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1	Should I notify her that the papers are coming or just let the lawyer take care of everything? That is a fair point despite my comment above. He should definitely talk to his lawyer to make sure she can’t beat you to the court or otherwise take advantage of it.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/24 09:57 AM
1	Should I notify her that the papers are coming or just let the lawyer take care of everything? I agree. I understand the counter arguments most have pointed out and I tend to be too “nice” but if my ex served me without a heads up I would have gone nuclear on her. And if I’d done that to her she would have sought 100 percent custody for sure. It’s situational. Maybe ask your lawyer based on her personality.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/24 09:56 AM
1	Full custody Actually just get a good lawyer regardless of sex. I had two of the highest rated female divorce lawyers in DC and I think they were much better suited to representing women than men.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/24 08:24 AM
6	What are some signs you saw in the beginning but ignored that later contributed to the reason to your divorce Just half if you are lucky. Remember — there are only marital assets and no “marital debt” if both names aren’t on the credit cards and loans. Literally lost everything. Would have been better if I didn’t move out after discovering her affair.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/24 05:54 AM
2	What are some signs you saw in the beginning but ignored that later contributed to the reason to your divorce lol fantastically true. (I know there are exceptions).	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/24 05:51 AM

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