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In my experience blonde turns heads much more easily, and makes average women look at least a 6-7/10 or above. To my observations, bolder colours are eye catching, ie, the colour extremes - light or dark - but with the proviso that whichever colour you choose suits you. Some women look infinitely better as a brunette - think Kylie, Kim, Rhianna or Angelina. Some look infinitely better as a bright blonde such as Cameron Diaz, Britney, Amber Rose, Nikki Minaj. But there is a third category of wome…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 09:35 AM
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Cheap and super pretty athleisure is available on my fave site AliExpress. I'm absolutely addicted, so be careful if you don't want to spend loads of money :) Some links to get you started (there are links to other similar products at the bottom of the page too, the search function on Aliexpress is not fantastic due to language difference, but clicking through from similar products is a slightly better way to find good stuff) https://www.aliexpress.com/item/32845742524.html?spm=a2g0s.8937460.0.0…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 06:18 AM
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Agree with what others have said. There is an unspoken contract in a relationship, and he is absolutely not upholding his end of the deal. He is defaulting on his half of the relationship, and getting an excellent deal for no effort. When trying to predict if you'll regret it, or if you are leaving a relationship with potential, it's helpful to look at two different things. ​ 1) is this a persistent mode of behaviour? With no signs of change? How many years has he been willing to subject you to …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 06:06 AM
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exactly this. Women have social power plays with each other just like men do. I read the other day that the right hand dominant population (I think right brain dominant describes a lot of typically feminine characteristics) has a lower cognitive sensitivity to emotional and facial communication. We are subtle as anything. A woman should really trust her instincts in this situation, she knows when the woman is trying to be a threat, although I agree that its not equivalent to her actually being a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 06:04 AM
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Brava!! Sounds like you utterly nailed it, well done you! And extra points for the humble and self-valuing way you responded to hot girl, by turning her into inspiration and a comrade, rather than an enemy. You already have your husbands eyes firmly on you by the sounds of things, but nonetheless I hope you out-gorgeous them all in your new clothes, enjoy your beauty!
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 10:30 AM
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Congratulations! How awesome for you! Have you thought about lab diamonds? They're synthesised in a lab, but are the same chemical structure and appearance as real diamonds! But much cheaper
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 04:45 AM
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You’ve done a fantastic job of summarising Fascinating Womanhood, I’ve loved catching up with these posts regularly and it’s caused growth in my mindset. So I just want to applaud you and say thanks for the time you spent creating these summaries, it’s so much appreciated. Brava.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 10:21 AM
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This is a great strategy actually, and you have records of her inappropriate demands if it ever becomes an HR issue. I find the worst type of jealous one eventually overstep the mark and do something that is actionable as their hate intensifies, but yeah I hope you’re dealing with one who just simmers at her irritating sneaky level rather than escalating. I’ve had exactly the same treatmt, and took me years to have the self confidence to realise I wasn’t worse than the average worker, it was due…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 06:33 AM
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This. It sorts out the real friends from the women who are only happy for you when they have pre-eminence over you. Sadly, you find that the vast majority of women cannot handle the insult to their pride elicited by your appearance. They are weak of character (plus they've been told all their life that if you ain't pretty, you're a nothing, and yea that has created deep scars in most of the female population). But they aren't willing to make any effort and you are. I trust eventually you'll find…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/19 01:15 AM
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I think you’re identifying something fundamental about women’s desire towards men, and I don’t think you’re wrong for identifying this as it will kill your sexual attraction. I think desire for a man is based on admiration of his greatness, and the realisation that you have the affection and heart of such a great man. This requires that his focus be on attaining, growing and improving his greatness (in whatever draws his interest) as well as being devoted to you. To love a great man is exhilarat…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 02:30 AM
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Me too, I think OP handled it extremely well, and her man would've been grateful for that. Was reading the story of the supervisor dinner thinking how perilously close I could come to popping off about the check! argh!
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/19 02:42 AM
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Thanks for this 🙌
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 06:53 AM
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Absolutely! It hurts to have people around act as if you ‘just turned up’ looking like that, and get down on themselves for not looking the same. Like, please can we validate the work gone into this, and please can we understand that you are no less attractive than me genetically, you are just X amount of effort from looking as good if not better!
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 08:46 PM
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I’m commenting all over this thread I need to stop. But you raise SUCH a good point. New pretty girl can’t stay new forever. After an initial surge in attention towards her, the equilibrium will return to normal, people who respect and admire you will still respect and admire you, and she will just be a bro like everyone else unless she’s into some serious Jessica-Rabbit style seductive behaviour (and that will lose her the respect of decent men anyway). Just let her have her moment in the spotl…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 06:57 AM
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This ^ So much of beauty is effort, not genetics.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 06:52 AM
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Thanks - wow that short comment nearly has me in tears, thanks for believing me and validating my concerns. I raised it lightly with some male bosses, and told them I was getting depressed and wanting to quit. Things have improved a bit, if nothing else because now it is known I have a less-than-perfect life being depressed and divorced paha! I should remember to act depressed constantly.... I’m being a bit silly but thanks so much for your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 06:51 AM
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Haha you planned it remember? You specially picked out your frumpy grey grocery-shopping joggers to seduce. That average looking guy with a beer gut that she’s acting possessive over - he’s all you ever wanted and you love reminding other women of the painful fact that their relationships are always potentially under threat from a more attractive woman, remember? /s 😆🙄. But for real, I’ve spent so long thinking about this ever present threat to women’s relationships from this elusive prettier wo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 06:45 AM
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Yeah there is, particularly from guys who want something from you (ego boost, attention, GF) but the guys seeking out the validation from a pretty girl are rarely the ones with enough quality to treat her well, or respect people who don't serve any purpose in his life - just average to low quality guys. The high quality guys don't slobber over a pretty face so much because they've seen through the whole looks thing, and realised very attractive people can have nothing at all behind the looks, an…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 01:09 AM
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Mate I’m so glad it was useful for you, the points it makes really do have universal application on the spiritual level, as you state. To be honest I haven’t come across equal insight in many places online or irl, most offer trite ‘just do better and it will get better’ but deep down you know the problem is deeper than that. There’s very few places that recognise that sometimes, one or both partners are NOT in fact doing their best or acting in good faith, but rather are content to leave their s…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 08:44 AM
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This article and website is excellent and extremely insightful, I wish the author (a trained PhD therapist) wrote more material tbh. http://www.healmylife.com/articles/counselling/bonding%20marriage%20&%20silent%20divorce.html It is from a Christian point of view, but anyone will glean great information about dead bedroom style marriages in there. Wishing you love, it’s a tough path to walk, been there. Xx
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 04:19 AM
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First of all, I'm so sorry for how you are feeling right now. It must be so upsetting, and you've had a genuinely turbulent, stressful and emotionally traumatic couple of months with major life changes. Just want to offer some fellow woman love and support, and wish you strength and rapid recovery. ​ Your emotions are not 'problems', they are an intrinsic, healthy, normal and protective part of human nature. You are responding to two incredibly stressful months, full of social and emotional stre…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 10:11 AM
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You are a good woman, and extremely good woman and you are receiving the praise you deserve from him. I have learnt a lot from your handling of this situation, and never would’ve handled it this skilfully myself - I would’ve reacted to all my insecurities instead of holding strong. This could’ve escalated into a bigger problem, I feel, if you hadn’t behaved how you did. Everyone is allowed to feel trapped under the weight of responsibility and lack of freedom, like your husband did, but now he s…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 10:54 PM
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I don’t think surrendered wife is for you currently, you are trying to submit to a man that is not even willing to show up or show respect to you. He is opting out and behaving deceitfully and you are trying your hardest to be a better wife? It’s not time for that, there’s something major amiss in the marriage and you won’t incite him back with nice words at this point. You need to see what’s going on with those bills. There is no legitimate reason not to show you. This is not privacy, this is l…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 11:39 PM
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You sound lovely and feminine, and all I can add is keep being yourself, grow in your convictions about being you and your acceptance of yourself. And maybe read up on 'Highly Sensitive Person' and personality type theory (Myers Briggs) online, as you may find alternative reasons for people's poor reception of you, other than your feminine nature. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if you are a sensitive intuitive personality type who evokes mistreatment from others because your niceness allows th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 06:47 AM
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>At this point I also try to be as unobtrusive as I can, so I don't ask him to spend time with me or try to seek him out when I feel lonely. This is emotional divorce, hun, it's already fully established. There's nothing you can do in the face of his unwillingness. You honestly sound like you've tried everything you can do, in good faith, and he refuses to engage or be intimate. His withdrawal and refusal to partake in the emotional bond of the marriage has broken and voided his vows, he has div…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 05:00 AM
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