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So how do you decide a guy is the one you want to be monogamous with? You have to date casually first (without sex) I would guess. I mean you want to make sure you pick the best guy right?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 04:44 AM
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Okay first, why are you asking what his body count is? That’s not an appropriate question to ask anyone because there is no good answer. If you’re doing this on dates please stop. If they don’t want to be monogamous, they don’t have to be and they will tell you that up front. So if you continue to date them, that’s your bad choice. Also he is not forcing the issue of sex. If he wants sex and you do not, why would he continue dating you when he has other options? You have to decide early on that …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 04:30 AM
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To be honest. He will probably fake it or go with the motions. A good friend of mine and his wife are orthodox. She’s super pious and he is not. But he goes with the motions because he loves his wife. And if that gets him Closer to God maybe that’s what he wanted
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 04:26 AM
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That’s fucking gold. If that’s what a HVM I recant my previous statements.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 04:18 AM
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Ma’am. I’d like for you to call into Kevin Samuels Live Stream and ask him what a HVM is (he actually made that term go mainstream) Many of those qualities are held by average men but the money and network aspect is huge. Without the money or the network of other HVM then the guy is just average and that’s perfectly fine.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 04:14 AM
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That’s the thing. A guy with options will more than likely be dating a few women at a time, playing the field. He will more than likely be up front about it. Ideally you should never know his body count. But if you do, you’ll probably judge him or make him work harder for something that he wants (I.e. sex), but since he is dating multiple girls and has options he probably won’t wait for long. Kinda long winded but knowing a guys body count upfront does you a disservice. And the same is true for …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 04:05 AM
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If a woman is in the top 15% she will not select the bottom 85% of men she will only select the top 15%. For men in the top 15% they will select a woman from varying percentiles. For example. Top female execs don’t marry copy room boys but top male execs will marry a bartender or secret and move her into an accounts payable role at his or a friends company.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 04:01 AM
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So HV is not determined by the opposite sex. It’s determined by what I listed above. I’m facilitating dialogue. My goal is to not disprove my goal is to give a different perspective for the readers of Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:59 AM
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By that definition, a HVW has less options than a HVM. As a woman’s value increases, her pool of options decreases. It’s an inverse relationship. For HVM it’s a direct relationship. This is general, not absolute.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:57 AM
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Honestly, that’s tough. I generally set the standard from the beginning. You don’t call me bro, friend, pal, or fam. I’m your partner, bf, man, etc. If it were me I’d be doing some reflection and wondering how you could make it up or if I even want to continue the relationship. To lead that relationship there are some serious expectations out of the bf (if a guy tried to rob you, he’d probably protect you. etc). He probably feels betrayed so give him time and space. This isn’t a small thing. It’…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:53 AM
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That’s fair. But on a balance of probabilities, I don’t think a mid 30s HVM would have a dry spell spanning multiple years.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:48 AM
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First, I’d point out that HV is a fairly new term, since all the other terms (alpha male) have bad connotations. Fact of the matter is, to be high value you need a network of other high value men. A network of 100k at least. Other men want to be like you and women want to be with you. I know quite a good deal about RPW. I know quite a good deal about intersexual dynamics as well. Being a “player” and HV aren’t mutually exclusive. Like I said, your HV male friends probably have a few girls that t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:47 AM
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What do you mean by HVW? By default an average woman will always have more options than an average man.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:40 AM
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It’s my belief that most guys can’t be friends with women. That primal drive within us is just too strong. From the day he met you, he probably wanted more and just stick around until he got the courage to make a move. You’ve probably missed a lot of signals that he likes you or you just knowingly ignored them. But I promise you, they were there.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:23 AM
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On the other side, if he values himself and the girl is flaky he may just bounce. If he’s a good dude more than likely he has options.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:20 AM
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Whoa buddy
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:17 AM
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I disagree. I know multiple top execs banging their secretaries, escorts, or their favorite bar tender. They’re just discreet.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:14 AM
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You’re the exception to the rule my guy. I wish you nothing but the best King. I do have a question. What if your wife isn’t a virgin? Would you entertain a woman who’s had sex before?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:13 AM
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I agree. Logically it doesn’t make sense.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:10 AM
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Most men don’t get hoe phases. And the ones that do get hoe phases, aren’t necessarily trying. We just put off traits that allow us to date casually. Generally we can take our time and play the field much longer than a lot of women can. A man who’s in his late 30s with 20 bodies didn’t truly have a hoe phase like a woman who’s 23 with 20 bodies.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 03:04 AM
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You probably should get one. But if you don’t have one just grab her number and text her when you’re ready to set plans.
/r/seduction15/05/21 10:41 PM
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Start distancing yourself from this guy and watch how the interactions with him change.
/r/seduction15/05/21 10:38 PM
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Bruv this one is spot on
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:00 AM
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The harder she shot tests you, the better you’re doing. If she ain’t shit testing you then she doesn’t think of you as an alpha
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:29 PM
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If you aren’t use to this type of attention I suggest you ignore her all together. See her once a week, once ever other week or something like that. Only text her to meet up. Any other plates you have? If she’s the only girl giving you attention you can get oneitis real quick
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:07 AM
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AMS, Kevin Samuels, and MTR
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:24 AM
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Hard next. Give them 15 mins and boom go home.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:23 AM
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If it were me, I’d tell her straight up. “Never say never, however what makes you think you could handle sex with me?” But I know I can back up that statement. Maybe that wouldn’t work for you. You have to have an abundance mindset. Tell her you’re pretty busy with your purpose but you need her availability to make something happen. If she gives you a fake answer then she’s not interested. Tell her to hit you up when she figures out her schedule and soft next.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:22 AM
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These are all shit tests dude. She sent you pics of her chest and you’re confused about what she wants? She actively chasing you man. Let her chase. You on your purpose? If not you need to be. You can’t be her orbiter if you’re steady hustling. Tell her you’re busy but she needs to come over. That way you see her in person and give her what she’s trying to get.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:17 AM
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Easy, you treat them like a gf after they have earned that treatment,they’ll either be a loyal gf or start pulling back. However, if you don’t want to be in a relationship, stop agreeing to exclusivity. Make it know your boundaries up front and hold frame. You should be on your purpose so even if they’re your exclusive gf, your purpose should take up most of your time.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:00 AM
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