Mick427 Archive

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1	Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling. Thanks for proving my point this is about bias. The community is about bias.... Its not. You just want to blame women for the actions of men instead of men themselves. Horseshit	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 05:51 PM
1	Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling. And the vast majority of criminals are still men, even when they do have fathers. So the issue has always been MEN. Care to discuss the extreme privileges women have in the justice system? For example child support or infanticide etc.? No they dont. Youre confusing correlation with causation to prove your bias. As a root cause, not the root cause - so correlation and not causation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 02:09 PM
1	Which relationship dynamic, out of the following three, is the most ideal one? Married 35 years. We started out as Option 3 (wife is very traditional) and are now a variation of Option 2. We will discuss things, suggest options and then it's up to me to make a decision. She's very traditional and as we met when I was in the military, we have developed a strategy and hierarchical structure that works for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 11:50 AM
1	How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub? The wife and I have been married for 35 years. I'm also a passport bro as she's non-western. We are both egalitarian and believe in meritocracy. She's pro-life and I'm pro-choice-ish. I'm more liberal and she's quite conservative. During our years together we've seen most of the talking points IRL in one way or another. The alpha fucks, beta bucks, has played out numerous times and at times we've quietly intervened - especially where the relationship dynamics were way too lopsided. The wife desp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 05:47 AM
1	The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back. Are they? How often do Hollywood couples break up? Yes because Hollywood is normal life... They’re looks matched and rich as hell. Then get married every 2 months. I see you left out sane, intelligent, family orientated....	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 04:22 PM
1	The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back. How about looks-matched people are usually happier together in a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 03:36 PM
1	The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back. You assigned a numerical value to someone and then blamed us for it? Gaslighting much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 03:30 PM
1	The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back. You do get that you are the only one who assigned number values to people? You seriously can't make this shit up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 03:28 PM
3	The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back. The market determines your value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 12:15 PM
6	The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back. Congratulations, you just made his argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 06:54 AM
1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Do you read this subreddit at all? Is ti women saying women must be virgins or have low body counts or is it men? Is it men or women who use phrases like "run through?" Once again, choice in partner does not equal control over women. But to answer your question, I'd say "society" and specifically, usually religion. Even in religious societies, as in Iran and Afghanistan, the women police the women. There's plenty of documentation on this - women are absolutely brutal toward other women. The Sydn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 06:51 AM
1	Women, in order to avoid abusive males, shun the completely opposite demographic. "Moral character, just and good" are rather subjective things trying to be objective. "Just" emphasizes fairness and impartiality, while "good" focuses on positive character and actions. People date partners using their own values as their compass though. Yeah but aim for someone much better than ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 06:35 AM
-2	Women, in order to avoid abusive males, shun the completely opposite demographic. "He has a moral compass", shouldn't he be of moral character? Shouldn't he be just and good, not just "brings some good to the world"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 10:10 PM
-5	Women, in order to avoid abusive males, shun the completely opposite demographic. Define decent men and are you of the same quality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 08:45 PM
-5	Women, in order to avoid abusive males, shun the completely opposite demographic. From personal experience it's the opposite. Of the 20 or so women who were 'available for a relationship', only 2 were worth any effort. One I married, the other had skeletons in the closet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 07:09 PM
0	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Such a sharp wit, or at least half of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 06:54 PM
10	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. My brother was not only a violent offender, he was a known abuser and had women falling over themselves to date him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 03:35 PM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Congratulations, nobody cares	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 03:33 PM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Calm down dear	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 11:58 AM
7	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Odd how Mary's virginity holds virtue... Oh the irony and hypocrisy. As Kevin Samuels always said - You can't make this shit up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:37 AM
3	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Including the Amish, so what? Trump is by far a better pick than the crackling hyena.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:36 AM
10	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Congratulations, yet I don't believe that you're a dissenter most times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:34 AM
16	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Not to mention women automatically siding with other women sans any evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 07:37 AM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. You need to wake up and look around. The internet is not real life. You don't say? Problem being that the internet influences my actual life and politics way more than reality does. Go find a single woman out there who would say that Jordan Peterson is worse than Harvey Weinstein and report back. You mean like Olivia Wilde? Maybe not Peterson, but definitely Andrew Tate. There are horrific, evil, terrible people out there who have never claimed to be feminists and who have never been taken as su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 07:35 AM
21	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Monolithic no, but you lot are definitely hive minded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 06:28 AM
24	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Logical well thought out and presented argument - you're definitely a misogynist, or at least will be called so here.😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 06:27 AM
2	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. SIGN language from a man, now that's definitely a female trait. Way to miss the point Mensan. This isn't about; "who other people are fucking and how much". This is about women complaining about long term relationships and being called out by men for their choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 06:25 AM
13	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Ah the born again virgins crowd, yeah so progressive. The "biblical literalists" definitely are not Christians in this day and age. Some well known podcaster / online chat show host, did a 'study' and non-progressive Christians consistently have been accurate at calling out bad guys, something the progressive Christians are terrible to useless at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 06:20 AM
7	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Oh the irony of the ultimate 'choose better'! You can't make this shit up! Over the decades the men who have mostly been exposed as serial rapists and truly bad guys, have almost exclusively been male feminists. Feminism / feminists has proven time and again that they don't fear and will actively protect the most vile male feminists, because they can be manipulated and controlled. What feminism / feminists hate, fear and attack are those that they cannot manipulate or control. According to femin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 06:11 AM
3	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. What a load of twaddle. Definitely choose better. I'm the guy you pray isn't friends or knows your future good guy husband, because calling out hoes, former hoes and reformed hoes is a sport to me and a calling that is really enjoyable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 05:59 AM
12	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. What a load of absolute horseshit and pearl clutching. This just further proves that women completely lack accountability. "It wasn't me, he fooled me" - Yeah bullshit! As you know, 'choose better' isn't aimed at when the few times a 'bad boy' spends months fooling a woman into sex, but definitely aimed at the obvious. The tatted up, mirror flexing men anyone can recognise and who clearly tell you they're not good men. And that shaming shit you put in there - try again, it stopped working decade…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 05:53 AM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come And still didn't read or care	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 09:54 PM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Yeah not	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 09:04 PM
0	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Psychological contracts are unwritten agreements regarding expectations in relationships. It is a set of informal understandings, beliefs, and commitments that a person sets up or shape in their mind as to how they expect to be treated etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 06:42 PM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD No, because the woman I was with, chose to withhold relevant information, another man's boasting destroyed the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 06:38 PM
1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Agreed. It's not about "unbrideld" so much as different limits and expectations heavily imposed for men vs women. And? It's awesome that you have taken an interest in this hisotircally and recognize that the imposition of sexual constraints on men or women changes with time and culture. Mainly constrained by women. It is strange that you recognize that and yet still posit that sexuality, both men and women but more so and differently for women, has been historically tightly constrained very tigh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 06:35 PM
0	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD When I asked about a woman's experiences, it was because I was invested and wanted to ensure that my psychological contract was aligned. Once before I hadn't done this and ran into her drunk ex, he decided bragging was the way to go - psychological contract destroyed and relationship over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 05:00 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come If I cared, I would read what you wrote and not skimmed over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 04:19 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Did I beg you to care? I’m telling you that women don’t need male protection, and let’s be honest, we never got it. Still don't care You are too butthurt about bears to think rationally. You can't make this shit up. If a man said he was training with a gun you’d congratulate him. Not unless he was John Wicking it. With women you just shoot down everything on principle. Not logical, operating from emotions. Phone 0800123321 they care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 03:12 PM
0	Red Pill men and Blue Pill want the same thing but how they approach it is vastly different Lol that was mostly a joke Mostly This one would contradict the confident, intelligent boss babe part…unless she’s into that. Or has a decent work ethic and understanding nature - we all have to establish careers. As long as you guys are happy 🤷🏽‍♀️. Exactly This just sounds like “She does what she wants at work, but at home she submits to me.” If that’s what she wants to do, then good for her. She doesn't "submit to me", she's submissive not a doormat. If I screw up, she lets me know. I get it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 12:49 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come I’ve been physically attacked by multiple men and guess what, I defended myself. Don't care Nowadays my man takes me to the gun range and I practice with pistols and the AR-15 which I can hit consistent bullseyes with at 50 yards. :) Congratulations. "The "21-foot rule" in law enforcement refers to the principle that a person can close a distance of 21 feet in the time it takes an officer to draw and fire their weapon. This rule, often associated with Dennis Tueller, highlights the rapid closing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 12:42 PM
2	Men not getting matches on dating apps makes sense Thank God for point 8, that automatically excludes all God fearing men. OP should keep us updated on this saga.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 09:06 AM
0	Red Pill men and Blue Pill want the same thing but how they approach it is vastly different I thought it was just: hot, makes sandwiches, has a pussy, cleans the house in a sexy maid outfit, understands the meaning of “love is blind” when he works till 2 AM 3 times a week What's wrong with your criteria, most men want that. The men I know who are married to less intelligent women, are all blue pilled. The married red pill guys, including myself are all married to intelligent competent women. Women who you would call boss babes. The difference being that our wives bring the skillset hom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 08:13 AM
1	Red Pill men and Blue Pill want the same thing but how they approach it is vastly different You lot still don't get it or you're just straight up lying. Rep pill men want submissive women, not "woman to submit to them" - huge difference and one you clearly will never understand. Red pill want competent, confident women who are submissive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 04:47 AM
–	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come You lot chose the bear, ask them for help	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 04:23 AM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come These days nobody cares, just watch the news, absolutely no man cares anymore - enjoy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 12:05 AM
1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality SMFH nothing on this planet has no limit. The hubris believing that everything must be unbridled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 10:30 PM
1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality You mean like the Royal mistress having standing in Court? For a start, promiscuity was actually protected by the crown as was prostitution. "Women were not seen as automatically "ruined" or "fallen" for engaging in sexual activity outside of marriage."	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 06:11 PM
2	"The Red Pill" is just "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" but with shaming tactics and toxicity Correct	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 03:26 PM
4	"The Red Pill" is just "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" but with shaming tactics and toxicity The Red Pill also calls out men and gives advice, it doesn't shame people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 03:12 PM
1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality A simple search: "Victorian Era: The Victorian era is known for its emphasis on female chastity and a double standard where men were more readily forgiven for sexual transgressions than women." Sexual Stigma is primarily enacted by women, men want to get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 06:38 AM
-2	Why do men not want women to accept their rejection? Great, so you agree that when rejected you should look elsewhere? Then why are passport bros getting so much hate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 02:45 PM
0	Male sexuality prevents men from being suitable life partners I’m not sure where this “wall” thing came from either. The term was coined by geneticists and reproductive biologists. It relates to female reproduction and its genetic limits and just like the wall runners refer to, it can sometimes be broken, but there's always another waiting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 08:05 AM
0	Male sexuality prevents men from being suitable life partners The wall is something that geneticists and reproductive biologists coined. It relates to female reproduction and its genetic limits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 08:03 AM
-2	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Seriously, do some damn reading.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 07:59 AM
1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Same as so many women want to be 304s, but hate being associated or called 304. Irony isn't just for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 05:19 AM
1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Your source is some obscure Reddit group? Damn that is funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 10:39 PM
0	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Where did you get this crap from? Men view promiscuous men in a very negative light... Chad is a derogatory term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 10:38 PM
-1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality The myth that men view promiscuous men as some sort of hero is a fallacy promoted by feminism	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 09:23 PM
-1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Men view women who sleep with unsavoury men, dozens of men etc. as poor relationship material, as borne out by statistics. Men learn from their failures, wise men learn from the failures of others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 09:21 PM
-2	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality you don't know what women would do with zero sexual stigma because you've literally never lived in a society where that exists. Proved you wrong, as there have been numerous societies as shown. Look up Japan, they probably have the most liberal view regarding sexuality in existence. You think Canada, New Zealand, Sweden, France etc. are patriarchal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 08:44 PM
0	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Men view women as having lost value after sleeping with them no? No So clearly they see themselves as having negative value at least subconsciously. Wrong Idk why we're acting like that's such an insane conclusion to draw it's just common sense. Common to whom?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 08:39 PM
-1	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality Rubbish, there have been numerous societies "with zero sexual stigma". The Roman empire, Sparta, British Empire before Queen Victoria, Japan and most of the western world today for a start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 08:36 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Don't care.🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 06:35 PM
6	Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceable Replaceable? There are millions of graves that prove exactly how disposable we are.🤣🤣 Now reality check time. In western countries, even the homeless are probably in the top 10% of earners on this planet. Thus western women have an extremely finite resource pool for marriage. In contrast, western men can choose to marry from 90% of women on this planet and are sought after in many countries. From someone who is married to a non-western woman, western women are completely replaceable in relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 06:34 PM
25	Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceable Correct, imagine being told that we're replaceable in a society that treats us as disposable.🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 06:26 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Nope.🤪🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 04:06 PM
4	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come The bad boy you lot love so much - enjoy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 04:06 PM
2	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Nope, there's a whole new pink tax coming.🤪	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 04:05 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come From experience, when men don't interact with women, women complain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 04:02 PM
2	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come I know plenty of men who aren't interacting with women. Guess who complains that they aren't being interacted with?🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 03:59 PM
1	Going your own way (for both genders) is by far the best option How about the complete apathy towards women - zero help, zero interactions. In the workplace it's being reported more and more that men (outside of necessary workplace interaction) are ignoring women completely. Top male teams (sales, engineering etc.) are actively being kept male through hiring practices. Just read a piece by a 47 year old woman, who laments that she's as replaceable as her chair in her workplace. Her friends agree with her impression and all have taken huge pay cuts or were le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 07:47 AM
3	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come You talk about hatred, MRA have been warning women for over a decade about something much more dangerous than hatred - apathy or complete indifference. Now hear the ladies cheer - the men will finally leave me alone? Yes, completely and we are starting to see it in real life. Men not protecting women, not intervening when women get attacked or assaulted, men not helping women at all. Now women will say great I can hire someone, or force the police / company security to intervene etc. - might be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 07:37 AM
3	Going your own way (for both genders) is by far the best option I remember when MGTOW just started gaining traction 15 years ago and everyone was saying how it wouldn't gain ground. Today most men seem to have adopted the philosophy in one way or another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 08:18 PM
1	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. Lack of commitment?🤣😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 01:13 PM
2	Q4M: Would you marry outside of "The West"? I did over 35 years ago and we're still going strong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 10:46 AM
–	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. Yet the demographic with metal health issues and on antidepressants is also single women... IIRC women initiate divorce mainly over financial reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 10:45 AM
–	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. Firstly yes I did and also found the old people one funny, as it's the opposite of what Main Stream Media publishes and why I added it. The other reference Paul Dolan who started the whole debacle on married women being more unhappy than single women, thus if he's wrong married women are happier than single women.🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 08:56 AM
1	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. In the derogatory parlance of the youth, I believe they call it 'pussywhipped.' Probably the truth It may be fun to be single and free, and sure you have less obligations, but if my experience is anything to go by, the older single men I know envy the stable relationships of their married peers. None I know of. Hard to say what the reality is. The grass always appears greener to both sides I suppose. Many older married men long for the freedom and lack of commitment and responsibility of the sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 06:32 PM
1	Q4M: Why do (some of) you think that society just happens to cater to women's needs now, and ignores men's needs? Men in STEM are doing well, as are those in traditional trades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 05:26 PM
1	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2019/6/4/18650969/married-women-miserable-fake-paul-dolan-happiness Paul Dolan is full of crap and makes up the narrative to suit his needs. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/health-11595715.amp	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 03:33 PM
1	Q4M: Why do (some of) you think that society just happens to cater to women's needs now, and ignores men's needs? Doesn't the modifier "American" mean that they're in the USA?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 03:15 PM
0	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. It's a biological fact that testosterone levels drop for men in relationships and drop again when children come into the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 02:45 PM
1	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. Highlighted a point (up to 65) and you came back and tell me all about the over 65s....🤣 YES, as highlighted by research, women over 65 level out in their happiness - meaning they get slightly happier, heavily dependent on relationships with their family. EDIT: 28% of women over 65 suffer from depression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 02:43 PM
3	Q4M: Why do (some of) you think that society just happens to cater to women's needs now, and ignores men's needs? How much of this is due to men and boys fleeing education because it started to be seen as feminized/weak? "Fleeing education?" A friend's daughter is graduating with a degree in communication and journalism, in a world where uneducated journalistic podcasters are drawing bigger audiences than mainstream media. Boys from cultures that value education are still doing fine. Any of those "cultures" from countries in the west?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 08:17 AM
1	Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling. You guys do the same thing with boys raised by single moms. Research definitely disagrees with this. The vast majority of criminals, the incarcerated... Name the negative outcome and research shows single motherhood as a root cause.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 06:22 AM
4	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. This reads like men making up revenge fantasies because they can't fathom that women are happy single. According to research, single women get unhappier as they age, up to 65. Men get happier as they age. Men would happily take a shitty relationship over being single. Women would happily take being single over a shitty relationship. Bella DePaulo did an excellent article on this, that is usually misquoted research: “…it appears that people who reported anything less than “strongly agreeing” that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 06:18 AM
-12	Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one. You say women should bring "more" to a relationship. And? Then you say "it's because you're not pretty enough". Is it a false statement? What exactly is it that you want women to bring to a relationship that they're not bringing? Respect? How to treat a man? Endurance? I thought women were supposed to have their pick of any man they want? That's delusional That men just want a partner. And? Now, it's the opposite. How so? Women's standards are too high. That's the claim we hear over and over aga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 06:00 AM
2	How Do You Rank a Man’s "Sexual Market Value (SMV)"? He's asking what makes one man more attractive to you than another?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 11:44 AM
0	How Do You Rank a Man’s "Sexual Market Value (SMV)"? So men are homogenous to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 11:43 AM
2	Hey PPD! What is an unpopular opinion that you are thoroughly convinced is true about modern dating after many years? Spent 15 years in the military and yes many of them were extremely willing, but when opportunity arose most chickened out. I've seen some seriously weird crap in my life and definitely way less than 50% of the men I've known (military, construction, PMC, field service) were willing - even with alcohol present, that number didn't go up much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 03:02 AM
0	Hey PPD! What is an unpopular opinion that you are thoroughly convinced is true about modern dating after many years? Keep believing that. From my experience the women are way more freaky than the men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:57 AM
3	Women ask that men evolve to catch up, I argue that some have..but they don't like it Totally agree on the work thing. My wife is non-western and one of the huge attractions between us was that we both wanted careers, but we're willing to support each other to achieve that purpose. I was a stay-at-home dad for almost a decade due to circumstances. The problem with women who aren't lazy, especially non-western women is that they hate inactivity and quickly fill it with hobbies, work or enterprise - meaning they build businesses out of nothing. Baking, cooking even sewing all quick…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:54 AM
-1	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? The same way women don't believe that men don't like boob jobs, bbl, lip filler etc. own group bias. Plus with women there is a clear difference between guys they'd only have casual relationships with and marriage material. Jacked dude = casual Other dude = marriage	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:38 AM
1	Hey PPD! What is an unpopular opinion that you are thoroughly convinced is true about modern dating after many years? So gangbangs, blowbangs don't make much sense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:28 AM
1	Hey PPD! What is an unpopular opinion that you are thoroughly convinced is true about modern dating after many years? Nope, straight sex. Most men will not participate in group sex (gangbangs etc.). First noticed this in the military, then college and finally civilian life. It's a small sector of men who will participate willingly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:27 AM
0	Hey PPD! What is an unpopular opinion that you are thoroughly convinced is true about modern dating after many years? Group sex doesn't happen more often because the women are unwilling participants, but because the men aren't willing to participate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:09 AM
1	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant To the normal person maybe, but ....	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:28 PM
1	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant Ah the gaslighting.🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:27 PM
–	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant I remember one of the British female dating and relationship coaches, stating that the average 23 year old woman today, has slept with more partners than the average 53 year old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:05 PM
3	For men who have been approached at least once in their life: Do you think the women who approached you were in your league? Been approached a few times, they've been a variety - below, in my league and above my league. Below my league when I was single, in and above my league when I was married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:19 AM
1	Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it? Bodily autonomy as in no to circumcision?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 10:28 PM
1	Wish-fulfillment in fiction is not limited to one gender. Both men and women have used such tropes in romance books and video games It's almost like we're a binary species... Yes, men and women have loved interests in the opposite sex. Between the sexes, there's a very distinct difference in how that love interest is written or portrayed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 09:14 PM
2	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? The answers are: You've either got a loan, wealthy, got grants or worked and paid it off. Straight white men have zero DEI	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 08:12 PM
2	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? What the hell are you on about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 06:06 PM
2	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? We have female only toilets in the main office building.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 05:58 PM
1	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? It was ongoing from the 1980s and only came to light when Angie Heal discovered it in something like 2007. Reports had been actively suppressed from 2001 onwards. How big a scumbag are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 05:55 PM
1	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? Seriously?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 05:46 PM
2	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/the-silence-surrounding-grooming-gangs/	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 05:43 PM
2	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/grooming-gang-victims-authorities-iicsa-b2005083.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 05:42 PM
2	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? https://uk.news.yahoo.com/labour-mp-shares-message-telling-rotherham-sex-abuse-victims-shut-sake-diversity-114807910.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAABtQsyW15zPVy_6fgw9eWNMNx2pWXOnNJoRLclZb6p8jyS03fv-sYCS7YU0YZvdtS2ox7GdMwNhCRo-2ymLdy2JS4vrVHuQnZRuE44dxZ7jy7ukpXSSiLYc1y3wl0DdJvTvhMd-2Pd86aFQqtpQG0rPDp7zfm_r4KwC503fvoWL9	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 05:40 PM
2	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? I’ve had gender neutral bathrooms at some of my jobs and it was not an issue at all. We have some too and women avoid them There is no need for bathrooms to be gendered. I don’t really care if I was “close” to the last person who sat on the toilet or not. The women at my job do care	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 04:53 PM
4	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? The #MeToo movement had nothing to say for the working-class girls who were systematically abused. Elite feminists actually told the abused girls to shut up. The police under direction of the government arrested the abused victims for prostitution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 04:50 PM
0	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? UK grooming gangs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:33 PM
–	Denial, Anger, Bargain, Depression, Acceptance model for the struggles of single men I'd have to agree in part. Only know 2 and both could easily attract women if they put in some effort, unfortunately both are so entrenched in being single that they're oblivious to the women hitting on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:32 PM
3	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? Are you seriously that close to the entire population?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 10:15 AM
3	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 10:13 AM
3	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? Seriously? Especially when modern feminism has shown that it will support sex fiends over women time and again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 08:43 AM
-2	A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you? Rubbish. Feminism stopped being that decades ago. Modern feminism is deeply intersectional and as proven it'll put men in women's toilets and sports without thinking twice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 08:41 AM
3	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? So if Im a woman who received no financial aid, what does that make me? Wealthy And what is the point of identifying anyone as "dei" if nearly everyone is "dei"? The term really seems to have no meaning whatsoever. That college education kicked in yet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 06:29 AM
1	Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ? Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ? Yes, because it definitely works. There was a skit about a decade ago, about a well dressed man, who took his beautiful date out in his G wagon and ended up at his place for a weekend of passion. The Monday morning you see the beauty walk onto her place of business and noticed the janitor for the first time - her lover the janitor.... He hired the G wagon, bought a second hand suit and fake …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 03:00 AM
–	Until men are allowed male-specific and non-feminist spaces the sex war will not end. Foreign women who visit the US all seem to notice the same thing - US men and women don't like each other, it's borderline hatred. This was how Sweden became the country outside Thailand which has the largest Thai bride population. This is definitely rearing it's ugly head in other countries, but Sweden and the US are definitely leading the race.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 02:24 AM
2	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? What does financial aid have to do with DEI? Everything, control the money and you control access. Y'all cling to your hate of DEI to make you feel better and have no idea what it means. "A study of 829 companies over 31 years found no positive effects from mandatory training, and in some cases, it had negative outcomes." People without financial means get financial aid. Yes they do, as long as.... Being a "diverse" candidate and getting financial aid are not indicative of the other. Absolutely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 01:04 AM
1	Most men who date a younger woman are not doing it for nefarious reasons Wasn't there recently a study regarding Gen Z women dating older?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 06:34 PM
3	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? My candor was a mistake. He was very smart, no doubt. He graduated with honors, but the students below Latin honors aren't technically ranked. It was ostensibly pass/fail system and people didn't really share their grades freely. Understood My undergrad was another Ivy; his was a (decent) state school. He said he did poorly in high school, and didn't care about college, but tested well. I was the better candidate. It wasn't DEI. Apologies, thanks for clarifying that And, as so many of y'all lose…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 06:16 PM
0	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women You fyp is not a reflection of reality. It’s showing you what you want to see. Absolutely agreed, yet there are more and more women complaining (legitimately?) about the dating market. My second point had nothing to do with research. Women are more likely to go to a doctor in general. They are also more likely to encourage their husbands to go which is why married men on average outlive single men. Used to, that research is over 2 decades old People don’t just get degrees for money. It might sur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 05:15 PM
1	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? What flex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 05:11 PM
3	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? Show some source saying most successful women have bad attitudes. Meeting them, working with them, observing the ones that work with my wife....	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 05:06 PM
-3	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women The women on dating apps are looking to date. After 27 you also have to take into consideration biological clock. Women who arnt interested in a relationship and are happy single are not on apps. Yet my fyp on social media keeps bringing up very unhappy women in various stages of life? Women are more likely to go to a doctor and deal with any issues they have vs a man. Absolutely true, the research into female issues (breast cancer, infertility etc.) is well funded versus male issues, which oddl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 05:37 AM
2	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? No they're not insecure. brought up that I went to a "better" undergrad than him You admit to getting worse grades than him - he's pissed that you're a DEI graduate. By your own admission he worked harder and got better grades, but didn't get into the better undergraduate school, yet you did....DEI much? Also, on dating apps, I get more engagement when my undergrad (not grad school) is displayed; and I've had straight male friends explicitly advise not to put my grad school on the apps because i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 05:29 AM
5	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? Firstly, according to feminists my wife has it all - an excellent education, well paying job, published scientist, two children and grandchildren. I'm in the top percent of earners and wife outearns me, is higher educated than me and in her field she's well known and respected. Is she sprouting the Boss-babe crap? No, she's concerned that she's not doing enough around the house and that she's not keeping the house clean enough - both are crap, as the house is virtually spotless and she cooks mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 05:16 AM
12	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? Intimidated? No, they're usually just irritating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 09:23 PM
1	Question for the redpill men about feminity in women The more I know regarding what my partner wants or expects and visa versa, the better decision making we can achieve. That actually removes the need for a designated head of the household	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 03:05 PM
2	Question for the redpill men about feminity in women Life is grey, not black and white. If you document details regarding your wants, needs, expectations etc., the grey can be 'controlled'. In the military we understood that the commander on scene has the best chance of success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 03:01 PM
3	Redpillers think that women in the past were perfect, but they often just hid it better Redpillers think that women in the past were perfect, but they often just hid it better Highly doubt that and yes they did hide it better to an extent I think there is this idea among a lot of redpillers/the manosphere that women in the past were perfect or chaste. FYI, before Queen Victoria modesty had a completely different take and was rarely legislated. You mean like the 1920s, 1940s, 1950s etc.? Each decade over the last century and a half, have had sexual awakenings, so nope to that. Every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 12:14 PM
1	Question for the redpill men about feminity in women My wife is the head of the house and I'm the head of the household. We have a relationship agreement in place regarding our beliefs and expectations as they pertain to the relationship/marriage. Obviously there have been times when this has changed and like responsible adults, we discussed and listed the changes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 11:36 AM
1	Question for the redpill men about feminity in women Who do you think supported her and made sure everything else was in alignment for her to study and earn the abilities etc.? Only by my managing and ensuring everything went smoothly was the opportunities available to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 05:43 AM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Do you mean the advise to not preach the philosophy? (Like Discourses 3.21?) I don't think it means not discussing it. Also, it's not "primary tenant" by any standard. That's just a recommendation to not make a fool out of yourself. "Don't explain your philosophy, embody it," suggests that the philosophy isn't about intellectual understanding but about practical application and then adapting. Live in accordance with one's values, acting in a way that demonstrates virtue, wisdom, courage and temp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 04:31 PM
5	Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men? Yeah, nicknames like Tripod come to mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 01:40 PM
14	Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men? Is it the same for men? Nope, never heard a man comment on this beyond the "good for him" or "he must be packing".	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 08:53 AM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Marcus was not a Stoic philosopher. He was a practicing Stoic who happened to leave his personal diary. Yale disagrees with you; "Marcus Aurelius was, in a word, the last famous Stoic philosopher of antiquity." Where did you read that nonsense? I don't remember ever seeing word "value" in either Epictetus or Seneca. The notion of value goes against their entire philosophy. Wasn't the primary tenant to not explain your philosophy? They called it worth. And they most certainly have not emphasized …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 07:00 AM
4	Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options? Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options? Yes Women tell us that most average men are boring, yet can't handle it when a man actually has an exciting life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 08:04 PM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Sorry, what are talking about? Stoic philosophers never said anything about any "value". Stoicism teaches to withhold your assent to a judgment for an impression until you had a chance to analyze it. Stoic philosophers like Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius emphasized building value through internal strength and resilience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 07:37 PM
0	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Gaslighting definitely is not helpful	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 05:43 PM
0	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Are you serious? One of the core beliefs of stoicism is the building of value through the cultivation of internal strength and resilience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 05:42 PM
0	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Even the stoics knew wealth doesn't equate to money, but to value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 04:08 PM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture It's funny that society has already agreed that "legal and consensual" is not enough ground to allow something. It'll never be enough Not to mention that "legal" is a meaningless self-serving weasel word. Freedom of association is "legal and consensual", until it isn't. Certain groups being excluded is seen as enough of a reason to make "freedom of association" take a backseat to the wants of the excluded groups. Yet those people lose all the time and the definition is rest time and again	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 04:05 PM
0	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Sometimes it's better to embrace mediocrity and be happy with what you have. Nope You basically confirmed my point - you see relationships as market. Wrong. And you're asking in ho is it a cult of money and sex? Say what? Listen to the red pill gurus, the goal of each action should be maximizing your social worth to achieve sexual gratification. Rubbish Rising your net worth through capital. Nett worth isn't just money To me red pill is a symbol of destruction capitalism brings upon society, how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 04:02 PM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Exactly. Ignore western society and find what you need outside of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:57 PM
-2	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture It's built around the cult of money and sex. Where? It objectifies both men and women basically making it a market exchange, where you're basically making yourself a product and treat opposite sex as consumable goods. It is a market, same as the labour market etc. Yeah, that's certainly healthy, especially for people who lack luck and resources needed to achieve success. Seriously? How so? Even the unluckiest and resource poor can achieve an apprenticeship. Not everything is within your reach, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:54 PM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Sure, but their male kids are again going to suffer again in the cycle. Nope, there are plenty of eligible partners Best option is to fully understand the situation and resolve it while it fits the needs of everyone Or to evaluate and adapt to the situation or overcome it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:49 PM
-3	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Goofy = Earn a trade, work hard at upskilling, build yourself up and don't be a dick. What absolutely terrible advice.🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:40 PM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture No	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:07 PM
1	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture No	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:06 PM
0	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture Women should be free to do whatever they wish, as long as it's legal and consensual - this goes for men too. My advice to youngmen would be to earn a trade, build your skills and if he wishes to get married, find a non-western wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 12:45 PM
-6	Men got scapegoated for Purity Culture We are, you don't like it. Men should build themselves ('wealth', stoicism etc.) and then if so inclined, in their mid 20s upwards they should seek a wife in non-western countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 12:33 PM
0	A lot of promiscuous men are good at manipulating women and don't care about their feelings, and that's why they're promiscuous This is what I feel like red pillers and men in genreal avoid talking about, the more promiscous are the men they have a tedency to not care about the woman at all and it makes sense. No we don't. We keep telling women to see if the man you want to be with is accepted by other men who are in relationships. Men in relationships keep promiscuous men at arms length, because we know exactly how manipulative they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 09:58 AM
1	Is it true most guys would cheat given the opportunity? From experience, no. Most men I've known, who are in committed relationships have almost all been proportioned and have turned it down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 09:45 AM
2	Can we agree on something to start building bridges over growing chasm? Nope. Personally I'm just here to see if Black Pillers are right - popcorn and watch the world burn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 08:15 AM
2	Men do find women their age physically attractive. The studies show 22-25 is the age ALL men find most attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 03:36 PM
2	Question for the redpill men about feminity in women This describes my wife. She out earns me and still sees me as the head of the household.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 03:35 PM
1	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. Damn, so it's the 6.5s now?😱🤕🤣 Looks like you just cannot please a modern western woman. Go passport bros...🎉🎊	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 11:03 AM
–	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. Damn, so it's the 6.5s now?😱🤕🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 10:18 AM
1	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? I did read. Clearly not ...it was notable that the bus rides... You know to and from school etc. Because you made the claim? Observation. Never said anything about understanding women, actually said quite the opposite. And you are wrong. Nope Are you sure you interact with enough with women? Wife, two children, 4 sisters, female friends, exes etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 11:58 AM
–	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? So they were already wearing makeup before? Didn't you just contradict yourself? Did you read Why would they specifically lower their skirts when a female teacher is present? It's not like that's something uncomfortable. It makes more sense if they lowered their skirts when a creepy male teacher is present. How the hell would I know? If I'm all dolled up and look good, I wouldn't make myself look less good just because there are only females. Doesn't even make sense And? You have never seen wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 10:34 AM
–	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? Are you saying girls changed their dresses and their entire beauty routine based on which class they had next? No, they'd touch up or improve the makeup they were already wearing. No, they rolled the top of their skirts up and down to raise or lower the hemline - how the hell don't you know this? Men truly think too highly of themselves. No we don't, that's why this behaviour baffles us I guess the concept of wanting to feel pretty always us mind boggling if it weren't for sex. what a primitive …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 09:52 AM
–	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? As I went to an All boys high school and had to visit the all girls high school, it was notable that the bus rides and classes with male teachers were all preceded by makeup sessions. Oddly the ugly female teacher's class was suddenly full of makeup free girls with knee length skirts. We also had women in the military and had to transport female cadets and soldiers from point to point. When we showed up, they usually looked like soldiers under training (including the female instructors). By the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 09:32 AM
–	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? Absolutely agree and it's ALL for attention or to one up her friends i.e. get more male attention than the rest. If my wife went out and dolled herself up more than she did to go out with me, I'd walk away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 09:17 AM
–	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? This isn't the gotcha you think it is. Absolutely. The studies done on this show just how extremely manipulative women are and it's definitely not flattering to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:50 AM
–	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? Women in prisons wear makeup. You seriously want to go down a route that psychologists have studied to death and the outcome is definitely not flattering to women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:49 AM
–	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? Women don't wear makeup for men If you don't wear it when no men are present, then we might start believing you. We definitely know that you don't wear it for your partner, that's a provable fact. No women believes men can tell if a woman has no makeup on or if it's just "natural makeup" No man cares So I'm curious, would you be receptive to unsolicited feedback from your SO while you're getting ready to go out? Like if she said you'd look better if you shaved the beard. Never met a woman who di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:05 AM
3	A site to do a background check on men only? .. estimated salary.. how is this progressive If somebody told me they're only on a date with me because of some website "trust verification", that date would end right there. I've had my share of stalkers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 08:24 PM
2	Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference? I think when women talk about size, they mean girth not length. I'm average in length and easily hit my wife's cervix, whilst above average in girth and she definitely enjoys that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 07:59 PM
7	Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ? Nina Hartley always says 6" is fun, over that is a paycheck. Her husband is 6" and she absolutely gushes about the fun she has with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 10:26 AM
3	Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ? I'm not big and if not careful I hit the wife's cervix. With the right position etc., I can hit the A spot, but it's slow and careful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 10:24 AM
3	Men not going to college Nope, just good communication and wrote the psychological contact down in a relationship contract	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 02:02 AM
1	Men not going to college The happiest relationships I've come across are the ones where the psychological contract for the relationship was written down in a relationship contract. The common factor between them all was that they all had a plan, so knew exactly how it was going to play out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 01:32 AM
2	Men not going to college Not what I'm saying. The happiest relationships I've come across are the ones where the psychological contract for the relationship has been written down in a relationship contract. The common factor between them all was that they all had a plan, so knew exactly how it was going to play out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 01:31 AM
2	Men not going to college You are the exception not the rule. Nope, I know a few guys who did the same But recognize that in most circumstances this is not the case. Actually the others had exactly the same discussion with their spouse and also established a relationship contract. The common factor between us was that we all had a plan and put that plan into a relationship contract, so knew exactly how it was going to play out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 10:02 PM
7	Men not going to college If Mom was a stay at home Mom, then no way it will work with me. My mother was a SAHM, my wife is highly educated, I was blue collared and she got more degrees, boards, certifications etc. after we were married. Another issue is children. Generally one party needs to cut back hours at work to be the primary parent. In my experience men are not willing to do that. I stayed home and looked after the children until they were 18 and then rebuilt my career. So if high earning women want to be able to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:07 PM
1	Most men don't want to face the truth. I observe through my crystal ball, that this is going over your head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 11:41 AM
4	Modern monogamy has become a system that relies on men not knowing they have options with the market nowadays, women just have power in perpetuity. they are going for younger men. Sexually yes men might have something in their 30's, but it is probably what is effectively prostitution especially if they got none earlier. These days almost all western relationships are some form of prostitution before we get wall copers, that wall is being transferred to the guys in terms of prospects. The wall is a term used by Reproductive Endocrinologists	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 11:40 AM
2	Questions for redpillers Hi, I'm a 20 year old guy. I'd consider myself on the bluepill side, I think feminism's a good thing and I don't like the manosphere. I may not be the perfect ally but I'm not on the redpill side for sure. Just say you're a male feminist - although most of them turned out to be.... Yeah, maybe don't. I've always been curious why some men oppose feminism and I want to ask some questions. Define feminism, as we're way past the equality stuff. If women are being discriminated against and violated b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 05:47 AM
1	Modern monogamy has become a system that relies on men not knowing they have options Absolutely	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 05:29 AM
0	Modern monogamy has become a system that relies on men not knowing they have options Personally I'd say milfs in your late teens and early 20s for experience and then bring the age steadily down as you age and achieve financial stability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 05:15 AM
4	Modern monogamy has become a system that relies on men not knowing they have options Modern monogamy has become a system that relies on men not knowing they have options You're missing a piece - men not knowing they have options when they have power in the dating market Women have power in the sexual market almost continually, most want to transition into the relationship market. Unfortunately the relationship market works in opposites for men and women. Women start out with all the power and then lose it over time. Men are the opposite, they have limited power, but with work an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 04:55 AM
1	Most men don't want to face the truth. Rubbish. Observation is a primary source of many things, you just have to state that it's your source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 04:42 AM
2	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table Clean I'm guessing	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:58 PM
1	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table It actually describes most tech directors including my own - I've met plenty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:15 PM
4	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table Let's see; aged 45 - 49, nice company and private car, nice house, 6"1' tall, athletic, well travelled and a damn good salary...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 05:45 PM
0	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table My wife agrees.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 05:39 PM
6	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table Maybe you should encourage the men in these careers (these definitely aren't just jobs), to date and get into relationships. I work with plenty of single / unmarried engineers, hell two of our directors are single.😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 05:36 PM
6	Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the table Wow, as a lowly senior design engineer I clearly don't make the cut.😱😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 05:33 PM
19	If marrying is so dangerous, why do men still marry in 2025? For any PPD married men here: why did you marry? Always believed I'd be a bachelor for life, until meeting my now wife. We've built a life together through sickness, poverty and a whole lot more, through support and love. Hasn't always been smooth sailing between us, but we've adapted and overcome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 11:56 AM
1	Most men don't want to face the truth. So you're pulling stuff out of Uranus and stating it as factual?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 11:50 AM
1	Most men don't want to face the truth. You make some bold statements, I'd like to know where you got the evidence for this. Most men's sense of self is dependent on how women see them. Even the gays? They might not consciously acknowledge it, but its true. Says who? Their sense of self-worth is linked to women's perception of them, which is why many see being a virgin as a bad thing. Says who? This makes it very easy for women to manipulate them. Even the gay and bisexual guys, because I've heard the exact opposite If men want women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 05:35 AM
1	Redpill men need to raise their standards You're the one asking the questions, you can stop with the subjective and be specific. How do I know what you are looking for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 07:46 PM
2	Redpill men need to raise their standards To me, TRP, MGTOW and Stoicism are the tenants of knowledge and know how, that helps ground me and makes me better understand society and my place in society. It helps me try and understand female nature and their viewpoints as they pertain to daily life, marriage and friendship. It further grants me knowledge to guide me through being a better husband, father, friend and colleague, by first ensuring that I know and understand myself and my place in society. And lastly it pushes me to seek knowl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 07:31 PM
1	Redpill men need to raise their standards Yeah, I'll take things that are not going to happen for $500.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 06:44 PM
1	Most men don't want to face the truth. Please Cite this study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 06:14 PM
2	Redpill men need to raise their standards Ideologies usually refer to a set of beliefs, doctrines that back a certain social institution or a particular organization. What are the Red Pill beliefs or doctrines and what social institution or particular organization do they back?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 05:53 PM
1	Redpill men need to raise their standards Redpill men need to raise their standards You mean virgin at marriage, fit and friendly isn't high enough? That's like 1% of women. So many of the redpill community seem hellbent on chasing the most shallow, 2 dimensional women. 2 dimension how? Many of them complain that the women they are chasing want 6-foot men with 6 inches, and 6 figures. They are chasing? If TRP men are chasing these women, then they aren't TRP. Despite this being an often false assumption, even if its true, it makes no se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 06:57 AM
0	Redpill men need to raise their standards Philosophy, not ideology	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 06:52 AM
1	Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating. I'm from a non-western country and culture, men where I'm from hold these beliefs at a much higher prevalence than American men. Additionally they are the ones attracted to pill spaces, and it makes talking about normal dating practices impossible on this subreddit. Exactly. I'm non-western and trying to explain to people that what's called red pill here is the norm in those countries. Not to mention that misogyny is more than just words in these countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 07:14 PM
2	Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating. Absolutely and the really odd thing is that the traditional non-western women that are so attractive to passportbros, aren't traditional except in the western sense.🤣 These are the non-western boss babes and career women.😱😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 05:50 PM
1	A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry. Yeah, not going down any route where I ask a female colleague whether she's been sexually assaulted etc. There's simply no good ending to that one. If they volunteer the information, no problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 03:05 PM
1	A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry. Not to be a dick here but as a man how are you going to say things that target women aren’t happening I’ve seen men slut shame and shame women’s sexuality that’s not to say women don’t but I see men do it. How can I speak to your experience? I've not had that experience and the women I worked with were tough as nails, plus knew their job inside and out. Most doctrines/SOP I encountered were written by women. My current career field is overwhelmingly male similar to engineering and every senior f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 02:58 PM
1	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere You only do research that confirms your bias, that much is true. Nope, plenty of times I find enough evidence to change my mind on certain things. You’re not in a position to ask for a definition of misogyny which aligns to your own, you’re not that important, qualified or educated. So only the elites get definitions, but "I'm repeating “it’s not true” over and over again whilst ignoring facts is beyond stupidity". Ignoring gender based violence, because of course you do, because it hurts your f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 11:56 AM
4	A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry. policing and shaming women’s sexuality That's strictly an online thing, IRL it's women who do this, especially married women. Dehumanizing female sex workers Another female trait, except for the extremes like Bonnie Blue and Lisa Sparx, where the only quips were basically "gross" and the Ferrari jokes. questioning any women’s success and even assuming they’re a DEI and didn’t qualify Yeah, not. Having worked in engineering for decades, the vast majority of men actually try to help and mentor fem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 05:27 AM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. My eldest brother and former best friend are misogynistic and abusive, yet they never lacked female company.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 09:04 PM
3	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Keir called it a documentary. Why you do care? Because it's complete fiction The only incidents you found? I like doing my own research misogyny online Define misogyny, because I've seen true misogyny and it's horrific. In your worst nightmares you can't imagine true misogyny. “Glossing over online bullying” again you’re ignoring police statements from the case. The bullying was established and repeated by the victim Insane comment about aliens. As valid as Adolescence Like Will Cornick, this is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 07:57 PM
3	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere It wasn’t presented by the PM as a fact, that’s disingenuous. He called it a documentary UK of school boys stabbing and killing school girls. The only incidents I found don't match the show at all. There’s been a handle of incidents and because it’s directly inspired by something that is very worrying, the government want school children to watch it because fictional portrayals are a good teaching method. And zero have anything to do with the manosphere or Andrew Tate In the show the main focus …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 11:58 AM
1	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere I've watched all of the manosphere slowly get deranged by the need to make money. Wonder why? Rollo has some good stuff to say, but the need to keep making new content and make money has deranged him IMO. Black Pigeon is better I think 60s ideology affected men as well. Nope, some men changed most didn't. I also think that what Feminism got mostly wrong is the biological component. Men didn't change in the ways feminism thought they would. Exactly Nor did women, really. Nope they definitely did …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 11:45 AM
0	CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good Good luck with the future divorce.🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 07:35 AM
5	CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good And TRP men are bashed for objectifying women?😱	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 07:34 AM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Work on literacy: "Sorry but IF you need a one way relationship to feel bond, problem is you." Absolutely, you need to state this to women You said there are no bonds, I say bonds are created through these transactions. At the present divorce and cheating rates, those bonds are pretty thin. Never met a sucessful asshole which didn't start relationships by being "nice" (positive interaction). You seem more RP than me It's just that... lot of broken women in the west right? One could even say prev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 06:27 AM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. You guys think women like bad boys because to an introvert every extrovert is a shallow bully. I was the proverbial nice/good guy, plenty of female friends. Thanks to a TBI and early 'red pilling', I became an arsehole and treated women like disposable objects. This included either not using their given names, or purposely using incorrect names. Spoiler alert, almost needed a social secretary to keep my dating life straight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 06:21 AM
5	CMV: dating is harder for women because we have to look good We are expected to learn how to do our make-up YT has thousands of tutorials Botox, Fillers, Designer handbags, Breast augmentation, BBLs etc Most men either dislike these or downright hate them Designer handbags, even the fake ones are a huge red flag	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 06:14 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Whatever its origin or basis in reality, the grifting dynamic has taken large parts of the mansophere well past anything reasonable. Pray for tell I don't have any special contempt for the manosphere though as this modern social-media-powered grifting dynamic distorts many things this way. Care to name a few? There is some blame for the inaccurate beliefs about gender that have been spread, but to be fair to feminists Completely missing the amalgamation of feminism and the sexual revolution? (a)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 06:09 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Correct and we've been saying this for years. fictional Netflix series "Adolescence." Which was presented by the PM to parliament as factual but even in this one it got something right.... Correct, they unintentionally drop truth bombs and then completely ignore them The idea that all these red pill creators can get so much traction and convince men of things that don't resonate with their personal experience is incredibly foolish. Absolutel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 05:52 AM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. The reason for marriage is to make your partner miserable? Oh yes, it's fantastic 🤩 We found the Cuban’s beliefs to be shockingly misogynistic. Now that makes sense - westerners find most other cultures misogynistic Social democracy is better than our system for sure. Even America before Reagan was better than our system. Unfortunately social democracy almost always becomes something more nasty You said men are happier now than ever. Did I? Now you say they’re miserable cause women have rights (…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 09:39 PM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Sorry but if you need a one way relationship to feel bond, problem is you. Where did I state that? Best relationships are actually transactional but... costs and gains are essentially emotional. It's not a zero sum game because... both of us can gain more then we invested. Which makes entire thing messy, fuzzy, so you can't write a simple guide on it. Isn't this what I said? But not all people are nice, right. I would also argue that Western women are on average selfish. Agreed The winning strat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 07:06 PM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Men are miserable because of capitalism. Nope, woke liberals and feminism The working class are poor because of exploitation. Pretty please name the system that doesn't exploit the working class. There is no such thing as a useless degree. Ask your barista And your experience with Cubans is enough to claim you know a culture? Exactly where do I claim this? Telling you that Cubans don't hate women is a simple fact. I’m Cuban American. You’re not. Cubans treat women like garbage. So you mean Cuban…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 06:37 PM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Men are more miserable than ever. Male loneliness epidemic remember? Male suicide epidemic remember? And what does that have to do with transactional relationships? You haven’t been to Cuba. So to know Cubans, I have to have visited Cuba? Don’t pretend to know Cubans. It’s an awful culture based in machismo. I fought against Cuban conscripts and regular forces. We captured a few and had regular talks with them. We met other Cubans at the peace talks and also spoke to the Cuban civilian contracto…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 11:54 AM
1	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Actually they could go to their local parish / church / pastor, as many did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 05:47 AM
0	If you're 'lonely' purely due to a lack of sex, you're not 'lonely', you're just horny. Elaborate. Do you have feeling about taking poops or eating meals? Or are there certain sociological connections to those bodily functions that incur emotions? Go read people's experiences in places like dead bedroom. From their partner or casually with strangers who couldn't care less if they lived or die? Be honest. Yes, look it up - there are women who only need casual sexual relationships - without them they feel lonely Sounds like you've learned about one of your individual challenges. Mayb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 05:46 AM
3	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Again rubbish	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:32 PM
1	If you're 'lonely' purely due to a lack of sex, you're not 'lonely', you're just horny. Absolutely, but one cannot claim to be lonely while insisting that their needs or desires contributing to it or purely physical. Rubbish, plenty of people need the physical to not be lonely. Again, your dick doesn't have emotional feelings. How about the women I know who need the physical (sex) to not feel lonely? I'm not a mind reader but if you want us to care about genuine feelings you have, you should be communicating them. It is difficult empathize or care about purely physiological needs, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:31 PM
3	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Achievement and survival is transactional. That’s a shallow relationship used as a business transaction. So no sex or happiness, yet transactional? Those are military relationships and some of the strongest relationships in existence. I’m from Cuba. They hate women there. No they don't Everyone’s happiness has gone down. Nope, men stayed the same or improved slightly. That’s because unregulated capitalism is killing us. The American Dream is dead. The world smells its rotting corpse especially n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:26 PM
2	If you're 'lonely' purely due to a lack of sex, you're not 'lonely', you're just horny. If you're 'lonely' purely due to a lack of sex, you're not 'lonely', you're just horny. As loneliness is actually a state of mind, so it's up to the individual why they feel lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:14 PM
3	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Proving you wrong, as they could manipulate the system to achieve divorce	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:06 PM
2	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Divorces are lower for the younger generations than the boomers. Rubbish. The biggest uptick in divorces came from boomers finally being able to leave their miserable loveless marriages. Correct. After no fault divorce was introduced in the 1980s divorce rates hit a peak and have steadily been dropping. Guess what else dropped? Marriage rates and women's happiness. My family members didn’t marry for love. They laughed at the idea. The men married for sex and domestic labor. The women married for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:02 PM
3	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Rubbish. Before no fault divorce the primary reasons were; adultery, unreasonable behavior, desertion and IIRC separation from the marital home or bed for a year or two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 08:43 PM
2	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. They did, but most had the forethought to know that financial slumps are mostly temporary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 08:01 PM
3	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Today? They’re less transactional today they ever have been. Keep believing that.🤣 The sheer number of divorces disproves that theory. Relationships in the past were expected to be business deals. You have sex with me and clean my house and in return you get to have my income. There was no love involved. What utter rubbish! My parents, aunts and uncles (Silent Generation), older half- brothers and sisters all married for love. Now, people are looking for emotional fulfillment and that harder to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 07:45 PM
3	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Marriage is not the only type of relationship. Pretty important one though, definitely not equal to a situationship, FWB, casual/sexual or business relationship? That’s the point. I suspect you have several buddies that you can chat with or just hang out with and expect nothing from them. Being a man, all my relationships require mutual respect and loyalty at a minimum. Not all relationships fit the definition of a repugnant transaction. Name one that doesn't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 03:07 PM
2	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. That’s not true at all about relationships unless you are talking purely business. What's not true? If you want to break it down to some purely conjecture brain chemical nuisance than yes, we talk to each other for dopamine. But at that point it’s so far gone that this argument is no longer even speaking of a human system, rather brain tissue. IIRC, the primary reason for divorce in the western world is financial, as in the husband doesn't make enough, loses his job etc. How the hell does that N…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 02:59 PM
2	Men embrace redpill because mainstream advice is dogshit If around 60% of men aged 18-29 in the US are single, how does that reconcile with 80% not being able to get dates? They're older than 29?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 02:53 PM
7	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Yes, because that is what is happening...🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 11:51 AM
5	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. There's no dialog to be had when they have no social awareness, treating women like NPC's in The Sims. And who keeps telling men that their protection, attention etc. is not only unnecessary, it's downright toxic? You can be expected to care about people who constantly call you toxic for simply trying to interact with them, help them or protect them and then call you toxic for not interacting with them, helping them or trying to protect them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:51 AM
8	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. Relationships are the start of family-founding. When you move in with someone or marry someone they are your new family. Were, not are. Relationships today mean absolutely nothing, as there's no bond - almost everything in today's relationships are transactional. The best relationships are founded in friendship, not transactional tit for tat. You just negated your point above. The worst relationships are the ones where one person thinks they're better than the other, and treat them accordingly. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:45 AM
1	The redpill counterargument of "there is no magic formula" Mainstream media adverts and governmental representatives tell us that: 1 in 4 of the homeless are women and that we need to reduce that. More women today are being injured or killed due to bad work practices (yet women only represent 3% of workplace related injuries. Women are the primary victims of war (completely ignoring the male fatalities). Men make up 97% of rapists (completely ignoring the fact that 'legally only men' can rape and that when measured 'made to penetrate' victims are on par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 05:59 AM
2	The redpill counterargument of "there is no magic formula" If that’s what red pill actually was, it would be called self improvement, not red pill TRP teaches men exactly how disposable they are, even Chris Rock gets it right: "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something" That's the fundamental of TRP and nobody has been able to disprove it, so they attack it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 08:35 PM
1	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women This is really sad. Not that you do this, if you do, I don't give a fuck. It's sad that you see it as a flex. So the truth is a flex? Where did I agree with using people? You know when people work unnecessarily hard to demonstrate a trait, it means they don't have it, right? Fucking Shakespeare talked about it. There's a point here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 08:31 PM
1	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women You are mad that women get... grumpy about it?! Nope Fathers abandoning their families to go get milk is such a common and mundane trope that my son told me a joke about it in 1st grade. I had to actually reassure him that most fathers don't do this. As is the silver bullet divorce - people suck	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 08:28 PM
0	The redpill counterargument of "there is no magic formula" But I don't see RP say that anymore. RP evolves When dudes come on here claiming to be Red Pill but then saying shit like "women are shallow and try to date out of their league!" I always wonder why no RP men who claim "RP isn't LIKE that!" never actually argue to defend RP. What if that's their experience? Online women tell us all the time that "all men are the same" and KAM etc. Never saw a single woman speak out against them. Are men RP if they actually successfully espouse RP, or are they RP…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 08:07 PM
2	The redpill counterargument of "there is no magic formula" Red Pill uses statistics, personal experience and general trends to try and explain a philosophy that might make life and the opposite sex more understandable. TRP dictates hard work, as in you need to sort yourself out. Fitness and working out is good for mental and physical health. Vigilance as in knowing who you are getting into a relationship with and to watch for changes in your and their attitudes and with a huge dose of luck you might just make it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 05:54 PM
0	The redpill counterargument of "there is no magic formula" TRP doesn't at all state that you need to be redpilled to get success. I've been trying unsuccessfully for years to explain this and MGTOW to people. Just that you need to be good looking, confident, charismatic and competent. Economically viable helps too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 05:31 PM
1	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women That's okay, this is already rejection, without words for sure but still a rejection basically the same than talking and saying 'This is over, bye' The women don't seem to understand that, they take it really poorly, gnashing of teeth, threats etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 05:10 PM
1	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women No matter how long it takes, sir, if one doesn't want a relationship they are on the right to walk away, and that's good for both partners I'm not talking about we try to fix it, I mean here today and gone tomorrow, no explanation no communication, just gone. It seems you're advocating that men with lower EI will stay no matter what, but that's not good. Nope, I'm warning women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 04:43 PM
1	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women Yes, early on it's okay, what about a year later or 3 years later, when the woman believes that the relationship is stable. How about 5 or 10 years later, still good for women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 04:37 PM
2	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women Nah, the younger men definitely try harder and put in tons of work to try establishing and keeping relationships going. I honestly don't even bother learning the names of the girlfriends etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 01:47 PM
1	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women That sounds great. Usually men just stick around to waste a woman's time and use her for sex. As I stated, this isn't a positive for women. These men definitely will use women for sex and then ghost her. Don't conflate sex and relationships, men don't - most men are almost always up for sex and will use women for sex - it's the relationship where they don't take crap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 01:22 PM
1	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women But that's a positive no? Yes and no. These are also the men who use women ghost them afterwards Staying in a relationship one doesn't want to is worse. Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 01:16 PM
0	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women Why are you saying that like it's a bad thing? I'm not, it's a warning. I work with guys who have high EI and it's a pleasure to do so. Unfortunately if you hit that level and are not married or in a stable relationship, the chances of it happening is almost zero. I've watched the single men I work with change girlfriends, lovers etc. quicker than most people change their socks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 09:01 AM
2	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women Most men who have matured, grown their careers, income and investments have a higher Emotional Intelligence. Higher EI in men is NOT a positive trait in regards to dating and women. Men with the EI women believe they want, take zero crap you're a simple ROI calculation. In dating, basically if he doesn't see value in the relationship or person he simply moves on. If you are in a relationship with someone like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 08:53 AM
-2	Thoughts on emotional intelligence and money as coexisting value propositions to women Emotional intelligence in men is NOT a positive trait in regards to women. Men with EI don't take any crap, you get one shot and they move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 08:42 AM
1	"Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain about You are you name dropping so many awful people? You lot cancelled the moderates, so this is what you reap. After you lot cancel these "awful people", the next load will be even worse.🤣 The red pill is a cult and you need to leave. No and hell no. That absurd and fixed mindset doesnt help connecting with anyone. Which is precisely whats you need. Forget cars and money, try to connect with other people. Something those fraudsters and criminals you mentioned didnt say. Don't knock cars. Actually I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 11:46 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? Sexually attractive / Chad / Tyrone etc. all mean exactly that - unlike women, men's attractiveness isn't just linked to looks. Mick Jagger is ugly as sin, has banged exceptionally beautiful women and is definitely in the definition of alpha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 07:39 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? Depends how they got rich. Self-made definitely aren't, inherited definitely are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 07:36 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? Depends how they got rich. Self-made definitely aren't, inherited definitely are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 07:35 AM
3	how much internalized shame do you think you experienced from purity, sexual, and ect expectations? I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 24 because I saw my dad beat my sister, like bruise up her face, when he found out she lost her virginity. She was 17 at the time. Damn that's horrible, so sorry for her and you. My daughters lost theirs at the age of consent (16 here), I never said a word, just made sure they were safe and not pressured. He called her a slut and that he couldn’t have a whore living under his roof, so he kicked her out of our family home. Couldn't imagine calling any of my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 06:00 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? And using it wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 05:48 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? Exactly 💯 on point	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 05:47 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? So no, you cannot be an alpha while fucking ugly. You can be average looking and have other traits that push you into having a higher alpha ratio. But you cannot be unattractive to women and be an alpha. Some women really don't live in the real world. For men to be sexually attractive is so damn far past physically attractive - Millionaires are EXTREMELY sexually attractive and are by default alpha. Care to try again?🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 05:46 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? Cleopatra was born of incest and married her own brothers? Welcome to almost every royal family ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 05:42 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? Don't forget the women who specifically seek out murderers, gang members, violent criminals etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 05:40 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? From experience, it's the uniform	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 05:39 AM
1	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? A lot of women are told to avoid men in the military and police officers as partners for that specific reason. Yet statistics and studies prove intimate partner violence is the highest amongst lesbian couples, as is the divorce rates. But that's not a discussion you lot are ready for. PS: 15 years in the military, more than a few years in combat operations, married 35 years and zero DV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 05:38 AM
1	"Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain about Both. People are affected by the way they are treated, particularly in the formative adolescent and young adult years. You know who runs the modelling world?🧐 This is true both for men and for women. In a way, we all create our own hellscape. Yes and usually the bigger the rewards, the bigger the fantasy becomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 09:39 PM
-2	"Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain about Keep believing that 😁🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 09:35 PM
-2	"Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain about There is no battle. The only ones that still believe that are the Grifters, larps or the shut ins Unfortunately for all of them: reality exists. That’s why TRP can only survive online. Ironic isn’t it? Good luck with that.🤣🤣 Dave Rubin, Jordan Peterson, Piers Morgan, Dr Orion Taraban, Andrew and Tristan Tate, plus so many more are openly talking about TRP. Hell parliaments are discussing it, young men are researching it....🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:58 PM
–	"Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain about Pick a side! Seriously which is it pro or con? You bitching about men wanting models and then complaining about how models are exploited?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:35 PM
3	"Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain about You're assuming a lot. It was workplace related and they asked me out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:29 PM
-2	"Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain about “The manosphere constructed an elaborate fiction of a world that doesn’t exist, and convinced people they must engage and do battle with the fictionalized women within it. “ Rubbish, it brings to the front reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:28 PM
–	"Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain about Agreed. When they talk about “women,” they’re really talking about the IG models and the women considered to be Ms Universe contestants, not regular women walking to and from work everyday. I've gone out with models and HELL NO! Regular women are waaayyyy less neurotic and much easier to deal with. Not to mention the whole body count issue...🤮	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:10 PM
1	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Oh shit you're talking about high school? I was thinking college...the only teen girl I remember dating a full-grown man was known as being trailer trash. High School, College, the military etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 08:05 PM
–	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Oddly we had 1 English high school, so rich or poor we had to endure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:36 PM
–	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Each to their own	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:33 PM
–	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy Yes, I definitely am seeking justification for that. Screw that I'm trying to have a discussion, nope it's definitely bigotry.😜🤪	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:21 PM
–	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Sex for money, if only there was a profession for this?😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:19 PM
–	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Everyone needs an option B	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 03:45 PM
–	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Nope, middle class	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 03:43 PM
–	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Yuk, no!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 03:42 PM
–	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Chronically? I don't get to dictate age in hobbies. In Warhammer, there are pre-teens.😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 03:42 PM
–	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). My wife is 3 years older	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 03:40 PM
1	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 01:06 PM
1	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Growing up (80s & 90s) I watch the female late teens to mid 20s dating men 10+ years older. Yet those same women in their mid 30s and older are complaining that their male peers are dating younger. I watched that trend repeat with my daughters and their friends.😱😂 We know that those young women are being exploited because WTF do you have in common with a 19 year old? They have absolutely nothing in common	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 01:04 PM
0	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). As a 40 year old, I wouldn't be doing hobbies with teenagers I'm not related to. Seriously? So I'm to stop cabinet making / woodworking, RC / drone flying, Warhammer, scale modelling, target shooting etc. because teenagers are part of the hobby? 🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 12:57 PM
1	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). No. You men are obsessed with teenage girls. Nope, that data shows up that we are obsessed with 22 year olds, not teenagers. Everyday yall talk about age gap relationships IIRC, about 8% of Western couples have a large age gap of 10 years or more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 12:54 PM
1	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Definitely, that cat litter ain't going to clean itself.🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 12:48 PM
1	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Weird take, each to their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 12:47 PM
0	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Do you understand hobbies? There are extremely few hobbies in life that attract certain ages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:50 AM
-2	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Oddly I told my daughters to get married, have children and then get a degree and career. One listened and one didn't. The one that listened has started getting her degree - she has 2 children over 3. She is slowly exceeding the other one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:47 AM
0	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). So you dated only men your age etc.?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:43 AM
-1	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Come on. We know you’re jealous of that single 55 year old middle class guy who everyone thinks is a creep. Who wouldn’t want to be in his shoes? /s 💯 When my buddy got divorced, he was 55 and after getting it together, the oldest woman he dated was 35 - these women asked him out on dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:35 AM
-1	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Bro, we’re not jealous or jaded. My almost 60 years on this planet says different. I've watched women on 3 different continents lose it over men dating younger, especially as the women age and the divorced men enter the market and immediately date younger. My wife even gets pissed at this.🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:33 AM
-2	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Obsessed? Doubt it's obsessive if younger women are throwing themselves at older men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:30 AM
2	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy In the UK, healthcare is socialized (look it up). The government and the citizens have a vested interest in keeping costs down, and to that end, utilize statistics and surveys to make prudent financial decisions. Does that include NHS England? If 30% of women admit they refuse to see a male mammographer, doesn’t make much sense to recruit men for the field of mammography. Healthcare by consensus, no wonder it's failing However. In the UK, 40% of gynecologists are male. There's a point here? I do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 11:17 PM
2	You probably should start caring about a woman’s career IIRC those studies stop at age 44.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:49 PM
–	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy Google is your friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:46 PM
–	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy Potential impact of male mammographers on breast cancer screening rates Dawn O'Shea03 May 2020 The NHS breast screening programme only employs female mammographers to carry out breast screening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 08:25 PM
–	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy An assessment of the potential impact of the introduction of male mammographers into the National Health Service breast screening programme G. Haddock*, J. Harcombe, J. Jenkins, Anne Mackie, C. Witney	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 08:23 PM
–	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy Guest editorial Volume 29, Issue 6 p1121-1122 October 2023 Is it still a genuine occupational requirement to have a female only mammographic workforce in breast screening? S. Spencer, ∙ C. Zelenyanszki, ∙ R.M. Strudwick, ∙ D. Mizzi Has the Wizard of Oz found you that brain yet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 08:21 PM
8	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy It’s not a mistake. It’s MRA horseshit. Or it's me seeing my 2 daughters and wife having to wait 3 months for a breast screening, due to a history of breast cancer. Scum like you are really irritating. But if a man is so desperate to “help” women screen for breast cancer, there is a shortage of radiographers specializing in mammography in the US. And in the UK, with the Society of Radiology calling for the NHS to utilise male radiographers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 06:07 PM
1	You probably should start caring about a woman’s career The main thing I hear here a lot is “men don’t care about your education! we’d take a barista over a finance managing director any day!” History proves this. More women than men these days are graduating college and entering the workforce, overtaking the number of men in law and medicine and have been for a while. From memory, a large number of those degrees are in the humanities, so we're back to the barista? Since covid, the number of men who are NEET has increased by 40% compared to only 7% f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 06:02 PM
6	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy I love how often you bring this up. Like what… you want women to be sorry you can’t squish boobs all day? Please look up how to recognise a stroke. Oh, and also, it’s a blatant fucking lie. Apologies, made a mistake for the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 05:49 PM
14	Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchy Definitely get the feeling that men today are being accused and paying for the sins of the elite, as average men held no power and suffered from man of the same things women did. Men today seem to have been recruited to a war we have nothing to do with. As an example, we are told about all the professions that women were excluded from, yet in the US today (UK a few years ago) men cannot become mammographers. Crickets on that, but I'm responsible for women not being able to be rocket scientists 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 05:29 PM
1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves Go listen to Richard Reeves on Diary of a CEO (YouTube).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 07:38 AM
0	A case study on why dating is absolutely horrible for men and all men should go MGTOW And probably 80% of the various relationship posts definitely have to be fake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 11:51 AM
4	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. Yeah not. Good women are hard to find - remembering that what's a good woman for one man isn't that for another man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 05:48 AM
1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves Please don't act like you have anything astute to say. And you have? All you do is misquote me, try and sell absolute BS, misrepresent what I write. If your cause is so just, why can't it survive on it's merit? It's why you're over compensating with laughing emojis. Nope, just laughing my arse off as you can't make this sh!t up. You want proof it’s harmful? Yes. Look at how easily it turns pain into bitterness, how often it externalises blame, how deeply it encourages men to obsess over control …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 10:31 PM
1	Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild. I testified at a few cases, including best friends, my brothers and half-brothers etc. My brother paid child support for a child that wasn't his - she got the house, better car, alimony etc. My oldest brother's wife cheated on him and she still got cash and prizes - house car etc. My half brother's wife cheated, got the house and half of his business. A good friend's wife cheated and he got eviscerated in court - silver bullet really worked well. He ended himself so you'll have to shout for him …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 10:25 PM
1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves If we need to center women for masculinity to exist, then its time to get rid of the concept of masculinity or at the very least redefine it. You don't need to centre women. If women in society are feminine, then masculinity is naturally present in men. This isn't saying that we need to abandon those behaviors, but if men have to become slaves to their obsessions with women, then maybe we should just get rid of the classification, as it is causing men to harm themselves by centering women Where …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 10:11 PM
0	There is no good Bluepill Dating Manual. If you need a 400 page manual for dating you are fucked. Yeah this very thread is about asking for a Blue Pill dating manual to rival the Red Pill one???🤣🤣 You can't make this sh!t up.🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 09:06 PM
1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves When someone starts shouting “that’s not what I wrote!” five times in one comment, it usually means they know the logic doesn’t hold up under pressure. Or you simply are making crap up by misquoting me! You’ve shifted goalposts, dodged every core point, and now you’re parading Andrew Tate and media outrage as proof of success as if visibility equals validity. Flat Earth got media coverage too. Doesn’t mean it’s credible. Damn another misquote and you missed the entire point too.🤣🤣 The red pill i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 08:46 PM
0	Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild. There is no way on earth you can claim that family court is unbiased.🤣🤣🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 08:30 PM
2	Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild. Having grown up and seen plenty of shotgun weddings, the very definition of baby trapped... Men are victims of Family Court - even Judge Judy had little positive and plenty of negative things to say about family court.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 04:28 PM
1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves Do I seriously have to prefix everything with THAT'S NOT WHAT I WROTE? If the argument is that masculinity collapses without women, but also that soldiers who often operate in all-male environments are the pinnacle of masculinity, then the logic contradicts itself. You can’t have it both ways. Seriously? Read what I wrote! Masculinity doesn’t vanish in isolation. Yes, because all those masculine hermit. What breaks people isn’t lack of women it’s lack of meaning, community, or purpose. Yeah not.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 04:12 PM
1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves Calling masculinity “reactive by choice” just proves my point it’s still defined by someone else. Exactly how disingenuous are you, as that's NOT what I wrote. And using soldiers or hermits as some kind of gotcha only makes it clearer those are examples of men who don’t rely on women for identity. Thanks for reinforcing the argument. I gave you an excellent example you completely missed. Did you not write: "True self-reliance shouldn’t collapse the moment you remove women from the centre of your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 02:14 PM
2	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves Oddly the "red pill rage" is against society, not only women - unfortunately nobody yet understands it, nor how to channel it productively. "Dating coach Alan Roger Currie clarifies what happens to a man who swallows the “red pill,” or who starts to understand the aforementioned lies. He experiences “red pill rage” because he’s angry both at himself for having naively believed the lies that society taught him and at women for their unfair mating behavior. If he then has a loving, successful rela…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 02:05 PM
1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves If masculinity only exists in contrast to women, then it’s not self-defined it’s reactive. And that’s exactly the problem. It's choice based and yes, reactive - men choose the level they believe to be correct. True self-reliance shouldn’t collapse the moment you remove women from the centre of your identity. If masculinity needs women to function, then it isn’t strength it’s dependency dressed up as philosophy. The frontline military and Hermits destroy this argument. And again, “red pill isn’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 11:16 AM
0	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves Thanks for the definition but that still doesn’t address what I actually said. Actually it does, as I'll show you. You listed ideals like “emotional self-reliance” and “masculine self-improvement,” but when men actually try to embody those things by de-centering women, red pill circles often react with mockery, deflection, or outrage exactly like what’s happening here. For masculinity to exist, feminity is the measure of said masculinity. How can you 'decentre' women, without negatively affectin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 10:42 AM
2	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves And yet perfectly on time for the gaslighting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 10:12 AM
3	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves Firstly let's define your argument, by defining what you believe red pill even is: To me, "Red Pill" ideology stems from the "manosphere", primarily an offshoot of MGTOW - less hermit more relationship. The "Red Pill" philosophy is: Awakening to Reality: In the western world, men do not have inherent value to society and especially women. The Alpha/Beta Male Dichotomy: Alpha fucks / Beta bucks. Masculine Self-Improvement: Men should focus on self-improvement - physical fitness, financial success…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 10:10 AM
-1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves Convenient dodge, but it doesn’t hold up. Anything you post these days regarding men, that isn't overwhelmingly negative, critical or damming will be met with venom and anger. Your argument is impotent because: In the UK, the Sentencing Council released sentencing guidelines where gender and ethnicity have to be taken into account - meaning that white men will receive custodial sentences, whilst those further up the food chain will receive a warning for the exact same crime. This is happening wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 09:05 AM
-1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves There was a recent post And there is where you lose the debate. Red Pill, MGTOW etc. are not homogenous. There isn't a single advocate who expresses the same views / tennants as another advocate. RP / MGTOW is singular to the individual, so your argument is moot and impotent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 08:26 AM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Why do I have to justify myself to you or anybody? Why does anything I do have to make sense to you? Hubris much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 06:57 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Seriously, I'm running out of crayons here. Who's claiming MGTOW - I'm married and have been for 35 years. FFS, Read what I write not your false perception of what I write. Who the hell made you the arbiter of what subjects people are allowed or not allowed to study. You seriously have some hubris.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 06:37 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. I don’t need to try. It just is. A philosophy giant, I get it. Or do you really think “this is a movement know for accuracy”? That was actually a really good parody.🤣🤣 Thanks for being the punching to all the people laughing tho. You mean punchline. The wit of the pseudo intellectuals is amazing, well at least half of it is.🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 05:24 PM
–	Stop confusing your own experiences with the experiences of the others. People have different standards for diferent people. Look for "Is he a hookup or marriage material". It was originally on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 05:03 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. No, that’s just a label MGTOWs retroactively started calling old loser movements. Wrong, try again “Winners aren’t allowed to let the losers rewrite history” Wanna bet? Still 0 score, keep trying.🤪🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 04:24 PM
–	Stop confusing your own experiences with the experiences of the others. People have different standards for diferent people. A few podcasts discussed it on YT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 03:53 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. The original MGTOW was founded in the 1930s.🤣🤣 Are you going to get anything correct? 😜🤪	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 03:53 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. You go to this really big building called a university and one of the electives (your choice course) is called Social Science. Seriously you can be this obtuse.🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 03:44 PM
–	Stop confusing your own experiences with the experiences of the others. People have different standards for diferent people. Sometimes I just have to remember men using the words they like — alpha and beta — and thus they understand it better. Personally I like Sigma The way I wrote what I wrote might be disagreed with. But when I say "well, women treat betas as shit and alphas as gods" then they immediately agree (and women start to disagree). Isn't it funny? Wasn't there a debate on X regarding a woman complimenting her boyfriend, by saying he wasn't hookup material, but was definitely marriage material. The lines w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 03:40 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. I've been married for 35 years.🤣 Knowledge or Education you lack.🧐 I'm sure the Wizard of Oz can help you with the search for your brain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 03:33 PM
–	Stop confusing your own experiences with the experiences of the others. People have different standards for diferent people. Every time a man says something like "women don't approach men" I have to correct him: "women don't approach you". Nope, you're forgetting two words, "on average", because a small percentage who do the opposite actually prove the rule. Men actually do talk to each other, so data and the experience of the majority of men agree that on average women don't approach men. "Women aren't easy to get", yeah, for you. "Women are very complicated", again, for you. Women are from Venus.... ring a bell? 😁	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 03:30 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Clearly you can neither read nor comprehend words.🤣🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 03:19 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. That’s the best you got? Down girl. Supposed to be “gone his own way since the 80s” so like 4 decades and your only response is the equivalent of a 12 year old gamer losing on twitch? And yet what I wrote was: "was MGTOW in the 1980s, when it meant something different". Proving your reading skills require work and that your comprehension is sub par.🤣🤣 Anything else you'd like to prove?🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:59 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Clearly the "if you don't know, then I'm not telling you" crap, which shows that you are not male.🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:39 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Isn't that the opposite to running away?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:26 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Sounds like an excuse to run away Run away how and from what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:22 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. when you're young, you're idealistic, when older more realistic because you've seen more of the real world. This sentiment applies to almost everything. In the pursuit of relationships this is unfortunately true as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:21 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Ah facts, like even today in the US men cannot become mammographers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:18 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. So comprehension is your weak point, got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:16 PM
5	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Ah nebulous terms used for gaslighting, got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 01:39 AM
0	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. How so, please do elaborate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 11:25 PM
4	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. As one podcaster once put it “the Red pill has built an online culture where the men feed each other fear and insecurities and live off of a select set of statistics and charts because they have no real world experiences to base their lives on” As someone who: has seen the abject worst and best the world has to offer. was MGTOW in the 1980s, when it meant something different was red-pilled when it was called an epiphany I daily see reality and the red pill become one and the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 11:20 PM
1	Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling. You're once again taking the 0.01% of men and trying to make them the norm. Not to mention whether your father was abusive is a compounding and not a determining factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 11:10 PM
1	Most provider men do not end up with traditional women Most provider men do not end up with traditional women That could be because liberal women are heavily attracted to providers, despite saying the exact opposite. IIRC, most women are attracted to traditional western men, this includes the bulk of non-western women - especially the educated ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:55 PM
3	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. OP was trying to deflect from the fact that 80% of rapists were raised by single mothers. IIRC, 80% of the incarcerated are from single mother households. She does seem to be an extreme man-hating type, but most likely is just an ordinary feminist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:50 PM
1	Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her? Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her? It's a relationship, not a hostage situation - she can leave at any time. If I repulse or disgust her, I'll happily help her pack, hell I'll even pay for her Uber etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:47 PM
1	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? gentleman she deserves Deserves?🤣🤣 No I used to be a gentleman, thankfully modern western women helped alleviate me of that disability. Today I'm the ultimate feminist - believing in total equality between the sexes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:43 PM
1	Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. What we mean is choose the men you keep saying you want and not the bad boys you whine about. In today's world, women don't understand their looks value, you have obese women complaining that men don't go to the gym.🤣 You have women complaining about gym bros, but want men with athletic physiques.🤣 You have below average looking women wanting the sixes, believing that they are all tens and can compete with actual linge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:38 PM
3	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. But bring up that 90% of rapists are men, then we see cries of sexism and not looking at other factors. Female rapists are charged with SA and not rape. Until quite recently females were legally excluded from being even called rapists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:30 PM
–	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men Absolutely correct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 08:42 PM
1	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 I'll try and make sense of this. “ Women had a right to work centuries before feminism reared its head.” No. Entire professions were closed off. Name them? Currently in America men can not practice as / be approved for training as a mammogram tech. “ s to equal pay, men didn't receive equal pay until it was put into law.” And then feminism extended that to women. The law extended it to all. “ These rights existed since the dawn of banking.”. Nope that’s why the Feds had to pass a law. I bet you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:24 PM
1	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Aren't you supposed to be smashing the patriarchy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:11 PM
1	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Victimhood olympics definitely isn't good for mental health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:08 PM
4	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? You asked a question, which I answered with examples and you're unhappy about how the world works? Grow up! Wealth, power and influence are all part of what makes a man attractive to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 05:43 AM
5	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? What woman is going to be lead by an ugly man? Uma Thurman, Carla Bruni, Daryl Hannah, Tina Turner, Janice Dickinson, Farrah Fawcett, Minnie Driver, Bianca De Macias and Jerry Hall. All were romantically involved with Mick Jagger. What man wants to be in a social group with all men but no women? Seriously? Sports clubs, gaming clubs, bike groups - You can't be serious? Women and governments have been systematically destroying men's only spaces for decades. What planet are you on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 01:24 AM
7	Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women? Absolutely. The concept of Alpha originally was how certain males are automatically leaders. I've seen plenty of Alpha types who women didn't find attractive, until they noticed how men reacted around them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 12:54 AM
1	Men's problem with comittment and dating younger women I think that the common complaint that I see from women in their 30s and 40s who say that every man on dating apps is just interested in sleeping around and not committing, them aiming for younger women and just overall having their dating status as looking for something casual / short term. Let me guess, these men are average Joe? We all know that these men are the top 5% and that there is absolutely no reason for these men to ever commit to a single woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 10:05 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Yet both benefited from it, clearly. How? Women’s right to work, equal pay. Women had a right to work centuries before feminism reared its head. As to equal pay, men didn't receive equal pay until it was put into law. Ability to have a bank account in their name and be the breadwinners of their households. These rights existed since the dawn of banking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 06:12 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Both examples of amazing feminist women. Both staunch anti feminists. Both hated the feminist movement with a vengeance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 05:16 PM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 Here's why I'm personally against feminism: I know history quite well. My mother was a General Manager for a carpet manufacturer in the 1950s. My older sister was an area manager and race team manager for a well known car parts supplier in the 1970s. My oldest sister is a feminist, screwed up her life, marriage and kids, is highly manipulative and a raging narcissist. The unhappiest women I know are all feminists, whereas the happiest are all non-feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 10:25 AM
1	If You Believe Women Only Go For A-Holes, Does That Mean You Believe Married Men and Men With GF’s Are Assholes? Who said women only go for A-holes? Western women are usually primarily attracted to A-holes and usually sleep around with A-holes. For marriage it's usually beta type nice guys, if the A-holes don't capitulate. ...does that mean the men who are in relationships are mostly bad dudes, and single men are the only good dudes? A-holes don't usually do relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 06:23 AM
0	Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode women Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode women Seriously? What planet are you on? Studies, Articles, theories etc abound trying to decode men and their reactions. Or worse shame, gaslight or force men to do or undertake actions detrimental to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 10:02 PM
3	"Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BS Historically only around 20% of men procreated. In the 20th century it shot up to over 40%. Men just don't have the same drive to have children that women have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 05:05 AM
2	Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible women 'For every hot woman, there's a man who's absolutely done with crap'. The huge red flag, is when she's hot and no men are interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 09:00 AM
1	People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophies I'll do you one better, it happens often enough that men are asking questions like: "In an arranged marriage institution, how can one make sure he is not marrying a feminist or militant feminist?" "What do you do if you got married to a pseudo-feminist woman in an Indian arranged marriage setup?"🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 06:40 AM
1	People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophies Chemistry is the synergy and rapport between two mutually sexually attracted people, it’s far more than simple physical attraction. Later on and in the early stages it usually presents as lust, evolving as and how the partner responds. Because the social and cultural repercussions of divorce for women in those high control, misogynistic cultures are horrific, not because those people are in love and devoted to one another’s happiness and success. Yet Millennials in India and even feminists are o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 12:05 PM
2	"Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault. Tried research, like the rest of us?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 08:46 AM
3	CMV: Women are the more empathetic sex Joy makes an important observation: "The reason women can stay married as long as they do is because they have a lot of girlfriends." Joy = facts🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 08:33 AM
1	People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophies Yet chemistry is simply lust. Dating with lust as the primary motivation is almost 100% a losing strategy. Arranged marriages are almost exclusively based on standards. Standards I might add that are that of the parents, yet arranged marriages still have the highest success rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 08:27 AM
1	Part Two: False Rape Allegations: An Overexaggerated Truth All high quality studies, large representative sample size, with consistent definitions and review from researchers trained in rape myths and bias determine that the rate of false accusations to police is between 2-10 %. Having studied that 2-10% figure, it is actually a myth that is routed in an FBI statistic that had itself zero factual basis. In the UK, the first people to discard false allegations are the responding officers, they used to be obligated to report ALL criminal accusations, unti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 08:13 AM
2	"Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault. I think women are slowly getting there, that’s why they’re probably more likely to end a relationship, the birth rate is going down and the percentage of single women increases every year. My 'for you' feed on all social media has filled up with women complaining about men: - Not stepping up - Not putting a ring on it (engagement) - Not marrying - Not dating - Not approaching - Not wanting relationships - Not being chivalrous - Not caring for women - Not interested in women - Being apathetic And…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 07:37 AM