MewsClues Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective. Learn to be happy by yourself and with yourself, be content with being single before you dive into a relationship. Not only does this give you confidence in yourself, any sort of happiness you generate will be amplified and transferred to your partner when you ARE in a relationship. Don't rely on your partner for all of your social satisfaction (It puts too much pressure on them, you look needy), spend time with friends away from your partner, have hobbies/sports/things to do that don't involve …	/r/seduction	17/10/13 04:32 AM
63	One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective. Playing the long game. Don't text her too much, bro.	/r/seduction	17/10/13 04:23 AM
5	Anyone else here stutter? I have a natural stutter that varies from crippling to unnoticeable, variable on fatigue, stress, sobriety, anxiety, nerves and some days my tongue just refuses to cooperate just because it wants to. When I was a kid I was taught a few techniques; Exaggerated enunciation of words with strong mouth movement will you limit your stutter, and try to start a troublesome syllable on a strong breath outwards. Don't be afraid to pause mid sentence to take a breath. A side note, because my stutter is alm…	/r/seduction	26/04/13 05:52 AM
5	Alpha In Relationships? Wha... I don't even... You OK man?	/r/seduction	08/12/12 09:17 AM
3	I'm going to do it seddit. I'm going to a party tonight all by myself. This may seem like nothing for some of you, but its scary as hell for me. Any tips? Look at their forehead or where their nose meets their brow if you or they feel uncomfortable holding eye contact. It looks the same to the other person but doesn't feel like you're glaring.	/r/seduction	15/09/12 06:45 AM
14	Advice from a friend - For those who are attracted to girls who are attracted to you I knew a girl during my teenage years, we were really good friends; Inseparable. Eventually like many of these stories go, we grew apart and thought I was in love with her. I never pursued her, I didn't have the confidence, and after years of reflecting on the situation I realised I wasn't ever in love with her but rather I was in love with the idea of her. I loved who she was, but it wasn't romantic.	/r/seduction	09/09/12 06:22 AM
3	Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you. Another piece of psychology; Men are mostly rational, logical creatures. Attraction, love and sexuality is far from rational or logical so trying to apply that point of view creates what we have above. I think about this a bit; I'm interested in a girl, she's interested in me so why do we have to go through the song and dance to get together? It makes no logical sense, but I roll with it.	/r/seduction	27/08/12 04:47 AM
10	I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out. Saying 'My intentions aren't to be negative or offensive' doesn't make it true. Your entire post is about telling us that our self improvement, social skills and confidence building aren't honest for whatever reason. I think you should spend more than a few days/weeks, try at least 3-6 months, in this community before you throw out such oBviously erroneous points of view.	/r/seduction	18/08/12 04:03 AM
22	I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past? Depends how you say it; With a cocky smirk and a wry look in your eye is simply playful confidence. If you say it with desperation or flat then yeah, it's creepy.	/r/seduction	14/08/12 08:56 AM
1	Men of Reddit, what type of women are you most attracted to? Pick up is different to dating. What the guy is talking about is just having fun, sex and enjoying being (presumably) young. This is a thing that some girls, and some guys, need to realise; Just because we're picking up the girls with a low future value doesn't mean that's the type we're attracted to. Some times, a lot of the times, we want sex and look for the closest source that will do (There's still standards, but we aren't considering how they'd mix in with our family, lifestyle and furnitu…	/r/seduction	27/07/12 09:45 AM
7	Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly well Oh right, but I'm leaving the mistake there for prosterity.	/r/seduction	14/05/12 06:04 AM
2	Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly well I would like to know why my posts were left. I doubt it's for prosperity.	/r/seduction	14/05/12 04:47 AM
6	what do you do when your friend acts like an ass and blows you out of conversation I've been friends with a guy for over 20 years (I'm only 25), but every now and then he'll shoot me down 'for a joke or a laugh'. He did it once and then immediately did it again when I tried to play it off as just a mean-playful joke to the others. The mood died and he walked off, then I did the same. Afterwards I explained to him that it was an incredibly rude thing to do; Friends don't ruin another friends good time, that when I'm out I like to enjoy myself and to roll with the situation. Tre…	/r/seduction	03/05/12 05:04 AM
1	Why 1 minute is all you need: Just a reminder that you always have enough time priest/Druid is hot. This guy.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 09:16 AM
1	Why Women lose the dating game (or: AFgirl?) It's more the point that she over valued what she brought to a relationship and what that would get her in return, turning down males that met 95% of her 'criteria'. It's sort of cold hearted, treating the idea of having a life partner as a business commodity, an acquisition of goods and rejecting the 'faulty' products.	/r/seduction	29/04/12 11:39 AM
1	Why Women lose the dating game (or: AFgirl?) Dating sites skew the market incredibly in the females favour; A real life 6 would easily become an 8 on a dating site. It's just the real life market pushed to the extreme.	/r/seduction	29/04/12 11:36 AM
3	Guys, don't fight being skinny. This goes against a lot of what Seddit teaches; Stop giving a fuck and just go. No ones going to give you shit for wanting to improve yourself.	/r/seduction	17/03/12 03:59 AM
1	Guys, don't fight being skinny. How's the stutter? I have a stutter too. When I was a kid (11-12) I took a 'class' that trained you with effective ways to deal with a stutter. It helped though it didn't kill it completely, it was definitely worth while. The best technique to get over a annoying syllable that I remember is 'hop onto the breath'; Before you start a new sentence make sure to take a huge breath, then forcibly exhale through your mouth and start your sentence. Especially useful when you're angry as it calms you dow…	/r/seduction	17/03/12 03:57 AM
1	Would you date a woman knowing that they're waiting until marriage to have sex? Maybe she'll just lie there like a dead fish? We call that Starfishing.	/r/seduction	01/01/12 01:38 AM
3	How I Beat the Friend Zone It maybe a coincidence, but the 2-hander that Nefarian drops is called Ashkandi... or better known as Asscandy. Very subtle. Well done.	/r/seduction	15/10/11 07:07 AM
1	What Women Want Happiness isn't a permanent state, it's temporary. Like when you achieve a goal or receive a compliment, those moments are all limited. You cannot be happy 100% of the time. If you are, or try to be, then there's something wrong with you and should see a professional. Trying to make a woman happy at any time is no ones responsibility except the individuals; Others can assist, and some do a very good job, but ultimately they cannot be responsible for how someone else feels all the time.	/r/seduction	22/08/11 05:14 AM
2	Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting. I'd like to point out that there's a difference between when a guy find a girl hot and when he finds a girl attractive. Attraction varies, but generally speaking hotness is a universal standard.	/r/seduction	29/07/11 11:03 AM
10	[FR] Unexpected Wingmen You can make almost anything sound exciting by talking about it with passion, involving and giving some way for them to relate. I do it all the time when cooking. Just be careful, it's a fine line to cross into seeming arrogant.	/r/seduction	24/07/11 07:20 AM