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I don’t think about these types of men at all. The first time I even heard about it was on Reddit and it baffled me. Granted I’m in a relationship but I think these types of men just seem to have bad luck so they go overseas. I can kind of see it making sense - go where you are wanted. But also, if you are dating in a big city where people value lambos, 500K a year incomes minimum, nice clothes and everything material…that’s not a dating pool. I’ve moved around a lot. A LOT. Big cities are diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:38 AM
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Have you been on Reddit lately? Turned on cable news? TikTok? They are screaming about men. Shaving their heads. Joining 4B movements. I would gather an educated guess that liberals will branch off into the crazy town you see now and something more center-ish. Republicans aren’t off the hook. You have the MAGA movement and those not quite willing to sign up for it. A few more election cycles (maybe less) and we will have 3 or 4 different parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:44 PM
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Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:13 PM
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No one thinks this. If this is your life experience, you are actively looking for it and surrounding yourself with likeminded people. Happy people don’t complain, therefore you won’t hear from them. No one is out there shouting, “I found the love of my liiiiiiife!” But people do complain when they are single and lonely. The reason why almost everyone has bad luck with relationships is because they pick poorly. I am on this list with everyone I’ve picked before my current bf, minus one relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:35 PM
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Yeah. It’s not very cut and dry. It used to be - cooking dinner, home with kids, bringing the paper while the man relaxed. Now it’s more listening and deferring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:40 PM
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Well…size of vagina has nothing to do with the size of the woman. I guess it can be fatter due to girth because of size, but internally - where you put the penis, has nothing to do with body size. You wouldn’t call me petite at 5’6” and 140 lbs - (and I went all the way up to 190 lbs with pregnancy due to water retention - but my hole didn’t get bigger?) but I do have a very small opening/tolerance. Things can stretch, sure. But they also go right back afterwards. I’ve actually gotten tighter wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:24 PM
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There could be an esoteric argument made that if there was a demon god, Baal or whoever, that accepted child sacrifice- it doesn’t really care whether you believe in it or not. This is just an intellectual argument, of course. But speaking esoterically, I don’t think there would have to be intention for it to “count”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:59 PM
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I’m pro life. There could be an argument that autonomy has become a new almost religion, or politics or “insert thing here”. Not my thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:14 PM
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I think the opposite lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:53 PM
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Well…there are people who do abortions for child sacrifice. They are certain sects of Satanism. I’m not saying it’s rampant or anything, just that if you ever happen to watch documentaries about people who have escaped certain crazy cults, they would have “breeders” who would get pregnant just to abort. You won’t change my mind that a fetus is a baby and living. Just because the cookie batter is still in the oven doesn’t mean it’s not a cookie. It’s just not a cookie yet. You can take it out bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:34 PM
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I won’t date people who have too many friends. It’s socially exhausting for me and many people I’ve know avoid relationships by using friendships. Completely my experience, btw, I realize many people also have healthy relationships. I am open to dating people who have a good amount of close friends to all their close friends are only really acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:48 PM
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Oh dear. This is not the dig you think it is. You can’t converse without getting ChatGPT to do it for you. And this is why you’re single and on Purple Pill Debate. This is why I’m happily in a loving relationship, trying to help out the struggling people here from time to time. Apparently it’s out of my pay grade. You - and many other men here - would rather be rude, aggressive, and stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:39 PM
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If you have to explain it; it’s not funny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:30 PM
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You must be trolling because that is a you problem and I would not admit that. I will tell you what most people miss nowadays. Casual sex and even some relationship sex isn’t going to give you anything but the disconnected feeling, where one or both parties are there to just get off. You need to build an emotional connection and look at sex as something you do with someone you love. It takes months to have good sex and over years it just keeps getting better. If this isn’t your result, you’re in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:30 AM
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What did I just read? Clearly the men on here get it, but I stopped reading after it said women don’t work at sex. Lol. My Apple Watch says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:50 AM
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This entire sub is weird and the majority of posts come down to men thinking women are the root of all evil because they can’t get laid or immediately find a partner who looks like a perfect 10. This particular post is pointing out, once again, how some women (and this is the internet so who really knows) reacted to a man professing to be a virgin. For starters, that information is off-putting. Please share that with your partner or future partner. Look up stuff on the internet. There is nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:06 PM
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I dealt with it in my first marriage as a woman. It’s not just men. It was used as a tool to make me feel bad while he sat in his depression,refused to get help for a decade, and finally I left. But we had a small child when this started and I’m of the opinion that families should stay together if at all possible, so I took the hit. In addition, he didn’t start out that way. What shocks me is people enter into relationships like this. And it’s not just men. Self esteem is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:32 AM
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Any partner should make you feel like you are desirable. Or they shouldn’t be your partner. The games people put up with really shock me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:54 AM
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Meh. It really depends on what you are looking for. I only date men who are marriage material. If a guy wants to be a Chad, he’s not really my type. All this talk about hookups…if that’s vitally important to you, then you’re automatically not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:25 AM
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lol no. Women do not have to sleep around to get men. Not the good ones. By the way - the men demanding this aren’t the good ones. If a man feels the need to have options while dating me, then he needs to pursue those and not me. I have never run out of men to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:01 AM
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Good sex comes from intimacy. From knowing someone and wanting to please them. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:16 PM
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For many women sex is not a part of the vetting process. Sex is what comes after a commitment. There is a disconnect between how men and women process sexual encounters. This does not apply to all men and all women, obviously. Because I understood the disconnect I was upfront with my OLD. I stated I was looking for an intellectual, emotional, physical, spiritual, and sexual connection that would knock my socks off. With one person. And I was willing to be patient to get it. I was willing to buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:24 PM
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At what age are we talking about? 20’s? 30’s? Sure. I’m 47. Minimal makeup is starting to be needed. Overall I agree. And I think the majority of men do as well. Not no makeup, but they like minimal makeup. You not liking makeup at all I think puts you in the minority. Men want their women to look put together. My ex-husband used to say, “Don’t paint the barn! It doesn’t need fixing!” But I’ve always had great skin. At 45 that started to change a little. Throughout my life I’ve stuck to foundati…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:50 PM
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It’s not. And that goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:00 PM
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I think it’s said in jest. But I have a high bar since I happen to like myself and don’t mind being single. I had to wait 4 years past divorce and date a lot of frogs until I met the right one. I’m 47, so it’s different for young people I’m sure. And if the bar is on the ground, awesome. You won’t have much trouble then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:19 PM
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Dating is for marriage and marriage is for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:45 PM
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If you’re not settled down at 30, it’s on you. Plenty of both men and women want to settle down and date with intention. Once you date with intention, you can have a serious relationship. But you have to get rid of a lot of frogs - whether you are male or female. If you are looking to just date, sure. The women who are left get easier to bang. Women who are divorced start to come onto the marketplace again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:09 PM
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No need to humble brag. When you have a good thing, it speaks for itself. I added to the post. If you don’t find it interesting, then move on. Your way of engaging was to call me ancient. Which was exactly what the person I responded to said men do. Weird. Name calling about age. Weird that you would do that. Have a great life :) This isn’t worth my time. It’s…Purple Pill Debate. On Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:18 PM
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That was my point…he could date anyone younger. He chose not to. When you are ancient like me you might be able to understand simple context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:37 AM
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Great reply. I’m 47F, with a 53M. He’s handsome, fit, well educated, and has a job making a lot of money. Not to mention being witty, charming, donates time to charity, and is just all around fun. Women definitely compete for him. That said - he’s also emotionally and intellectually intelligent. He’s not looking for a bang maid. He’s looking for a life partner. Men who want young women generally don’t want intellectual and emotional companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:56 PM
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This is what does it for me. It’s simply a hand to the neck, zero choking action. I can move my neck, I can breathe. But there is also that factor of he could squeeze. Yet I know he won’t. It’s very hot in the moment. We both like it. Every time? Nah. But sometimes we will be sitting there watching a movie or out in public and he will briefly do that to my neck while no one is watching and suddenly I go from zero to 100 in being turned on. And I know that he’s indicating later he wants to get a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:43 PM
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It doesn’t have to be this. Sometimes lack of control is a turn on as well. No need to actually choke. Just a gentle hand over throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:39 PM
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This is why it’s so dangerous. Human trafficking will end but raising kids for sex will just be beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:13 PM
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Sigh…women in situationships, FWB, one night stands, whatever…need a partner. We’re talking men and women so I’m including hetero situations only. If women are performing sex work and you don’t like it, stop going. You’re part of the problem. If you don’t like one night stands, don’t have them. You’re part of the problem. If you don’t like situationships, don’t have them. You’re part of the problem. If you want these things and are salty because you aren’t getting them, you will need to aim lowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:06 AM
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Sure they do. It’s odd to see your POV as men being these stellar creatures of moral character while women are apparently…not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:13 AM
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They do live in a fantasy world. This is ridiculous hate towards women on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:53 AM
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What’s to stop a man from doing the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:50 AM
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Met a guy who was with his wife because “she earns a good income”. But he also said, “I plan to leave her soon (they were both 44) because we’ve reached our financial goals together, and gone as far as we can. Now I want more.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:38 AM
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You must have misunderstood. Emotional connection needs. Physical needs. Spiritual needs, etc. You seem to be stuck on the HVM thing. Do you feel you are not a HVM or it is not attainable for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:55 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:53 PM
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It’s common within my age group. People are divorced, have kids, baggage, partners who treated them like trash…there’s a lot to unpack and heal from before you’re truly ready to date again. Some never want to fully invest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:01 PM
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For my age group. Sorry, thought that was clear
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:17 PM
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Please don’t attach words to me I didn’t say. I was told snottily I was probably a “4 or 5” and I merely explained HVM were consistently interested in me. I then explained what a HVM meant to me, including a higher salary. I personally have had long term relationships with men who made far less. If you ask the right questions and have honest conversation, you can figure out right away how emotionally intelligent someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:17 PM
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I like more traditional roles, outside of financial management. It’s very difficult to have a one-person working household, and quite honestly I enjoy working. This does not mean one person is above the other. It means you work together with your strengths and weaknesses to be the best possible couple you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:32 AM
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I’ve met very few men who can meet those needs. My current partner can. I went out on 3-4 dates a week for 6 months, some repeats, but most men just weren’t interested in the emotional parts. They felt damaged, didn’t want to connect in those types of ways, and many never wanted to live with a woman again. Now I’m older keep in mind, so many men were divorced. They were not used to this type of relationship and were honest about what they were looking for. When I say they felt “damaged”, I’m usi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:54 AM
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Intimacy - for me, so this is personal - means I’m connecting with someone not just sexually. Yes sexually (and sex is so very important, as my drive is high and I believe it keeps partners close and together), but also intellectually, spiritually, physically, and emotionally. Working backwards: Emotionally - Can I tell you my feelings about life, my day, anything? My innermost thoughts, hopes, and dreams? I want to share in yours too. Physically - I’m a very hands on person. Would it bother you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:53 AM
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Well…as I stated, I don’t sleep around. I only “do” commitment. Keeping in mind I’m 46 I do believe I’m a solid 7 or 8. I get regular attention from HVM who only are looking for commitment. My definition of HVM is attractive, good job over 6 figures (and I live in the Midwest, in a smaller city, where a 4 bedroom home on 2 acres can be bought for $250K, so 6+ figures means you are a boss of some type here), good EQ, still has goals, and wants to include me in their lives. I’m currently in a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:03 PM
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I think some women have it very easy, yes. I’m 46 and I could probably get sex almost any day I wanted. And I live in a small-ish community, so “resources” are low. This is if I’m not picky. If I wanted to be pickier, I could have physically attractive HVM on rotation - and of course, I would be honest and they would be up for it and keep me in their own rotation, I’m sure. As it is, I only want sex that also comes with a relationship and emotional intimacy. That is ridiculously difficult to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:44 PM
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Everyone knows BC is r*pe-y. There really is no other perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:42 PM
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Bill kind? Do you know anything about the Clintons? About any POTUS or govt official? You don’t get there by kindness my friend. Take off those weird glasses you have on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:12 PM
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You want sex slaves and eye candy. Not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:10 PM
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You can find permanent partners on Tinder. Especially in smaller cities/areas, people just use what is available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:13 AM
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Do you know why this is? I do. Men in other countries take care of their women. It’s not really something they have to think about. We can argue feminists and blah blah in America, but I didn’t sign up for that. I’m fairly traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:12 AM
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You are asking detailed questions pertaining to whether she can sexually satisfy her man. It’s very difficult to take that any other way. I am curious why you asked at all. A woman can make 4x a man in software development, working 40 hours a week from home. Are you asking if this particular woman has enough energy for sex? Plenty of women work 2 jobs for minimum wage and have zero energy for sex. A woman who makes more money can afford to hire things out - food delivery, healthy meal subscripti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:34 PM
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This is such a random few questions here. Do you have the same concern for women whose partners work a lot of hours? Do you wonder if they have fulfilling sex lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:30 PM
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Who was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:54 PM
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Sure. Aggressive in bed is only with a partner I’m invested in. Dirty humor is a fun sign someone can be into that though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:01 PM
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She also filtered for only 5’7”, which is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:19 AM
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As a woman I feel the same. Men on dating apps - which is the only way to meet someone around me (not a big city) - only want sex, short term flings, or they are poly. It’s so gross. I’m in my 40’s, so most men are divorced (as am I). I will probably remain single because I can’t imagine settling for a once a week screw with someone for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:25 PM
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How would you get that from my comment? A dirty sense of humor is also something I possess. It doesn’t mean I was taught to objectify men. It’s light banter that can turn sexual between partners. It would completely turn me off if my guy was telling clit jokes to his group of friends in front of me. I sure hope he is bantering with his buddies when I’m not there (but not about me). That’s healthy. Maybe read that as a dirty sense of humor with me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:03 AM
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I think you read that last part out of context. Or I wrote in poorly. Or both can be true. Be aggressive in bed is one descriptor, making me feel safe and protected (outside of the bedroom) is another. This could be anything from freedom to share emotionally, to knowing if I am out with my guy, and things goes sideways - plans, feeling unsafe, whatever, he can take care of things. This does not mean fighting btw. It means intelligence. If I’m actively dating and he doesn’t share his funny/dirty …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:48 AM
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Sounds like you know about addiction. I’m so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:56 AM
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I can absolutely have 2 glasses of wine a few times a month and never think about it otherwise. Sometimes I go months without. If you can’t, that’s not a me problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:00 PM
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There are people who don’t drink, alcoholics, people who fall into both of the former categories, people who drink on occasion, and people who drink nightly or almost nightly. Occasionally is all I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:20 PM
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Overly nice men are, in fact, boring. A want a nice man with a dirty sense of humor who will drink wine with me and be aggressive in bed, while also making me feel safe and protected, and never making me doubt he is faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:22 PM
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It means she wants to have sex with you, but doesn’t feel safe around you to be naked. She was a hookup. There is no “duty sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:25 PM
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I think since dating and hookup apps are a thing, the number has gone up. It leads men to think most women don’t want a relationship and are down for just sex, even when places like Tinder let you distinguish if you are looking for a LTR. I’ve met every LTR in the past several years on there. Shorter ones too! Some really great people. People have “online skills” nowadays, instead of face to face conversational skills. Maybe 5% of men but I live in the Midwest. People are just nicer. Have differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:41 PM
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Imagine thinking 46 is archaic and outdated…these are the words of a child who should not be considering a relationship for some years yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:00 PM
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Confidence is so very sexy. I wouldn’t have cared less about the Porsche - I would have been wondering why he was so confident! It’s an instant eye grabber for me when a confident man walks in a room. It can be the busboy. Some people just have “it”. And fat chicks can become fit, so they should be careful ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:41 PM
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I honestly find OP’s post tacky. I’m 46F and get asked out a lot. There is not a “perfect man” out there who has everything. There is, however, someone who matches my energy, cares for and loves me, prioritizes me as a partner and makes me feel safe enough to prioritize them. Add in intelligence, a humor we both get, matching lifestyles, being relatively close in values - I accept very few dates - and the ones I do are because I’ve talked with the man who asked and know we fit on a decent number…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:57 PM
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I don’t know what her issue is - maybe it’s her personality? I’m 46 and definitely not a model, although cute and told I could pass for much younger, but that’s always been a thing with me (looking younger). I consistently get a range of men 26-65 wanting to hook up. It’s not my thing, but if I wanted to, I’m pretty sure I could almost every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:18 AM
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Daily horoscopes are shit. I said astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:43 PM
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This is so interesting. There are cultures that still base arranged marriages off of astrology. I’m one of the women who find astrology interesting. I don’t use it to filter out who I date, but I have found that a good 80% of people follow the basic traits of their sign. Not every one, but again, let’s use the 80%. So 80% of people follow 80% of the basic traits. That’s not a bad return for knowing a birthday. Of course I study psychology and people. So this is all very interesting to me. As is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:10 PM
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Lol what? Women who believe in astrology are easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:58 PM
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The US is brutal. 40 hours is minimum and 50 is more likely. Then add in travel time. I get paid for 40 but leave at 7:30 am and return home by 6:00 pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:41 PM
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I have no idea what that means, but as long as it’s PG rated, feel free
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:45 AM
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As I said, I don’t think you sound very nice. I also think you misunderstood what I wrote above.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:34 PM
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I do generally like nice guys. You don’t sound very nice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:46 PM
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Some bald men are good looking, some are not. Some men look better with a shaved head, some do not. Lack of hair doesn’t bother me if he has other things going for him. Fat & bald is not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:32 AM
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Everyone is different and looking for different things. What I don’t appreciate about this sub is the generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:15 AM
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I really was starting to care for someone, but the moment he told me he had been a fuckboy after his marriage ended (we are both divorced), I lost interest. Immediately. You can’t ever trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:31 PM
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People can have preferences. He was not insecure, not sure why OP thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:29 AM
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Yes, that is very unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:09 PM
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Okay, so now that you’ve discussed less than 1% of the population, let’s get back to the rest of us who live in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:13 PM
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This needs to be the top comment and people need to NOT take advantage of those with conditions. Holy crap some people on here are irredeemable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:11 PM
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OP as a woman with borderline I would appreciate it if you would not spread this kind of b.s. Do I have a high sex drive at age 46? Yes, higher than yours, I guarantee. But I’m also traditional, been with very few partners, never done a ONS, and I’m only a freak for the person I’m with. On the outside I’m sure I seem mundane. I work for a church… My marriage didn’t work out because my ex husband went into a deep depression due to things regarding my stepdaughter, and he couldn’t pull out of it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:07 PM
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Yup. High quality guys don’t post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:50 AM
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Well I’ve met men on Tinder that only wanted serious relationships. I would say 25%. Than again; I live in a smaller city. Larger metro areas you are probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:50 AM
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It is a strange phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:56 PM
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I live in a beautiful part of the Midwest. Nice homes can be bought for 250K. Still a lot but not crazy. You can buy them for 150K and less as well. Close to great beaches, nature trails, just about any outdoor activity you can imagine. As well as great schools, and overall a wonderful, safe environment for the family. Very little crime. Nowhere near Appalachia…?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:24 AM
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It really depends where you choose to live? San Fran? NYC? Another major metro area? Than yes. Or choose someplace else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:52 AM
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46F - have you seen what is out there? The men right now are crap. If you want arm candy, looks matter. If you want a partner, it’s not really about looks. It’s about treating your partner well and vice versa. You learn these things with age. If the women and men around you aren’t realizing this yet, focus on career and friends. They will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:36 AM
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You are not wrong but it is up to the person to determine how important this is to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:07 AM
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I was undiagnosed and not medicated for a very long time. I’m still not medicated. I’m not going to argue everyone’s health with you, I’m saying staying on top of your health and always adjusting it should be a priority. For everyone. That should not be controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:05 AM
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I know. I have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:26 PM
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So are mine. I’m saying it’s possible to avoid that type of weight gain. All of it? Perhaps not. But that is also not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:56 PM
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I have 7 autoimmune diseases and conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:20 PM
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I have a medically slow metabolism. To lose weight is ridiculously hard for me. I’m still never more than 20 lbs overweight at my heaviest. I go through cycles of skinny to 20 lbs over, but if I can put a stop to no more than 20 lbs, anyone can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:15 PM
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Yup. And there is a huge push for diversity right now, so companies are hiring people who are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:12 PM
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Not a man, just looking for one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:18 PM
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Thank you for this! Very few men anymore are masculine. They are out there watching porn, complaining on here that they can’t get enough women to sleep with. Real men work hard, and for one woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:42 AM
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One of the things that make a man high value is the fact he is committed. And I think this actually changes from area to area. I thank God every day I don’t live in a large metro area because I’m not willing to get plastic surgery and spend tons on clothes and accessories. I like nice and put together but no designer duds here. Where I live (Midwest, US), a guy just has to make 100K, be reasonably attractive, and love his woman and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:03 PM
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*Most women you meet. Also, I really can’t be sexy with someone not putting in the work of a relationship. Men need to learn what turns women on. It’s not dick pics. I’m not jumping the bones of a guy who comes home and plays video games. But a guy who is my partner in life? Morning, noon, night, and double that in the weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:04 AM
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This is an immature viewpoint. Many women have higher sex drives than men, myself included. I am going to assume just by your post that you are young. I am not, I have been married and divorced, I have had several long-term relationships of 2 to 5 years. your statement is not accurate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:42 PM
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Thanks. 2 years ago I had all the money I ever thought I would need haha. Life does change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:19 PM
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I have found that lately I’m starving myself. That’s all I can do. I can’t afford a gym. I can’t afford much food anymore. I buy healthy for my son but can’t afford it for myself. I just eat between 500-800 calories a day and try not to exercise too much. These are difficult times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:30 PM
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I live in the Midwest and have most of my life. But I have also lived in the South and Canada, and traveled a great portion of the world. So I feel I have a lot of comparison. The Midwest is probably one of the “fattest” areas. I’ve lived in Indiana, Illinois, Michigan, Wisconsin, Minnesota, and Iowa. My conclusion is that a portion of people are getting healthier. But as some people get healthier, some continue to get wider. This is not necessarily laziness. Our food has so much corn based prod…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:12 PM
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Feminism ruined a lot of things. Including many, many marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:41 PM
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Not really - the US, Midwest. I would say leaning conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:53 PM
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Where are these men who want to be providers? Ever since I truly entered the dating pool I’ve only met men who wanted an equal partner in income. My ex husband forced me to go back to work when my son was 10 months old and hated that at the time I was not a “high income earner”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:22 PM
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Well yes. They can cheat and it can cause a baby. But dna tests would also out male cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:33 PM
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Well I equate HVM to being able to enjoy his job (a man who doesn’t is miserable), having the ability to spend time with me and not be married to the job, be funny, know a lot about a lot (intelligent, but doesn’t have to be book smarts - sometimes people who are can be boring), and have emotional intelligence as well as a high sex drive. I don’t equate money into it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:09 AM
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I did when I was child free but breaking up was awful. I stayed too long because I loved those kids, and after the breakup and helping to raise them for 2 years I had no part in their lives. It sucked. I heard from them recently though and they both told me they looked upon that time with me fondly. It made me feel really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:31 AM
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This is true. I had a bf who let me know early on he would demand a paternity test if I ever got pregnant. Earrrrly on. Weird for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:23 AM
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I agree with you however - a dna test would fix a lot of Issues. And women should not be allowed to cheat. It does happen to good men. That should not be discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:00 AM
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There are hospital mix ups. That would be why I would want them. Also…couldn’t they potentially show some gene deficiencies you might want to know about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:40 AM
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I feel quite the same about men. I can call repair men, or YouTube how to do something. I work. I’m happy. Only thing I need are good companionship and sex. I have friends for companionship. I do have a bf and he’s wonderful. But don’t think women’s only use is sex without thinking we don’t have those same thoughts re: men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:09 AM
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I really wish I would have been supported as a SAHM. Did it for 10 months and my ex husband did not like me being at home. He had weird money issues though. Men and women are good at different things, and that changes within each relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:56 PM
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VR sex will be amazing for couples with mismatched sexual drives and people who can’t have sex due to medical issues/conditions. Imagine someone paralyzed having sex? How wonderful! Imagine having your partner on your device and it feels real? Your partner can’t do 2x a day, only 3-4 times a week? Okay, use their avatar. Just don’t cheat with someone else’s haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:06 PM
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Of course I see that. It’s called money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:17 PM
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Of all the things you can fake, confidence is the easiest. And the best thing is once you pretend enough, it comes naturally. This is how I gained it. I have always chosen confident men, no matter their looks - with 1 exception. Fuckboys. I won’t date them. If someone is confident because he is good looking and wants to get in my pants, it’s flattering but no thanks. If someone is confident because life is good, work is good, and they are genuinely happy - that’s an instant turn-on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:57 AM
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I mean…grow up. Women can’t control most of the things you listed. When I’m plus 20 lbs I have a great ass. When I’m my perfect healthy weight, I have no ass. So which am I to aspire to? Also, I’m not getting a boob job. Toxic stuff in my body? No thanks. I’m also not spending a fortune on grooming. My current bf has never seen my nails or toenails done - shocker! Men are still loved and adored when they are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:22 AM
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It’s changed over time. I used to date to society’s standards. Now I date men who are capable of leading me in times of crisis (good, sound judgment). They like their job so they won’t complain about it. They have time for me and are emotionally available (they have done the work to know their weaknesses and fixed them to the best of their ability). The rest is personal to me. High sex drive. Active but also will chill out at home. Willing to travel. Yada yada. When I made the comment above I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:36 PM
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Every single one? I don’t do ONS’s or short term. I’ve never been broken up with, I’ve always done the breaking up, even in my 13 year marriage. HVM have their own issues. It doesn’t mean they are super fantastic. It means they have qualities that make it easier in the world. HVM are usually workaholics, care too much about status, and don’t understand what emotional support and needs a woman has. HVW are expected to be fit, make money, have hobbies and friends, always look “on point”, and be em…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:31 PM
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I think men here overestimate high value men. Either the definition, what they want, or what being one means. I’ve only dated HVM. You don’t have to be a 10. You don’t have to be young. 46F and I get approached for relationships from HVM ages 26-65. Plenty of women are better looking than me. Plenty make more than me. I have never had issues getting a HVM. Company CEO’s, business owners, men who dated models. I am…not a model. This entire sub is strange. Everyone thinks there is an answer for co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:00 PM
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I wear the bare minimum in makeup. Men have always thanked me when dating me for not being “fake”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:41 PM
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Nope. Will not date men who use social media more than me, and I barely use it. I want a man, and a private life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:13 PM
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Tell me you only date one type of woman without telling me you only date one type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:11 PM
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I was like you once. But you get sucked in because people here are crazy. They honestly think the things they post and it makes me very much wonder about the future of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:10 PM
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I asked my bf about this and some other stuff. He said women have it easier finding hookups, but both women and men have it the same while looking for a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:29 PM
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For the record a fair percentage of those profiles are still bots or lying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:28 PM
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You’re assuming this is a problem. Men are hornier in general. Okay… That doesn’t stop the motivated from finding the right person for them. What type of solution are you looking for? Women to suddenly want reckless one night stands as much as men? Women to offer themselves up to you since you’re hornier? For centuries no one cared what women wanted, and in many countries, they still don’t. Women are married off to old men. They get raped. Beaten. Why are men here complaining? I don’t understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:57 PM
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Plenty of women are creepy. Who says I care about money? Partners need to study each others’ bodies. This type of studying is active learning. You absolutely should be talking with your partner. Question: Do you hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:52 PM
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I meant having a partner that is also a friend is a great thing. Badly worded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:00 PM
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With maturity comes the ability to see a person as a friend = a great thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:17 PM
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I don’t do short term but if I did, I would want the shy person. I would feel more comfortable with someone I would not deem a player. If you’re just looking to get laid, confidence is a skill that can be acquired.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:05 PM
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If you’re asking for long term I would want the partner that worked to improve himself. He has more life experience and would realize how to please me, put more effort in. The natural one would most likely have a high body count and could be prone to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:53 PM
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Women should be with who they feel comfortable sharing a life with. Going for just looks is stupid. Discounting attraction is also stupid. You need to have enough attraction to keep things going, and enough things in common morally to build a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:50 PM
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That example does take some type of hovering. I would have to figure out that the guy does like running. And there is no reason to do anything more than that. Yes, anything more is creepy. Just be interested in girls/guys and be nice. Some will want the attention, some won’t. Having lived in large cities and small ones, and dated high quality men in large cities, it was annoying af to date city men. They expected perfect hair, perfect makeup, perfect body, nails done, designer clothes, and nice …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:45 PM
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There is creepy hovering (which can be done by either sex), and, “Hey Jason, I wanted to ask you a question about running, since I see you’re a runner. I thought I might start taking it up.” I think women wanting money occurs more in the large cities. I would also say men expect a waaay higher standard of beauty in the cities. There are a lot of women to choose from, and they want the best. The perfect, plastic surgery without it being obvious, woman. In “normal” cities men and women want closer…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:03 PM
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It really depends what “hovering” means, as to whether or not it’s creepy. What men are thinking women just want sex? Most that post here. They complain constantly about all the sex women get. How easy it is for women. It’s disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:30 AM
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I would if I thought he had any interest. I’m abnormal in that regard and I know it, though. When I was doing OLD I would search for men and spent time really taking it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:49 AM
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Beauty is subjective. Everyone’s 3 is someone’s 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:56 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:54 PM
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Women are affected the most by online dating, and not in a good way. Men have more access to easy sex than they have ever have. Women - who historically have not wanted hookups - get thrown into hookup culture if they want to date. Men are happily single for longer as they are working on themselves and hitting up Tinder or Grindr. Women are single later and later, some staying single (more than in the past) into their 40’s and well past child bearing age. In her 30’s men claim a woman is “past h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:42 PM
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Women are more complicated than that (or we can be). Attraction is an invitation to see where things go. Doesn’t mean anything beyond that (to me).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:27 PM
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I can work on sex with a willing partner. As long as there is attraction, it’s all good. I don’t base things on whether I want to jump their bones or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:12 PM
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If I’m hovering around a man it’s because I see him as relationship material. Men have to stop thinking women just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:51 PM
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Well that is truly amazing information. Almost everyone I know is married or in a relationship. I have a lot of friends and acquaintances too. I’ve lived in 8 states and 2 countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:47 PM
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First of all, you were the one hanging out with a “6”. Second, if she told you were an 8.5, it means you are actually a 4-5. Women don’t like to hurt feelings or be brutally honest unless they feel safe with a partner. Third, she came from a country that held men in high esteem. That might actually mean you are a 2 or 3, and just treated her better than where she came from. All that being said OP, the majority of women aren’t out here looking to get cock. They want actual relationships where the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:41 PM
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Likewise I only have relationships with men who have never been promiscuous. Men should set the standard and they set the standard often by saying and doing anything to have sex with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:33 PM
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Who says we do? Some women, sure. But I know way more women that don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:30 PM
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That can for short distances
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:28 PM
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I met my ex husband at age 27. Divorced at 41. Had long term relationships before and after, in one now. I can tell you that trying to find a man for a long term relationship gets harder and harder the older a woman gets. Less men want serious, more want casual. Plenty of men can’t even define what they want. They want to “see where it goes”, “aren’t sure”, and this is before you even meet! Why would I even waste my time? I had to be super specific in my online dating profile to weed out what I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:27 AM
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In my own experience it is easiest to be with someone who is aligned with you on big things. But I know a lot of divorced men who pretended to think like their ex-wives did to maintain harmony. When I was dating I would hear a lot of, “In the beginning it was fine, but she became more and more feminist and eventually anti-men.” I don’t know any women that would put up with a man acting like that. I think the smart couples realize politics isn’t worth throwing your relationship away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:36 PM
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I can only speak for myself. I need a man who really enjoys his job and is looking to always improve. I am in my career, so I expect the same. Doesn’t matter if it’s taking a class or starting a small side business, or even taking up a project he normally wouldn’t. Just growth - and it doesn’t have to be monetary. I know a plumber and electrician each who didn’t go to college but make more than a county district attorney. Education doesn’t mean anything to me financially-wise, although I myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:25 AM
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I’m not suggesting no sex before marriage. I’m saying a smart woman will wait until she knows a man is truly invested in her and the relationship before sex is on the table. A lot of men on here seem ultra-focused on the fact they aren’t getting sex. Not so much caring about the relationship part. And I would say this also goes for high quality women - they don’t date men who have had tons of ONS’s. When I was dating this was always a question before I even met someone. Good ole OLD… “What’s you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:59 PM
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Exactly. I’m shocked at the men on here who complain women don’t give away sex to them. Good, high value men don’t want women who have high body counts. Good, high value women aren’t about to just offer up their bodies so some chump can “get some”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:52 PM
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And that is why I never “gave it away”, so to speak. If a man was interested in me, he would wait. I need to know he’s invested in a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:33 PM
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Disagree. Men want to fool around before they settle down. They just don’t want to settle down with the women they fool around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:17 PM
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I feel that should just be a human thing. Men and women should work on bettering themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:15 PM
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I’m pretty sure they did not. It was just expected they stay together. One grandfather had affairs, my other grandmother had an affair (and an affair baby - my father). No divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:10 PM
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Yeah if that’s you, you wouldn’t have any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:05 PM
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When you will date anyone it’s time to take a step back and work on yourself for a bit. Just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:26 PM
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Absolutely create your own terms. Women actually like that. Instead of “Women won’t date me” change that to “I won’t date women who…” Have standards. I have always picked the confident, self-assured man over the good looking one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:12 PM
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I do not understand what you just typed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:54 PM
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Men who follow Tate should then also be in shape, working on their grind, and wealthy. Look - not everyone can be handsome. But you can control a lot of other things. Confidence. Taking care of your body. Eating healthy. Being fun - go out, do things (even alone), travel, join clubs that interest you. Not everyone can be beautiful or handsome, and no, it’s not fair. But instead of screaming at the sky, live a good life on your terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:07 PM
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I ask every man I date about their sexual experiences. The minute they tell me they dated women only to screw, I need to know why. If the answer isn’t, “I was 16 (or younger) and an asshole” then I pass. I want a man who values sex, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:49 AM
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I think a lot of these posts can be cleared up easily by telling posters they are going after the wrong type of women. Vapid women want valid things. Now if you are not seeing vapid women, I can tell you that how a woman (and man) was treated in their childhood has a lot to do with how they understand and treat relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:43 PM
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What does this mean? You are so skinny you need to wear several jackets to look like you are of normal proportions? Because that could also be the issue. Too skinny could be seen as unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:39 PM
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This sub is bonkers. One day it showed up on my page and I thought, “Oh cool, purple pill, it must be something about men and women discussing things in a mature way.”😬 The men here are angry. Like…angry. I don’t run into as many women posters that hit my page. But the ones I do - yikes. The comment section with women seems a little more rational. Although there are some rational men as well. What is the point of this sub? To complain? To talk bad about the other sex? No one really wants to take…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:49 AM
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Coming from a divorced family growing up whose father consistently cheated with his secretary - I’m pretty used to this way of cheating. Doesn’t mean women and men should be hanging out without their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:27 AM
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No, it’s not okay. If you are in a relationship, you stop hanging out with people of the opposite sex while alone. Still want that friend? Then your partner hangs out too, every time. And I’ll go further. You don’t need wild nights out anymore with “the girls” or “the boys”. How do the majority of cheating stories start? “I was out with my friends and we were drinking and I got so drunk and next thing I knew I was cheating on you.” If you want a relationship, be ready to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:48 PM
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Lol 3-5 of celibacy and “lean pickings”. I’m 46. Got divorced at 41. Never had lean pickings. I’ve had two 2 year relationships. Several shorter ones. Barely been single. I attract high quality men with great jobs. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:18 AM
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Haha! He just seemed so…focused on getting women into bed. Really sad. Traditional women are all over the place in the US. I happen to be one of them. It’s really a personality trait for many people, speaking of Meyers Briggs. As in, we can’t help it. It makes us happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:15 PM
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I’m going to ignore a lot that was said in this post with some hopefully helpful information. Cultures in America move back and forth. For example, the 40’s and 50’s and the war/giving everything to Uncle Sam, brought about the free love and hippie 60’s and 70’s. Then we went conservative 80’s and 90’s to more grunge/emo/relax dude in the 90’a/00’s. Once we enter the late 00’s and 2010’s it started getting very liberal. This is where we are now. And there’s pushback. So now we are going to see u…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:19 AM
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Even if it can only do a fraction of that - simply always having someone ask about your day and seem to care about you? I’m sure many would find that lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:04 PM
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I’ve heard some good arguments that people will prefer robots because no fighting, you don’t have to worry about their happiness, etc. I think it will be less of a “sex robot” and more of a relationship/companionship robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:44 PM
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I’m not mad, nor a feminist. I do know however, that good men speak of their women in a more respectful tone. That is…if they respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:35 AM
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This gives me the ick. You don’t talk about her like a person. She’s a blonde you want to breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:32 AM
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You’re judging the wrong crowd. We know all about cars here. We just don’t give af.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:09 AM
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As a girl from the Midwest…um…please stop. If you’re not having luck, well… I can see why. You think some money and a Porsche will get you women. You want arm candy. I have news for you. Us girls in the Midwest - the ones who live outside the big cities and don’t get plastic surgery and are pretty happy to understand the value of money and economics - wouldn’t put up with city boy behavior. We like alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:08 AM
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So what we really learned here is to pick your partners carefully because some people on both sides think cheating is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:26 AM
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Go to a dating app. Be upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:45 PM
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I’m with you on this - but you have to be willing to understand there are women who want things as well. I won’t date men who have had a ton of partners. It’s gross (to me). I won’t date men who don’t have direction in life (not exactly an attractive trait). I won’t date men who aren’t good fathers (I’m 46, so hard to not run into this). I won’t date men who aren’t fathers (it’s not a good match imo, for people with and without kids to date - tried it once, people without kids just don’t underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:45 AM
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Thank you! I experienced this for a decade with my ex husband. Now he’s an ex. I call it my lost sexual 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:04 PM
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I haven’t ever said this to a man, but I have thought it all the time. And to me it’s an enormous compliment. It means I could imagine a woman (or me) wanting forever with you because you are just that amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:47 PM
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Speak for your situations. Some people honestly love oral. I consider it a necessary part of foreplay. For both partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:07 PM
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Relationships take a re-commitment every day. It’s not a one-and-done kind of thing. I want these things every day. I know you’re looking for a “gotcha” but you won’t find it here. I dated before I was married, got married for a long time and had a rough go of it - mainly due to his daughter (my stepdaughter) being molested and him falling into a deep depression for 12 out of the 13 married years together. It was affecting our own son, so I chose to leave. But I basically had no partner for thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:28 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:42 PM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:22 PM
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Good. Then nothing to discuss, really
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:11 PM
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Interesting. I didn’t call you out at all. I made a general statement about some discussion here I saw. I don’t have the time to stalk people’s comments like that. You stated the personality comment wasn’t relevant, I stated why I thought it was. Happy New Year. May it come with less need to increase your font for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:40 PM
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Isn’t it though? Referring to women as fat chicks, thinking single moms are a drag…this is the kind of mean personality I wouldn’t consider to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:13 PM
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At age 46 I’m actually shocked at how many men my age don’t have kids. I actually prefer to date a man with kids, because the ones without don’t understand the limits of parenting, even though mine is a teenager. But I would say half of my Tinder likes are guys who were never married, no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:08 PM
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A fat chick can lose weight. A mean personality doesn’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:02 PM
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I mean, you don’t speak for all women. Everyone has standards, and these are based on a multitude of factors, probably having a lot to do with how you grew up. For me personally I want: A partner who has never, and would never consider cheating. Obviously things happen, but this is my starting point. Someone who genuinely wants to spend time with me, and is past the bar days. I’m 46, but felt this way in my 20’s. A long marriage in there to the wrong person made me up my standards a bit. A man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:38 PM
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I feel the same way about a high body count. And I’ve never had trouble finding men who feel the same. There’s enough people in every category (who mind or don’t mind) to match up with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:24 PM
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I can’t sleep with someone unless I love them. And then when I do sleep with them, it intensifies 100x. I can’t say I’ve fallen trap to this, but hookup culture is wild. So many people ready to just give it all away for one night. Men and women. So weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:40 AM
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Why are people fighting? Women and men are different. That’s cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:05 PM
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Y’all date weird people. I have dated talk, short, rich, poor, thin and with some chubby-ness. Personality and compatibility is where it’s at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:07 PM
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He has kids? Somehow I never knew.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/22 10:42 PM
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To each their own.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 02:36 PM
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Meh. I mean...I dated a few male whores. No one ever called them out. It's gross either way but she wasn't trying to get away with anything.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 10:36 AM
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You can certainly file for divorce in 3 days. No separation period is necessary in a lot of places but where I live if you have kids, it's a mandatory 6 months before you can divorce. My divorce is 6 months from the time we filed. We filled out the paperwork together. One of us had to serve the other. Very easy.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/20 09:03 PM
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Sometimes medical issues and some people "run hot" or "run cold". I have a few random weird medical issues that cause me to run cold. I live in a colder climate for most of the year but don't force my coldness onto others. Layer up!
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/19 11:39 AM
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If you work well with your ex, you can do what we do. I have our son Mon & Tues. He gets Wed & Thurs. We switch every Fri-Sun. That way neither of us has to go an entire week, the longest is 5 days, and we work with each other if our son misses the other parent. Also he's involved in a lot of stuff in the evenings, which we can go to if it's not our nights. But that takes 2 people actually getting along for the sake of the child. Not always possible.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/19 01:37 PM
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