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This is not a question for TRP as it is not a romantic relationship problem. This question is better suited for medical or psychological professionals. I have colleagues and friends who are the same way so I will offer some anecdotal advice. In my experience, folks who refuse to help themselves could be that way for a few reasons: (1) They have always had to help themselves in the past (2) They have trust issues with doctors and friends (3) They respect people who help themselves (4) They don't …
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:23 PM
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Because I didnt fucking pick a piece of vapid shit to date. Yep. You're going to be bored by women who are boring, just like women are bored by dudes who are boring. Be interesting and choose someone who's interesting. If you don't want to put in the effort then don't be in a relationship. Obviously you get stimulation out of other stuff, and it's perfectly okay to do that instead.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 07:34 PM
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Your co-workers aren't thinking about what is cool or alpha, they are having fun unselfconsciously. Bingo. This is what people like about the behaviour, not the behaviour itself. If these goofs were being insincere or trying too hard then it would come off as pathetic and creepy. Nearly anything (within reason) done with confidence could be considered "alpha". Also, women who "laugh and join in" aren't necessarily "turned on". It's likely all of these people are just your average dolt (male or f…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 02:15 PM
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I like the question, but more in the context of how to get what you want from men.TRP is supposed to be about getting what you want from life, and women are just one part of that. What about getting dope ass new friends? Getting a raise or promotion? Talking yourself out of sticky situations? In examples like those, in what ways do you guys assume AMALT?
/r/askTRP25/09/15 04:58 PM
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Mortar and pestle. I use it to make spice mixes, and is particularly useful to break bits into smaller pieces like chili flakes or sea salt.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 04:17 PM
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What you want to find is the highest part of the normal distribution, where most people's preferences fall. This is great dating advice for anyone anywhere ever.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 08:04 PM
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It seems like there's this sweet spot where feminine and stylish meet that is the most attractive. Long enough to be feminine and classy, but short enough to be stylish and trendy. Longer than that and you get diminishing returns. Like, on a graph illustrating the relationship between attractiveness and hair length we might get a bell curve?
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 08:02 PM
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I love this post and look forward to hearing the community's contributions. In the meantime, a personal anecdote: Over a year ago when I started reading RP I had short hair. A year later, my hair is long and my boyfriend loves it. He can't pinpoint why in his head, but he just... likes it better. All of my girlfriends and I think it's much less stylish, but he doesn't care about that. Even my Dad likes it more. Weird, right? I don't get it and I think it's dumb, but my BF cares more than I do so…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 07:36 PM
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Isn't cheating only when the person should have had every reason to be happy, but cheated anyway? If this were the case then cheating wouldn't exist.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:07 PM
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Sounds like she's definitely anticipating a break-up (or some other action that will hurt her feelings), as evidenced by clear insecurities. Her saying "I don't care if you think I'm fat or ugly or anything either" means she's been told this before, so she's just preemptively insulting him because she's expecting him to do something hurtful. Poor girl. Avoid her.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 05:00 PM
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Thanks for coming to my aid haha Since male-female dynamics and romantic relationships are such a subjective topic, it's always exciting to see any attempt at controlled studies.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 04:52 PM
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The study in question: http://www.academia.edu/14505340/Quantitative_Sex_Differences_in_Response_to_the_Dissolution_of_a_Romantic_Relationship Some other fun info: women initiated breakups more frequently and "lack of communication" is the most often cited reason for ending a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 03:46 PM
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IF you're her rock, the main person in her Life,, who the fuck else would you want her using as a "shoulder to cry on," Her mum's? This. RP often gets hung up on avoiding being her "emotional tampon". That's irresponsible, and digs a trench between partners that results in her being extremely insecure and the tears keep rolling. That's fine for a plate, but in an LTR she needs to trust you. Earn her trust while while earning her respect by maintaining frame. Don't offer solutions, just do your b…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:43 PM
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The thing seems written by a white knight who doesn't understand how easily a woman is replaced in a relationship I think the article does a good job of pointing out how hopeless the dating world can seem to men since they have to compete so much harder than women. ""The man will likely feel the loss deeply and for a very long period of time as it 'sinks in' that he must 'start competing' all over again to replace what he has lost -- or worse still, come to the realization that the loss is irrep…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 02:23 PM
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Not necessarily a red pill answer, but I suspect she's bragging about his "loser" status because it's a novel situation. Novelty. She's not used to dating this sort of guy so to her it's a new experience; The "high status and rich" boyfriend trope is dying, and it's "en vogue" to date alternative dudes. Or maybe even: The guy truly doesn't give a fuck, and that really attracts her.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 12:57 PM
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TRP and RPW work off the same ideas, but have many points of conflict (because by and large - men and women have different priorities and goals). This is a great point, and many people seem to be coming to this conclusion really late in their journey. There's a reason each community doesn't like the other gender to participate in their subs. It's almost as if the subs are more adversarial than symbiotic. I think we, as a TRP community, need to do a better job of pointing women and men toward the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 08:10 PM
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I've noticed this too, and it's been happening for a while (as in: at least a year). I think a lot of this sort of advice stems from a misunderstanding of TRP dogma. When girls ask how they can improve their relationship, they're told to work on improving themselves and to work toward learning to trust their man. Good stuff. Well guess what: most men suck. Most men aren't captains worthy of our trust, just like most women aren't unicorns worthy of their man's trust. If it's obvious he's a cheati…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 07:28 PM
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Most girls vocalize literally everything going on in their heads, the good and the bad. She does not want him to read the bad.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:37 PM
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her private conversations to her girlfriends about you. This is a great point. "Hiding something" could just mean private conversations she would like to keep to herself, not necessarily purposefully malevolent.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:19 PM
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I've got 2 suggestions. One: kick ass at your job. Regardless of your field, if you are an ass kicking, name-taking, meeting leading, opportunity taking kinda guy, men and women alike will respect you. Don't be the douchy fake guy looking to "get ahead", just be the best at what you do and take opportunities when they come to you. Also, use your skills to volunteer in the community. Coding camps, makerspaces, robotics workshops, etc. etc. Two: women love men who can build, fix, solve problems, a…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 12:48 PM
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/r/askTRP08/06/15 01:14 PM
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Haha I think /u/tintedlipbalm just cleared everything up. I was just confused as to how my question was phrased weird. Pretty sure it's the best question ever.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 05:25 PM
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wat
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 05:08 PM
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Is that the case?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 04:55 PM
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If she ask, just smile and say I'm already have a man and I don't kiss and tell. I like.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 02:53 PM
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If you love your girlfriend, this really shouldn't happen. Thinking someone else is attractive and lusting is common and fine, but actually feeling "less close" is sort of odd. Maybe re-evaluate if you're truly "perfectly happy" and if you're ready to commit to someone.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 06:30 PM
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Surrendering doesn't mean letting him dictate the nitty gritty parts of your life (in most modern cases, anyway). Making those decisions for you ends up being more effort on his part, so in the end you're doing him no favours. If he likes the independence, keep it that way. From what I gather, those two examples you gave are starkly out of your usual behaviour so I can understand why he'd be put off and confused. Start with things that seem more natural, and ease into surrendering in a more subt…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 06:25 PM
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she apologized and said it was uncalled for and will never happen again... she said she had other things on her mind and took it out on me, and she will proactively try not to repeat it. This is more self-awareness and humility you will get out of lots of people. Good on her and you, OP. You did what you needed to do by (a) tell her in the moment she was wrong, and (b) following up to make sure the point hit home. I'd drop it for now, at most maybe make fun of her and be playful with it later on…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 12:55 PM
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Hey, you know all those stories of drunks girls having consensual sex with dudes and calling it harassment the next day? A GREAT way to avoid that is not to have sex with drunk girls, especially if you have to coerce her. If she's DTF all the way, go for it, but if you have to coerce her she is more likely to remember it as unpleasant and forceful. That last unenthusiastic "yeah okay" doesn't mean shit when a girl is this drunk... or even really at all if you value your reputation and freedom.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 12:03 PM
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Did you consider that she was on her period and didn't want to be embarrassed? This is a plausible scenario, especially since she was so quick to blow OP. She didn't offer it right away because she was tired and giving BJs takes effort that she wasn't prepared to put in. Once she realised her boyfriend is horny and insane she did it to quell the madness.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 05:26 PM
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Going to sleep when your girlfriend doesn't feel like having sex is not beta bitch behaviour. It's reasonable adult behaviour, especially in this case where her rejection isn't part of a larger pattern.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 05:23 PM
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I was going insane with disbelief at this thread until I read this. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 05:17 PM
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I agree that we should have a second account, but when I tried that I got called a troll and my posts got deleted. When I asked why they did that one of the mods said "just one look at your comment history tells us you're a troll". Also, honest stupid question: why do I have trouble subscribing to TRP subs when I make a new account? Do I have to lurk more? How long?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 01:16 PM
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Oh my - THIS so much. I've had to come to terms with so many of my irrationalities, inconsistencies, and personal lies. Fortunately I wasn't too far gone when I found RP, but I'm glad I found it when I did. I was getting worse every day. Like many others who just find RP, I took it way too literally. Overly critical of myself, overly critical of others, and dangerously despondent at the prospect of ever being in a loving relationship. Eventually you find a balance and then you can't thank the RP…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 01:12 PM
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Along the lines of what others said: you would not believe how good you can get at something in just one Summer. One big reason why many people don't take up a new hobby is because they don't want to take forever to get good. 3-4 months of daily practice at ANYTHING is a very significant amount of time. Pick something cool and give it a shot! A very specific suggestion: I just took up Poi (spinning things and making it look cool). Your knee jerk reaction may be to think it's a feminine-looking a…
/r/askTRP12/05/15 12:44 PM
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I don't send any X-rated pics to my SO because I've been burned before. It's not that I don't trust him, I'd just rather those pics not exist anywhere. I do send pictures of stuff I know he finds attractive but not necessarily dirty - like certain outfits or gestures. I think that's almost more effective - it builds anticipation for later. We said really filthy stuff to each other while in a LDR a couple years back. Like, filthy filthy stuff I hope no one sees. Why I thought that was better than…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 05:19 PM
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Some treat us as groupies This is hilarious.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 08:33 PM
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I appreciate it when men and women point out their gender in TRP sub comments. Part of what`s interesting about the discussions is that is often revealed that men and women can have different perspectives on identical situations, so I think it's wrong to pretend all comments are equal.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 08:31 PM
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Expecting friendship from a guy is just like expecting intimacy/relationship from a girl. I like this simile, regardless of how depressing it is.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:49 PM
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I've been reading TRP for a year now and this still baffles me. These two points are completely juxtaposed. Why does her being fun/interesting have ANYTHING to do with you wanting to fuck her? Why does her being fun/interesting have NOTHING to do with you wanting to be her friend?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:49 PM
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She managed to say "my boyfriend" like NINE times in five minutes. This is actually pretty respectful. Sure she shouldn't yammer on forever in ANY situation, but she made sure you got the hint without full on saying "I'm taken. You're wasting your time so move on".
/r/askTRP04/05/15 02:45 PM
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I want to think this is the case because I have lots of friends of both genders and grew up with an awesome dad and two older brothers, but TRP kinda ruined that fantasy. The world really makes women feel like we're unicorns, so I'm very very wary of all of my male friendships, trying to understand why they're spending their time with me. I've got a wicked SO now so all that shit doesn't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:36 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I'm really interested in this so bear with me for a sec. Do you have any close-ish guy friends? What sort of stuff do you guys do together, and do you think you could have a similar relationship with a woman? Edit: Happy cake day!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:26 PM
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I figured you'd have practical and grownup reasons haha.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:22 PM
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I don't do it rudely or anything, but I get my status out there as quickly as possible. This is a great practice. How often do you find guys just peel? And may I ask why you two don't often wear your rings?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 02:09 PM
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Just assume the guy is starting the conversation because he wants the vajayjay This sucks. Honestly, of all the RP things to accept this was the hardest. It's genuinely hurtful and discouraging to know that (for the most part) guys aren't hanging out with me because they think I'm fun or interesting. Guys have it bad with TRP or whatever, but this truth hurts.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 01:35 PM
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Cool topic because this situation is upsetting and difficult for both parties. I asked the question over at /r/redpillwomen to see what they think is the best way for a girl to handle this same situation.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 01:23 PM
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Lots of great advice for the long term here. An easy quick fix: when hooking up with plates use a condom. You will last longer, have a barrier to some STDs, and it works as a kind of dread game. She will likely ask why you want to use one, to which you can answer whatever you want and make her ask herself "who is he NOT using a condom with?".
/r/askTRP04/05/15 01:04 PM
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One trait of an LTR material lady is one who has her own interests and hobbies outside of boys, social life, partying, etc. It's a sign of intelligence, confidence, and maturity, vs. flaky social butterflies who's entire happiness relies on validation from other people. Even though her chosen field isn't traditionally "feminine" it's still something cool; another fun activity she could do together with her partner! For a while I thought RPW interfered with women's career options, but it's 100% p…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 04:20 PM
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My boyfriend gets a little nervous with sex stuff, and what has helped me is trying to do sexy things but not putting sex on the table. This is great advice, and goes hand in hand with what you said about blowjobs. After being with my guy for several years, we've learned that just robbing his crotch feels good, even if he doesn't feel like having sex. The rule is: if it gets pretty hard then I'm allowed to move to the next step. If not, then I just rub his back or move onto the next activity. Mo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 09:36 PM
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Is it all young people or just young women? Maybe these folks just don't have experience using schedulers and don't wanna look stupid by fucking it up.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:19 PM
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This, for sure. Nothing is more attractive than a man too busy to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:49 PM
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Everyone here will agree that it's difficult (and ill-advised) to tell people about RP. For any movement/ideology the vocal majority always gets the most press, and for RP that happens to be the women haters. I've learned to keep it to myself, much like I don't describe myself as a "feminist" because the vocal majority is a bunch of wackos.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 06:14 PM
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figuring out how to word things so you get what you want Can we please not pretend that this isn't what this sub is about? Or the entirety of RP, for that matter? RP is about understanding human nature (yours and others) to maximize your success in life. Our success (generally speaking) means forging a strong relationship so we can raise a good family. Clearly the things she's doing are making him happy, which makes her happy, and improves their relationship. Simple stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 05:19 PM
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The number isn't as important as the actual behavior/tendency. This is the crux of it. In a simple sense, an increased partner count will make a girl (or any human) better in bed. Not an issue if that's what you want. It becomes a bad thing when these hookups affect her personality. TRP (and not necessarily myself) dictates that a high partner count is a symptom of negative traits (low self esteem and poor impulse control) and the cause of others (validated bitchy behaviour and potential STDs). …
/r/askTRP23/02/15 05:39 PM
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That's a pretty fundamental difference between you two that affects her values, priorities, preferences, sense of humour, Sunday morning habits, and attitude toward parenting, friendships, education, entertainment, etc. Having a religious virgin is great in some respects, but I advise you to think outside of RP for a sec to see if you could actually get along with this girl.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 05:20 PM
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It's an issue of reputation management.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:36 AM
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Because she feels bad and doesn't want there to be any more reasons for you to think she's a bitch.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:31 AM
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I sense that OP is trying to see if TRP condones revenge porn type activities. Even if this is not the case, I will have everyone consider this trade-off: The internet is flooded with literally millions of nudes regularly, so those one or two nudes of your shitty ex are but a drop in the bucket. It isn't going to go viral and ruin this girl's life in the way that you imagine. Meanwhile, the potential enemy (and group of enemies) you're going to make with such an action is really not worth the dr…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 02:54 PM
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The medicine was helpful for putting the panic attacks at bay long enough for me to regain control of myself. This is very important. I think some people are turned off by medication because it seems like a catch-all solution that takes no effort on the patient's part. In my experience, medication keeps the symptoms at bay long enough for you to get to the root of the cause. Your brain is just quiet enough for you to become mindful of your problems so you can start addressing them. For some, tak…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 01:28 PM
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I'm going to go against the grain here and tell you that sometimes medication is the best route. Don't think of it as a drug you need to be on forever, think of it as a temporary therapy so you can get your thoughts in order. For 2 years I was entirely unproductive and out of control with anxiety issues while my doctor and parents suggested medication. I did everything else in the mean time: working out, yoga, meditation, fixing my diet, reading up on it, etc. etc. But sometimes, that tiny pill …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 01:47 AM
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No sweat. My favourite is Part 8: Leadership and Support that talks about how a good man/leader/captain balances alpha and beta traits to keep the household stable.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:53 PM
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This is so well articulated and is perfectly in-line with my feelings on the matter. But even so, I'd never be able to speak like this in a public forum without receiving a swift tongue lashing. Thanks, feminism, for all of the "freedom".
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/15 07:39 PM
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/u/OccamsUsername has a great series on LTR game that is widely considered one of the best. Check it out here.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:29 PM
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Upvote for "binders". It's important to appear comfortable in the company of women (sexually or otherwise) so that women feel like they're competing for your attention. The best way to do this is to practice, but pretending works too... I guess.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:24 PM
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/u/OccamsUsername has posted a series of awesome posts on TRP in LTRs. It's a whole different sort of frame that involves a delicate balance between alpha and beta traits. This is a good place to start but I encourage you to read the entire series, if you really care to. Here's a great excerpt from that post: There are two major reward centers women have to determine value in a relationship with a man, and these are in accordance with her needs. These centers work to ascertain which masculine be…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 09:21 PM
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Why don't you want her to go back to her career?
/r/askTRP23/09/14 04:14 PM
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If you sincerely don't care if she's with other guys, give her sincere advice. It solidifies the non-romantic perimeters of your relationship and shows you're confident in your own SMV.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 01:36 AM
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In a hunter-gatherer context physical fitness is huge, but so are wisdom and leadership capabilities. And don't forget that men stay attractive through their 40s if they take decent care of themselves.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 01:20 AM
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Even though it uses very gentle language, I don't think it's a terrible list. "Confidence", "be presentable", "go with the flow", "balance", and "charisma" are all very RP traits that no one could argue with. The others, I feel, are those "beta" traits that need to creep into the LTR once in a while to keep the woman feeling happy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 07:33 PM
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Agreed. His whole LTR series is spot on.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 08:49 PM
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You were a little heavy handed. Her coming over "just for a little" should suit your goals perfectly, and is a completely reasonable statement on her part if she has even an iota of a life. Everyone's got shit to do.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 05:57 PM
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Maybe they're looking for more beta/comfort? This is 100% what she's looking for, but don't immediately assume it's a bad thing. Think of it as another opportunity to be a leader and reaffirm your value as a partner. In fact, providing "emotional support" is essential to fulfilling your part of the LTR bargain. /u/OccamsUsername submitted a great post on Leadership and Support in LTRs. He talks about the importance of keeping a balance between "supportive" traits and "leadership" traits. I sugge…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 04:47 PM
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Feminism as it stands now does not support women like me. I’d explain how and why but all you have to do is reread your email to me. Feminists themselves do not speak for all women nor do they support equality for all women. “Keep your mouth shut” Ring any bells? So amazingly articulated.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 04:14 PM
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I've had short hair for going on 4 years, and at times it was DEFINITELY too short. Now it's grown out to about my jaw, and I'm seriously on the fence regarding whether to grow it out or not. The truth is, my long hair sucks. It's stringy, thin, can't hold any volume, and I find it doesn't suit the shape of my face. I suppose I'm looking for some reassurance that there are exceptions to the rule? Are there any short cuts that are more feminine than others?
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 05:07 PM
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