MewsashiMeowimoto Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Oh well. It's just you.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/26 08:22 PM
2	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? I work a salaried position now, in criminal law. But if I were in private practice, about $200 an hour is the average for my area- though we see a lot of different billing structures now, offices that do sliding scale and evergreen retainer models, and most of the family law stuff I do now is pro bono. Which is actually where I think people need the most help. That said, looking at price tag isn't necessarily a good way to ascertain the quality of your attorney. Expensive sometimes equals good, …	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 09:24 PM
1	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? I'm not a woman. I'm a man. And I'm neither subjugating men nor championing mothers. Just saying that the bias you're describing doesn't exist, and people often blame having a crappy case on some sort of bias. If you're talking about complete removal of children from either parent, yes, termination of parental rights does need to be predicated upon a substantiated allegation of abuse, typically by DCS/CPS. Which, I should add, doesn't follow from my personal beliefs, but from the statutes in mos…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 09:18 PM
1	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Hey, I'm sure I'll be fine. His kids are the ones I'd be worried about.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 06:07 PM
0	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Well, where I come off judging that guy (and you too, slightly) is by the fact that he posted some faux masculinity nonsense response on a sub that actively denigrates women in a way that comes off as, well, insecure. And if he's a dad who is teaching his kids puffed up and insubstantial machismo rather than real masculinity (which involves not being an insecure reactionary where women are concerned) then he's probably a shitty father. Just an educated guess, given my experience with shitty fath…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 06:07 PM
1	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? My experience isn't the only one that's valid. But my experience spans probably, I'd say, maybe a hundred cases or so, where the experience of most people who feel wronged by family court (who don't receive a detailed explanation of all the factors going into a decision) is usually, hopefully, one case. Which is their own case. And across all of those cases, I: 1.) had the training to know what was going on and 2.) wasn't personally wrapped up in the emotional side of the dispute, which has the …	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 05:58 PM
2	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Given that I'm a dude, and I'm explaining from a position of knowledge of how the legal system actually works, I'm not really sure how I reinforce that idea. Sorry you don't like women, though. I'm sure the feeling is probably mutual.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 05:52 PM
2	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Oh, I see. I was confused before. I thought you were the father here. You're the child. Sorry. That changes a bit of what I was saying. Your testimony and your brother's testimony would be considered pretty heavily, but part of it would come down to your age. If you were 14 or older, then barring extreme circumstances you'd mostly get to pick where you went. 7-14 gets some weight, under 7 less, because kids that age can be coached or don't necessarily have a good idea of what the best choice wou…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 03:49 AM
1	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Referencing a supporting reason or rationale could be different from stating a dispositive rationale. The legal standard is, in I believe every US jurisdiction, the best interest of the child in common. So a judge issuing a written opinion would need to frame their decision according to that standard, even if it also referenced other reasons. BPD probably isn't serious enough to be dispositive unless it results in incidents harmful to the children that are also documented. Were you able to enter…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 03:21 AM
1	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Was there a written decision that referenced the mental illness, what sort of mental illness was it and how did you introduce evidence of it? What I mostly see here is people who likely had cases not go their way for lots of various reasons, that either may or may not have been fully explained to them, who attribute their outcome to bias. I should add, my parents got divorced when I was young and my mom, who was really shitty, got primary custody, while my dad was awesome and worked his butt off…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 02:38 AM
-14	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Not really. Or, at least, not because they're men.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 02:31 AM
-8	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Saying stuff like that, I'm sure you're a great dad.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 02:31 AM
-8	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? I moved to criminal law, for reasons that had nothing to do with my opinions. And yeah, you sort of tend to reinforce the idea that Father's Rights groups are made of assholes.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 02:30 AM
3	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Testimony of a guy and his brother might not be as persuasive as you think it ought to be, absent substantiated allegations of abuse like something from a DCS investigation or a more "neutral" witness like a teacher, counselor, something along those lines. Abuse is hard to tease out, especially with kids too young to do an effective in camera. I have no doubt that there are particular judges biased against fathers. But there are also some biased against mothers. And, on balance, about 90% of ful…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/03/17 02:29 AM
-30	What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad? Ugh. I didn't know this sub existed until today. I've practiced family law, and there really isn't a bias against fathers, at least where I practice. I would hazard to say for people here who believe that they experienced some unfair decision in family court, if you're the kind of dude who tends to post to subs like this one, the reason that you got a bad ruling or outcome probably isn't because the judge was biased against you.	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/03/17 11:42 PM