MichaelsAltMan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
46	I think that MGTOW and 4B types are deluding themselves when they say people are dating less because they realized the evils of the other gender.	Debate	MichaelsAltMan	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 02:22 AM
32	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps?	Question For Women	MichaelsAltMan	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 11:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Only wanting women who give you instant sexual gratification is being picky too. A 20 pound weight and a 200 pound weight both have mass, but they will be unbalanced on a normal scale	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 06:11 PM
–	Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improve Most people are illogical regardless of sex or gender. There also isn't a logically correct level of libido. You're not mentally superior for having a smaller appetite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 06:58 PM
1	Men on dating websites shouldn't have the option to swipe on or like profiles I'll do you one better: The vast majority of men are better off giving up on dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 08:29 PM
–	Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great. "my gender good, other gender bad, please clap"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 03:11 AM
1	The battle of the sexes in dating is mostly an online thing. And when you look at the stats, men are more likely to be the ones pursuing women. That's a sign that men are more interested in women which means that they need to do the pursuing, not that dating hasn't become an increasingly online activity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 07:42 PM
5	The battle of the sexes in dating is mostly an online thing. Unfortunately dating has become a very online thing. We are an increasingly online species.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 08:21 PM
10	Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman. Gee, why is it that women are less likely to seek out partners both on apps and in person? Could there perhaps be a difference in how much one demographic is attracted to the other overall?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 06:37 AM
1	I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe that go on like 5 first dates and make out with some random people This is a post about how most men experience dating/dating apps, we can't just materialize dates at will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 12:23 AM
–	Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised. Wow, we've gone from women finding a handful of men attractive to women finding a handful of men attractive, but with a percentage of men being shittier. What an improvement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 12:08 AM
5	Why are men expected to "chase?" If I wanted to put my money in a hole I could always just gamble from home	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 06:43 PM
9	Why are men expected to "chase?" Waiting day 0. Day 1. Day 2. Day 817.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 06:31 PM
8	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable That is a lot. I don't mean this in a judgemental way, it's just frustrating seeing 100 dates being portrayed as a normal thing when some of us take months to get a single date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 08:12 AM
10	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable 100 dates by 22 is insanely high, and you only think it's normal because your circumstances allow dates to come to you easy. The vast majority of people don't get dates with half that many people in a lifetime, let alone by such a young age. Hell, even most people that CAN get dates that easily would probably find a suitable partner before hitting 100.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 06:31 PM
15	Why do men think there are so many good men Most people (men and women) are stupid rather than outright evil.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 01:22 AM
13	The cock sharing pact between alphas and mid-tier carousel casualties is fucking dead. I read the title, I've seen enough. Absolute mental illness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 07:17 PM
–	Straight men’s dating profiles are increasingly curated for the male gaze "They often dress exactly the same, as if they spend all day staring at each other in hopes of morphing into one homogenous being. Making it almost impossible to pick them out of a group photo" You should see women's profiles. I can assure you, it's exactly as you just described.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 07:11 PM
1	Do you think that conservatism will eventually die out since pretty much all women don't want to have sex with conservative men? I wish humanity were capable of becoming less stupid, but unfortunately there is no cure. We will always need to deal with lesser people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 06:54 AM
1	Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative. I agree but this is just as true of men. Most people are stupid cattle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 10:53 PM
7	There are not enough conservative women for conservative men to date. Good. Life should be harder for conservatives. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps or learn to use your brains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 10:45 PM
0	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? Men's taste in women is not as rare/niche as women's taste in men, and if it were then most men would simply stay single forever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 10:43 PM
1	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? I think you're missing the reason most women are able to have these standards in the first place while most men don't. Most women are attractive while most men aren't, hence why men tend to be the ones pursuing. If men played by the same rules as women, most of us are guaranteed to stay alone for the rest of our lives (which is not a desirable outcome).	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 12:19 AM
1	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? Is there any public info on this or is this just assumptions on how the system works?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 12:16 AM
2	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing I didn't say women don't have a right to, it's just annoying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 12:15 AM
2	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? That's why I specified "I can see SOME cases where it might make sense for a woman to be a bit less selective". Obviously women in general tend to have a flood of choices so not only do they get to be picky, but most need to to avoid decision fatigue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 12:13 AM
3	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? You really seem to struggle with putting yourself in other people's situations. Have you tried basic empathy? Some basic logic, perhaps? Men, for the most part, are not appealing to women. That's why they cast a wide net, to find the few that may be interested. That doesn't mean that men should swipe right on LITERALLY every woman, but it does mean that we're going to swipe right on half or more of accounts. That may sound extreme to you, but men find average women more attractive than women fin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 03:05 AM
3	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? What change and what effect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:53 AM
4	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Everyone have standards, women's just fit a smaller portion of the population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:33 AM
1	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? Unless you're willing to spend money to send a message without a match, this is pretty much how every major app works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:31 AM
2	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? I'm going to feel undesirable regardless, using an app doesn't change that. The frustrating part are the few matches that seem like they might go somewhere but then stop responding, sometimes right after agreeing to a dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:23 AM
4	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? I think every app does this for non-paying users	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:21 AM
2	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? While I have given up on apps again for the time being, that doesn't necessarily make the disappointing frustration go away. That's just a result of being single not by choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:19 AM
0	CMV: Looks matter more for women, social skills matter more for men. And women find most men less physically attractive on average than vice versa, which is why men need to make up for it in other ways. I didn't say women don't value looks at all, but many make it clear that they see more attractive women in a day than they see attractive men in a lifetime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:16 AM
2	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? You're assuming things I didn't say. I don't swipe right on literally every account, but I could legitimately see myself being interested in over half of the accounts I encounter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:13 AM
1	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? 1) I do filter based on who I think I'd be compatible with/attracted to, that still leads me to sending more than 50% right swipes 2) Any advice that depends on men at large agreeing to be less desperate for women is useless	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:08 AM
2	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? By opening the app most are setting themselves up for disappointment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:04 AM
2	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? Ah, that's what we need. Even less women on the apps. Any advice that depends on men collectively deciding to be less attracted to women is not serious advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:02 AM
3	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? So it's a complaint rather than workable advice, got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:01 AM
3	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? I'm sick of evey reply assuming that I meant that men should swipe on women who have directly conflicting goals. Not what I meant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:00 AM
3	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? If we're more selective we don't get matches. Not everyone's experience on the app is like yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:55 AM
0	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? Consider: To send an intro, on must first match. These are few and far between for men, hence why we tend to focus more on advice for getting likes/matches before worrying about what comes next. Obviously men should try to send thoughtful responses, not that noticably helps with standing out in a crowded inbox from my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:53 AM
1	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? What do you mean the app views you worse. That it shows you less?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:49 AM
1	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? I think women underestimate how much men are attracted to most women. I do filter based on who seems insufferable or who I'm not attracted to, that still leads me to swipe right on over 50% of women I see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:46 AM
3	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? Men don't match with everyone though, and the matches they get are unlikely to respond. That's why we cast a wide net.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:44 AM
1	CMV: Looks matter more for women, social skills matter more for men. Most men aren't by women's standards, which is why social skills end up being more important for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 03:34 AM
1	Women are OK with men decentering them. There is much more pushback from men There's a pretty significant imbalance in attraction, hence why it's more often men doing the asking out or seeking women on dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 05:52 PM
1	Women are OK with men decentering them. There is much more pushback from men The problem here is that men are actually attracted to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 04:52 PM
–	Nothing wrong with dating actually I think you're right, this is the bet time in human history. It's all downhill from here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 07:07 AM
1	Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each other This is the internet, there's always an army of people ready to accuse you of hating waffles	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 07:01 AM
6	Men who dont get dates and relationships biggest problem with women women stop going after men men with no romantic options look for alternatives [Surprised face] More seriously though, your premise that women just suddenly decided that men weren't doing their fair share around the house is silly. There's poems about this going back centuries, the real cause of the recent change in behavior is due to a recent change in circumstances. It's the internet, stupid! (And alienation under capitalism, something something third spaces, blah blah blah.) People don't spend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 06:23 AM
1	People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affection For men the money/status is often doing the heavy lifting for that attraction from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 02:27 AM
0	People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affection Does physical prime really matter when women aren't all that physically attracted to men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 02:34 AM
–	Nothing is worse then men claiming women are hypergamous and useless meanwhile married to a millionare wifes. You're citing PRE-BIRTH consumption? Lmao, go outside	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 10:19 PM
10	It doesn't make sense to ask women to lower their standards Translation: I want all of the benefits of equal rights while still getting the benefits of dating a pay pig	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 05:54 PM
22	It doesn't make sense to ask women to lower their standards "Man bad and all of their problems are caused by them being bad" ~empathetic gendered person	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 05:53 PM
2	What would it take to heal the divide that has seemingly arisen between the sexes so that we can all move forward together, against injustice? It'll likely end when the species ends	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:14 AM
33	Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have. Out of sight, out of mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:01 AM
8	More men aren't single because they have "bad personalities" Did you watch the linked video OP was responding to? There is clearly a moral element to how the issue is presented.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 07:03 PM
3	Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly? Being around someone who thinks that their presence is a gift and mine isn't doesn't sound like a situation where anyone is happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 01:16 PM
–	What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better? For any place to hang out you imagine, there's plenty of women who don't want to be asked out there. While men should take actions to be less irritating or threatening, a certain level of irritation is inevitable because most women are going to need to turn down several men that they find unattractive. The alternatives are either women asking more men out, or total species collapse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 01:11 PM
2	Men are not approaching women as much anymore and that's a good thing. Avoiding you would be dodging a bullet. Have fun growing old and having nothing to offer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 11:49 PM
6	Men are not approaching women as much anymore and that's a good thing. Lesbian not attracted to men, more at 11	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 11:47 PM
2	Men are not approaching women as much anymore and that's a good thing. Actually no, in reality some men have just as short a wait as women while the rest wait far, far longer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 11:36 PM
2	Dating feels more like a job interview than actually getting to know someone I didn't say I'm going to date someone I'm not interested in, just that it would be better to have bad options than a lack of options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 03:09 PM
2	Dating feels more like a job interview than actually getting to know someone It would at least be good to have the option to not be single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 01:07 PM
3	Dating feels more like a job interview than actually getting to know someone For most men it's a waste of time because women typically don't find men appealing to the same degree as men find women. I wish I could focus on things like political comparability or them not being a dumbass, but gotta find someone that's interested in me before I worry about things like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 07:28 PM
7	The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society. How dare you. The pornographic drawings and comics I look at were crafted BY HUMANS, FOR HUMANS! ACCUSING ME OF CONSUMING ROBO-SLOP IS SLANDER, SLANDER I SAY! Half /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 07:05 PM
9	The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society. I've heard an older woman I've worked with say this, although I think she was just projecting onto other women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 06:59 PM
3	Dating feels more like a job interview than actually getting to know someone The time saver I'd prefer would be for people to stop trying to meet online in general, but I guess measures like this that would make men more likely to give up would be a step towards that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 06:24 PM
3	Dating feels more like a job interview than actually getting to know someone If that happened most men just wouldn't get matches. Basically just what we have now, but slightly more extreme.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 05:57 PM
21	The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation. "Oh, you wish you could be desired? So I guess you think it's good to be perved at by pedophiles!" Sure man, super fair characterization of what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 04:51 PM
10	The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation. Men don't really have the power to change this one unless we all agree to stop pursuing women, which isn't going to happen because they'd just die alone. Alternatively, women can change the gender role by asking men out more, which they won't do because the few men that women find attractive aren't having trouble finding partners as is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 04:39 PM
23	The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation. The main reason staying single is an easier sell to women than men is that most women know men are attracted to them, often to the point that it becomes a problem. For men, it's usually about accepting that you just aren't desired.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 04:32 PM
31	The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation. Rule 1 and Rule 2, many such cases	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 04:26 PM
0	Men should increase thier standards and be ready to be single if they dont get what they want. Is it a difference in discipline or genetics? I'm skinnier than most, but that would still be the case without much effort. I can't put on much weight when I actively try to. For some people it's the opposite. Physical appearance alone isn't a clear sign of effort, and impugning men or women for this is stupid. It's important for everyone to put effort into their health, but that won't have the same results for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 04:00 PM
2	I think that MGTOW and 4B types are deluding themselves when they say people are dating less because they realized the evils of the other gender. I think both are a defense mechanism from bad experiences with the opposite sex. I don't think it's a logical response to swear off men or women because you had a bad experience with one or two. Granted, if it's a very bad experience that affects your livelihood or safety then it's understandable why one would adopt that defense mechanism. It just doesn't follow that 4 billion people ain't worth shit because one or two people hurt you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 03:45 AM
1	I think that MGTOW and 4B types are deluding themselves when they say people are dating less because they realized the evils of the other gender. Men and women have been given different, often competing motives by society and nature since the dawn of time. While men becoming worse politically probably isn't helping, I don't think that's sufficient to explain the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 03:38 AM
3	I think that MGTOW and 4B types are deluding themselves when they say people are dating less because they realized the evils of the other gender. It's not that people in wealthy counties are poorer than non-wealthy countries, but rather that it's taking longer for younger generations to move out, which makes sex and dating far more difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 03:33 AM
3	I think that MGTOW and 4B types are deluding themselves when they say people are dating less because they realized the evils of the other gender. I think this puts the cart before the horse with the animosity. I think men and women have largely become more hostile to each other online because they don't interact as much, platonically or romantically, in person. If you can't have a healthy relationship with those you're attracted to, you can at least engage in hostilities with them. Some of it is started by original experiences, such as "here's a story of how a man/woman cheated." Then people who weren't having success anyway use that to f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 03:30 AM
–	CMV: Men frequently lose in life if they are too empathetic towards women and female issues I will be sure to direct any future arguments at a whole gender rather one individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 09:26 PM
–	CMV: Men frequently lose in life if they are too empathetic towards women and female issues Go outside. This is rhetoric you can only come up with from online gender war slop. Try interacting with real people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 09:14 PM
2	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn Hmm, yes, this sexual gratification product is made for the sexual gratification of the viewer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 01:28 PM
7	Women make it very stressful for men to stay single Shouldn't we make the world more equal by removing the unfair standards on women rather than adding unfair standards for men? This reeks of the same spite-brained garbage as that guy that posted about how "grrrr, women don't care enough about my problems so I'm going to vote to make things worse for them". Making the world worse for others isn't going to improve it for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 01:24 PM
1	Given how marriage benefits men at the expense of women, is it time to abolish marriage? Good luck convincing women to do that	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 02:10 AM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are If you want to have high standards then that's your prerogative, but let's not get self-congratulatory over giving 5% of men a chance rather than 4%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 12:45 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Woman pats self on back for giving ugly man that's more attractive than 80% of men a chance	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 12:32 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are That's only because women consider most men to be unattractive, unlike vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 12:11 PM
0	The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avg What good is learning the magic steps to be a great partner if you can't even learn the steps to catch a woman's attention long enough to get a first date? I think that since you're looking at this from a woman's point of view, you're missing the part where most men struggle. Not saying that knowing how to be a good partner is unimportant, but you can't really put it into practice without that other maddeningly difficult preceding step.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 03:15 AM
0	"Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness. How is that not what was said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 08:20 PM
0	"Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness. Yeah yeah, the reason I get nowhere is because I'm worthless and expect women to be literal godess. I've heard it before online, go nag somewhere else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 12:01 AM
8	"Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness. Damn, I guess I shouldn't have individually helped hammer out this whole patriarchy thing thousands of years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/25 08:09 PM
–	Men are always seen as faulty and in need of improvement. you can always pick they lack x to show why they fail in dating. it seems society expect men to be perfect in every aspect of life and have no scope for improvement. Women only date good men that take care of themselves. Now allow me to complain about my shitty boyfriend that refuses to wipe his ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 01:39 PM
1	What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite gender Rules 1 and 2.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 01:00 AM
1	What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite gender In most cases, either do it anyway or be single for life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 12:59 AM
–	If you want to date women as an average man, you have no choice but to approach Has been quite hard in my experience. A match that actually replies is a very rare occurrence. Too stressful for building chemistry, even if they did respond.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 12:26 AM
–	If you want to date women as an average man, you have no choice but to approach You need to be attractive enough not to get insta-left swiped and good enough at advertising to get a right swipe. Options for showing off personality/charisma are far more limited than in person, even after getting a response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 10:05 PM
–	If you want to date women as an average man, you have no choice but to approach So, learn to become above average?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 09:22 PM
1	Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition. I mean sure, 41 is a bigger number than 29. I just don't see what's of concern beyond that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 03:57 AM
1	Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition. idk maybe it's that I'm under 29 so I don't see them as little kids that need to be protected. It just seems like a weird hangup on your part. The way you say "20-somethings" you'd think he's snooping around college parties. 29 seems pretty adult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 03:35 AM
2	Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition. Bruh, age gap discussions online have lost the plot. Like, oh no, how dare he pray on a 29 year old baby. Where is the part that's pathetic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 02:36 AM
5	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man Not all investing is gambling, but putting your money into whatever coin you think will make you a millionaire certainly is	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 12:41 AM
3	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man Oh yeah, I forgot gambling	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 12:22 AM
4	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man I mean sure, if all the wealth were magically transferred from women to men then that would help men's dating prospects, ethical problems aside. Seems about as realistic as getting individually rich without generational wealth and/or family connections.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 12:00 AM
–	Most incels are left wing I know right? I read the title and was like "wouldn't be completely surprising, I thought there was already some study that bore this out" then I read the post and was like "bro what is this thought experiment bs, you can argue any point like this".	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 11:53 PM
–	Most incels are left wing Circular reasoning. You're assuming that we live in a just world where good men find partners and bad men don't, then working from that conclusion you try to explain voting records. I don't think the average man that can't find a date is a straight version of Nick Fuentes, I'm certainly not. Would be nice if women were more selective about politics, but I think it comes down to which group of men is less worried about bothering women by asking them out in public. There's that, and wealthier peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 11:46 PM
36	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man That aint how percentages work. If everyone's super, no one is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 09:35 PM
10	CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry) Broke ass	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 08:44 PM
–	You have no excuses for dating failures if you aren’t putting in 100% Well I've seen video of redpill ones where you pay some guy to yell at you until you become an alpha male. Seems like it would be more effective and less expensive to just get a personal trainer or schedule your own visits to the gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 03:26 PM
–	You have no excuses for dating failures if you aren’t putting in 100% Ah, the classic "if nothing works then it must be because you didn't try". While effort is necessary for success (for most men), it's no guarantee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 03:20 PM
0	Why do I rarely find men to desire to be stay at home fathers for the purpose of raising their children? Not settling in this respect would mean finding a woman who is willing to settle for someone that makes less than her or not working. It's not impossible, but far from likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:09 PM
42	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. Don't need to put in effort to get matches when you can rely on both men being less picky AND more men being on the app.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 10:05 PM
2	Regulating dating apps will improve male mental health While I don't want to be harsh to people that mean well, putting warning labels on dating apps or getting more men into therapy isn't going to fix the issue that women will always be in higher demand than men online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 03:16 AM
2	Regulating dating apps will improve male mental health Have you considered that perhaps people complain about apps while still using them because they're a last resort? If it were so easy to find people in person, most people would just do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 12:53 AM
2	Regulating dating apps will improve male mental health No regulation or tweaks to the apps will fix the fact that men want women more than women want men. No really getting beyond that supply and demand issue. Some of us are just going to remain unwanted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 12:51 AM
1	Why do some women say its the guy’s fault for being single? "Hundreds and hundreds of dates" okay congrats, I can't get that far. Whatever shit you're stuck on, I'm stuck several steps behind. Most men don't have the benefit of potential partners throwing themselves at them, respectful intentions or otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 04:51 PM
10	The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamy A bastion of hope that if you're unattractive and manage to score a date, women will gossip about you with other women in your area. Inspiring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 06:01 PM
3	Why do some women say its the guy’s fault for being single? It's literally just how dating apps work. People overextend it because they're frustrated, but you'd be frustrated too if you were unable to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 05:58 PM
3	How Men Could Become Lustless and Emotionally Free from Women, Without Losing Their Drive Lust is just a normal reaction to seeing someone attractive. What's important is only acting on lust with your partner (if you're exclusive) and not sharing your lustful thoughts towards others with your partner if you think they'd be made uncomfortable knowing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 08:56 PM
–	Women are primarily the choosers If roles were switched, there would be a lot of guys who just weren't chosen. So basically what we have now	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 09:48 PM
1	Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratio I didn't say that red pillers haven't caused any problems, but if they never existed then we'd still need to deal with the consequences of dating apps and social atomization. Andrew Tate types are a problem, but they're also symptoms of preexisting problems. Yes the natural consequences of capitalism are problems and they even directly influence the things talked about on this sub. That doesn't contradict anything I've said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 08:14 PM
-2	Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratio I think you're putting the cart before the horse. While red pill grifters aren't helping anything other than their wallets, they capitalized on a dating market that was already being damaged by online dating and social atomization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 07:36 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Maybe not a difference in type but a pretty severe difference in proportion. I'm in significantly better shape than most people, and decently photogenic, have good friend and family relationships but I only get right swipes from 4% of women, most of which aren't interested enough to reply back. For average men and below, the numbers get worse. I already swipe right on a majority of women. The difference here is that I would need to lower my standards to an absurd degree to get a date per month, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 10:54 PM
2	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I know I'm valuable in ways beyond external validation, but the emptiness persists whenever I think about wanting to date regardless. If you don't get it then fine, just stop commenting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 02:02 AM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I think there is a significant difference between a 50/50 shot of finding a member of the opposite sex attractive vs less than a 10% chance. I'm not saying women should be forced to find more men attractive, but let's not be delusional and say it's easy for most men to attract women. Also really, 100% of women? Even the red flags and braindead conservatives? Be real. If I said women should swipe right on 100% of men, you'd rightfully take issue with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 01:59 AM
0	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. I can't exactly turn off my desire to be desired. This is a normal human thing that's apparently easier to recognize when it's not being met.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 10:55 PM
1	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Pretty massive number distance. I've got a dead end IRL so I'm stuck with dating apps, where I swipe right on over 50% of women while only 4% swipe right, and barely any of those respond. It's not me ignoring women that's the issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 10:52 PM
6	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Easy to say when you don't need to worry about feeling desirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 05:14 PM
9	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. It think what prevents that from happening is that there's a difference in the average man or woman checking out of dating. When women do it, it's typically because they have the option to date but they assume it's better for their safety and happiness. When men do it, it's because they're assuming that they're unwanted and viewed as more of a detriment by most women, so why even try?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 05:12 PM
1	Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work. If there's anything actionable that I can change, I'll consider it. I can only beat myself up so much over a no-win scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 02:39 AM
1	Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work. Seems to work about as well as trying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 02:35 AM
1	Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work. People always say this as if everyone is going to bump into a single woman their age that's interested if they have good friends. No, I'm at a dead end and don't know what to do. "Perhaps work on your social skill" is nonspecific garbage meant to make me feel like I'm not trying because I'm not succeeding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 02:32 AM
0	Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work. Flawed analogy. Most of these have a direct correlation between effort put in and chances of success. Dating is just gambling, unless you're unusually attractive and socially competent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 01:04 AM
2	Men are discouraged from approaching women they don’t know as well as discouraged from asking out women they do know. They want men they're attracted to to approach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 01:00 AM
1	Can’t believe this has to be said: yes, in order to date you need a social outlet No shit Sherlock, oh, let me just go to that social circle full of single women my age that I didn't think to use as an asset before. Whoopdy fucking doo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 12:38 AM
6	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter Having seen what some women say about their partners online, it seems like they're pretty bad at selecting for competence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 06:06 PM
2	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away Easy to say when you have the option to start dating on short notice if you wanted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 10:34 PM
11	I feel like dating apps are brought up a little bit too much in these discussions. Are they really that popular? Easy if you're a woman or attractive man with a good photographer, sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:33 AM
8	Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers? Romantic partners, while being both friend and family, are also a fundamentally different dynamic and it is not weird or wrong to be upset if you're unable to attain such a dynamic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 03:10 PM
21	Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractive Not just that they're turned on, but a woman dressed provocatively may be more receptive to advances as it's possible they dressed that way for that purpose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 09:24 PM
0	Dating men are NOT better people than Virgins It's "men should become better people if they want a date" one post and then complaining about the shitty people they've dated the next. No awareness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 03:09 PM
–	You don’t love the hoes and you don’t feel sexy I look in the mirror and feel sexy. I try online dating and feel unwanted. I try finding somewhere to date IRL and feel lost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 10:11 PM
–	Red pillers don't understand the "female gaze" at all What am I supposed to get from this? Don't go bald?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 09:22 PM
4	CMV: Tinder's new filters will help men in online dating The only thing this will help men under 6ft with is get filtered out faster. What a joke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 02:23 PM
9	Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with them True, although people tend to get frustrated when given advice that doesn't work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 02:18 PM