| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for men | CMV | MiddlePatuxent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Does ghosting imply that I'm doing something wrong or not? | Question For Women | MiddlePatuxent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 06:35 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimI make around 75k and have gotten in pretty good shape the past year. "Betabucks" and "moneymaxx" aren't in my vocabulary though, and I only bitch about dating to a handful of IRL friends. So in some ways I sound better than your friend, but I don't know quite how hot he is. You probably weren't expecting me to take this seriously, but 99% of the time when I ask "How long until X works?" people just scoff and say "It doesn't work like that!" So I'm willing to work with people when they call my b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimI've probably made some rape jokes in my time, but I don't have any in my regular repertoire. The people who find me funny wouldn't cite rape jokes as the reason I'm funny. And plenty of young, liberal, feminist women find me funny. I dunno. I'm willing to work with people when they give clear guidelines, and you're coming closer than most. But the biggest issue is that I can't change the way I feel. I don't really think of myself as "victimized", but the stuff you're interpreting that way, like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimNot obese or deformed. Learn to light up rooms. Oh God, you seriously don't know me. I'm funny as fuck. I'll take your sentencing recommendations down to 3 months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimNo, I mean, after how long will I see a noticeable change in dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimHow long do I need to shed the "victim attitude" until dating becomes bearable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimRedditors love misapplying logical fallacies more than I love being an insufferable douchebag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimSarcasm isn't manipulative. Good God. You might want to consult a dictionary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimI'm so sorry for finding it frustrating when someone insinuates that my circumstance is caused by not working hard enough, and then refuses to specify what hard work is necessary to remedy it. Being frustrated and annoyed with condescension I truly the lowest of human behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimYes, whenever I meet a woman she says "You probably get moderately irritated on Reddit sometimes. See ya!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimSelf-improvement has done very little for me and I'm not interested unless something concrete is offered, I'm sure there are others who feel the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimIf you acknowledge that these things are complicated and far from "one size fits all," you should refrain from generally saying that self-improvement will improve one's dating prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:20 AM |
| 7 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victim"You could fix your situation by IMPROVING yourself!" "How?" "Idk" Always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimLOL Specify the precise amount of self-improvement needed to attract someone or shut up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Just wanted to thank you for the self-esteem bump I get whenever someone mentions a paradigmatic "average guy" who makes less money and has a worse body than me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.If I share any more personal details, I'm guessing the goalposts will be slid to a place where "average" means a 300k salary and chiseled eight pack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:46 PM |
| 0 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.If you want, make your own thread. I was clarifying to OP that I meet his standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:57 PM |
| 13 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Lol, sorry, I missed the "This will be beneficial to everyone except you" disclaimer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:44 PM |
| 8 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Arms have gotten bigger over the past year, but still working on getting more muscular. I really enjoy the blatant goalpost shift, though. OP says "Just make more than 40k, eat healthy, exercise, and have your own place." I clarify that I meet or exceed all of that, and then you say "Well yeah but are you MUSCULAR????" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:14 PM |
| 9 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Probably autism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?This topic is me at my worst, I've basically accepted that I can't talk about it without coming off as an asshole. I didn't think I was exceedingly "snippy" in my response, but I probably have a skewed perception of what constitutes such in these discussions, so sorry. Considering my complete failure to get a relationship in the first place, I'm more concerned about being "desirable" than with being a "good partner." When/if I actually get into a relationship, I'll focus on the latter, but I'm j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?If you think that low bodyfat and good money are not desirable qualities in a partner, take it up with the hordes of people who tell lonely men to "work on themselves." Career advancement and exercise are two common means of self-improvement. Before I answer the hobbies question, I want you to specify what would constitute a cool or interesting hobby. Otherwise, I feel like you're just going to dismiss whatever I say. Other people have said I'm funny and empathetic. Do I need to subpoena IRL fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?I am more than capable of laughing at myself. The issue is not that I am incapable of laughing at myself. It is that women are not attracted to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:15 AM |
| 12 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?Yes, I am my own best friend. Women are not attracted to me because I am autistic and do a lot of hand flapping. I explain to people that I could be a good partner in plenty of other ways (good money, low bodyfat, cool hobbies, funny and empathetic), and then people yell at me for "ASSUMING you're ENTITLED to a RELATIONSHIP" If you think this is exaggerated, look at my post history for ten fucking seconds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Women’s idea of an “average” manQuite possibly. I don't even know where I would "rank", I'm 5'11 which is definitely above average, and at around 17% bodyfat, but also autistic which knocks like 4 attractiveness points off. I mostly just know that I've worked my ass off and it's done very little for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:59 AM |
| 12 | Women’s idea of an “average” manAnyone who says "do the work" should have to specify precisely how much work is needed, or else just be deleted and ignored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menDoesn't matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menOh, I'm extremely funny, so that's not an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menIs this "cope"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menMost of my conversations with women don't involve them trying to persuade me that self-improvement is beneficial in dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menIf a lot of people here agree, I'll consider it. But I've made lots of friends from it, it doesn't seem to render me unlikable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menI'm a man too, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menI gave two examples of answers that wouldn't change my view. Two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:38 PM |
| 3 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menLarge swaths of the US are overweight and average income for my age bracket is 55-60k. Ain't gonna rain on my parade with some "Pfffft, you could be doing slightly better", bucko. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:35 PM |
| 2 | "Working on yourself" is a waste of time for menI explained that people generally like me, though. Do I need to present affidavits from female friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:31 PM |
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