MidMapDad85 Archive

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1	How to justify it to her? It's pretty classic behavior. This is probably a "The only way out is through" situation. It's also a good time to know that most of the judgment or other external responses you perceive are going to be more in your own head than in reality. If the other person is manipulative on that level then you can bet others see it, they just won't say it today, and then, one day in the future, you'll realize you're breathing more easily and feeling a sense of content that you've missed for a long time.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/24 03:12 PM
2	How to justify it to her? NOTHING IS GOING TO BE GOOD ENOUGH OF A REASON is excellent advice. The other person will twist the reason any way. Some people are too busy looking for who and how to point a finger than they are at trying to find a solution.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/24 08:19 PM
1	How to justify it to her? Sounds like you're more worried about how the other person will react than what you should do - which makes sense if it's not an emotionally stable situation. Just start the process, and build the new life. It's a good time to just remember the tortoise and the hare - slow and steady. Keep inching forward and you'll get there.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/24 08:18 PM