Middle-Pickles Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	How should rape allegations be handled in the legal system?	False Accusation	Middle-Pickles	/r/MensRights	24/12/23 06:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Not having the presumed intended effect I think everything like that (almost without exception) can be blamed/traced back to some sort of trauma, especially childhood trauma, which was mishandled and allowed to fester. That is not an excuse for anything. It is hardly even the reason, since most ppl have trauma that they could use to excuse abusing others. Not everyone who has trauma like that becomes an abuser- at the end of the day its still their choice. But yes there is a big issue with mens mental health and the best thing we can …	/r/MensRights	24/05/24 05:03 AM
1	How should rape allegations be handled in the legal system? Yes 😭 which I’d told him was risky asf. Technically they’re in the clear since she consented to it. But just like with any bdsm related lifestyle it’s iffy. If later she decides she was abused, how would he prove it was all consensual? But to be clear, the allegations she made were much worse than anything they’d done	/r/MensRights	28/12/23 08:43 PM
-2	How feminism makes me want to die: a detailed, but relatively short explanation with an example Why are you so mad?	/r/MensRights	24/12/23 03:55 PM
-7	How feminism makes me want to die: a detailed, but relatively short explanation with an example Autism isn’t bad, I wasn’t being insulting. His struggles with understanding what is or is not acceptable merely sounded familiar to me. My brother has shared similar thoughts with me in the past. And he’s not just sharing his feelings on a topic, he’s expressing suicidal and depressed thoughts. He doesn’t need to keep thinking about that bs he needs to leave these toxic online forums and get help elsewhere bc conversations like this are clearly hurting him. OP, if you really want an answer on w…	/r/MensRights	24/12/23 07:26 AM
-2	How feminism makes me want to die: a detailed, but relatively short explanation with an example I mean this in the most respectful way possible, you seem autistic. And by definition terminally online. I think the safest thing you can do is stop worrying about what people are saying online and try to learn to interact respectfully in person. Id agree that watching porn has, on a societal level, negatively affected the way men view and treat women. But I think you need to stop worrying about hypotheticals and take care of yourself	/r/MensRights	24/12/23 03:49 AM
8	It pisses me off when feminists put down men. As long as there are biological differences there are going to be discrepancies and perceived slights/inequalities. We can’t change that and that’s part of why those self proclaimed feminists get upset. Part of the issue too is how easily men can conceive and then abandon children. So to go through that, knowing that men can leave anytime physically unscathed (and lets be honest, financially as well if he smart and careful) while women are taking on so much risk, enrages many women even if only …	/r/MensRights	24/12/23 03:40 AM
1	Got into a quarrel with a feminist about dangers of generalisation. Perfect. I think you can understand pretty well what I am trying to say as long as you don’t use straw men. So when women say that we are aware of the ability to harm us that almost all men have, we don’t actually think that all of them are going to or want to rape us. Im not fearing violence all the time, but I take all the precautions I can. But I probably do have more anxiety and awareness of safety than you do. My dad especially taught me to be extra vigilant, even if most of these things ar…	/r/MensRights	24/12/23 03:08 AM
1	Got into a quarrel with a feminist about dangers of generalisation. Yeah that’s kind of weird that u don’t practice self awareness. Maybe you think you’re super capable or u or live alone in a v safe place. Do you drive? If so, I assume based on your comment that you try to be aware of distracted drivers. Being aware of your safety and the threat others could pose is almost exactly like that. All the men in my life also practice awareness in order to protect themselves and often me. They try to sit facing exits, they make sure they can defend themselves, they in…	/r/MensRights	23/12/23 11:35 PM
4	Got into a quarrel with a feminist about dangers of generalisation. Be so fr. I’m willing to bet that, unless you’re mentally impaired, you also assess those around you based on the potential harm they could cause you. But for women that includes almost all men	/r/MensRights	22/12/23 05:43 PM