MeursaultLives77 Archive

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-1	A Man's Experience Of Falling In Love Sounds like the symptoms of an overactive imagination. Love is hell because you don't want it to be a drug, nor just another slice of reality. There has to be a balance involved. Nowadays, the balance is utterly out of whack, and there's very little that individual opinion can do to help shift the balance towards a more agreeable state. So honestly, I just stay the hell away from love as best I can. Sure, it hits me every now and again - sometimes I wonder if I'll ever get over the weird little …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 05:30 PM
2	Cuddle Buddies: Woke, Broke, or Joke? Ha, probably! I blame Notes From Underground for that problem, though. Actually, I feel more confident today than I have in five years. Turns out I should have been smoking weed and listening to friggin - Panda Bear all the time than getting drunk and listening to Joy Division all the time. It's just odd that after having gotten rid of anxiety and sadness to a certain extent, desire for humanity - in terms of intimacy or sexuality - hasn't come back with it. And I can't say I'm particularly incl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/18 10:14 PM
1	Cuddle Buddies: Woke, Broke, or Joke? I don't think it's that. You know how some women are referred to as "ice queens" for being completely inaccessible, whether it's on a sexual or intimate level? I think I'm the male equivalent. I used to be better about that sort of thing in my early 20s, but I'm almost 30 now and I haven't been a situation where I could cuddle up with someone, let alone do anything else, in over five years. It's really difficult to imagine the scenario where I'm involved, which tells me that on some level, human…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/18 07:56 PM
1	Cuddle Buddies: Woke, Broke, or Joke? As much as I think that cuddling is a great tool for maintaining physical and mental health, I could not see myself in that kind of relationship with someone. Why? I honestly don't know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/18 07:43 PM
1	Mid 30s men. Are your other male peers all going through the same relationship problems? I'd argue it doesn't work as well as it used to even if there is something behind it. The world offers alternatives to traditionalism, whether it means to or not. Traditionalist men expect that their will, as it is directed towards the kind of stability they view as acceptable, to override the desire for something new that's felt by other people. It could work, provided that their will is imposed upon what other people feel whenever they see an alternative. But men's ability to do that has been …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/18 06:53 PM
0	Mid 30s men. Are your other male peers all going through the same relationship problems? These men made a wager and they lost. Nothing else to it. Happiness, especially in a traditional lifestyle such as the ones your co-workers subscribe to, is only temporary. They were fools enough to think that their efforts can keep everything together, but the world - whether it includes other people or not - makes it a point to prove that a man's effort is never enough. If men these days are angry, it's because they were told that their will would triumph over their world. Whether it leads to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/18 05:13 PM
2	Having higher standards as you get older isn’t a bad thing. In fact, that’s what should happen. There's too much focus on parenthood in this analysis. I think you're right in the general sense - having higher standards as you get older is only natural, because when you get older, you don't have the time or the energy to deal with stupid shit no more. But the need to save your energy for life situations that truly matter is really the motivating factor for seeking better partners. Determining who and who is not a good partner - based on parenting skills that you won't get until you're a par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/18 02:26 PM
1	What would you say is the worst dating advice YOU have been told and why? I was told to "FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY" by some random guy with sunglasses and a goatee who popped up out of nowhere in a video I was watching once. Other than that, I've never been given dating advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/18 09:11 PM
1	Q4All: Do You Consider Yourself Fun to Be Around? I don't have a partner and I don't think I ever will at this rate. Not because I'm a dipshit BPer, because fuck that. It's because - I dunno, look at my flair and you'll get it. As for my friends - well, we're all culture freaks, so we like to get drunk or stoned and introduce what's tickling our giblets to each other. I played this pretty cool game with them called Moon Hunters a while ago, that was dope. I'm obsessed with Panda Bear at the moment, so I'm either playing his three latester recor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/18 11:26 PM
1	Q4ALL: Are healthy/unhealthy lifestyles even compatible? Certainly, contrary lifestyles aren't really compatible. But I think it's equally a disaster when someone who's a health nut demands that the other conforms completely to their lifestyle just to make them feel better. 24 mile hikes and 30-40 mile bike rides seem ridiculous to people who aren't willing to make that a goal worth going for. I love hiking - it's been a part of my life since I was 6 years old - but GOD DAMN. Tone it down a bit or I'm bouncing without much regret in that decision.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 07:13 PM
7	The reason why most women and blue pill men hate TRP Women want men who just "get it". Yeah - it's probably true, because they go through so much training over so much time to achieve - what, exactly? It's an mandated trial-by-fire for many girls, the process of digging real deep into the male psyche to understand what they're all about. Men don't really have that socialization process available, because many boys are actively discouraged to carry it out. Remember that whole "cooties" nonsense? It begins there. And it just gets worse when you get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 07:06 PM
3	How Often Do Men Avoid Talking to Women From Fear of Rejection Versus Lack of Interest? In general, hard to say. You can't really get a definitive answer by looking at media coverage, because - well - it's media coverage, what else do I need to say about that? Also, I'm not sure if there's studies dedicated to this kind of thing either, because it's got to cover a broad expanse of time in order for it really say anything about the current state of things. For me personally - I don't avoid talking to women if I find something that's worth talking about. Usually, it's a shared intere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 06:55 PM
1	Q4Men: You find out that your girlfriend was ugly 3 years ago. She shows you an old picture of herself and tells you “you wouldn’t have liked me back then, I wasn’t pretty”. How do you react? Additional questions inside. Uh - no. I don't care about sex nowhere NEAR enough to justify that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/18 11:47 PM
2	Q4Men: You find out that your girlfriend was ugly 3 years ago. She shows you an old picture of herself and tells you “you wouldn’t have liked me back then, I wasn’t pretty”. How do you react? Additional questions inside. Answer to the Overall Question: How do you even react to something like that? I probably wouldn't react, because I probably couldn't. I. Bringing that up even once is gaslighting. Granted, it's too a lesser degree than most examples of it, and you got to treat it as such. But the desired effect is to make the person who's contemplating it really believe that they don't like her for who she is, especially if it's a constant topic, as you posited. That's a big problem that needs to be nipped in th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/18 11:42 PM
1	Strangers and flirting I. Anything is cool for me except nightclubs. Those places are legit hellscapes. II. Compared to a coffeeshop or a workplace, yes certainly. For me personally - naaaaaaah, I'm not about that life. III. I find it to be something that gives me full rights to laugh in the faces of those who do it. Aggressively flirtatious people, regardless of sex/gender, often remind me of male peacocks, or that LEMME SMASH video.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/18 04:14 AM
6	Men do not age like wine. This is a dumb argument because of one really interesting reason: SMV is not a fixed currency in terms of youth. As people get older, their ability to determine what is attractive changes on a relative basis. Thus, SMV isn't lowered. Rather, the metrics that determine SMV change, and some people can't adapt. Suggesting otherwise is to suggest that everyone is doomed to pursue younger and younger people as they get older, which is total bullshit. I'm almost 30, and I'm telling you this right now …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/18 10:31 PM
3	Q4All: If you are casually sleeping with a woman... Probably not, because I'm not going to waste my time perpetuating and maintaining an uneven power dynamic - such as a relationship where one party's feelings are considerably less strong that the other. It's not fair to anyone in the long run, so why be mendacious about it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/18 07:05 PM
5	CMV: If you can't attract a woman, you are, by dictionary definition, sterile. Citation needed, bro. What dictionary are you using?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/18 06:33 PM
1	Q4M: would you date an unstable, broke hot girl? I'm a man, and I'm broke, not in a stable place in terms of career, and kind of all over the place. Nobody's ever tried to tie me down, save me from myself, or even express remote interest in me romantically or sexually. And you what - that's fine. At the end of the day I don't give a fuck. I automatically assume most women in the same position as me have the same attitude, so I don't bother try to go for them either, using the "birds of a feather stick together" kind of argument. For me, there'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/18 06:30 PM
2	So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist? One of the most important tenets of "sexism" with a capital S is the idea that the oppressed classes are not understood by the class who holds the power. But the visibility of that class's power is ultimately their weakness; oppressed classes understand them far better thanks to how their power is exercised across culture. The reasons why it's difficult to establish a healthy dialogue between the oppressor and the oppressed should be obvious. The ability for people to understand each other is ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/18 07:52 PM
1	Video games are creating an entire generation of incels. If you're going to link together dopamine triggers *with the completion of risk-reward situations that essentially define gaming, then yes, you have a point. However, it would be just as problematic to assume that gaming is the strongest example of that psychological pattern outside of reality. It's certainly the most empirical example, because you can actually see and hear what you're interacting with in the game. But for the daydreamer, music and books compel that person to actually create som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/18 09:37 PM
2	Video games are creating an entire generation of incels. I'd argue certain video games can, will, and have created incels. More and more often, I'm seeing a wave of video game production that makes people spend more money than is necessary to spend, while literally having no worthwhile content within them to justify it. Fortnite - I'm looking at you. However, there is a section of gaming canon that has done wonders in terms of storytelling, critical analysis of society, character development, and art design. There are a few I could name that have expe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/18 05:45 PM
2	Is this redpill/bluepill stuff just peasant philosophy, or does it go deeper? Some would say yes. One of my best friends thinks the debate regarding sexual politics, including the vast amount of identities that come from it, operates within a zeitgeist where societies which are affluent on the surface - decadent, in other words - are falling apart before our eyes in various ways, such as lack of acknowledgement of the spirit by the spirit, increasingly solipsistic worldviews due to decreasing integrative complexity, etc. I will agree to a certain extent. I must admit, I'v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/18 03:17 PM
2	Being friendzoned and fuckzoned are both forms of unrequited love Friendzoning to me is either the establishment of a boundary that isn't made clear to the other by the person who's establishing it or is done by someone who is in a perpetual state of confusion about how they feel. It really depends, as far as who's at fault for the negatives that come from it. But at least with this problem, you can try to figure out where it's coming from and come to a resolution from there. Fuckzoning is a different beast. The boundaries have been fully established by the ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/18 03:03 PM