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| 267 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls) | Fundamentals | MichaelScofield68 | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 12:16 PM |
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| 1 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?You should raise your prices and prospect people with more disposable income broski | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?It blows my mind you even complain about paying someone for giving you the answers you want. When you go to work, do you work for free? Would you like it if your boss asked you to work overtime for free? Give value, receive value. Use this advice when meeting women too and maybe you will not need to pay a coach. That being said, it's possible the coach you're in contact with sucks. Try another. Look for people who are getting the results you want to have. It's also possible that your current min… | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 12:53 AM |
| 21 | How do I stop hating small talk?You hate it because you don't know how to do it. It's actually very enjoyable when you know what you are doing. Learn to do it well and learn how to enjoy it. What helped me was to stop being such a self-oriented gremlin and try to make others talk about themselves. Also, trying to have fun over trying to make 'good' conversation to please or impress the other person. When it's not interesting, I cut the conversation short to meet other people, and when it's interesting we both have a great time… | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | "The game"I mean you can tell within 30 seconds whether a girl is open to meet you or not, what comes after is just making sure you don't screw up and share basic info about yourself | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 10:27 AM |
| 24 | How do you pull girls in clubs ?Isolate and escalate It's not complicated, it's just that nobody does it anymore RIP pickup artists | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Hearing my roommate have sex really upsets meOP: gets upset at others getting what he wants Also OP: goes back to not approaching women and not bettering his social skills Getting laid is actually so, so, so easy once you push yourself to actually go and talk to women | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?She's in a bad mood or you did something really wrong Anyway its never personal, just do better and hope to get luckier Unless you're morbidly obese or you look like a homeless person it's 100% not because of your looks | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Why does my conversations go dead on the apps?Because you're expecting girls to act like your mom / your male friends and instead you should treat them like women and lead | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 09:02 PM |
| 5 | You lose the girl not because you say the wrong thing, but because you kill the vibeMake small talk, it's not that deep | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?Only 2 kinds of people who dislike it: - men who can't do it - women who never intimately met good leading men | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:06 PM |
| 8 | Dated a girl, then got triggered, stopped contact, now she misses meUnless you're a sociopath it's very hard to have sex with someone you dislike because you will need to spend some time building or rebuilding an emotional connection with her before sex (unless she comes straight to your place but that's a risky move). That is the curse of having standards and not being needy anymore, you realize a lot of hot girls are so fucked up in their minds or have such terrible personalities that you can't stay around them long enough even if the sex is good. Wanting her … | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 09:22 AM |
| 0 | How To Learn Pickup - A Roadmap That Illuminates The Road Ahead.I've done 10000+ approaches, been with hundreds of women and I still am questioning everything I do daily lol | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 01:00 PM |
| 6 | Dating apps are a scam updateYou're not supposed to use dating apps as your main way to meet girls tho Let it run over a month, only talk to the cute and receptive girls, it takes 0 effort, very little time and you can go on at least 1 nice date per week with a good profile in any tier 1 city | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | My best life is not the best.Women don't date guys with an exciting life I don't know where you got that from. They date guys who make them feel the right emotions at the right time. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 01:00 PM |
| 3 | To the guys who took the prostitutes/escorts route. What effect did it have on your confidence/self esteem?I personally know millionaires who are by all means top 0.001% men and they sometimes see sex workers. If even they do it, why not? Plus is a sex worker that different from a woman who won't date you unless you pay for dinner, taxi, etc? I'm not so sure. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?That seems accurate. Most guys talk about dating at great lengths but their only interactions with women are Tinder. The thing is that to be successful in a night out you need to do a lot of things that are very counter intuitive to a regular guy | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Why most guys make terrible wingmen (and how to find good ones)You can't bro, it's done. The RSD days are over. Guys who are trying to seriously learn this do not exist anymore. Everyone will say they want to get better but when it's time to hit the field you get left on seen. Or they come out, crash out the night and never come out again. Or they come out and start long term dating the first girl who gave them the time of the day. You have as much chance to find someone who really wants to get good at pickup as you've got chances to find a business partner… | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Low bodycount headacheI'm not sure having a body count competition with your partner is a very healthy way to handle a relationship, you have self work to do If you want to get laid break up and do it If you want to stay with her then do that But being upset at a numbers difference while otherwise perfectly happy sounds extra silly and insecure | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What happened to Valentino Kohen?Yes 5k a bootcamp is a lot but many of these PUA coaches do not do that, only a few actually get clients, then they have full teams and marketing and etc etc etc that they need to account for and again most only have a couple of clients per month. Why make 10k a month when you can use the same knowledge and capital to make more in a simpler and less polarizing niche Just look at mystery, barely any presence, barely any clients, you'd think someone so influential in a specific niche would make wa… | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 02:41 PM |
| 7 | What happened to Valentino Kohen?As much as there are some good things in there teaching pickup is pretty much a scam that once you get past 30 you realize, that's why all dating coaches who make money moved on from PUA Most dating coaches make very low views on YouTube and such these day, people don't care much about pickup content past the entertainment value because they realized it takes some work and it isn't a magic pill Only people who are into pickup now are extra weirdos and broke students who want a shortcut and a pow… | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 05:30 AM |
| 9 | Trying the "come here" routine with women I liked and falling flat.I'd like to know where you found out that an angry come here was a good opener because to a complete stranger that's what it comes off as | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 07:40 PM |
| -1 | How is Game different in Europe and USA?You need a bit more comfort the more east you go in the world, Europe is on the middle of the spectrum between america and asia | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Is she actually interested in me or just stringing me along?If you have to ask then she is stringing you along | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 01:34 PM |
| 0 | A girl I banged in LATAM just asked me to buy her shoes as a giftAll I'm saying is that if you can't get the same results without chipping in, there's your issue Also, paying for gold diggers usually starts small. At first they "try" you to see if you're open to opening your wallet, if that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 10:30 PM |
| 5 | A girl I banged in LATAM just asked me to buy her shoes as a giftTo this I will add that when you pay for the date, the dinner, etc, you're still buying sex. If that makes you feel better when it's not "obvious" and as straightforward as seeing a hooker selling sex go ahead, but every time there is a condition to the sex happening besides you being attractive and fun to be around, you are buying sex. A girl saying she's not a hooker but only sleeping with you under the condition you buy her things is still a sex worker (even if that's more commonly accepted b… | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Mystery method was wrongIt is my strong belief that 99.99% of Mystery Method believers have no understanding of it | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Are guys that work in porn good at pick up/game?Usually you get into porn because you are good with women already, not the other way around | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Whats the proper way to cold approach?Your question is very vague and broad it's like asking how do I become a professional piano player. So vague and broad answer : get their attention, display attractive behavior, get them comfortable around you and escalate to sex. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 12:56 AM |
| 3 | I will DM you a few of my OLD convos if you are willing to tell me what I'm doing wrong and what to fix.. If your fixes work over the next week, I'll venmo $300I can tell you for free and then if you want me to teach you how you pay me. I don't think anyone who's any good will work for free TBH. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Dating coaches in Bali?I think UMP was there recently. Try Bangkok if you're in Asia also, very good to game. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.Actually getting with pretty girls is infinitely easier than to get with girls with low self esteem provided you know what you are doing and stop for 5 minutes with all these limiting beliefs. If a girl is pretty she knows how the game works and she doesn't need to play mind chess to compensate for her insecurities as much as a girl who is less attractive. It's all in your head mate. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Seduction in europeHello. I'm French. It's not your appearance (although if you look like a dirty bum that never lifted weights this doesn't help) but most likely you're too friendly and not making hard moves enough. In general European girls do not like 'fragile' men. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 07:48 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)I've gamed in many countries and could talk about this to great lengths but long story short conservative places are not great because people just don't like mingling with strangers. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Am i too much ?Needing reassurance and texting for ages before making a move is a turn off to girls, try to get laid more bro and you will see girls who like you love it. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Dating older women in 20sAge gap doesn't matter, all that matters is attraction and the logistics to make it happen. Focus on the right things brother. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 10:00 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)I'm writing this post mostly because I disagree with this concept after so many experiences. There is a clear pattern recognition in the end, but that does require a lot of reference experiences. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 07:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)It's funny you mention that. Two days ago I slept with an escort for free that I met on my way to the gym. She was extremely beautiful and very kind but the experience was overall very mid. I don't mean to have that sound like a brag but it does end up sounding like a brag unfortunately. I encourage you to stop paying for women brother, it's not worth it. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 07:35 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Yes but IMO if you want to learn this it's more efficient to find a job that pays well and then to spend that money on a good dating coach than to spend years to get all the reference experiences for everything by yourself. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:19 PM |
| -83 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Some stick around for a ONS only, some for weeks, some for years. When you get that kind of abundance you get to choose who you spend your time with to be honest. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:15 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Hello. In my experience it just sets the frame that I noticed bad behavior and I might walk away if she does it again. If she likes me and doesn't want to lose her opportunity with me she won't do it again. I just noticed better results doing this way. Cheers bro, always happy to talk with other guys who are experienced. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 04:17 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)She not interested | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)No I'm not related to that guy we just share the same surname | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 02:00 PM |
| -161 | What do you do when a girl leaves you on seen? (From a guy who's been with 700+ girls)Haha, just done that for a very long time. Meeting 3 new women per month on average, you do the math. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 01:58 PM |
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