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Like. If that's the case, then stop being so damn desperate. That's like saying despite not eating for a week. Just stop being hungry. If all the men learned to be happy and have standards then they could get better mates via the law of supply and demand. You are more likely to have more standards the more options you have and you will be more happy if you know you have good options to pick from
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:17 PM
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That's best case scenario. But theres no guarantee that the parents stay together
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:13 PM
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I don't think I will ever get it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:10 PM
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Marriage is the only way to avoid loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:05 PM
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Then we will live in separate houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:04 PM
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I don't think there is much?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:03 PM
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That doesn't even sound like an answer. Just a shaming tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:03 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:00 PM
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I should also make. apost about this. Like its women are aware and unaware of realities at the same time. I feel you as a woman should definitely know that most men arent getting around that much. Because of how much women find most men not suitable enough for casual sex options. But at the same time the guy you like most be having tons of sex right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:55 AM
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I don’t really agree with that statement. Women want to be with men that are giving as much as she is. Lots of women that end up asking for divorce do so because they end up feeling like they are giving so much more and is not getting the same back. Eventually it gets to a point where she needs to leave for her own mental well being I hear a great deal on divorces that happen this way and I'm not denying it. However I hear a shit ton on how men will go tooth and nail working long hours, taking c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:51 AM
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Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:42 AM
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They dont have to have sex with every random guy. The thing is they want to find a guy who is a probably a decent sexual option. She can easily find that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:41 AM
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But your chances of divorces shoot up by a country mile if you remarry after divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:40 AM
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What are we? Some sort of suicide squad? Roll Credits
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:39 AM
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I'm not denying that. But I also believe women just have far higher standards if it mostly the husband's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:38 AM
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And to answer the question: the reason is because you love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them. Still possible without papers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:38 AM
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But hes still wrong tho. Divorce stats dont translate to individuals. Even though that's litterally what the studies consists of. He tries to sound so smart then says something so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:35 AM
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Yeah its impossible to tell. But I have also read many many stories of how women would leave their husbands despite the fact of how much effort their husband was putting to make things right. They were done with him by a certain point. And they sorta despised him for trying to make it right. It seemed inevitable if the relationship lasted long enough and the kids got old enough to take care of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:33 AM
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But wouldn't a breakup be easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:30 AM
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Lol 500 million dollar divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:49 AM
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Such a rather simple minded response. You dont have to take all stats as bible. Because they can tell half the story. But to just downright dismiss it altogether is downright idiotic. You have the nerve to say that stats do not translate to individual likelihood. Like Wheeeet? Where you born last night man? That is litterally what the studies consists of. 😂 I can agree that you're likely goes up if you build healthy relationships but what honestly what relationships prepare people for lifelong c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:44 AM
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You could probably go fuck a guy anytime you wanted. What’s that? You literally wouldn’t enjoy it at all so it’s weird to expect you to be grateful for the option? Wow. No because in that scenario I would be have to be ok with having sex with men even though I'm not gay. I might not be all that excited about having sex with a fat chick. But I am still attracted to women. Also I’m happy to listen to my friends’ problems with dating. I’m happy to listen to Average Men, even if they’re not looksmax…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:17 AM
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It's your bigoted cultist ideals that are being contested. Ad hominem You gain nothing by questioning my validity except to deflect attention away from the fragility of your bigoted and nonsensical cult dogma. Ad hominem The sooner you accept that, the sooner you can leave your toxic cult and begin healing. Ad hominem Do I need to point out the "Fallacy" in your comments too? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:08 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:05 AM
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I think there is a difference. Life is a gamble. We all know it. I would love to play pro football. Even though it's a high chance I could get a concussion from it. And I'd happily take that risk. Granted I would try to mitigate those repercussions by not playing as long. But I'm not the fan of those heavy risks you speak of when it comes to divorce. Because it seems like... its entirely based on whether or not a guy is handling his relationship to the upmost grand level. And he picked beforehan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:04 AM
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I dont. I never insinuated that they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:56 AM
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The incentive would be supporting your ability to conserve the effort given by two people in working towards a shared goal, the ability to be certain that the assests held by you and your spouse would remain in their power and more ease in allocating your individual assets to them in the event of your death. You can still do that without marriage. You don't really mention anything about pros or cons in your OP and you "shame" men who do view marriage as valuable by calling them hopeless romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:55 AM
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It's like you're in the Falacy Triathlon... About 10 minutes ago. That would be considered an ad hominem attack by your standards. Falacy: Special Pleading, Begging The Question, Ambiguous Assertions Where exactly? You speak alot on fallacy. But you dont actually point out where the fallacy is. Just that you know how to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:48 AM
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I agree. And that's my goal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:40 AM
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Well...I guess I'm getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:39 AM
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I just edited right before I saw your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:39 AM
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You know what my pride got the best of me. I'll change it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:37 AM
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Ok and I debunked his attempt at calling it out. It seems you more focused on an "IN YOUR FACE" moment to stick it to TRP than to actually decide if his arguments are sound
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:32 AM
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You got a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:30 AM
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I wont if you wont
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:29 AM
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If you’re terrified of failure (ie getting a divorce), one surefire way to avoid that is to never play. (Don’t date/marry) Everyone has to decide what is worthwhile to them. That is true. I am terrified of failure. Which is why I wont play that game that has severe consequences if you choose the wrong hand. Life is always a risk but I've never been that much of a gambling man. The other reason is if you still personally believe that there’s symbolic value in showing your commitment to each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:28 AM
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Lol. I still believe in romance. Just not marriage. Or at least in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:26 AM
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I wont
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:25 AM
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If you see absolutely no value in marriage you are either too lazy to actually look into the benefits or have never loved someone enough to want to be able to care for them even if something happens to you. Or both (probably). Shaming tactic I see. But your bold assumptions would still be wrong. I never said there is no value in marriage. I simply argue that the cons outweighs the pros if it ends in divorce. Everybody can talk about what great things happen in great marriages. And are you implyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:25 AM
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So what is the actual number. Or ballpark?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:21 AM
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Out of 50 percent of divorces? Yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:21 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:20 AM
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He's spitting facts how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:19 AM
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That seems ok with me. I dont have to marry them. Do I really want to live a life carefree as ever to get blindsided by divorce or to know that some relationships wont last and if we split divorce problems are the least of my worries
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:18 AM
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My statement still is not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:11 AM
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Ad hominem: refer to the other person's response as "simple minded" True. But wouldn't it be even more simple minded to imply that stats on divorces have effect on an individual basis....when that is litterally what the studies consists of? Statistical Falacy: The rate of the occurrence of an event in a group is not the same as the likelihood of that occurrence for an individual of the group. You lost me there. This would be like if you told someone that if you have a 50 likelihood of dying from…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:09 AM
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So why not just date her longterm then? Dont have to deal with the headache that is divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:45 AM
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The journey is worth it even if your wife divorces you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:42 AM
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I....I said that. I clearly said the divorce rate in America is 50 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:33 AM
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Such a rather simple minded response. You dont have to take all stats as bible. Because they can tell half the story. But to just downright dismiss it altogether is downright idiotic. You have the nerve to say that stats do not translate to individual likelihood. Like Wheeeet? Where you born last night man? That is litterally what the studies consists of. 😂 I can agree that you're likely goes up if you build healthy relationships but what honestly what relationships prepare people for lifelong c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:32 AM
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Excoooozzzze Meiiii
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:12 AM
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That should tell dating is even worse for men if the majority of men are still unattractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:10 AM
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No. Guys are just hopeless romantics. Sp they will likely marry the first women they become exclusively with. Women usually end up happier after divorces and I'm guessing that happiness doesn't lead to immediately jump back into relationships with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:09 AM
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Lack of options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:45 AM
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I've always none this. Women almost always despise their husbands the moment they make more money or have better career opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:41 AM
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For most
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:35 AM
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Its always gonna sound like it to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:35 AM
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I think we can understand their dating struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:10 PM
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Lol you assume I'm mad. I am not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:08 PM
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Dating is only hard for below average men, and men looking for casual sex. And average Women have more low quality options, so they don't count as more options. And average, and above average options
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:09 PM
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Of course. And I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:05 PM
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Yeah I keep trying to explain that. Nobody agrees
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:04 PM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:03 PM
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I assumed that public disclosure might have changed their views but bo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:54 PM
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You care but most dont
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:45 PM
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Whet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:41 PM
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Of course. I understand it's not a problem they face. Which is why I think they can misguided in their argue points
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:33 PM
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It's clear as day that the women didnt even read the post. Most men dont want your sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:32 PM
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You do realize why our standards are low right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:31 PM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:29 PM
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No its not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:19 PM
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Well if you had a decent amount of gfs then you might be definitely above average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:21 PM
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They know, they don't care. I read that in a Christian Bale Batman voice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:44 PM
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Lol I did. She didn't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:00 PM
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I didn't call you a liar. I simply said it wasnt the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:50 PM
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Lol how did those conversations go? Did she accuse her average guy friends of sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:49 PM
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Hmm good point. Do you give Deltas in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:30 PM
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Honestly my whole point of my post was that they have a lack of understanding of those struggles. Women not caring is obvious. So I think it's the opposite. They dont care and they dont understand. Which is fine. The lack of care usually causes them to not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:30 PM
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Good point. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:27 PM
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I clearly said average to below. We cant find a study on what men are attractive. So let's say this. Cant we soundly predict that most men fall in the average and below average realm?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:27 PM
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Why tf should women care about how hard shit is for men? Most should not unless they are confiding in a friend. You must not have fully read the post. How much time do you spend sympathizing with women’s issues? A decent amount actually. I can sympathize with their issues. Or other ethnicities issues? I also sympathize. Do I pretend to worry about every race often? No. Do most humans actually give af about other peoples plights if it doesn’t affect them? Nope. Your post comes across as really de…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:25 PM
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About a couple dozen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:30 PM
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Why is that not a concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:29 PM
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A matter of months from reading? I don't know. You'd actually need to participate in sex to get better at it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:28 PM
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I'm sorry but I'd say this is very untrue. You are looking at some very attractive men in your circles. Most guys gotta intiate more than women and they still dont a 10th of the results a woman can get from sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:22 PM
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OP comes off to me as someone with a very limited view of what is a wide range of nonmonog relationships How?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:51 AM
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Zero links to any kind of research, random 90% statistic and a reference to a place which is vastly more likely to host posts about problems with stuff rather than things working out. First off. You must have never been on this subreddit long. On Change My Mind posts there is usually an unpopular opinion that someone has and they are challenging someone to change their view. That's the whole point of CMV. If its something most people can easily prove in research than why the hell would you need …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:50 AM
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How does this relate to open relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:44 AM
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Good to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:37 AM
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Wait.... He bounced back?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:55 AM
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Lol cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:53 AM
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So we are scapegoating basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:52 AM
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Ayyyee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:51 AM
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Lol connor Murphy pretty psychedelics! That's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:52 PM
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Why never?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:01 PM
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Lol come on. Tell me the reason why. I'm not gonna judge
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:57 PM
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Many men can't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:53 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:24 PM
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Great Guitar players always get plenty of tail
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:55 PM
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Einstein?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:53 PM
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Good point. Which I why I think that guys who are young should spend alot of their youths perfecting their talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:52 PM
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What does that have to do with.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:49 PM
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Its not about number of dates and sex, you have that with your primary partner so no, a man in a healthy enm relationship would not be discouraged over that type of stuff Not true at all. He is gonna discouraged when he finds out that his wife is having fun times with a guy and not near as much time with him. Because obviously if she has her time occupied with someone else and he doesnt have anyone to ever occupy his time then its gonna make him a little jaded. I spoken to many men who have ente…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:49 PM
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My apologies then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:45 PM
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But your example of bringing up relationships does mean something? Noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:44 PM
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What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:43 PM
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Ehh, if that's what you mean then nah, I don't buy this at all. You think the relationship fails because his ego is hurt? Yes Because his woman is getting more sex than him? If he is lacking in partners yes Who the fuck would be bothered by that? Normal guys She's a woman, she can have infinite sex if she wanted to, no guy could compete. That's definitely not the reason open relationships are failing Are you sure about that? I'd say the biggest reason they fail is because one or both of the peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:40 PM
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Its usually worked our good in the past from my experiences and my family. My uncle's and granddad all did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:26 PM
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Hmmm. I guess you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:23 PM
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I have noticed the latter case though. An open relationship almost never fixes a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:22 PM
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Then it wasn't a good relationship lol. False. That's the most braindead rebuttal. People change. That's the age old tell in marriage. It maybe was a great marriage for a long period of time till off a sudden it wasnt. Why should you struggle against somebody who refuses to improve and be better? You shouldnt. Why would you? Again where is this coming from? Relationships aren't ending because somebody likes neutrals amd somebody likes brights. It's ending because Ryan doesn't know shit about his…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:20 PM
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Nature favors monogamous relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:17 PM
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Again you misunderstand. The metric is not primarily the number of partners. It's more so the lack of freedom a guy is allowed to have as far as his sexual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:16 PM
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Even if he's a Chad I'd tread carefully. Even after some time he's not gonna be near as great as macking as his early years.. because of lack volume more than likely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:13 PM
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Doesn’t fit the narrative. I guess people cant read. That would mean that when I wrote 90 percent. I was actually meaning to type 100 percent. So its actually a typo I guess The argument is that only 5%-20% of men are actually having sex and that these men are the “Chads” who tick every box on the SMV box (tall, rich, muscular, massive dick ect). The idea of “undesirable men” having sex here is often treated as being repulsive by men themselves, more so than women at times. They do get sex. Just…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:59 PM
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Right. But I was talking about about specific scenario I was talking about in my post. You looked far too into that comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:55 PM
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You could find double the stories of men not getting much success on non monogamy but their girls are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:54 PM
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Lol whet?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:52 PM
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All of this presupposes that the purpose of an open relationship is to have as much sex with as many people as possible. Not what I was implying. Just simply they end because of Ego. The guy usually feeling some type of way because of their lack of success in comparison to their woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:47 PM
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Like good relationships don't end They end all the time from what I witnessed A high rate of relationships ending is a sign people are choosing happiness and not lifelong struggles. True Monogamy historically has been built up as amazing because if the hardships, because western society romanticizes hardship and struggles Yes but most people dont wanna tolerate struggling with each other anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:45 PM
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In your comment where you said that women have to emotionally work to get ready for open relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:42 PM
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So you're just saying fuck if it it happens to women because you're sayinf she's too picky. Nope. Never said that. Nice try. I simply said that both sides have their hangups but it's less likely for women to possess the same problem as men that is discussed in this very post. Which is difficulty finding partners. You trying to hard to put add ons. It absolutely makes you an egomaniac to ask to open a relationship and then close it because you're doing poorly and you're jealous your partner is do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:40 PM
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Open relationships work for two people who are non-monogamous and they’re relationships start that way from the beginning. Y’all never talk about them though. They’re in happier relationships than most people I'd slot that into the category of guys who can make their open relationships work. Because they have the options to make it work. Even speaking as a guy, there’s always the assumption that non-monogamous men are losers who get the short end of the stick. First, non-monogamous men aren’t co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:35 PM
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I disagree. He obviously has a partner he could fuck. He's upset because he wanted more pussy and he's mad he can't get it easily. So they ask to close it off as more of a way to hurt their partner than protect themselves. Right. That doesn't make him an egomaniac like you prescribe. Some guys open up their relationships because they legitimately think their women wont stray but it would be a mistake to think all of them start that way. 've been in those forums for a long while and I've seen ton…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:27 PM
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The only ones that continue to operate "consensually" are those wherein the guy has had his self esteem so thoroughly blasted to pieces that he just continues to go along because he has zero self respect or because she has him by the balls financially. Actually I don't think that's the case. It can work for a very subset of guys. Imo these guys... Guys that are porn stars, swingers, guys with extremely good looks/ status, and cucks. They have enough options to offset that ego problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:23 PM
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I don't know about anyone else, but I would grow pretty resentful if my woman was out there banging other dudes without having to try and I had to struggle and struggle and struggle just to get an interest at all. And that's how most open relationships end up. Unless you are one of those guys that gets off on their women getting banged by other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:21 PM
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I didn't come to this conclusion the moment I joined that sub tho. This was before. And if a Cis straight man asks for an open dynamic and then wants to close it because his partner is doing better, he's a selfish fuck. Like what a sicko. "Hey i wanted more pussy and was hoping you'd fail. Now I see I'm struggling and you're thriving so I'd rather you didn't thrive". Nah. You looking at it too black and white. More than likely it's not a problem the guy is having that the women is seeing other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:20 PM
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It's funny because I see plenty of relationships where the guy is working full time two jobs and the girl still treats the men like trash
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:17 PM
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Very true unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:16 PM
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it seems to pretty much always be the woman bringing up the idea. I'd be willing to bet I might be wrong on this idea. Havent met as many open relationship couples as I'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:15 PM
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You are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:13 PM
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Whoops lemme repost
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:52 PM
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Again who is paying actors? Theres not alot of evidence to what you are saying is true. They usually get to where they are why world of mouth and the content they release. If he is knowledgeable in a subject lack of degrees and accolades are not gonna matter as much to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:52 PM
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Since you made the false assumptions that everyone who learns pickup is a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:50 PM
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Yeah but at the same time it's still incredibly hard for most men to get laid. So it's one of those things of yeah he could cheat if he could. But he doesn't have the opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:49 PM
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This is sounding strange
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:47 PM
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That's what I have always believed. You hit the nail on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:37 PM
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Never did he imply in his post that you should allow men to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:37 PM
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Some of these studies be sounding insane. 70 year old men are cheating? Like where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:35 PM
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I never believed that men cheat more. I'm aware the studies say different. More recent studies say that women cheat more at younger ages. But its always been fishy to me. How can men cheat more and they have far less options for casual sex than women do? There are litterally guys out there who can't get laid to save their lives. There are some guys whose only means on getting sex is hookers. Now if the reality is that men cheat more with hookers...than that I can believe. But I don't know If mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:30 PM
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Nah. They can do pickup in social events
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:24 PM
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I’m watching Castillo pick up videos right now. I havent seen many of those. On the girlschase channel he barely has any. And I dont know about the tom situation Surely your own lived experience is a better source for help with social interaction. No. Did you not read what i typed first?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:23 PM
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Its better for them to learn pickup early than later
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:20 PM
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Get involved in as many sports as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:19 PM
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Who's paying them? Hector Castillo and Fit Fearless dont even really make vids with chicks with them to my knowledge. Maybe Hector in his private dating course but thats it. AMS doesnt have women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:14 PM
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Why don’t you trust your own experiences and instincts when dealing with people? Lol that's a serious question? Because most guys cant trust their own experiences because they usually dont have enough or just have bad ones. I regret those searches. I don’t understand how you can take those aggressively illogical cheeseballs seriously. Not for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:09 PM
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Alpha Male Strategies is good. So is FitFearless. And Hector Castillo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:47 PM
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Mostly people like Derrick Jaxn, Matthew Hussey, and Lauren Chen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:27 PM
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I think that applies to mostly older men. But I'd still guys struggle. They get one eventually after lots of waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:11 AM
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Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:09 AM
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That sounds like a scenario that suits the second scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:09 AM
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Casual as in just friends, or fwbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:04 AM
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I think the 1st choice is better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:36 AM
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Most girls regardless will still like a guy who can lead a convo, make them laugh, intrigue them, and emotionally connect with them. That's not a one size fit all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:35 AM
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According to...?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:33 AM
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I don't think its that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:33 AM
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do you have any evidence that suggests that they aren’t? because if i go in the quarantined subreddit i can argue the complete opposite That would mean you could pull many articles that have redpill guys saying I hate women also you can improve social skills by getting therapy. I took therapy. No it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:14 AM
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They are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:11 AM
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What does that mean? Exactly what I said. They have a hard time getting it. They get once in a while. But not as consistently as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:11 AM
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When?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:09 AM
1

That sounds like something a small portion of men would say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:34 PM
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Have a very hard time of getting attention, sex, dates, and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:33 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:32 PM
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Exactly because I get enough gold diggers as it is. Instead of buying a fancier car I invest it so I will be able to retire in my 40s. If my partner wants me for my money or for what is caused by money such as dressing nicer then they don't actually want me. That's preposterous. If you look good. People will be interested in getting to now you because you carry yourself well. Just like you may be interested in getting to know some women you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:31 PM
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You think that's exclusive to men who struggle to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:29 PM
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Haven't we already discussed that alot of redpill arent misogynists? improving social skills How does one improve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:28 PM
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I don't think this a good answer. The faith is good. But the advice is really lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:57 PM
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Unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:15 PM
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I dont see why women keep saying this. I dont see this from unattractive. Sounds like projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:36 PM
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That'll never happen I don't believe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:36 PM
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So basically you believe in not giving advice at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:34 PM
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As a guy you have to read her extremely misleading signals, approach, compliment her in an intriguing way, stay mysterious, get her to laugh, make conversation, connect with her emotionally, intiate physical touch, try to be aggressive/not pushy, ask for her number, set up the date, pick her up, initiate conversation again, connect with her emotionally again, etc. Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:32 PM
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Most guys aren't struggling with women I dont believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:27 PM
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Most men in this sub despise women I wouldn't say that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:25 PM
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I don't think they really need much female friends to understand women because the internet spends a great deal of time talking about their issues. It depends on what exactly does a man need to understand about women is the question. Do most men understand that dating can be horrible for women when it comes choosing partners, the risk of dating a dangerous guy, and option overload? Sure. Odds are even if he does understand women it's not going to mean anything by itself. He can understand women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:19 PM
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Are you one of those guys that make 6 figures, but do absolutely nothing with it? Like you just work all day and not put any of that money into getting better? I really hope not. Because I cant stand when guys say that. If you're rich....you can pay for better clothes, have better jewelry, better hairdos, nice cars, skin care treatments, etc. The guys who are rich and still struggling I noticed alot on these subs dont even do anything with their money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:12 PM
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I don't believe thats true either. If you are unattractive your just going to approaching and getting rejected 24/7. That's a huge waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:03 PM
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I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:02 PM
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I think in a women's eyes. 90 percent of men she meets. Sounds harsh but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:00 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:58 AM
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Very attractive men, and very attractive women can be as dumb as they want ans still get laid. That doesn't mean women like sexist men, it means people usually look over personality flaws in hot people when going for short term/hookups. No. There are studies that i cant find right now that reference how women are attracted to dark triad traits in men. Most of it is. And the the non sexist parts of it can easily lead people into the sexist parts of it Lol you litterally going off an article? Like…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:55 AM
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So how is it a non issue for those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:41 AM
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You don't think men are trying to see women's side and experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:39 AM
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So.....just wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:37 AM
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Well that's actually not a fact. Sexist men get women all the time. The average to below average men who are sexist women dont like. But the very attractive men who are sexist still are very liked by women. Also I'm saying that alot of redpill isnt sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:36 AM
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So again. This proves my point. Your response of stop going after people who arent attractive to you just doesnt work all that well. You are just saying it just to say it. If it was that easy for most people to figure out then they wouldnt do it as often. Most people cant figure it out with little ease. Just because you think it's easy doesnt mean most guys dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:30 AM
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Your whole point was that TRP is sexist and that's why that got banned. But FDS stayed around many years later spreading just as many toxic messages while still not being a banned subreddit. The difference being. TRP actually allowed women to comment on their posts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:27 AM
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Despite FDS not even though it promoted toxic views?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:18 AM
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The picks are obvious though. Are you denying that men dont struggle dating? And are you denying that men dont spend time chasing after women that dont want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:10 AM
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Such a obtuse response. If people already knew which ones were the obvious picks we wouldn't be having this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:04 AM
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Redpill does not equal sexist right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:03 AM
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No. Genuine interest means squat if you are not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:59 AM
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Why no redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:56 AM
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If you're a straight man and you think women are "too much work" you are an incel. Dont you just love reddit people?😂 And you dont realize yourself that you are part of the problem for insulting instead of coming up with viable solution instead of saying stop being a douchebag. A guy struggling with women does not always correlates with being a douchebag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:54 AM
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Improving game is a part of self improvement and this post still doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:17 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:13 AM
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Not really. Most guys dont have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:21 AM
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Or they have a lack of options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:20 AM
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I dont get this post at all. You're saying that men are refusing to pursue more educated women(which a guy is unlikely to know off rep unless he knows her career) but you are simultaneously saying that women date up and their standards are higher. So what good would pursuing those highly educated women do for those same men if they have higher standards? They likely wont get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:19 AM
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I don't think he was racist tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:27 PM
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Better choice of words. You're only allowing yourself to see the upsides to OLD. Which last time I checked only really benefits the good looking men. The guys who obviously arent that good looking tend to shoot their shot more IRL because their chances are better. So it's not even a good comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:25 PM
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I don't certainly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:21 PM
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Great looks. But you do realize online dating is only a small side to dating in general right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:48 PM
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Wow. Those overweight tradesman are obviously not socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:47 PM
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Can you blame us?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:44 PM
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Most of the time it doesn't. The guy usually stays a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:42 PM
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Confused
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:41 PM
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They cant explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:40 PM
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Are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:39 PM
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Why? What’s the point of trolling in an honest discussion? Because I was joking So that you don’t have to admit that the man was a misogynist and a sexist? Why is that so hard to come to terms with or admit? It is hard to come to terms with. Mostly because I felt like he did say cruel things for more views. But if it was actually what he thought than you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:31 PM
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I admitted I was scapegoating to throw you off your game and save face. I was trolling you. What if I told you there was… gasp… a rational middle ground in which both sexes took responsibility for healing the shit show that is modern gender relations. What a concept I'd agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:23 PM
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Guys are afraid to die alone. But the fact of the matter is. Despite us fearing it more, it happens to women way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:19 PM
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I dont think it was an overdose. I heard it was one of those natural cause deaths were people die in their sleep. Like Gerald Levert I think. And I heard reports that he actually was with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:18 PM
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Buhahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:16 PM
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So who is a good black male dating coach in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:14 PM
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How was it incel bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:13 PM
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I have to reference modern society because that's litterally what we are living in
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:12 PM
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He said men should corporally punish their wives and he said that black girls should be "assets in servicing the needs of their stepfathers." Indicating he was probably a child molester as well. I haven't heard those remarks. That is something I don't subscribe to at all. I simply supported the notion that he showed the overwhelming hypocritical nature of delusional women. Who were more likely to be coddled for their beliefs than to be called out on it. But that is not something I subscribe to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:11 PM
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He literally said “women are beneath men.” If that’s not a sexist and misogynist , I’m not sure what is. As opposed to the women saying kill all men, men are worthless, and you should worship your women on tiktok right? But anyway not to scapegoat any longer lol.... Yeah I dont follow behind that notion of logic. It's one of those things where I dont agree with everything he says but I would rather listen to him speak than listen to those people who constantly promote the belief that everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:08 PM
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How did he promote sexism and racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:04 PM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:13 AM
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The majority of black women in the community. Correction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:37 AM
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It suprised me too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:34 AM
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If you spend your life being an asshole to people, those people won’t be sad when you’re dead. I actually felt like he was the right kind of asshole this society needed. Men should use his life as a lesson to humble themselves. How much money you have in the bank, how nice your suits are, how many women you fuck is irrelevant when you’re dead. Of course. But it is relevant when you are living.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:33 AM
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I don't think he was any of those names that they claimed. He was rude. But mostly rude to delusional women who thought they were allowed to demand amazing partners while not giving anything worth of value to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:31 AM
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It's based on results. If you dominate your siblings in arm wrestling match you are going to think you are stronger than them. If you generally get higher up positions quicker than most of your coworkers than you will feel confident in your ability to work or negotiate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:27 AM
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It usually is a guy who has alot of value to offer to a heavy proportion of women. Let's say you and you're sister find Micheal B Jordan unnattractive. Despite the fact that is about 5ft11, in shape, very successful actor and rich. Assuming you know a little about his personality. Let's also say he's an extrovert, funny, assertive, and very creative. Yea you guys might not find him high value. You guys definitely of high value might be someone who works at the local walmart, a little funny, not …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:23 AM
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Then stop chasing. It's not as simple as that This may be a variation on my part from most guys, but I don't want to just fuck as many women as possible But many guys don't. They do however want more results I actually want a wife and a few kids. I just haven't met many women who qualify to be a wife and mother, and only one single woman my entire life who had the qualities necessary to fill those roles. Also something most men want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:18 AM
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From what I hear from women from this very sub is that most guys they meet they dont even like. Period. Hell I hear this from nearly all women that are on the internet.So at that point those very same men are not going be the ones that they want to give their number too, go on a date with, or give them any attention. Also if most women see casual sex with most males as poisonous that means they likely dont wanna date them either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:16 AM
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Dang bro. I tried my best to not state the obvious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:11 AM
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What makes you think most guys on here hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:02 PM
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Horrible views like....?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:01 PM
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Its not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:51 PM
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So basically women see most males are poisonous and you don't see the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:50 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:38 PM
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Would you rather get sex from a great guy and no relationship or would you rather have no sex and no relationship from most guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:14 PM
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Most guys cant even sleep with a hot waitress if they wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:11 PM
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Ahhh. Theres a shock. Women's are humans dont you know? You guys have been treating them like aliens in there is your problem. You GOT DEM ALL WRONG!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:07 PM
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Nah deadpool is mostly an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:06 PM
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But you said 90 percent of victims are women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:59 PM
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I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:44 PM
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100
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:43 PM
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Dating apps arent going to cut it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:40 PM
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No. Speed dating apps would make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:30 PM
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It does matter. More single or not. They are out of the dating game. And they choose to be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:27 PM
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Perfect Answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:23 PM
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If they thought highly of themselves they wouldn't have to resort to being creepy. That makes no sense. They can think highly of themselves and still be bad at reading signals and shooting their shot. So it doesn't cancel each other out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:22 PM
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If you as a man can only see yourself through the eyes of what you assume women think about you, you will be forever diminished. There is no escape. Women are only attracted to quality guys who think highly of themselves, even if objectively these guys are no good, assholes, douchebags, fuckbois, etc, who will never commit. Making the (often imagined) opinions of others about yourself more important than your own opinion about you, you are lowering your value, worth and sexual The only way to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:21 PM
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No. You answered a small component of why a woman would be attracted to a man. A man can cocky as shit and still suck at talking to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:15 PM
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Personally, access to more sex isn't appealing enough to me to try and fit into that mold. I'm average and I'm perfectly happy there. I'm perfectly happy with my 1800 Sq feet and Volkswagen Jetta and my hobbies. The prospect of sex doesn't sway me to want to be something I'm not. So I'm wondering how many men are attracted to the idea of being that man, and how many people actually want to put in the time, effort, and sacrifice to be that kind of man? Is the prospect of more pussy really that en…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:13 PM
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That's because women at older ages choose to stop dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:14 PM
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As the title says, is there ever a point where having sex, as in finding a sexual partner or having a greater number of possible sexual partners, becomes easier for men than for women? No. Never! Sorry to hurt your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:14 PM
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No. I dont think that's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:13 PM
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I think it's a dumb idea to change who you are just to get a partner This is obviously something you always gonna hear most women say because they usually dont have to change themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:13 AM
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You can either ask a woman what she personally finds attractive... OR, you can ask what she thinks will get you the most pussy. They aren't the same thing. And most likely none of them will benefit you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:10 AM
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Shallow hot people attract shallow hot people And people of lower attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:56 AM
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Yes but you do realize that was never the question? Yes it doesn't end up well. But alot of guys will wife or be exclusive with those promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:05 PM
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They do it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:43 PM
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So basically you just confirmed what I I basically wrote in my post. The girls I seen pull this off were mostly a mix of both. Some girls were mostly butch and others were feminine looking but had butch tendencies And do you mind linking the podcast? I actually want to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:32 PM
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I dont think you are forgetting how common Simps are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:29 PM
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There is always downsides to lots of attention. But plenty more upside
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:33 AM
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But most guys are simple tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:31 AM
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Women assume they don't need to understand men Most of the time they are right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:30 AM
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Even then it's cheap because they can get another one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:29 AM
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Yeah it's kinda like Pro Wrestling. Everyone knows its fake. But it still sold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:16 AM
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While women are more "accepted" for doing sex work, most guys, if not all, will NOT date these women seriously. I highly disagree with this statement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:14 AM
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You demonstrated that with your first comment being an asshat with your passive aggressive nature. Stop being such a coward and say what you gonna say. So I can call in your one foot in one foot out Tendencies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:23 PM
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Honestly it feels impossible to win for guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:01 PM
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They like both. They just wont date both. And for the guys that shame women purely off of being promiscuous is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:54 PM
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Well most of the time its because of the sheer lack of intimacy that makes guys decisions sway when making decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:52 PM
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I wad blunt, the others were kind or would dodge the obvious points. Blunt being an asshole. Yeah dont give me that blunt bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:49 PM
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Sure it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:48 PM
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We do approach lol. Key word you missed is most. Most dont approach I couldn’t believe when I read that most men just go to clubs and stuff just to get women. Of course you wouldn't. You have an abundance of options men dont have. I like to meet men at clubs and stuff, but I also really like going to dance and have fun. I don’t mind when a guy doesn’t approach me all night because I’m not there to be some object of desire. Good for you. It's hard to do that as guys because we cant fall back on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:47 PM
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Lol yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:44 PM
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You dont think alot of men struggle to get those long run relationships as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:44 PM
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I like you started off insulting and then act like you didnt. You have to be good with people if you're going to be good with cold approaching. If you can't talk to people, in general, men included. I can talk to people. But the standard for talking to people in social settings and picking women up from cold approaching are totally different. The difficulty alot more higher on that side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:36 AM
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Yeah they are. I saw them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:33 AM
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I get that. But men have it the hardest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:58 PM
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Neither are. Which is why I dont do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:54 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:35 PM
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Yeah I'm sorry that was a major typo. I would ask for a woman's number. If she declines to give me her number and tries to offer me her Instagram I just wont take it and just cut my losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:33 PM
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The day is still young
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:44 PM
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But status is different tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:35 PM
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Yeah I usually do. But women usually say they dont give out their numbers and try to give me their numbers. When they usually do that I say I'm good and just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:34 PM
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Guys have it harder because they have less options and women are generally very mistrutsting of men. For good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:31 PM
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True but they'd be open to meeting more people when a guy is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:29 PM
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Because everyone doesnt think like you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:28 PM
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True. But you will probably feel a little bad that guys dont look at you the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:28 PM
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No. I disagree. Me acknowledging why we have it hard is not the reason I have it hard. It's the reason I already presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:38 PM
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I made a post 2 days ago. I discovered that even Lesbian women have an much easier time getting straight men than heterosexual men do. That's when it really hit me that as a guy you have to be damn near perfect in your approaches and seduction to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:35 PM
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They dont like being approached by men they arent attracted to. Which is approximately 90 percent of the men they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:32 PM
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Cold approaching is only beneficial to men who have tons of resilience, game, or looks. Most other guys shouldn't bother
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:30 PM
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I will say it till its blue in the face that women benefit greatly from approaching. But most women wont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:28 PM
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If it wasn't that hard then most women would approach
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:27 PM
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now if it’s a woman, I’m all for it lol. Now my post I made 2 days ago is gonna age like fine wine. Lesbian women have an easier time getting straight women before heterosexual men even do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:26 PM
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What if a lesbian woman approached you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:25 PM
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You have male attention. Yeah you get used to it. But what happens when its gone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:24 PM
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I find this so hard to believe when women say this. Since I did alot of cold approaching already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:23 PM
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I never tend to ask for girls insta. You just end up another dm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:21 PM
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Its Chad Time Ya!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:20 PM
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And those who speak of "egalitarian" relationships in these circumstances are just wilfully retarded. So how should relationships go then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:19 PM
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Why you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 03:18 PM
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If I'm chad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:50 AM
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Boi if this comment isnt so damn true. I'm trying to statusmaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:06 AM
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One guy I know had women send him pics the first few messages
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:05 AM
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On first messages?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:03 AM
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I need to trade lives
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 02:34 AM
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I believe most women are secretly bi a little
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 02:03 AM
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Lol humor me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:26 PM
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😋
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:23 PM
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What does his messages say?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:04 PM
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Or maybe it's so easy that you cant see possibility see why anybody else would struggle with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:51 PM
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You sound pretty tame to me. You probably wouldn't keep up with my sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:46 PM
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Do you like black guys who love Tokyo Ghoul?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:46 PM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:25 PM
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I think most needs just overrate the everlobing shit out of her. She's not near as awkward as she likes to portray on interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:21 PM
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Hailee Steinfield seems like a pretty cool chick
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:20 PM
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I think that's false. Most men arent having lots of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:19 PM
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Men need to learn how to withhold sex for longer periods of time. Then you have a problem of women thinking you mentally someplace else. You cant counteract this by not being exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:14 PM
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Or men shouldn't get married. More hassle
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:11 PM
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A guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:10 PM
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Men would probably have WAY more access to easy casual sex if societal norms around sex were different and if it was commonplace for women’s sexual needs to be prioritized by men. Selfish dudes and the men who argue how it makes sense that men wouldn’t care about pleasing their hook up are seriously ruining it for y’all. Most guys are met with these criticisms by default. Because even the inexperienced girls realize that it's a bigger deal when you hook up with a man because a multiple of reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:24 AM
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Because women usually dont like when men are forward. Unless he has a shit ton of game or he's very physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:45 AM
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I think that's exactly why they are more successful and women are a little bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:44 AM
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That is true. I explained that earlier. That gives lesbian women an edge men dont have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:45 PM
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I just said in the post that those gay women did alot of times. They would even go after straight women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:44 PM
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That wouldn't give them an advantage if you are already not interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:41 PM
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It does have something to do with it. I'm talking about lesbian women picking up straight women. What does bathhouses have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:35 PM
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That's any given sunday as a guy. We usually dont have a choice. And plus you have a better chance to get a yes. Have you tried alot?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:30 PM
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Yes but saying lesbian women will get the benefit of the doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:19 PM
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Do you approach tho? And how often?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:18 PM
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Some of them werent that good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:50 PM
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I think women can get away with that just as easy if not easier. Hell I'd argue you must have been very attractive to have pulled that off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:42 PM
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I'd say it's not as harsh with those due to friends cockblocking you because women dont expect the men to take them home in those environments. But they are still hard across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah cold approach is extremely tough to master. But I'd argue as a woman it is way easier. If you could get a little bit of your cold approach ability up and could make it insane difference. How do you look tho? My lesbian friends who some werent that good looking would simply walk up to a girl compliment her enough times than ask for their number and say they should hang out. And alot of these women were straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:26 PM
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Exactly my point. I agree wholeheartedly. You'd have to tell me more about what you encountered in your party days that is something that most people dont know because I am curious. But it's almost like people are insinuating that the very same girl who was in a secluded location and kissing you also just biding her time for friends to save her. Like if she doesnt like you then she's probably not gonna entertain you for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:21 PM
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I agree. But it's not simply the rejecting the nice guy I have a problem with. Its women's attempts to save face for rejecting a so called nice guy. The guy who was nice was actually pretending to be nice just to get in my pants is alot easier for people to get behind other than he was nice but he was boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:18 PM
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Because guys are easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:16 PM
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I'm saying despite the fact of men acting creepy and weird in clubs the guys that around that area were acting the same way the women were. The women were given more of a pass for the same action because they dont fear the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:44 PM
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Can or cant?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:42 PM
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What? No. I literally just told you that guys were getting rejecting doing the same thing lesbian women were doing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:42 PM
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Yeah I'm no expect either. But I know what I saw seeing that time. The lesbian women were getting tail every single time. And they did it like it was nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:32 PM
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What does that mean? Does a lesbian woman who wants a casual encounter just ask " hey, do you want to come home with me and fool around, no strings attached? " From what I have seen no. They usually say things like "we should hangout or date sometime". Or little jokes saying they can change them if the girl is saying that she only dates guys and the girls will give them her number anyway. Also I think women are only more honest because they are allowed to be. Guys are allowed to be forward becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:31 PM
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Yeah it seems like it. Lol what's your take on OPs take? Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:27 PM
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Most women simply do not like men. Its unfortunate but I think it's TRUE. Not to the extreme that this quote implies tho Guys take note, no amount of increasing muscle mass, sharpening social skills, nor becoming more well rounded person can overcome that. If a guy is all of those things than he is a catch in most women's eyes. They simply wont expect the lesbian women to be at the top of their game in these areas. Like I said they have a very low threshold for women. I think most women are secr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:26 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:20 PM
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I'm aware. And I'm saying most girls will cockblock their friends even if their friend likes the guy. They usually want them to go home with guys they approve of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:05 PM
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I can literally see it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:03 PM
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Yeah that's one of the reasons why clubs and bars are just harsh environments to pick up women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:03 PM
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That didnt take long
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:47 PM
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I’d argue that women invented the Nice Guy TM term to have an excuse to reject genuinely nice guys VERY TRUE
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:46 PM
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I'm a guy and I fill the need to speak on this. A "niceguy" is usually in what girls describe as a guy who either pretends to nice to get into your pants or a guy who reacts negatively to a girl rejecting him. I personally feel like this a very stupid insult. First off it implies that a guy reactively negatively to a rejection was pretending to be nice when in actually an asshole. Which is bullshit. Men and women react both react negatively to rejection. Especially when they feel they really put…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:46 PM
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Well I dont think this case was true. She probably did like him. But was pulled away by friends. And knowing how girls work. They usually allow them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:33 PM
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You must havent been to many clubs. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:20 PM
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Of course they do. But OP is right in saying that women will intentionally cockblock the men their friends are with because they arent getting enough attention and/or havent formed a connection with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:20 PM
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Not really no. Unless you are an absolute stunner or like a guy who is a celebrity. She won't stop her friends from butting in. Girls usually feel if it's meant to happen it's meant to happen with guys who don't completely fit the mold of the type of guy they like. They usually feel like if their friends broke it up then it wasnt meant to go down. Or if the guy didnt do enough to tailor to her friends. I been to a decent amount of clubs to know that's how women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:58 PM
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Because no Pepe lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:54 PM
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You mean men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:51 PM
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Women cockblock other men even when the girl in question likes them. And the girl is more than likely to listen to her unless its Future or something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:49 PM
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Best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:00 PM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:53 PM
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How is he an asshole? You are literally telling me that you have never had fat or ugly friends? And how in the world does him speaking on a public forum translate to him actually calling those very same women fat or ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:52 PM
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Well actually you are both right. She is checking on her friend and that later leads to her cockblocking if she hasnt formed a connection with you yet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:50 PM
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It tells you what exactly? A woman has never went to a secluded location and/or kissed a guy without alerting their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:49 PM
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Most often it means that the woman you thought was into you really wasn't and her friend was helping her out. If she was into you, she'd stop her friend from doing it. I actually disagree with this. Women will generally cockblock the guy they havent made a connection with. That's why the guy who usually does great at clubs has to approach the whole group first and branch off to talking to the girl he likes. Even when girls are clearly into the guy that approached the would go off their opinion o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:47 PM
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The ones I were with wasnt that far gone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:39 PM
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I'm sure. Its easier to pickup woman as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:38 PM
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How did she end up doing longterm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:37 PM
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You just confirmed you never had the opportunity to ask out other women so yeah its obvious that yo dont think it's the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:36 PM
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What are all your methods of trying? Have you tried cold approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:35 PM
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Lol how will that help guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:35 PM
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Those are two different things. The human civilization found out alone time ago that guys are extremely horny and its profitable to sell sex to men. Women do indeed like sex. But they arent willing to give it up to 90 percent of the men they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:34 PM
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Girl privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:31 PM
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I honestly thought alot of lesbian relationships start out that way tho. There's always gonna be women that weren't at peace with their sexuality yet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:30 PM
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Also guys usually have to play games. They cant be very forward most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:27 PM
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I'd still say a woman has a far superior shot than a feminine looking man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:26 PM
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I noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:25 PM
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These were individuals, on many separate occasions. So I'm guessing yes? Lesbians seem to shoot their shot more Because their success rates give them alot more incentive to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:01 AM
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I'll give you my last cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:59 AM
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No. I disagree . I've hung out with many. They are sexually forward. It's mostly met with disdain when men do it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:59 AM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:57 AM
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So basically you fell for a couple of lesbians before?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:56 AM
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I think women will still blow off many guys who aren't pushy for sex. Women just find most guys threating and creepy off jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:54 AM
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I was confused and baffled yes when I found this out because for the simple fact that they were doing the same thing the guy did and got results. That's all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:53 AM
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Or maybe they just watch porn because they like looking at naked women and have a high libido. Wow got a complete black and white thinker here. Not sure how porn promotes misogyny either unless you are talking about certain genres
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:44 AM
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Because I meant what I said in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:41 AM
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How is this true? Lesbians don't send each other unsolicited nudes. They don't have bathhouses where strange women meet up for sex. (these two things are what straight men do, and wish they could do, with women) If lesbians interacted with women in the same way straight men do, then the lesbian community would look like the gay male community - which isn't the case. It's true that women get away with those things towards other women but the idea that they do it as frequently as straight/gay men …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:39 AM
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Have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:37 AM
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Lol this joke was in Cyberpunk 2077
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:37 AM
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I was talking about specifically gay women. Gay men get alot of men to have sex with but although I hung around a decent chunk of men that are gay they havent gave me the same sense that finding long term partners for them is a cakewalk for them. They usually tell me that sleeping around alot makes them hella picky
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:36 AM
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You must have just made this account
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:34 AM
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Well we are both right. Lesbian women arent seen as a threat so more women will entertain them if they are flirting. And fall for their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:33 AM
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I sure am. But so where so some of the girls that used the line. And I also have physically unattractive friends who clean up with women. And they would never use a line like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:32 AM
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Yeah but I think the sheer lack of concern for women is why women in a sense have a sort of buy in to hit on women and actually succeed because the woman doesn't see it as a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:30 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:52 AM
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Yes 100 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:14 AM
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No. It because cold approach is a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:13 AM
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No it wouldn't it most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:12 AM
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It only works when guys have crazy game or good looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:11 AM
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Nah. I cant take this seriously. Women treat men like the plague regardless iff most men are antagonistic and super pushy. Just dont approach women at all unless you are highly physically attractive or have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:10 AM
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It's not like women don't get killed even in the US for rejecting strange men's advances or anything This is vastly overblown
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:08 AM
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It's not worth it to approach honestly in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:07 AM
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I disagree. Most men dont approach because most of the time its ineffective
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:04 AM
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Probably about 5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:03 AM
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You are far more likely to have average women with high n counts then men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:39 AM
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Its true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:36 AM
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Because they can get dick without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:36 AM
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That just applies to you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:34 AM
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But you dont have the stats to back up that most men are getting the success they want either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:31 AM
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