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| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?Overreaction to anything I said honestly. Women do it too, and honestly if society was hell bent on calling YOU a pedophile every single day of your developing life, you’d probably have some intrusive thoughts from your animal brain as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:52 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?Also, have you seen boy moms? They are fucking WEIRD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:33 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?I mean, Ericka Kirk was just caught sexting a 15 year old, and my best friend was raped by his mom when he was 12, so I’m not entirely convinced it doesn’t go both ways. It’s different for women, but the animal brain is still there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:31 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?Physically, likely many if not most. But mentally, no. For what that’s worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:24 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?I also think there’s a pretty big difference in being attracted physically versus actually enjoying or desiring to spend romantic time with someone that age. Visual attraction is one thing, but there’s no way I could even be in a relationship with someone in their low 20s anymore. You talk to them for even a minute, and you don’t see them as adults. But yeah, my point was that physical attraction is just something that’s programmed into us that we have to deal with from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:21 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?Well, I disagree on when the accusation becomes meaningful. But regardless, pedophiles are attracted to prepubescent children, which is not what I described. Most men are not pedophiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:13 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?Pedphiles act on it, or want to. Most men are not pedophiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:09 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?I have nearly exclusively dated my age or older, and never younger than 4 years less. But I can take one for the team here and say I’ve looked at girls as young as 15/16 at the age of ~30 and felt something primal come up. Yes, it’s gross. No, I don’t love it, and I wouldn’t act on it. It is what it is. We’re animals, and there’s only so much of that you can reason away. Also, I never really know to what degree society has put those thoughts in my head to begin with, and I’m lowkey a little mad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:01 AM |
| – | It doesn’t matter what your personality is as a man, you’ll always be seen as less thanI am straight, not gay or bi lol I should probably remove that sticker, but I’m not that worried about it I think girls struggle more with worrying about hidden motives if they can read subtle things about you like “this guy doesn’t have chic friends, and will probably make a move on the first girl who talks to him”. I don’t really have that energy, so women seem to be pretty comfortable with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 07:58 AM |
| – | It doesn’t matter what your personality is as a man, you’ll always be seen as less thanIdk bro, I’m not really anything except good vibes, and I make hella chic friends everywhere I go lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Autistic males are treated worse than autistic females because alot of autistic males dont know how to behave and lack empathy.https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39371354/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Masculinity is shamed while femininity is celebratedBuddy, true masculinity is the most respected and celebrated thing in the entire world lol unfortunately, by definition, masculinity is somewhat limited to the chosen few who are the most charismatic and best leaders. It’s not celebrated in the same way femininity is, but it is still the most powerful and respected identity an individual can obtain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 06:40 AM |
| 4 | Autistic males are treated worse than autistic females because alot of autistic males dont know how to behave and lack empathy.Of how people with autism are. They’re just normal people who are struggling, but far far far less bitter and negative about it than neurotypical people who are also struggling. I mean, it’s just extremely obvious to me that you’ve never been very close with anyone with autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 05:34 AM |
| 0 | Autistic males are treated worse than autistic females because alot of autistic males dont know how to behave and lack empathy.I’m not calling them angels, they obviously have a serious condition, but they are generally more empathetic than neurotypical people. That’s just the facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Autistic males are treated worse than autistic females because alot of autistic males dont know how to behave and lack empathy.It’s also a show that can apparently teach you the absolute basics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 05:27 AM |
| 8 | Autistic males are treated worse than autistic females because alot of autistic males dont know how to behave and lack empathy.Go watch love on the spectrum, I’m serious. You have some very out of touch and uninformed opinions about autistic people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:55 AM |
| 22 | Autistic males are treated worse than autistic females because alot of autistic males dont know how to behave and lack empathy.You’re really cueing that you know nothing about this condition and just hate autistic males for some bizarre reason. No one works harder on themselves than autistic young boys. They long for love and connection. Their biggest goal is to just find a single partner. No one is more kind and genuine than people with autism. They just struggle to interact normally and understand people. You’re really full of hate, and it’s weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:11 AM |
| 1 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Honestly even setting the standard of wanting someone at a healthy weight eliminates like 75% of your options. Add a cute face on top of that, and you mark off another half lol then add decently educated and successful with similar values, and you’re working with like 2 single people in your extended area who you haven’t met yet and may not like you back lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 04:13 PM |
| 1 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Every single beautiful woman I’ve ever met has the ugliest boyfriend of all time, my guy lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Lol you act like men dating ugly women are any different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:42 PM |
| 4 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.That’s not even controversial, my man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 08:55 AM |
| 11 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Big assumption happening right there that the top 30 out of 10,000 men would give 90% of women even a semblance of a relationship lol the vast majority of women are looking for a connection. Men only give relationships to the top 1% of women they’re capable of getting, and women know that, and avoid men out of their league because they don’t want to be used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:30 AM |
| 19 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.I honestly completely disagree. I’m not sure there’s anything in the world that could make me attracted to the vast majority of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).Do you want me to post the evidence that nearly 50 percent of men never pay a cent in the child support they owe 😂😂😂 getting fucking real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).That is incorrect, neither men nor women can legally walk away from a child. To waive parental rights, it has to be approved by the court, and the conditions to do so are identical for both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Guys overestimate the percentage of men who can get away with being assholes.NO ONE can get away with being a COMPLETE asshole. Nearly everyone can get away with being a little bit of an asshole. People who are really fun and charismatic and cool can get away with it even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?Blue Pill is a fabricated term that only exists in relationship to the Red Pill. It is a complete rejection of the red pill ideology. Similar to Atheist and Christian. The Red Pill makes way more sense when you realize it originated from and is perpetuated by social outcasts who struggle with women. The advice is terrible, the perspective is unhealthy, and the mindset literally prevents them from being successful sexually/romantically in the way they want to be. It also is just generally extreme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 09:13 PM |
| – | Most men have nothing to offer womenIt’s less that they don’t have anything to offer, and more that there’s one BIG thing that leading a decent life and raising a family hinges on. And it’s just the way it is. How is a woman able to feel safe and aspire to have a family with a man who can’t support her? Even if she WANTS to work, she still needs the freedom to not HAVE TO work and raise her kids if she has to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 10:14 PM |
| 17 | Women Don't "Mature" faster than menCorrect. Scientifically proven that women perform logical reasoning equally to men. In fact, there are more men in the lowest brackets of intelligence levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 08:43 AM |
| 17 | Women Don't "Mature" faster than menLol your claims are long disproven misconceptions. Women are just as capable of mathematical reasoning and critical thought as men are. Average IQ is completely equal across gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 08:31 AM |
| 0 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendThe problem isn’t necessarily being an asshole, but it’s being an asshole AND having absolutely zero additional redeeming qualities lol assholes get in relationships all the time, but they have to offer something that makes putting up with it worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?Lol it exists the other way around as well. Maybe not for you, but the vast majority of women cannot just get with anyone they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:45 PM |
| 62 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Mehhh, I think men can do more than you think, especially if they’re ripped. Men wear tight compression shorts at the gym all the time, they’re common biking clothes. Back in the 80s, bootie shorts and crop tops were pretty standard issue men’s clothes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:19 PM |
| 30 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?Not entirely true. He hates women with high body counts because it highlights the way he sees himself as low value. Dating a woman with a low body count doesn’t fix the way he will always suffer from that perception that she has more value than he does. It will taint any relationship he ever has. No fault of his own, life sucks if you’re ugly, but yeah, he’s essentially undateable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:37 AM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.Yeah, guys like to make excuses for themselves and blame something outside of them… often there are definitely many things making their experience way harder and preventing them from really understanding how to approach seduction and connection, so I feel for them. But it’s just so hard to communicate to them that their energy and social skills and approach are the biggest issues, not their physical attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 06:52 PM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.I am attractive. I can pretty confidently say I can get almost any girl I want, but when I was younger, I was the same amount of attractive, and lots of girls found me creepy because I had no finesse. My attractiveness didn’t help me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 05:47 AM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.Correct. They will be weirded out even by an attractive guy acting sexual with them without a foundation of chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 04:48 AM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.😂 bruh. Girls want sex too, they don’t act like guys are gross for wanting sex. They act like guys are gross for being creepy and weird and sexual when there’s an absolute void of chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 04:32 AM |
| 2 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.The words “be direct” might be misleading. You DO need to actively show your interest for things to move forward, but you don’t jump from A to Z. You express interest in the tiniest, most natural step forward in intimacy. Starting at nothing, you express an interest in getting to know them by introducing yourself. After pleasant conversation, you express an interest in continued interaction by reaching out. After seeing them in groups a lot, you express interest in them by initiating one on one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 04:42 PM |
| 3 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.Probably because you’re coming on too strong and not following the natural progression of your chemistry with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 04:09 PM |
| 0 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.Who told you that? Not only is it flat out wrong, I’ve also never heard anyone say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?You’re not connecting with them emotionally in the right way. Look, dude, all I’m saying is you are fully capable of pulling girls when you figure out what you’re doing wrong. No one else can figure that out for you though, you have to do that yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?That’s the exact mindset that’s shooting you in the leg. It’s not a comparison. It doesn’t matter if there’s someone out there that’s better looking and more successful than you, all that matters is the connection you’re having with the girl right in front of you. That’s all you have to do, connect with them, and get them to be “present” with you, in the moment. Women are highly emotional, and if you bring them to the right place emotionally, they don’t even remotely think about other guys while… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:08 AM |
| 6 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?You’re missing an important aspect of the participation, and you have to figure out what that is. But you are fully capable of it. Maybe your social circle is too small, maybe you aren’t taking care of yourself in important ways, maybe your social skills need some work, maybe you’re going for people who are incompatible with you, maybe you’re not putting in enough effort. I guarantee you people way uglier and poorer than you are having plenty of fulfilling sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:39 PM |
| -2 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?Your problem is you think being attractive is a competition with only a limited number of winners. You’re wrong. Getting laid is more along the lines of a participation trophy. You just gotta play the game, and everyone can do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:21 PM |
| 13 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themPrimarily bc it sounds like you have absolutely no idea how to NOT be a creepy weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:51 PM |
| 15 | A lot of men who complain about attractive men being assholes and still getting laid are themselves bad men who wish they didn’t have to act like a good person in order to get laid.Ehhh I think a lot of them legitimately believe they’re really nice guys and more deserving, and see the “player” as the real asshole bc he won’t commit to a girl lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 05:33 AM |
| 6 | Introverted nerds still can't also be assholes like attractive bad boysLol is it your dream to be an asshole? Fun fact, dude: nerdy, introverted guys are often BIGGER assholes due to their anti-social, maladjusted tendencies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:57 AM |
| -1 | The post-#MeToo culture and the rise of dating apps gave men a reality checkSounds like you don’t really understand the conversation very well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | The post-#MeToo culture and the rise of dating apps gave men a reality checkNo one said it was or is even implying it is. That was from your lack of reading comprehension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | The post-#MeToo culture and the rise of dating apps gave men a reality checkEhh, when people don’t interact with the topic or other commenters in good faith, you don’t really have to interact with them in good faith either. Commenter was never here to have a civil discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 04:32 PM |
| 2 | The post-#MeToo culture and the rise of dating apps gave men a reality checkLol not very perceptive, this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?Look up literally ANY stats, dude. The covid19 mortality rate is literally less worrisome than the flu, which you still have a higher chance of contracting right now. Almost EVERYONE recovers. You’re buying into the mania because you’re gullible. And I don’t follow news, I follow science. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 03:22 AM |
| 0 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?The flu has killed more people this year in the United States ALONE than the coronavirus has WORLDWIDE. Think about that. | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?The flu has killed more people in the past 3 months in the United States ALONE than the coronavirus has worldwide, everyone is seriously overreacting. No one takes the flu this seriously, but fear mongering is rampant with this bc it’s the “unknown” | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 06:30 PM |
| -16 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?Lol do you, bro. Odds are that everything will be fine, these dummies worry to much. Lol | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 04:45 AM |
| 4 | One of the most POWERFUL tools to add in your game | Disqualification |Look up “pickup artists will always be pathetic” by penguinz0 Prepare to cringe as hard as possible lol | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 12:08 AM |
| 2 | How to smoothly shift to conversation after a DM openerBeing funny only opens the door to intimacy with someone. The second step is you making them feel open enough to share with you. Share something with her and then ask her a question. Start simple. Move toward hanging out if she’s giving off positive signals. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Any ideas for fun, unconventional dates?My go-to date used to be taking girls to this water tower I knew about and sneaking in and climbing it and going swimming at the top inside | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Got denied for a kiss, feel great!People underestimate how fulfilling it is to express and act on your desire, regardless of outcome. | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 01:29 AM |
| 11 | How to hookup with girls in college?The best way is honestly just being friends with them and hanging out one on one. Get them alone in your car, bring them back to your room for a movie and drinks. The first step is just getting them to the place where you’re even capable of having sex with them. Before that point, in public, just innocently flirt with them, but not to overtly, gentle teasing is usually best. Give them hugs when you see them and touch them a little (arms, shoulder, hands) if they’re comfortable. That’s honestly t… | /r/seduction | 17/11/19 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Instagram Model Reveals How She Feels About “Nice Guys” and “White Knights” on LAHWF.A man needs a name | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 06:47 AM |
| 6 | Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her.Yep. Start talking to someone else asap. It’s the only way. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 08:05 AM |
| 4 | I do the same things with every single girl and it makes me mad that I do it. But I never change. Need helpMan, if you can get to the make-out sesh no problem, but can’t get any further because you talk too much... I’m sorry, but that’s on you lol | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 08:14 AM |
| 1 | She kept like kissing me rather than just holding the kiss for even a full second, which is not my style...Im the same. Constant, fast kissing just feels weird to me and doesn’t turn me on. Honestly, that fast, repetitive kissing thing feels more awkward to me than a slower, more arousing makeout sesh, but who’s to say what’s awkward? Her kissing thing was awkward for you, so she WAS technically be the awkward one, but if slow kissing is awkward for her, then that’s just the way it goes I guess lol | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What type of venue do you have the most success at?I’m honestly pretty bad at picking up chics, but raves is where I’ve had the most luck by far. I would recommend starting out by just learning how to have fun at raves without the pressure of looking for someone to pick up... I would DEFINITELY recommend taking Molly... and a backup Molly for half way through the rave... go with one or two other friends, if that’s an option... not many more, because it’s hard to get a whole group invited over to an after party or someone’s hotel room, but one or… | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 12:44 AM |
| 2 | What type of venue do you have the most success at?Raves are by far the easiest places to pick up chics | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 07:38 AM |
| 23 | 24 Techniques and Mindsets that Immediately Attract FemalesI feel like most of this is opinion based, but I actually did find myself agreeing with most of these tips. Not bad. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 07:14 PM |
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