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I was in the same boat as you, but once I started hitting the gym hard my stock went up 100%
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:55 PM
1

Women randomly say "ewww" and "no" when they see you, even when you don't talk to them?
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:51 PM
2

Today I was in like at chipotle, and I witnessed this guy tell this really cute girl that he liked her sneakers, she was so receptive to the compliment and they actually got to talking. Something as simple as that can go a long way.
/r/seduction20/04/21 11:04 PM
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I don't like this idea, just seems to mechanical and non organic. I understand your theory, but this isn't the way. Also what if they never sustained and injury? I feel like you'll get a lot of "no" or women will not want to answer any "questionnaire" due to being busy at uni.
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:00 PM
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....No
/r/seduction24/03/21 12:19 PM
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Give us an idea of what's been going wrong
/r/seduction11/03/21 02:40 PM
1

You want to eliminate those thoughts. So when you get the fake thought that you're ugly, challenge that thought, say but I'm not ugly. Repeat this EVERYTIME you get that thought. You will eventually train yourself to eliminate it. Now look up gym memberships and eating healthy lifestyle. Have fun!
/r/seduction27/02/21 02:35 PM
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Sounds like you need to work on your confidence. First step is to stop calling your self ugly. There is plenty of things you can do to up your self esteem, start working out, eat healthy. Find a new hairstyle, and up your wardrobe. But ultimately all of things don't matter if first, you don't fix your mind state. As of today, be happy in the skin you're in and not consider yourself ugly
/r/seduction27/02/21 01:55 PM
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Pay him no mind, look at his post history, he thinks he is ugly so he's just projecting his low self esteem on to you. You need to work on getting out there and expressing how you feel. Maybe these girls have crushes on you too but because you don't say anything they don't say anything. Good luck and remember, confidence is key!
/r/seduction06/02/21 11:51 AM
3

I don't know if this is satire or you're being serious, either way between this and your entire post history you're toxic and immature as hell
/r/seduction05/12/20 03:32 PM
1

Good for you man
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:50 PM
1

So they aren't saying you can't do it, they are saying it won't happen if you don't do anything about it, that's a big difference. Make the change and do something, start by doing little things like having more convos with strangers and work your way up
/r/seduction04/10/20 08:48 PM
1

You need to work on self esteem. Did your parents and friends REALLY tell you that you can't get anywhere with anyone? Maybe you took what they said out of context or misunderstood it? And who told you from how you look you won't be able to? Are people actually telling you these things?
/r/seduction04/10/20 06:36 PM
1

Rip the band-aid off!
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:30 PM
1

Some women (most I've met) are not comfortable with strangers having access to their social media, there you see pictures of her family, her friends, her personal life and that can be something private for them. And it's understandable. I would quit the social media asking and outright ask for the number. The proof is in the pudding, you have not been having success with FB. Switch it up now.
/r/seduction04/09/20 06:56 PM
1

Adding emojis will just solidify your passive aggressiveness.
/r/seduction02/09/20 01:30 PM
1

Do not call her out, you will look like a needy individual. Move on
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:51 PM
1

When she goes on her non-stop talking BS. You say "Hey, Shut up" like you are literally tired of listening to her. Then look at her lips. Grab her head and pull her to kiss. And then should he text her after the sexual battery charge?
/r/seduction31/08/20 07:29 PM
1

You are overthinking, you got the number. Don't worry about how you got it, now think about how you're going to use it 😉
/r/seduction27/08/20 01:45 PM
1

Please do not mention this to her. At least not so early
/r/seduction27/08/20 01:43 PM
2

Save your money and your time, the next message you send to her should be you canceling the "outing" (can't call it a date, she literally said you're just friends). I hope you have some dignity in yourself and do not let this girl play you
/r/seduction16/08/20 07:51 PM
1

Spot on, I know a lot of black girls who love the bald look
/r/seduction08/08/20 02:56 PM
2

Lifting was a game changer on dating for me
/r/seduction08/08/20 02:46 AM
3

Just simply hit her with the ok and keep it moving. How did you ask her? Did you literally say "Netflix and chill"?
/r/seduction30/07/20 08:36 PM
1

Curious to know what you said to attempt to turn the convo sexual. She changed the subject probably because it was in person and she was super shy and uncomfortable to talk about it at that point
/r/seduction26/07/20 11:34 PM
1

Try our time https://www.ourtime.com/?sid=124&afid=GGN1661217130301mob&st=our%20time%20dating&ds=&stype=std&cid=440472874544&agn=OT-Dating&cn=g&gclid=Cj0KCQjwo6D4BRDgARIsAA6uN1-i5NmYm5UtM9zmCfiWIq0QT5SYCP3KjR_Pdz6c88Dm8Lbl8sPiMHEaAgSHEALw_wcB Or silver singles https://www.silversingles.com/ Tinder and bumble are no good
/r/seduction11/07/20 02:04 AM
2

Have you tried online dating? There are sites specifically for dating in middle age. Good luck!
/r/seduction09/07/20 06:52 PM
2

Sounds like you want success without even trying buddy. That's not going to work
/r/seduction07/07/20 02:06 PM
1

Have you tried online dating?
/r/seduction07/07/20 11:27 AM
1

Because asking her out in front of her parents won't make the situation any more cringe?
/r/seduction05/07/20 09:33 PM
1

Dude why don't you get her number and ask her that way? Having someone's number usually precedes going on a date
/r/seduction05/07/20 07:25 PM
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No, I, nor anyone else here is able to tell you what's going on through her mind. Have you tried messaging her on tinder since you matched?
/r/seduction05/07/20 07:22 PM
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Where did you meet her? She's probably more interested in someone else at the moment
/r/seduction05/07/20 01:37 AM
2

I've never really had a problem. But it does get a bit costly with the hotel stays
/r/seduction04/07/20 02:08 PM
1

Why go from one social media platform to another? (IG) Just ask for her number and text/talk to her through there. This mysterious thing will more than likely back fire, once September comes you'll still be a stranger to her (if she even wants to meet up with you then) and will probably have someone else she's interested in. Keep in contact with her, build attraction dude. So when September comes she will look forward to seeing you.
/r/seduction02/07/20 09:01 PM
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Lol so pretty much wait till he sees this female he follows on Instagram in real life? And then make a move?
/r/seduction30/06/20 12:51 AM
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It all depends. There have been times where it was organic and just happened, no asking needed. Other times I felt pretty confident it would happen, but there wasn't a clear shot to move in, so I ask. I have a 99% success rate with asking.
/r/seduction28/06/20 04:11 AM
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Welp, you got A LOT of things going against you. The odds are not in your favor. Good luck man
/r/seduction18/06/20 06:03 PM
1

Have you seen the comments you've made in this post?
/r/seduction18/06/20 03:53 PM
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So lemme ask you this, what are you doing with your life? You're 21 which is a young age, are you in school? Working towards a skill? I ask this because at 21 I wasn't doing shit with my life, I wasn't interesting, and I had nothing interesting to talk about. As I got into school at about 22 I was in college up until 29. Through out college I developed some social skills through trial and error (more errors, my game was not good back then) but at least I had something to talk about and I was doi…
/r/seduction18/06/20 02:36 AM
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My thoughts exactly lol.
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:29 AM
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All this Ignoring and leaving on read. Too much games
/r/seduction17/06/20 12:54 AM
1

Holding conversations are like exercises in the gym. You have to build endurance and stamina to do it. The more you do, the easier it gets. The best thing to do is talk to people more often, I mean people you aren't attracted to. This way you can go practice and exposure. Good luck!
/r/seduction17/06/20 12:00 AM
6

Sharing food/drinks is a great sign.
/r/seduction16/06/20 12:42 AM
12

This is actually the best and most accurate response in this thread.
/r/seduction16/06/20 12:09 AM
1

Seesh, that was an unexpected end. Well the whole "kissing playlist" thing is a little weird. You live and you learn, don't do something like that again. I could understand why she may have felt uncomfortable with you putting on a playlist which is meant for kissing, she probably felt pressured and awkward just sitting there listening. At this point you can try to salvage, you can apologize if you've offended her and see how it goes from there. You have nothing to lose at this point. Some women …
/r/seduction14/06/20 02:10 PM
1

You can have regular vanilla sex with someone 1000 times, it still can bother someone they had that same vanilla sex with someone else in the past.
/r/seduction14/06/20 01:21 PM
1

Well you can't compare tinder to IG because IG isn't a dating app. Does your IG present itself as exciting? Like are you in Bali feeding elephants and surfing at the same time? Do you have a lot of followers that makes you seem important? If you are lacking those, unless you're really really incredibly good looking.... it will be difficult.
/r/seduction14/06/20 01:18 PM
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Women are such strange creatures. My theory is she is involved with someone (the guy she's claiming to just has met) and she felt guilty kissing you. Honestly just be yourself Saturday and don't have any expectations, this one seems like a lot of stress that's not worth it
/r/seduction11/06/20 12:31 AM
2

Bro just use your hand in the mean time.
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:25 PM
1

Please do not do this.
/r/seduction04/06/20 01:46 PM
1

I hit the gym, it gave me a lot of confidence and made me feel good about myself. Dating apps is what opened the gate for me. I know you said you've tried it with no luck, but what kind of pictures were you putting up? What was your description?
/r/seduction04/06/20 01:39 PM
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You did the right thing, don't listen to "STD tyler", no time for games. Give her a call tomorrow, talk out the miscommunication you guys had and set a date and stick with it. Just be aware if you cancel again you're done. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/05/20 07:48 PM
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You sound like you're young. Please change your mindset of giving girls attention because they crave it. You're going to get played like a sucker if you don't.
/r/seduction30/05/20 05:56 PM
1

You said you already apologized, why are you asking if you should apologize?
/r/seduction30/05/20 01:44 PM
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Just reply man, stop thinking so deep
/r/seduction23/05/20 01:45 PM
1

Get help man, you have issues. What's the point of all these throwaway accounts ?
/r/seduction23/05/20 01:44 PM
1

How did you "storm on her"? What did you say?
/r/seduction20/05/20 12:52 AM
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My thoughts exactly. You get it.
/r/seduction19/05/20 06:17 PM
2

Haha I did the "watch my stuff" routine too. I actually got her number and we talked for a while, nothing materialized from it, but I remember her asking me "You told me to watch your stuff as a pick up line, didn't you". I did not deny lol
/r/seduction18/05/20 11:08 PM
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Please keep in mind STDs can remain dormant for up to 6+ months without showing. Not saying you have any, but I would consider a repeat test in the future. And like it's already been said, USE A CONDOM.
/r/seduction18/05/20 11:05 PM
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While you may think weed clouds your insecurities, it may be a hindrance on your motivation. Please becareful with that. I know people see weed as harmless, and while it physiologically be harmless, it may be causing harm to your mental by slowing you down and keeping you too mellow when it seems like you're trying to break from your shell
/r/seduction18/05/20 11:04 PM
1

Hit her back up now, say something simple like "Hey, long time no talk, how you been?" And build from there.
/r/seduction18/05/20 11:00 PM
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Lol W T F Man look, ignore that girl. Do NOT take her serious. She has some issues. The more you try to question her and ask her out, the more you're feeding into her ego. Leave her alone and let someone else deal with that baggage.
/r/seduction17/05/20 03:12 PM
3

Ok what did she say after the attempt? That's important to know before anyone can answer you
/r/seduction16/05/20 07:19 PM
3

All part of the game. At least she was upfront with it early. Move on to the next.
/r/seduction16/05/20 12:58 PM
1

You don't need to force a kiss on the first date to avoid the friend zone. It's what you do after the first date. Some girls just don't kiss on the first date, you have to really see how the vibes are during the date before making the attempt.
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:59 AM
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Lol yup, time for me to unsubscribe from this sub
/r/seduction07/05/20 10:34 PM
2

I think we both agree man, just for some reason things got heated. Hope you enjoyed your weekend
/r/seduction03/05/20 02:22 PM
1

I use to make my automobile a hotel on wheels. Find a nice dark spot (obviously be weary of security driving around) I've had some locations I went to growing up. Ahh.. good times.
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:40 AM
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The cap hurt your feelings, so I decided to be nice. Have you ever taken a grammar class? Like does it hurt to throw in one or two periods or commas?
/r/seduction01/05/20 09:31 PM
1

Looks like I hurt your feelings. Don't be so butthurt and emotional from the truth. And also a little punctuation in your paragraphs will make the cringe worthy stuff you write a little easier. Just some advice. For you to think pussy is everything exposes a lot about you.
/r/seduction01/05/20 07:58 PM
1

Ok, where do I begin? First things first, be respectful and do not actually name jobs (such as McDonald's) there are some people who take that job serious, I purposely didn't name a specific job because everyone is different. A non serious job is something someone is doing in the interim, and they don't plan on working their way up, there may be people trying to work their way up at McDonald's. Second, I didn't say DON'T DO IT, I said TREAD LIGHTLY so please don't think you can put me in any gro…
/r/seduction01/05/20 05:56 PM
2

If you have a non serious job, sure to for it. If you're in a serious career I would tread lightly.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:45 PM
2

No need to throw out unnecessary compliments, good on you for the attempt though. keep practicing.
/r/seduction27/04/20 11:29 AM
2

Whoa that's a good twist. Dude I think she's still into you, don't let others tell you that she doesn't want a date or she's doing some type of "test" on you and trying to control thing lol, women are just naturally indecisive, not everything is a freaking "test". Lunch at her place sounds super intimate and if she wasn't into you she wouldn't have suggested that. Good luck!
/r/seduction25/04/20 05:53 PM
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I once had a friend who was interested in a girl who was interested in me. My friend asked not to pursue her, like a good friend, I didn't. My friend ended up doing nothing with her as she was not interested in him. Moral of the story, unless your friend was an actual boyfriend to her (that's different) I say go for it, he just has to understand.
/r/seduction23/04/20 01:57 PM
1

Do you live in a rural area?
/r/seduction23/04/20 01:54 PM
1

You need to watch for signs, does she show interest? Does she respond fast or initiate contact? Does she drop little hints? I think the first step before anything sexual is to take the convo off of Facebook to exchanging numbers, then you can start from there.
/r/seduction18/04/20 03:36 PM
3

She enjoys your attention, but she doesn't seem into you. Stop wasting your time and giving her what she wants. Move on
/r/seduction09/04/20 05:05 PM
4

Maybe having a voice convo? Some people do better with that
/r/seduction04/04/20 05:47 PM
6

Smell good. Give them good sex (sorry it's true). And just be someone they have fun with
/r/seduction04/04/20 04:49 PM
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Basically I don't deal with it. If I notice a person has gone dry I just fall back and return the dryness. At that point the ball is in their court to maintain a convo or we just leave it as that
/r/seduction04/04/20 04:47 PM
1

You're making a lot of assumptions based off my post. As if you can't meet your wife off of dating apps as well. Your passive aggressiveness to this situation seems to stem from something more than just being on dating apps
/r/seduction03/04/20 02:34 PM
1

Lighten up man, dating apps are fun. It's more of a work smarter not harder deal than a "threat to masculinity". I've met and dated plenty of women who I've otherwise would have never ran into to "approach" so it works. People who hate dating apps are people who haven't had success on it (not saying this is your case).
/r/seduction03/04/20 01:43 PM
3

Too much games in that advice, man
/r/seduction28/03/20 02:33 PM
5

Seems like the opposite, you're being too patient with them. Limit a lot of texting until you meet. A lot of women love attention and would text with you until their face is blue with no intentions on meeting you in real life.
/r/seduction26/03/20 02:20 PM
2

Plot twist. The girl could careless about you and your ego and narcissisim is deluding you to think she was remotely interested in you.
/r/seduction22/03/20 12:26 AM
2

I don't understand your concern, unless you told her a bunch of lies, she seems to be into you, so why worry? Being a freshman in college is a pass for being broke, as long as you're motivated they will appreciate you're working on coming up in life.
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:39 PM
1

Don't do it brah
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:36 PM
2

I've always attributed my witty and clever side to growing up watching comedies. I grew up on Seinfeld, Simpsons, everybody loves Raymond, and a wide ton of movies. Basically you learn jokes or a joke style and apply it to situations
/r/seduction15/03/20 03:37 PM
5

Not sure if serious or trolling
/r/seduction12/03/20 12:41 AM
10

2005, at my college library. She was on Myspace and I said "hey, you should add me to your top 10" she looked at me and said "omg remember me?! I was at your uncle's wedding 5 years ago". Turns out she was a distant cousin.
/r/seduction11/03/20 10:51 PM
3

Get help
/r/seduction11/03/20 12:19 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction08/03/20 03:15 PM
2

How did you get needy from that exchange?
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:16 PM
1

Leave it alone, I'm sorry but she doesn't seem interested. Focus on studying and doing well on that test.
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:53 AM
2

This guy is a spam troll in r/advice, and he threatens to kill people.
/r/seduction01/03/20 12:00 AM
1

This guy is a spam troll in r/advice, and he threatens to kill people.
/r/seduction29/02/20 11:10 PM
5

Why over think this? Just say ok and move on
/r/seduction29/02/20 10:46 PM
1

Absolutely, but only if you want to. You are not obligated to return a pic
/r/seduction29/02/20 09:21 PM
3

They are interested in you
/r/seduction29/02/20 09:17 PM
2

Thank you for your input, good to hear this from a woman's perspective :)
/r/seduction27/02/20 08:28 PM
2

When you're sure she's okay with kissing the go for it for sure but if not then it's always okay to ask This! You get it man.
/r/seduction27/02/20 03:50 PM
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Lol crazy right? I total agree, I've had great success (literally 99%) when I asked for a kiss, I've been on the dating scene for almost 20 years and I've had success with women. Yet, some people like the one who told me to be alpha and bite my lips and lick them and then just go for a kiss (same guy who asked a girl if she's autistic as a way of flirting) is more than likely a virgin and is getting upvoted. They are trying way too hard.
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:00 PM
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Pretty much, the other day I suggested to a guy it's ok to ask for a kiss, of course if the moment seems to strike right. I got dogged by someone saying "THAT'S NOT ALPHA BRO, COME ON, YOU GOTTA LICK YOUR LIPS, BITE THEM, WINK 5 TIMES AND GO FOR THE KISS, WOMEN WANTS A MAN TO TAKE CHARGE BRO, THEY WANT AN ALPHA"
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:25 AM
1

What's being achieved by doing this?
/r/seduction26/02/20 01:11 AM
1

First things first, kudos on approaching her and getting the number. Unfortunately she doesn't seem interested, if a woman wants to hang out, she will make her self available. I would move on from this particular one and continue approaching and getting numbers. Good luck!
/r/seduction26/02/20 12:58 AM
1

Can you give some examples of what happened at the party?
/r/seduction23/02/20 02:44 PM
1

2 things wrong about the friends introduction she's doesn't even know you, so how would she possibility introduce you to others? "Hey this is so and so, some guy that I literally just had a convo with for the first time" It is a bit insulting to her because she is probably thinking you're using her to meet her friends I can understand her attitude towards you. But live and learn and keep pushing
/r/seduction23/02/20 02:09 AM
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This^
/r/seduction23/02/20 02:02 AM
5

This should be an easy one, why don't you say "hey since you're leaving soon, how about I take you to one of my favorite (bar, restaurant, etc)" and after the outing head back to the place with her, should be an easy score after a few drinks
/r/seduction22/02/20 03:00 AM
1

As stated, it depends on the situation. If I feel like I can get a kiss on the first date, I'll shoot for it. If at the end of the date I feel neutral and not sure, I won't attempt anything other than a hug and just see how the next few days through contact go and reassess my game plan
/r/seduction22/02/20 02:56 AM
1

How exactly is she ignoring you?
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:55 PM
2

No bro, I totally dig this calling her autistic and licking/biting your own lip thing 😅😅😅 And buy a leech? Lmao are you that stupid that you can't spell?
/r/seduction20/02/20 04:02 AM
2

If you want to cheat this without losing value, tell her she can’t keep eye contact with you (a few weeks ago I asked a girl if she was autistic, obviously jokingly, because she couldn’t maintain eye contact), she will get defensive and say she can stare you down, or you suggest it, and while em looking at her straight in the eyes, bite your bottom lip, lick it, then/or kiss Lmao if you listen to this obvious virgin you're not going to get anywhere 😂 Asking if a girl is autistic and then licking…
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:40 AM
3

While you were leaving out, you should have given her a hug and say "would it be too much to ask for a kiss?" You could have probably made out and backed up into the bedroom. The best way to transition when you're unsure is during the "goodbye". It's a 50/50 but at least you were respectful if you ask for a kiss
/r/seduction19/02/20 01:48 AM
1

That doesn't sound like a bad night tbh. Seems like hoop earrings was into you. Especially her saying she would take you to whatever club. Why didn't you ask the number instead of the IG?
/r/seduction17/02/20 01:17 AM
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So a handjob is doing too much for a sensitive penis. What I would suggest is you pleasure her first via oral or you giving her a handjob. Try to make her orgasm from this activity and believe me, it will take off a lot of pressure from you when you penetrate her. Note not all women can have an orgasm from oral so even if she doesn't, at least buy some time to calm yourself down and still do it just to set the tone. Good luck
/r/seduction15/02/20 07:23 PM
1

Oh ok, a little complicated situation I see. Well I wouldn't put all my energy into her, I would continue holding conversation and getting to know here. Once you get into the college environment, there you will get your true answer with her willingness to meet up. Until then, pursue other women. Good luck
/r/seduction04/02/20 06:19 PM
1

Have you ever asked her on a date?
/r/seduction04/02/20 05:50 PM
2

Dude I don't know what women you're calling but they sound like they are abusing you. You need to stop having so much fear of these "shit tests" and gain confidence. Phone skills are important as a woman or man gets older.
/r/seduction03/02/20 03:02 PM
1

Working out and getting fit has changed my entire life
/r/seduction03/02/20 03:52 AM
1

It's hard to really answer that because I'm not seeing you guys interaction, but has she thrown ANY type of hints of taking it more than friends? Even anything subtle?
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:00 PM
2

I'm not advising for it, but I'm not advising against it. Only thing I'm advising is you tread carefully, you're on uncharted territory there, especially since it's her friend.
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:02 PM
0

Lol you are a toxic POS. Deal with what you have going on in your real life, it's consuming you whole
/r/seduction30/01/20 04:52 PM
1

I just don't want you to force it and end up sounding like an asshole. It's something that comes natural, if you don't feel it, don't force it
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:33 AM
1

If you have to ask, don't do it.
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:37 PM
2

This post gives off weird vibes.
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:29 PM
1

Lmao what a fucking beta, seriously
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:15 PM
1

Lol what a fucking beta
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:14 PM
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It's really not funny tho
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