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2	First night out That’s great, homie. Happy hours are great for this in a big city. Just get a seat at the bar, relax and be open to talking to anyone that sits next to you (regardless of their gender). I’ve met plenty of women and friends this way. Enjoy exploring your city.	/r/seduction	27/03/21 05:09 PM
1	A woman's POV I generally only approach women in bars or clubs. I rarely do in other settings unless the woman gives a clear signal of interest. You mentioned being shy in some of your responses, so practice holding eye contact and smiling for a second instead of immediately looking away. If the guy smiles but hesitates, hit him with the eye contact/smile once more so he realizes you’re not just being friendly. When you’re at the bar, are you reading a book, sitting silently, or talking to the people around y…	/r/seduction	05/03/21 02:04 AM
2	[GUIDE] If you need to remember one seduction advice : EYE CONTACT First, just practice with various people you encounter and not just with women you want to approach. Also try the triangle approach. If you stare straight into someone’s eyes, it can come off as too intense. So focus on one eye for a few seconds, then the other, then their mouth and repeat. Subtly shift your gaze from one to the next to the next. Don’t do it too quickly. Make more eye contact when you’re listening. When you’re talking, make some direct eye contact but also look past them sometim…	/r/seduction	10/07/20 04:31 AM
9	[GUIDE] If you need to remember one seduction advice : EYE CONTACT I disagree with the latter part. Making eye contact and smiling is an efficient way to gauge someone’s interest. If she doesn’t return your smile or looks away, you know she’s probably not interested. You’re only creepy if you continue to stare after that.	/r/seduction	10/07/20 04:24 AM
2	[GUIDE] If you need to remember one seduction advice : EYE CONTACT I used to have same issue when I was younger. Then I realized that when I’m anxious, I tense up my muscles (including in my face) and my smile would end up being more of an awkward grimace. Learning to notice when I tense up and then relax allowed to smile in a relaxed, non-creepy way. You got this homie, it just takes practice. Great post OP.	/r/seduction	10/07/20 04:19 AM

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