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I don't care about money, it's useless. If I have internet, a room, and a PC, I'm set.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:54 AM
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Women go out because they are social creatures. The cost of the "consumption" is worth the opportunities for new relationships and novel interactions. The perspective of OP is essentially: "as a man, I could not imagine leaving my house at all if I had a list of women on tinder begging to fuck me." But the question says more about OP than anything, and it's not an interesting question. Why the fuck do you not want to go out and experience something REAL?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:47 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:07 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:47 PM
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Clogging up your arteries clogs up the health system and wastes money for everyone else. There's nothing to appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:39 PM
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The question wasn't about the meaning of life? Profound? It's about dating apps and clubs. How profound can it possibly get sober?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:33 PM
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Where am I from and what do I consooom? And I'm not condemning anything. I don't care what strangers do or do not do. But it's why they go, consoom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:16 PM
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Fast food? No one. Right mind and eating slop are oxymorons. As for restaurants, women. Most men get dragged there. Waste of money. We need open borders to get the 78th restaurant on one street so I can consoooooooooom, spending money is my passion. Vino, food, shopping, travel❤️swipe ->
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:05 PM
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They like to consooooooooom. Same reason they go to every new restaurant and fast food place. Same reason there's more women in NYC than men, nothing to do there but spend money you don't have on shit you don't need. They are our corporate overlords wet dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:47 PM
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Just world theory, they're just racist/eugenicists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:45 PM
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Kemper was very reserved. Bundy was just attractive. Who are you talking about? No one described Bundy as flirty and falsely confident. He was often described as creepy or weird. But his face card came through so they still let him crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:44 PM
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The paycheck is the reward for many women because they love consooooming. Going to Starbucks, going shopping, going to a restaurant, buying random BS they don't need on Temu. A lot of men only care about a paycheck for their family. Otherwise are content sitting at home and not spending money or going out. You're confounding two things though. "No point working" and "I am owed for working." I also decided to rotmaxx, but for a different reason. I was going to University, in my area jobs pay mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:45 PM
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You're the one who said you were overweight, hit the gym, and now get girls. Obviously if you're overweight, you can't say it's over. No one has even tried if they're overweight. Being bald makes you less attractive for everyone, period. It's very rare that someone looks attractive bald, let alone more attractive (impossible). Just lookup bald photoshops of literal super model males. They go from like 8.5-9.5/10 to 4.5-6/10 Those aren't deformities. They're bad facial features. It's not a medica…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:51 PM
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You said 90% lmao and based it on the orbiters you friendzoned who all want to smash. No such thing as male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:44 PM
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🧢... So not 90%? Women L "I know what it's like to be a man because I friendzoned some guys tryna hit" L
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:46 PM
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Virgin by choice, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:06 PM
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64% of men haven't had sex in at least a year. Not 10%. Lol. 70% of women are in a relationship vs 30% of men. This is the problem. Most men are invisible. Women only think of dating from the POV of men they would date, which is the same men all other women would date, that's where the confusion stems from. You don't even realize the rest exist. Same as society in general. They're just a resource to be used. I know a lot of guys 25-30 who never even kissed a girl. Good jobs, good families, good …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:27 AM
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Yeah, if you're fat, have terrible acne, or bald it's over for being attractive. Being fat is not genetics. No gym for short ramus, recessed jaw and chin, convex profile, bad facial thirds, etc,. It's just over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:05 AM
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Touching random strangers is a risky game to play. Plenty of them are batshit. Jack Denmo did the whole, "Just go to talk to her, bro" as an average, top-end of average guy, and now he's doing 3 years in prison. They can dance with eachother if there's a shortage... for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:55 AM
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They're talking because he's 6'2 lmao, confident. Lookup a Halo Effect study. There's no such thing as confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:49 AM
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It only mattered because he was attractive in the first place. If he wasn't, he'd be completely invisible and speaking into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:44 AM
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Most men are invisible without saying anything. Women only think of dating from the POV of men they would date, which is the same men all other women would date, that's where the confusion stems from. You don't even realize the rest exist. Same as society in general. They're just a resource to be used. I know a lot of guys 25-30 who never even kissed a girl. Good jobs, good families, good social circles. Nothing wrong with them except being below average. "you're soooo nice. you'll make some gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:39 AM
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Bundy was called off by the people he ploughed through but didn't kill. I'm not talking about random girls. They just thought he was hot, but off af. Wtf do you mean part of it? There was only a mugshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:19 AM
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take more time vetting future men Is this like all those cringy liberals reacting to Trump winning or Roe V Wade with "threats" of finally practicing abstinence and modesty? Yeah, no shit. Who said people should get ran through? It hurt itself in its confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:59 PM
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Yeah and that's it. They described Bundy as creepy. And he was abusive even to the people he didn't literally kill. Meeks nearly beat a child to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:11 PM
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Say that to Ted Bundy or Meeks lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:01 AM
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Those are two different women for two different goals, they can't be one and the same. That's the issue. If she gets ran through on the first date, she's for the streets. If she waits a month, she's a girl you can date. She can't go from getting ran through to acting high class.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:56 AM
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You linked me something you wrote yourself... So you're talking about you? You do you, bro. But those are two different types of women. A woman who fucks anything isn't one you date. You smash and pass. I would never seriously date a woman who gets ran through on the first date. And she can't suddenly start acting like a traditional woman and find Jesus. Once you for the streets, you for the streets. As someone said recently and went viral, the final form of a hoe is a religious woman... Don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:41 PM
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Why are you linking me something you wrote? I'm not sure I really understand. Because it seems you're arguing with yourself once again. You don't come off concise at all, because we're not in your head to fill in the details. You're all over the place, and nowhere at the same time. So I'm not quite sure I follow you, but I think this covers the jist of it; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ca4chcXQqjA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:36 PM
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If you're hot enough, you can literally just message girls come over n smash as the first and only message, with 0 bio, and there will be plenty of takers. So very easily demonstrably false. Any caveat is really just that you're not attractive enough. There is no standard, if, or but, that looks don't trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:26 PM
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Lol, ok. If that's what you have to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:22 PM
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Who told you they want to date women that sleep around? Nasty af. That'd be an instant turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:45 PM
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Why are you having made-up strawman arguments with yourself through reddit, instead of in your head in the shower? Talking to yourself through public posts is a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:17 PM
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if a woman reaches out to you, you know it’s because she is romantically interested in you Cope... Or just likes attention and validation, or is selling something, or wants free dates, or has a group chat, or wants orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:24 AM
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Too bad the mods killed that post. It completely murdered this cope women come with all the time that they get quantity, but not quality. And yeah, all the chicks were calling the guys ugly, but all the guys imo were like 0.5-1.5 points ahead of the girl that was used.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:20 AM
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Have an interesting bio and decent pictures "Blue Pill Woman" Lmao. If by decent pictures you mean be hot af like top 5%, yes. Bio is completely irrelevant though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:16 AM
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Bio is completely irrelevant. Lookup some candid clips of women swiping, someone recording them over the shoulder etc, they left like 300 guys in 15 seconds. No one puts in that much time and effort to read bio while swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:13 AM
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They will gladly share Chad. 67% of men are single vs 30% of women. They're also more likely to date women than men are to date men. But your post said you don't have to be hot, and now you say you have to be handsome... So which is it? Obviously hot guys are getting matches. Average guys are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:58 AM
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He said he can't get matches. What does irl have to do with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:56 AM
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I've been 6 pack ripped and chubby and female attention didn't change at all, aka 0. Face is most important. But obviously everything else, like height and body, matters too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:53 AM
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Women mail their nudes by the tens of thousands to literal serial killers. Your personality is irrelevant if you look good. Jeremy Meeks had a baby with a literal billionaire after almost beating a kid to death. Camerron Herrin killed 3 people and women are obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:50 AM
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You need to be fit to have a good face anyways. It's not like you can have a good face and be obese. But Face > Height > Body, and need all 3 for dating apps. I've been 6 pack ripped and chubby and female attention didn't change at all, aka 0. Face is most important. But obviously everything else, like height and body, matters too. There was this good picture of 3 guys standing side by side, one was extremely tall, one was in the middle, and one was very short and their faces were the opposite. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:44 AM
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Socieconomic status will rent you a woman, but she will never be attracted to you, like you, or respect you like she inherently does Chad. If Will Smith, Brad Pitt, and Tom Brady got cucked out, what kind of socieconomic status are you looking to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:42 AM
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You don’t have to be a hot guy... I used Hinge for 20 minutes this morning You're better looking than you think then. I used Hinge for like 3 months every day to the max swipes one time out of curiosity, and I got 2 matches at the very start and then 0 the rest of the time. And I was looking for a girl in the 3.5-5/10 range, because I'm like a 4-4.5 so I wouldn't go any higher, and the 2 matches I got were... a pass, lets say. And not for being too attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:40 AM
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Glass houses, bud. Why are you reading months old threads on niche subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:44 PM
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I answered the question, this has nothing to do with me. I don't date, but if I did, I would never date a woman who cares about whether or not someone finished College.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:13 AM
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Lol, I'm not pro or anti college, but going to college to improve your odds with college girls might be the most down bad simp waste of money/behaviour I've ever heard of. By all means, go if you have an actual reason (STEM). But not for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:43 AM
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Looking at homosexual males might be more relevant. Lowest DV and divorce rates, and not by a little. The problem seems to be a common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:51 PM
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Sure, just don't look at DV, anti-depressant, and divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:14 PM
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Dollars with horrible people's faces, mostly. Who can't name a money?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:58 PM
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Too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:53 PM
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Yeah, wasting a bunch of time, money, energy, effort, damaging your hearing all because you're so desperate for the bottom of the barrel worthless girls is pathetic. You can rent them cleaner for 40$. How broke are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:47 PM
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Women only communities? Where? They in 1732 BC? No electricity, no sewers, no food, no housing. Can't have a community of social services and gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:44 PM
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women only communities Lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:43 PM
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Lol, yeah, you can debate who's hotter between Summer Glau and Olivia Wilde because they're so close. Lets not pretend there's a discussion to be had between them and Rosie Odonnel or Danny Devito vs Chris Hemsworth. Or Henry Cavil vs the Elephant Man. Attractiveness is objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:38 PM
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It's not that it's impossible, that's a ridiculously exagerated strawman. It's that I have a list of 10 000 things long I'd rather do than waste my time clowning for random women for a, "kiss" when you can rent them for 40$. Hookers beat women every time if you're sub 8 with a good income. Going to a shitty club every night for months to get the club dump chicks is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:37 PM
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It's not that it's impossible, it's that I have a list of 10 000 things long I'd rather do than waste my time clowning for random women when you can rent them for 40$. Hookers beat women every time if you're sub 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:33 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:28 PM
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Ok? And it's not unpaid, idk where you live though, but some lazy people make their entire living off child benefits here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:26 PM
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That's what I said? I'm not sure where you disagree or see an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:25 PM
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Men die at work, women most affected?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:42 PM
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Again, there's 3 options. Share, die alone, settle. Yes, there's a 30:30% match that's possible there. I wasn't talking about them. But that leaves out a 40% discrepancy complaining on Tiktok or Buzzfeed how more men need to finish College because it affects women if they don't. And that's assuming they would even date those 30% chunk of male college grades. They likely all want the same few .1% or 1% of guys in that already curated stack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:04 PM
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“Women refuse all men. Here’s how it’s actually mens fault.” This is reversed. A woman has 3 choices, the semantics don't matter; Lower her standards. Share a man that's okay sleeping around and 100 other girls want. Get some cats, stay single. It's not an issue for men to solve. For example college educated women want a college educated man. Well since they're 70% of college grads, they can either lower their standards, share a guy between the 2 and some change of them, or not date. The semanti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:52 PM
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“ drives her 3 hours through traffic because she wants to try some overpriced restaurant.” Lmao - yea because that’s a weekly occurrence in everyone’s marriage. It is? Well, traffic is every day all day 365 days a year here. But I believe I live in a city that consistently ranks worst in traffic in NA. But in my experience, most men would rather stay home and women are the ones who push them to go out. A lot of guys only go outside to meet women and would be happy to never to do it again if she …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:32 PM
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Never, ever in my life have I seen a woman shoveling snow or mowing. I've always lived in various suburbs. Statistically, men work longer hours too. And drive more. Expecting her to cook is not 50/50 when she does 25 hours, he does 50, drives her 3 hours through traffic because she wants to try some overpriced restaurant, and shovels the snow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:01 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:42 AM
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So you weren't actually as clear as you think? Also you're complaining about some rejections... Cmon. An average guy might have to literally approach hundreds or thousands of women to get 1 to agree to go on a date. And she could be the worst person the planet or a psycopath so it's not a quality over quantity thing. A mid woman's success rate will mog even a giga chad male's success rate approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:41 AM
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Because “dating” to women =/= able to get sex. We are using different definitions. Conventionally unattractive women don't have issues dating men. They have issues dating the same 10-20% of men that have plenty of options, and diregard the 5000 guys in their DMs. If you're a woman, looks are never your problem. It is your standards, expectations, or your personality. If you're a 5, you can probably sleep with a guy who's a 7 or 8 without too much difficulty. But how often do you see a model dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:32 AM
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Halo effect proves it's true. Talking to women is pointless, studies that ask for opinion are pointless. The ones that follow up on actions is what matters. Obviously no one says, "Yeah, I'm a shallow POS who found that dude scary and creepy and crosses the street because he's ugly even though he never did anything." Studies show that even the girl's father will say the most important thing is personality/kidness, but they will actually have worse opinions of worse looking better men, and better…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:29 AM
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For a relationship, mid. I'm realistic. How often do you see models dating people who are average or below? Without an ulterior motive like money or fame. Never. For men, it's most likely a prank/robbery bait/gang bait. For women, it's most likely that he's horny. Most people marry someone that looks like them or is similar to their parents. An 8/10 guy isn't going to marry a 5/10 girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:28 AM
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Then they need to stop trying to date above their league. Guys will sleep with a girl sinigifantly below what they can get, but not necessairly marry. If you're a 5, you can probably sleep with a guy who's a 7 or 8 without too much difficulty. But how often do you see a model dating an average looking partner without ulterior motives (like money)? Never. If you're a woman, looks are never your problem. It is your standards, expectations, or your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:22 AM
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The vast majoriy of men rate the vast majority of women as attractive enough. Hell, lookup Pig Girl experiment. Show me a, "conventionally unttractive woman" that can't get thousands of men in her DMs. Conventionally unattractive women don't have issues dating men. They have issues dating the same 10-20% of men that have plenty of options, and diregard the 5000 guys in their DMs. If you're a woman, looks are never your problem. It is your standards, expectations, or your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:18 AM
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Born male = it's over. Simple as that. Even Chad or Billionaire Will Smith cannot compete with a swamp ogre female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:20 AM
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It's wrong though, hence the point that women are oblivious too it. If you finally get a job after 732 applications, it doesn't mean you can just jump ship to another job by tomorrow now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:48 PM
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deep
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:36 PM
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Yeah... "Starting." 70 000 / 35 / 52 = 38.50. 1386 for napping in the car on Sunday, 1732 on holidays. Public service salaries are public, there's no lying. Max salary is 120k for a captain and there's hundreds who cleared 300.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:32 PM
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Maybe, do they try? No. So not sure what you're basing that on. The rest of us don't want to become like Joe. Better die a few years before than shit yourself in public regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:02 AM
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"having coke will open doors" - If you’re fucking junkies, that sounds like a you problem. - Same guy My guy, it's almost all STD transmission is from junkies. All over the world. Then come the homosexual men. Then in the West is black women, then it's women of various types, then black men, then finally the hookers, then the men of various types. Ever heard of condoms? And people seriously over-estimate how transmissible STDs are to men. Women have it way worse, as well as anal, but not close t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:00 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:36 AM
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If you're ugly nothing will work. But thugmaxxing is legit. But not the kind of woman you want to date, so useless for LTR. Just smash and pass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:33 AM
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Junkies are way more disgusting than hookers. Like 90% of STDs are from junkies. Then homosexual men, then black women. Hookers are nowhere near the top. And coke is never cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:28 AM
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if they barely notice your existence in the first place Nothing works for ugly guys except hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:27 AM
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Mediocre? Lmao. They get infinite double time OT. Hundreds of cops in my small city cleared over 300 000$ last year. 150-200 is easy. You just show up, grab a donut, nap in your car for 18 hours, double time, go home. 2.5x for holidays. There were like 10 different cop cars out on the same street last week over the holidays. That's a 2475$ day if they were out for 18 hours. They also only work 35 hour weeks, 3x12, so the job is extremely conducive to easy OT. Unlike working 5x8 or 6x6. You can w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:20 AM
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Live longer is not a plus. That would be counterproductive to all the money spent on cigs and booze
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:16 AM
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He's 72, idk what your grandpa looks like but mine ain't close
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:10 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_JkFYBsVJDk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:05 AM
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So will a hooker, and they're cheaper than coke. Buying coke for bitches is insane simp behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:03 AM
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Yes? If makeup brings you up 2 points, it's only a 1 point gap before it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:59 AM
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False, I was talking about "self improvement" BS. Obviously you still have to interact with bitches. But Chad literally does not need to try at all. I have a friend who's quite attractive, and all he does is mass message girls on Tinder "wanna come over n smash" until one does. That is still a little bit of "trying." However, he has girls messaging him, approaching him, and even when in clubs/bars groping him and getting mad if he's unhappy because it's ok if girls do it. So that would be litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:01 PM
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Foreskin has more nerve endings than clit. But since reddit leans 'Murican, reddit wouldn't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:51 AM
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Below average are 50% of men According to women, it's 80% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:35 AM
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If you have to try, it was already over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:34 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:29 AM
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They are, because men have lower standards + women have makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:21 AM
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Women have plenty of orbiters IRL too. And thousands more on IG, and women without social media are basically non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:14 AM
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Nobody does that. But looksmatch women are delusional, so as a male you have to date down 3+ points, and even they're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:08 AM
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swaggy yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:04 AM
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Oh, nah, not American. I've heard the full name (Tom Brady) before in comedy skits but that's about it. Thought Giselle was a reference to the Open Season character, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:12 PM
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Idk what gisele left tom means. Is it some sort of Open Season reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:08 PM
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Because if you're not it is. So the rest doesn't matter. It's the same reason you start learning with basic maths and not calculus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:54 PM
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Nothing else matters without them, because you'll never reach that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:48 PM
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Because you're the one that said looks aren't everything. Nothing else matters without them, because you'll never reach that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:43 PM
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The amount of women who've even heard the term has to be, because most people aren't terminally online. I know several people who've never even heard of Elon Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:55 PM
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I have no idea, and I don't really care, but not what the average is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:53 PM
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Averages are meaningless. Median is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:19 PM
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majority of them would not reproduce They already don't. 18 women reproduce for every 1 man. We have waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more unique biological female ancestors than male.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:18 PM
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What is it? All I can think of is halo effect, but that's not gender exclusive. Benefits both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:17 PM
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I'm not even in America and the only likes I get on Tinder are from fat chicks, and the algo on Hinge doesn't even show me anything else, I can swipe left like 500 times in a row and all 500 are fat. I don't even know where it's finding this many fat girls because I very rarely see fat people outside and they're usually not young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:55 AM
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Yeah cuz I'm not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:54 AM
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It's the only thing that matters to start one/get your foot in the door. Obviously not beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:52 AM
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You definitely can. What? 35 euros gets you a quickie. Add enough 0s, and you get most women on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:48 AM
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Cuz average guys don't get makeup. It's rigged
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:43 AM
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She's a 4 or a 5. What do you think she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:40 AM
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Everyone in their 20s is in their absolute peak. After that, you're no longer getting older, just getting old. Average age male T starts declining is 25. Even pro esports players are all young, because after that reflexes and reaction time declines.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:37 AM
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She's like a 4 or a 5, your standards are down in bikini bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:35 AM
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No, cuz that doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:30 AM
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Basic social skills, mutual respect, and a sense of humor. Make sure your hygiene is good Lol. Reddit bingo. Take a shower, inky!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:35 AM
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If you're average or below average, you will just get insulted, ignored, or yelled at. Cold approach works for the same guys who can just do it with less effort on Tinder: hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:33 AM
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Elliot Rodger mindset and be walking around thinking “that woman is too good for me” What are you talking about? ER was literally confident af. Cocky, even. He thought he was the best thing since sliced bread and was confused why anyone would be chosen over him. I don't think he ever saw someone he thought mogged him. He even thought his 4 inch dick was big/average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:56 AM
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Have you never travelled? They're like 60, old, fat, ugly, and they're going for roided up 15-20 yos for money. They can't even get laid in third world countries without paying. Chad isn't going to pipe down some ugly fat granny...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:13 AM
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No they couldn't. Have you never travelled? They're like 60, old, fat, ugly, and they're going for roided up 15-20 yos for money. They can't even get laid in third world countries without paying. Chad isn't going to pipe down some ugly fat granny...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:08 AM
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prenup is tp in court
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:05 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:48 AM
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Your conclusion is wrong. Most of those sex tourist chicks are like 50-60 yos, fat, ugly, and pay young, fit, attractive men for sex. They're at resorts all over the world, not just Africa. And they're not the kind of people you want to bang for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:44 AM
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there’s no such thing as “leagues” lol. delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:37 AM
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Either she has terrible judgement or she's the common denominator. Either way, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:20 AM
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cope
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:31 PM
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That's not what tinder insights, which is what is the source for your article says. You're just wrong, but I can't tell if you're a troll, or really that bad at maths/stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:41 PM
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Ever used. That's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:27 AM
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As I explained to you, median and mean are not equivalent. Are you this bad at basic math and stats, or purposefully playing obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:25 AM
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Those are stats from tinder insights poorly shoved into an article. The match rate is indeed 1 out of 40 (average). Tinder insights don't as far as I'm aware track your daily swiping, only total time online and they don't publish a general one. That's the article writer extrapolating poorly. Tinder gives you 25 swipes a day as a man now... It is literally not possible. You could pay, but I doubt the average person is. If you get exactly 1 match a day you are top 48% , you are average. No, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:33 AM
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You're supposed to use condoms. And it's pretty normal, again depending on country. Guarantee you get less STDs in Netherlands where you can get ~35 euros than America where it trends much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:20 AM
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Doesn't add up, because you get 25 swipes a day so you can't get 1 a day and have 1 out of 40 match rate. Might be outdated to when they gave substantially more daily swipes. Also that is average (1/40), median male match rate is 1/300. Which would be 1 every 12 days. The average is heavily skewed by the top 20% of guys getting hundreds/thousands of matches every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:17 AM
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Kap
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:57 AM
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We're talking about dating apps. Average guys won't even get a match. There is no game and bio literally does not matter. Make an attractive profile and write you're a pedo on probation and you will still get thousands of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:47 AM
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I don't hate women, I'm not a homosexual. And you can look up the stats, they come up instantly. Made-up, lmao. Nice cope. You went from, "yeah... but that doesn't prove anything" then you realized that argument makes no sense, so now it's, "made-up."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 03:53 AM
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And I am completely unwilling to use red, because they are not close to equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:56 AM
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It's because it kept deleting it when I tried putting black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:56 AM
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Uh... yeah? Women don't love, they use as an accessory to increase their social status or net worth. They love what is provided to them. And if they get a better offer, they divorce 9 out of 10 times. We have 18 times more unique female ancestors than male. Most men are unknowingly raising bastards. France even had to make paternity tests illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:53 AM
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alpha widow That one I've never heard, maybe I'm getting old, so idk what that means. No comment. The rest are just plain facts. We have 18 times more unique female ancestors than male. Most men are unknowingly raising bastards. France even had to make paternity tests illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:52 AM
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Well those are just facts, you can believe them or not, they're not going to change. It's like you can believe in the moon or not, the moon's not gonna care, it's still there. The difference is redpill think you can maxx your way out of being fucked (or not) while blackpill = it's over if you have to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:47 AM
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Life? 90% of already married women, if they receive a raise that leads to them out-earning their husband, or a promotion that leads to a higher perceived social status job, initiate a divorce. To speak nothing of how rare it is for a woman to date down in social status or income in the first place. 9/10 divorces are initiated by women. Women move on from relationships within days. Fare way better after divorce. While men either kill themselves or drink themselves to death. Best case scenario tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:45 AM
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Kinda does, though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:37 AM
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Redpill is about maxxing a variety of stuff + LMS. Blackpill is born ugly + male = it's over, no point trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:45 AM
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Blackpill and redpill are polar opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:33 AM
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I mean... if the shoe fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:31 AM
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Do women cheat less than men? yes Literally false
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:24 AM
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Assertive is not the same as asshole. Even if meeting friends of friends, if you act like a typical woman, the typical woman won't be attracted to you long-term. Some people are into that, but you will severely limit your options by acting like an iPad kid who spent lunch alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:23 AM
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Wasn't even average, was below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:16 AM
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Blackpill = it's over if ugly, no point in looksmaxxing. How is it mysogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:15 AM
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ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:02 AM
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Hobbies are useless because they are heavily gender segregated. And most people go to most hobbies with people they already know and never stray from the group. Say snowboarding. If you join an open gym for something like badminton, it'll be the same people every week so again largely useless unless the 3 girls out of 30 dudes there happen to be single and happen to like you. Otherwise they'll be there next week and the next and the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:00 AM
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Nah, vintage cars only get me huge reactions from men on the street. Esp older men, but men in general. A few grannies, but I suspect it's because it reminds them of youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:58 AM
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If you want a church girl, just go to Eastern Europe. People (esp women) are way nicer than in west anyways, and plenty of religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:51 AM
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Go for it, but there's not many people who actually want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:14 AM
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Women never date down, they always date up in income, education, status, and looks. So who's carrying dead-weight? Men are the real romantic gender, women will leave on the next best offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:11 AM
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That's the only way to get a house in Canada post-covid too. Also a majority of US adults live with their parents now since covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:23 PM
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I literally said go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:53 AM
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There's 3 options: They will call you gay, because secretely most women see homosexual or bi men as less-than. They will say you have a small penis anyways so they don't care (female equivalent of, whatever you're ugly anyway) They will say you never get laid (Because they know that's their only value) I have a very attractive friend who gets randomly groped/sexually assaulted by chicks at clubs/bars shockingly often, because they think it's okay if they're a woman. You're not getting away witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:50 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:11 AM
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There's no logic mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:10 AM
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Getting a house in Canada is impossible if you didn't before Covid. Even if rates were 0. Also we don't have fixed mortgages beyond a few years, so rates don't really matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:09 AM
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Think*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:47 AM
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We all have 18 unique female ancestors for every male. 18x more women reproduce than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:12 AM
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We all have 18 unique female ancestors for every male. 18x more women reproduce than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:11 AM
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We all have 18 unique female ancestors for every male. So, yes. 18x more women reproduce than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:10 AM
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90% of already married women, if they receive a raise that leads to them out-earning their husband, or a promotion that leads to a higher perceived social status job, initiate a divorce. To speak nothing of how rare it is for a woman to date down in social status or income in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:04 AM
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90% of already married women, if they receive a raise that leads to them out-earning their husband, or a promotion that leads to a higher perceived social status job, initiate a divorce. To speak nothing of how rare it is for a woman to date down in social status or income in the first place. They didn't shed old standards, they just added to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:00 AM
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80k who can’t afford to buy a home in suburban America If you're older than covid though (esp 45 like mentioned in the OP), you should already have a house. Which means vast majority of people will not tickle your lifestyle in their life-time. A 300-500 sqft studio costs 2x as much in monthly rent as the mortgage for my 4 floor, pool, yard house with a shed bigger than the aforementioned studios. You'd have to be somewhere around like .5-.8% income to qualify for my house post-covid while having…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:53 AM
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You won't get publicly humiliated or told that you're intruding on her space if you try to approach her. You won't be irritating her unless you send dick pics. There's a whole host of benefits to OLD even if you're not getting matches, aside from the fact that you're also not getting matches in real life and you can approach thousands of women by sending messages rather than two orders of magnitude fewer women at the same time IRL. See, this is a very NA problem. I'm originally from Eastern Euro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:09 AM
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To add: I think, for a more concrete example, I once randomly met a Kazakh woman in a mall in Byelorussia. She was lost and asked for help. I thought she was cute, so I kept talking to her beyond the help. Maybe 15 minutes in, I ask how she's been. She tells me pretty rough because her father died in a car accident last year and it's made her very down. We had a good time for the next few hours, and met up a few times after. In NA, it would be called, "trauma dumping" or some BS. Because if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:57 AM
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So Americans do the fake nice thing. They smile, they say hello to strangers crossing the street, they initiate phone calls with business with, "hey how are you." But these are all surface level. They don't care how you are. You have to answer, "I'm good and you?" So they can say good, good. If you ask someone how are you in Eastern Europe, be prepared for them to think you're coocoo if it's in passing, or actually lay it on you thick if it's an appropriate setting like chilling at a park. I'm f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:46 AM
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I mean it's not an L. Westernized though, is not the issue. NA is brutal for dating as a straight man. Maybe it has to do with the extreme individualism and the cold war, not sure. I'm originally from Eastern Europe, and even there, despite the reputation of coldness esp to strangers, cold approach or dating in general as a straight man is sooooooo much better. Women in NA regularly get very nasty, demeaning, and mean for no reason. Elsewhere even if they have bf/aren't interested, you can have …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:04 AM
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Because women will complain guys don't get the hint, and then complain if guys, esp friends or acquaintances, try to date them or mistake being nice for being interested. If you're interested and shoot your shot, you'll probably lose the girl as a guy because she'll find it weird. Not the case with a girl most guys will be fine with it. So if you don't wanna make a move, fair enough. But you're also losing chances. I ran into a girl I knew in primary and secondary school like 15 years later rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:47 AM
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If she doesn’t have a penis, and you have sexual longing for penis, that’s something she’s never going to be able to give you I mean... nohomo, but there's a very simple solution to the problem. So I'm not sure it makes much sense. And those aren't equivalent opposites. The equivalent would be how many straight men wouldn't date a woman who's hooked up with another woman. Lesbians is close to being the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:28 AM
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They don't act like males though. So that makes no sense. They exaggerate femininity and even use fake voices. You don't see them do that with manly or otherwise normal homosexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:23 AM
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They're not because there's no elo and algorithm IRL. The apps literally won't show you to females to have a chance at swipes. Also they confuse men being willing to smash for being willing to date, because that's how it works for them. So if you're a 4 looking for 4s, they're only being shown and matching with 8s who are DTF. If you're literally not getting matches, what is the point of the app?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:13 AM
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Park bench works extremely well for me in Europe. It's casual, you're both out and chilling. Why not? But you will massively improve your time if you're willing to approach a gaggle which can be 1000x more intimidating, because not many people are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:08 AM
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get off the apps [if you're too ugly and not getting matches]
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:06 AM
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1/200 is definitely low. I've never counted, but that's too much. But NA is by far the worst place in the world to do this. Chances are pretty good elsewhere, and at least if they have bf/aren't interested they tend to be nice about it instead of demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:00 AM
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Yes? Ignore's a bit rude, there's other ways to shoot down. But it's far better than getting insulting, nasty, loud, or mean which is fairly common when you cold approach as an ugly/average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:45 AM
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In NA chicks being nasty when you try to talk to them? Not as bad as him but I'm not in US and he's Indian, I'm white. We're both ugly though. But a high amount. Mean and demeaning maybe like 30%, way overacting red zone maybe 20. So like half is a pretty miserable experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:44 AM
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Women in NA react very nasty and mean for no reason quite often in my experience. Not the case abroad. I didn't say significant, but a strong negative reaction is not at all uncommon in NA, and then all it takes is 1 white knight. Lookup Zizou's approaches. He doesn't do anything weird, it's always in large public places like a mall, and maybe like 70% of his shoot-downs are brutally nasty. Running away, yelling, insulting. I'd say a dude talking to a girl that's running away is incompatible wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:18 AM
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A park bench is usually like 2.5 people long. And you don't own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:11 AM
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Russia is waaaaaaaay better for this than North America. Even if they have bf/aren't interested, rarely have people gotten very nasty for no reason like in NA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:05 AM
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I mean I don't even agree with avoiding cold approach for that, but your odds of having negative interactions with people like false accusations go up substantially when coming up to say hello or interacting with them than when ignoring them. Which you seem to be completely ignoring. It doesn't matter if they're not literally arrested for that. All it takes is a strong negative reaction for a white knight to sucker punch you in the back of the head or the cops to show up and shoot you. But mostl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:02 AM
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The problem is the algorithm and ELO system. Completely randomized stacks would probably do a lot, and maybe a wait-list for male users to join to bring gender balance down. If your profile is unpopular (a lot of left swipes) you get buried and then not shown. So only the most attractive guys get shown. And I have the same problem where I'd like to be looking for girls who are are in the range of like a 3.5-5/10, but it's only showing me girls who should be dating on Jeff Bezzos' yacht or some s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:51 AM
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I mean, maybe if you're a viking or a mongol. But that is not advantageous to men. It is a literal genetic fact. We have 18 unique female ancestors for every 1 male. There is no sexual selection for women. Maybe you wouldn't get to fuck Genghis Khan if you were butt ugly, sick, and diseased, because he can only cum so many times in a single day. But his general? Maybe. If a woman wants to reproduce, she can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:55 AM
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DEI, quotas, and affirmative action will get you the position in College or the job, but they will also adversely affect your perception. This isn't exclusive to women, but anyone who benefits from Government mandates instead of testing and competency standards. Many male-dominated sectors here are so desperate to hire to meet quotas, they will take any woman with a pulse that applies. Nothing else matters. You can be a terrible danger, but because they need to meet a Government quota, they will…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:44 AM
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There are quotas here. A male cop has to do 22 pull-ups, a female cop has to hang from the bar for 30 seconds. I'm not a cop, but it's a good example. And if women were failing to meet the 30 second hang, they would remove it to up the quotas. If I were putting my life on the line, I would feel very, very uncomfortable with a female partner. Military is worse. They don't have to prove they can drag a human with gear, so if you get injured with a female partner she will just leave you because she…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:41 AM
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That’s it. Money doesn’t matter anymore. 90% of already married women, if they receive a raise that leads to them out-earning their husband, or a promotion that leads to a higher perceived social status job, initiate a divorce. To speak nothing of how rare it is for a woman to date down in social status or income. It absolutely does. They didn't shed old standards, they just added to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:37 AM
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They really don't. If you show people Mila Kunis and Rosie Odonell, 10 000/10 000 will say Mila is more attractive. Same for Elephant Man vs Chris Hemsworth. People might disagree if Summer Glau or Olivia Wilde is more attractive because they're close, but lets not pretend there isn't a very close to objective ranking of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:33 AM
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You definitely can. Actually you can with 30-60$ for a quickie depending on country. A house is overkill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:29 AM
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I work in a male dominated industry, and women will basically get hired by default if they apply even if they're not qualified/have lower test requirements than men, due to quotas, DEI, and affirmative action. Which while getting you the job, will also affect your perception. Yeah, I'll definitely doubt your ability and expect you're a quota hire, because the vast majority literally are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:23 AM
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Swiping right on nearly all women indiscriminately This happens because average male match rate is 1/100-1/-300. If you spend 30 seconds on each profile, and then most will not respond, you're looking at 10+ hours of actual swiping/work to get a single "Hi" let alone date. Of course women can be picky when swiping when like 70% is a match. It's worth the time to look at more than 1 photo and read bio. For guy, you have to sort after. Just swipe on first pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:07 AM
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Mostly it's bots, OF, and IG thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:56 AM
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I'm talking about relationships and getting laid, it's easy abroad. But yes, women have an easier life. That's an objective fact. Less suicides, less homeless, more shelters, more scholarships, more DEI, more affirmative action, lower standards for job tests or school admission, workplaces that have to hire women to meet quotas. Easier time dating up to a guy to will take care of them, etc,.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:54 AM
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male-favoured sexual selection What do you even mean by this? We have 18 unique biological female ancestors for every 1 male. There is literally 0 sexual selection for women. If you're a woman who can have kids, you can have kids. 18 women reproduce per male that does. Even male baldness is passed down from mother's genes, not father's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:44 AM
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Beauty is coded female and a of men are left to project what they think women like onto their own physicality (which more so aligns with gay men's tastes if anything) Women will tell you what they think they should be into, what they wish they were into, or what they think other women/society would want them to be into. Never what they actually are into. Like the whole I want an emotional crier thing that goes around. Any straight man knows that's a terrible idea and they'll just throw it in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:42 AM
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Average wage is largely irrelevant. Median is way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:38 AM
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Hooking them up with good cushy jobs (mostly firends or friends of friends, but I'm not Billy Gates) with a strong pension you can live on abroad after 10 years. Whether they do or not, is up to them. But if they do, they can live like a woman so to speak where standards are more balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:34 AM
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