MiaWallace995 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I have NEVER regretted dropping a man the moment he waves his first red flag. I have ALWAYS regretted giving them a second chance because it’s never just one red flag. Thank you for this post!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 03:54 AM
51	Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke. My ex earns a mediocre income but has his entire family dependent on him due to some bad financial decisions. I never considered this point earlier as i was 'blind in love'. But no. Love doesn't do shit. Financial struggle isnt romantic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/21 11:36 AM
2	The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂 Ooh mai gawd im devastated	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 02:03 AM
190	GOALS 😩❤️ Im Indian and want my indian ladies to wake the fuxk up ;_; enough with the marriage and kids saga	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/21 05:58 AM
33	“Imports” poor wife from developing nation to cook and clean while Usually, even if they're educated (and education doesn't guarantee intellect)...they just seem to accept their abuse as 'normal'. Also divorce is a hugee taboo in India, equivalent to social suicide. That's why we normally see long, crappy and abusive arranged marriages 'thriving'. It's incredibly misogynistic, i just hope my fellow indian women wake up :(.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 10:20 AM
6	Yep... I would drive to my office (40+km everyday, on a scooter) in all black clothing. When i returned at night i would always make sure to look and drive like a man. Always pants, a jacket, shoes and full face helmet. Would never dress in feminine/ethnic clothing (they're already a hassle while driving but, more with creepy ass men staring).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 01:07 PM
3	I just get more and more flabbergasted with what women put themselves through to be in a relationship. I just think it's just so sad they don't have self-respect enough to drop a guy like this. I once had to teach a grown ass 26 yo man how to iron his clothes. Never again. But this is just....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 04:14 AM
2	You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling. Yes, it is a huge scam.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/21 06:02 AM
9	You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling. This is a 💯. Honestly, being with pickmes is incredibly draining. I have a 'friend' who's getting married to a guy via arranged marriage (I'm Indian so its common), she's engaged after 2 months of meeting the guy. Yes, 2 months. I asked isn't 2 months a little LESS to know a guy you're marrying??? She's like yeah we'll get to know each after engagement.... This woman is educated, pursuing chartered accountants but i guess education doesn't reflect intellect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/21 04:43 AM
7	When you’re such a pickme you cook for his female roommates and question how to resolve this Aww does she also hand-feed him like a baby? Ffs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 01:10 PM
16	You should never be financially losing when you're in a relationship. If he expects you to pay his bill, pay for dinner, be the maid, take your damn self out, love. I just started becoming financially 'aware'. I was stupid enough to believe the 'love is enough money doesn't matter' bs. Money is not everything, but it matters! I started noticing financial patterns about my bf and his family, he/they would complain about basic ration costs while 'investing' in cameras and property. Ladies please pay attention to your SO's money habits!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 12:54 PM
3	My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like this No thanks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/20 01:43 AM
7	Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girl Reminds me of an ex-collegue who proposed for marriage because he didn't want an 'arranged marriage with someone he doesn't know' (eventually he did have the arranged marriage). I'm not your ticket to get out of an arranged marriage you pathetic loser.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 12:11 PM
30	Mic drop. 'Man refurbishment program' lool 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/20 03:31 AM
2	Being single is okay! This is beautiful!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/20 03:50 AM
56	That really puts it in perspective Female foeticide definitely is the reason of India's grave gender gap, but we never really had one child policy. These issues are the basis of gender discrimination. Its the horrifying misogynistic mindset and patriarchy which is the root cause, combined with no strict laws and punishments for rapists.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 06:58 AM
130	That really puts it in perspective I read an article on 'why gang rapes are high in India' and most men were commenting 'reasons' like: sex is a taboo in Indian society, sexual deprivation of men, almost everybody is a virgin before marriage blah bluh... Wtf? If you're sex deprived you'll rape someone? What sort of a 'reason' is that?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 03:17 AM
4	A co-worker was let go today because of his actions towards me... Girl first of all, you're NOT responsible, as every other member is saying. He only got fired because of his actions. And yes, never befriend older male colleagues at work. Most are usually predatory and take advantage of young naive women. I personally know women colleagues who were harrased by old creepy managers at work just because they were a little friendly with them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 04:36 PM
11	This honestly is super toxic and I cannot believe all the comments are like, “this is true love ❤️❤️❤️” nah sis. So finally vinod got a delusional gorii ladki (fair girl)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 11:01 AM
15	This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them. Oh dont even go there. Its horrifying to see women being treated as literal slaves. Even more horrifying is women themselves RARELY raise a voice against this, so its perpetuating deeper into men's heads that its okay to treat them like this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 08:15 AM
5	I got married, queens! ❤ Congratulations OP! Beautiful ring 😍	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 04:59 AM
4	50 shades of Indian Patriarchy which I feel is more like the universal patriarchy! These 4 slides will tell you. Link to the entire article is in the comments. Thanks queen! I really hope women celebrate being single and don't see it as 'being forever alone/dying alone' crap. So many women choose/stay with bad partners because they're afraid of being single.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 03:47 AM
10	I politely declined a mans advances and ended up getting followed. Omg girl...inform all your close friends/relatives who live nearby about this incident, and even after this week don't leave the house alone :( praying for your safety x	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 02:50 PM
45	I just want to remember what it took to get here. And that it doesn't end here, we don't sit and say we don't need Feminism anymore. We will always need Feminism, the very rights we enjoy are because of Feminism. Because the women before us paved the way for us. And now we do the same. Everytime i see my pickme relatives/friends trying to justify patriarchy and unfair treatments via 'that's just how it is' i remind them of this statement. So many women fought for our very basic rights, from reproductive to vote/drive/wearing desired clothes...and you cry 'that's just how it is'. Smh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 05:19 PM
42	50 shades of Indian Patriarchy which I feel is more like the universal patriarchy! These 4 slides will tell you. Link to the entire article is in the comments. I'm a childfree indian woman. I have accepted that i might remain single for life (not implying in a bad forever alone way lol). I may like short term dating but marriage is completely off the table as finding a cf indian hvm is next to impossible. Sadly most of my indian girl friends are pickmes succumbing to societal pressure of marriage/kids.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 04:21 PM
4	The child actor in the pictures is 12 year old now, she was around 7-8 when the movie was released. But look at the thousands of men "excited" At her being a beautiful pre-teen because she's a female..... There are a lot more pedophiles than we can guess. Gross gross gross. Uhhh this is disgusting, she's still a child ffs. This was the only salman khan movie i liked, mostly because of this lil girl's acting. Creeps and pedos everywhere :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 02:57 AM
7	Video: In one of the most dangerous countries in the world for women, three courageous Pakistanis—Tabassum Adnan, a former child bride; Saima Sharif, an elite police officer; and Syeda Ghulam Fatima, a labor activist—put their lives on the line in the fight for equality. Damn. Salute to these brave ladies!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 02:49 PM
13	Do it. Gosh, i can relate soo much to this. Before discovering this sub, i thought me wanting a financially stable, ambitious partner was 'gold digging' (sad indeed). I thought its not that bad, i can pull it through...only to realize the red flags after 6 years of relationship. Low self esteem definitely contributed to ignoring the reality, and 'love is all that matters, everything else can be adjusted later' mentality did incredible harm. Ladies, don't ignore the obvious flags. It only becomes harder…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 06:32 AM
2	As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only. Oh definitely lol. Let us be empowered witches living lives on our own terms ☠️😉	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 01:20 PM
3	As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only. Lol. Let's all be happy chudails who don't need man-children :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 06:27 AM
5	As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only. I feel you, girl. They make us feel 'entitled' when asking for their support. We should be happy and accept what we've been 'provided'.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 06:14 PM
3	As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only. No doubt in that. Cultural misogyny has deep roots in Indian society.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 03:03 PM
7	As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only. Yeah sis, man-children are everywhere here. And their entitlement and audacity knows no bounds 🙃 'uh uh marry me I'm a 'nice guy', how dare u reject my fuhmaly'	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 03:01 PM
46	As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only. Definitely agree! The workload goes from mama to wife, the cycle continues. Never falling for this trap, nothing worse than a mama's boy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/20 05:49 PM
120	As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only. I wish Indian moms taught this to their 'raja betas' (princes). My aunt still does A-Z housework for my cousin who's 25, doesn't know how to cook/clean/do basic chores and guess what he's unemployed. I'm 25 as well, i do all the chores and i have a job, but still I'll get 'ooh search a boy for marriage you're already 25'. Smh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/20 05:33 PM
8	If only all the entitled men realised this Girl this is so true. Arranged marriage is 'oppressive' to them. A few weeks later: boi is marrying a 'young educated slim trim girl' which his mummy papa found via shaadi.com or relatives.com.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 03:19 AM
63	If only all the entitled men realised this Im (25F) Indian, and damn this is true. One guy from work whom i met last year asked me for marriage (direct marriage, no dating, no casual stuff). Because he didn't want to 'settle' for arranged marriage. But i eventually declined as i didn't know him that well (he was damn salty, saying i 'rejected him and his nice family'). After a month of this proposal, dude got an arranged marriage fixed by his parents, knows the girl for like 1.5 months. I feel like i dodged a bullet lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 01:28 PM
21	Women have a genuine cause of fear while dating but men, oh men, they're scared that somehow a woman will order all the expensive food and not even wet his D. Damn. I feel sorry for you girl...even i was stalked by a guy whom i rejected. That was over 2 years ago, I still have grave anxiety about that time. Nightmares :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 03:44 PM