be pumped and dumped' incels are a vocal minority. But I do agree, lack of communication was the problem, its easy for her to say she's after casual sex and see what happens from there. But yeah, just here to read the comments from her 'demographic'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/16 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Can we agree that the female alternative to incel is ‘involuntarily single’?Huh? I think we're arguing completely different points lol. I'm not arguing about how easy an incel female could get sex or not. Im actually talking about how as a woman, (incel or not) how difficult it is to have sex with a male incel. The point about 'suddenly everyone is a desperate virgin' means most men that reply to such a personal make themselves sound like desperate virgins just to get laid, so its hard to tell who is a 'true' incel or not from the replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/15 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Can we agree that the female alternative to incel is ‘involuntarily single’?This is about meeting someone from the FA sub specifically asnwering the question of why aren't the females on that sub asking out the males. Now about finding an incel in geographical proximity - this is not actually as easy as it sounds. Sure it's easy to find a guy with low standards and in that case, specifically targetting incels is simply narrowing your market. Finding a shy incel is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Step one is to identify the incel. Post 'looking for desperate vir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/15 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Can we agree that the female alternative to incel is ‘involuntarily single’?Geographical location - that's even if the info is given in comenting history. Not many aussies on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/15 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it misogynist for men to want to give women sexual pleasure?That example does not back up TRP's point about women needing to be led to be stimulated. To be fair, neither does it reject the point. I'd suggest you are correct about these men not being able to read her body language - but what's that got to do with 'being so caring' and the rest of it? Sounds like they are ignoring signs of unarousal and also the verbal info aswell. This seems to support what's written in the article if anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 11:03 PM |
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