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| 79 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction? | Inner Game | MettaKaruna100 | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 03:03 AM |
| 58 | 31 and never had a girlfriend. Getting into game again. | Fundamentals | MettaKaruna100 | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 02:18 PM |
| 17 | Guys who have gotten addicted to cold approaching women tell us your story? | Inner Game | MettaKaruna100 | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 06:35 AM |
| 15 | Seeing naturals self-amuse vs guys who aren’t very good with women | Inner Game | MettaKaruna100 | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 09:03 PM |
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| 1 | Seeing naturals self-amuse vs guys who aren’t very good with womenI never read Mystery's book these are just my observations. Push/ Pull is a known pick up technique. But you also will do it naturally when you are in a fun mood Besides push/ pull. Everything else on this list I realized through my observations. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Seeing naturals self-amuse vs guys who aren’t very good with womenWether or not these guys are aware of frame doesn't change the fact that they're in their own frame. It doesn’t hurt to be aware of it either. There are also some patterns to how naturals communicate with women when you see it enough. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?How long did it take you to go from sucking until you started to pull a lot of girls? What fueled you despite getting badly rejected in nightclubs? | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | RSD instructors ranked from Best to WorstWhy didn't he? | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 02:44 PM |
| 1 | RSD instructors ranked from Best to WorstManwhore was great. Not sure why he never put out a course | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Love it. How were you balancing work and going out meeting women evee single day? I'm assuming you were in nightclubs to until the wee hours of the morning | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Field report 5 (approaches 25-31)Oh I thought you were doing 20 - 30 approaches based on the numbers you have there | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 06:24 AM |
| -1 | Field report 5 (approaches 25-31)Wow you are really out there. How many approaches are you doing a day? | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else’s mood goes down when you see other guys approaching?No I like to see it. It reminds me of how normal it is to approach women | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 10:38 PM |
| 4 | Turth hurtsI've met a lotta naturals who learned to put themselves out there at a young age | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?You don't have enough karma for me to DM you. Are you good looking by societies standards? Can you expand further on your point | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Is detachment a very powerful seduction technique ?When it comes being buyer its hard to pretend that's what you are when its not you. The girls see right through you or they just don't care. So I'm not sure how to do it. Is being the buyer something you do or something you are? I've had times when the girl acts as if I'm chasing and I'm like hmm what did I do to make her think that. I may just need to approach a lot more and pay attention to what I'm doing. It's hard for me to get girls to qualify themselves. They just don't do it | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 03:42 PM |
| 7 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?But how did you get to this point | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 05:19 AM |
| 12 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?This is a good analogy. I've met guys who got no early wins but were just still obsessed and were winning in the game years later. It seems you gotta just really want it and talk to massive amounts of girls and know you can get it despite any negative emotional experiences you may be having in the process. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?So essentially when you're on you feel bad if you don't approach | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?What do you mean you can't turn it off? If you're out and about and you see a girl you're attracted to how do you feel doing the approach? How would you feel if you didn't approach? | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?Honestly right now thinking about it | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 03:49 AM |
| 5 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?How did you get from where you started to becoming addicted? | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Men who are obsessed with seducing women all the time how do you experience seduction?I'm kinda obsessed lol | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Here’s some real actionable advice I think most of you could use.Do not do hard drugs. That is a life mistake but some of the other stuff you said is great. It's ok for people to get mad at you. It's not some crime. You can interrupt people from what they're doing. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have gotten addicted to cold approaching women tell us your story?Good stuff | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have gotten addicted to cold approaching women tell us your story?The question was for guys who are addicted to it. Not for those who aren't. I'm not trying to appeal to anyone's moral authority on what they should or shouldn't do with their lives. This question does not apply to you. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Guys who have gotten addicted to cold approaching women tell us your story?These were the best guys I've seen do it. They would pull multiple times a day. We were wings and they'd leave because they were pulling. I'm not sure why with cold approach we're gonna pretend like deliberate practice is not a thing. Imagine learning how to play an instrument but doing here and randomly throughout the day when you feel like it for a few minutes. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are My Posts Getting RemovedThis is weird because even if you aren't doing pick up. You still have to escalate the interaction anyway regardless of how you met the girl. The thing people don't understand is that even if you try to hide this information. It's not like guys are not going to escalate. They're just going to do so awkwardly an incorrectly. Escalation is natural part of human sexuality. The people trying to hide this information don't understand this. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Why are My Posts Getting RemovedThis is one of the most triggering topics for people on Earth. It's right up there with political views and religion. Picking up girls even in a first world country might even be a more controversial topic than religion | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Does she want you to cold approach her? Well, it does not matter what she secretly wants, what matters is what you want.This is true. You have the right to approach any woman you want. If you rejects you walk away. But it's still your right to approach. | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 11:17 PM |
| -1 | Abysmal results in NYC street / day game, 37yoNot true though. They are open to street approaches | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Help. Girls become upset and feel betrayed when they don't become my girlfriend.Maybe you're coming across as boyfriend material so they expect a relationship. Either way you don't have to give them one if you don't want to. There's a reason fwb don't last super long | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"What is the purpose of this post. It seems you're looking for permission to do what you want. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:41 PM |
| 1 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Why is this? | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:34 PM |
| 2 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..What do you mean by she will always claim that guys never approach her, when in fact she doesn't see any of them as men? Are you saying that guys approach her but in her mind she doesn't even register these guys approaching her as even people so as far as she's concerned she's not even getting approached? | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 07:45 AM |
| 1 | How can I tell if eye contact means interest or is just random?You see what you want you go for it. You don't evaluate wether or not you think she wants you beforehand | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with dating : beeing constantly seen as just a friendHow many approaches were you doing per day in these sessions | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 12:54 AM |
| 1 | 31 and never had a girlfriend. Getting into game again.I've done a lot of Somatic Experiencing and its released so much trauma. Now its not quite as simple as released the trauma and you'll be indistinguishable from someone who's has thousands of reps because there is a skillet to it as well | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Group Game?Wow. How many days were you going out? How many girls were you approaching per day? | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Group Game?How many years did it take for you to get good? How many approaches per day? | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Group Game?How is people who know you chatting you hurting your results . How are guys with significantly lesser game taking girls from you constantly. It seems that's what's happening. People knowing you is a good thing. It should make you seem like a cool guy that knows a lotta people | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 07:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the paradox of investment?How many girls are you generally sleeping with in a week? | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Are there any guys who went from socially awkward in early 20s to a Chad after moving out to a big city?How were you doing night game while having work in the morning? How many approaches would you say you were doing per day? | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 03:34 PM |
| 2 | 31 and never had a girlfriend. Getting into game again.A pattern I've had is usually after about 3 months I give up and run back to my comfort zone of not approaching. And while I was approaching I wasn't taking massive action just a few approaches. Total commitment to change who I am is what I need | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 03:47 AM |
| 5 | 31 and never had a girlfriend. Getting into game again.So you made up for it 80% by getting lots of experiences it seems like you're saying | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 09:37 PM |
| 5 | 31 and never had a girlfriend. Getting into game again.So you're saying going super hard and having lots and lots of experiences in my 30s won't make up for that feeling of missing out in your 20s? | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 03:16 PM |
| 1 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Can you give an example | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What made even dating coaches go a bit bl@ckpilled in recent years?The only reason why I know it can be done without the looks is because I've seen it done by guys who were savages at the game. Going out everyday going super hard | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Is the life of promiscuity worth it?Wow. What are the most common. And can you really not see them beforehand. I myself am not very experienced yet | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Is the life of promiscuity worth it?What made you jaded? | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalWait are you buying the dress or having her try them on for fun? | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Make her shit test you!!Wait you got adventures with beautiful women and people wanting to be your friend and offering you things for free all from having good energy | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Is the only way to get over approach anxiety to just do it?Releasing trauma also helps significantly. You are unaware just how traumatized you are. Try Somatic Experiencing | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Make her shit test you!!Do you get shit tested? I've experienced that when I get her chasing then I don't get shit tested but if not then I get tested | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Make her shit test you!!Where does Todd V state this. I'd like to look into that more | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Is getting hot girls still fun if you’re a late bloomer? Like a virgin in your 20s or older?Tell us more how you learned game in your 40s | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I have never been looked at by womenLearning game is for big cities. In big cities and some tourist destinations you can do 30 approaches or more a day | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 07:08 PM |
| 39 | What I wish I knew before approaching womenMarketing for the Shawty App | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 06:02 PM |
| 16 | Socializing with women is a skill. Master it. Weak social skills CAN OVERRIDE GOOD LOOKS AT TIMES..Weak social skills will not override good looks. This might be a typo | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 06:32 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?The person said how do you know she's not just testing you | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 07:36 AM |
| 4 | What is your opinion on Blackpill/Looks Matter #1Looks are everything in online dating pretty much However, the things I've seen guys do with my very own eyes in cold approach has shocked me and let me know that looks ain't everything. And if you develop yourself you can overcome not being very physically attractive I've seen a 5'3" guy who could pull beautiful tall women. And he could even get them attracted to him too. This guy went out everyday Another guy was also about 5'3" or 5'4" and he took these girls into a suspended reality on appro… | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Who is the best to learn from for game?So it seems like going out everyday and mass approaching 30, 50 even 100 girls is the way to go | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 03:38 PM |
| 1 | why doesn’t self-improvement guarantee attraction?Because you still have to HUNT! | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Who is the best to learn from for game?Damn how'd you get to 100 in a year? | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Who is the best to learn from for game?Julien's game products are still great. The stuff he does now for letting go is good to How do you know how their wives look now? They go through great lengths to keep them tucked away | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Who is the best to learn from for game?Karisma King on YouTube. He's not the best at marketing his business like some others but his game knowledge is superior to almost any dating coach out there | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Looking for NYC Wingman - Daygame/NightgameWhat do you consider massive action | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 03:47 AM |
| 2 | What is New York City really like today for day/night game (cold hard truth)I wouldn't know about philly | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 10:15 PM |
| 3 | What is New York City really like today for day/night game (cold hard truth)I don't know what near Philly means | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 03:39 PM |
| 9 | What is New York City really like today for day/night game (cold hard truth)The women are not desperate for men here. I'm born and raised here and it is one of the best cities on Earth for game. I haven't been everywhere in the world but many other cities don't have the population and the tourism to be as good It's great even in the winter | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you approach every random attractive woman you see? Why or why not?I read this comment as well as your original comment saying "I have a hard time understanding how quality vs quantity is a confusing concept" There's nothing confusing about it. The reason why I asked is because I've met many guys who go out there to approach women and they've said the same thing to me about quality vs quantity and what I realized is that what they really meant was perceived high probability vs perceived low probability. They'll see a girl who is exactly their type and not appro… | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you approach every random attractive woman you see? Why or why not?What do you mean by quality over quantity in approaching women | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How rejection changed my situation with womenRelease the trauma. Somatic Experiencing is a good way to release the trauma | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Volume solves many problemsThat is true but 1000 in a year is still low volume. That's like 3 girls a day | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Volume solves many problems700 in what time frame? A month? A year? | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Volume solves many problemsEven approaching 1000 girls in a year is really low volume to be honest | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | To which extent you did go to start pulling women , and getting dates , and how longHow does this whole seduction thing work to you? | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 11:34 PM |
| 10 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?Contrary to what these people are saying not having a job will make it easier to get laid since you'll have more time on your hands. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How did you stop blaming yourself for approaching women?You release the trauma. Try somatic experiencing | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 07:25 PM |
| 15 | Male nursesNothing is guaranteed but being a club promoter definitely | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Frame control advice shareWho is the guy? Can you drop the video? | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Wingman ProblemsWhoever approaches first gets to pick the girl they want in the group first And the wing cannot interfere. This is the rule guys generally go by If this rule is broken then you drop them as a wing | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 12:40 AM |
| 2 | How breaking down my own cold approaches with others completely changed my confidenceBakchod friends? | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How breaking down my own cold approaches with others completely changed my confidenceWhat made rejections feel normal | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How long does it take to learn game?How often were you going out? How many girls were you approaching each outing? | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take to learn game?How often were you going out? How many girls were you approaching each outing? | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsDo it. Beware of anyone telling you not to make pursuing women your main focus. There's a stage when learning this where it will be your main focus You wanna make sure you have money tho if you're just gonna quit your job | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone got the RSD Hotseat at home products?Didy you see the masteemind edition or just the regular hotseat at home? | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?Cold approaching women is normal and people meet that way everyday | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Who do you think is the best seduction trainer in the world?Karisma King | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 06:19 PM |
| 8 | is it true that very few guys, men, are naturals with "game" seduction, attraction? did most men need a mentor or help, guidance on this?These are all high quality problems many guys would love to have | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 05:53 AM |
| 0 | Beating myself up for not approaching a girl when she gave me signals to approach her.Read the book Inner Game of Tennis. It may be of great help. Also realized beating yourself up almost never helps you | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 06:12 AM |
| 3 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?Is this speculation or have you experienced this many times over. Not just with a few girls but many? | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 08:47 PM |
| 2 | What do players do differently?I meant in terms of his game and who he is as a man | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What do players do differently?The hard-core gamer what is he like? | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?But in that moment when he's at the bar waiting for the girl what can he do to eliminate the possibility of him being annoyed or pissed off that's shes late, getting stuck in his head, bored, mindlessly scrolling social media etc the list goes on he can socialize with other people at the bar. He doesn't have to its up to him. In those 10 minutes he's not gonna burn his karma or develop radical self love and let's be real men only really transform for money and p*ssy | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?Haha we can agree to disagree. We all move through this world differently. It's kind of a hypothetical question. It could be 10, 20, 25 minutes a no show and now you gotta switch plans. What are you gonna do now Burning your karma not sure what that means. Seems like some inner work needs to be done yes. But you still live in the physical world not just the spiritual. The 2 Truths Doctrine of Bhuddism talks about this Metta :) | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?It doesn't negate the fact that in a social setting you should socialize. You don't want to be needy but if that's where you are you still take action regardless. But how would you eliminate neediness? | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?Telling people not to socialize in a social setting is an interesting take Also the neediness may cause him to chase the girl. Eliminating the collaborative frame that he should be coming from. However this varies from person to person | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?He can socialize with other girls. Are you saying he needs to not socialize with other women or people because the girl is running late? He has to just stand there and wait for her? By talking to other girls he'll be in a more social mood by the time she arrives He'll feel less needy because neediness can arise when you are waiting around like that doing nothing but waiting for a girl. Also the logical mind comes forth which isnt sexy He wont be annoyed at her late arrival. As I said before he'l… | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?Go ahead and socialize. Do the approach. Seriously tho! And if she walks in and sees you standing there waiting vs talking to other girls. It will only help you if she sees you talking to other girls | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Nightclub Guide - All Important Concepts Explained For A Successful Night.The things you say and the articles you write sound like something that Leo Gura would say. Are you familiar with Actualized.org? | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 01:16 AM |
| 6 | I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read ModelsDoes he mention choosing signals in the book? | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Nightclub Guide - All Important Concepts Explained For A Successful Night.Yes violence is done by mostly males Some of these things here like hate, anger, cheating, lying disrespect and gaslighting can be done by both genders. What to you makes them masculine? Also what makes keeping track of your sexual partners toxic masculinity? This is something both men and women do. With FWB do you think dating multiple people is toxic? Do you think women don't want FWB and only relationships? Again it's something both men and women do. Women more often than men date multiple pe… | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Nightclub Guide - All Important Concepts Explained For A Successful Night.Wow you wrote an article! I'll read that This might sound like a silly question but what exactly would you consider to be toxic masculinity? | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Nightclub Guide - All Important Concepts Explained For A Successful Night.What have you done to develop the masculinity and the femininity? | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Nightclub Guide - All Important Concepts Explained For A Successful Night.Can you explain this in more detail it sounds interesting but I don't understand: Integrating your feminine side is a long term solution of consistently getting the friends to trust you. In the masculine world today sometimes I can out-feminine girls if they dont take the time to develop their own femininity. Emotionally I feel gender neutral, because spiritually I have "let go" the attachments of a majority of gender constructs. This makes me feel like a trustworthy man. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 04:18 AM |
| 2 | What is too nice? Or what’s the difference between a nice guy and regular hood dudeYou posted this question in the wrong forum to be honest | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Can You forgive a Cheater?This makes sense to me why do you disagree? | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Who are the big guys making content nowadays?Karisma King He's actually the best and he was affiliate d with RSD back in the day | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Your looks aren't the problem. You do look a little autistic in the photo though. Maybe you are or just lacking in social skills which will be an issue for you | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?How has game effected your career? | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?How did you do it. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 04:11 PM |
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