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| 24 | Dads who have been through a divorce or separation, what's one thing you wish someone had told you before you started dating again? | MiddleSwipeCrisis | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/25 07:42 AM |
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| 1 | Dads who have been through a divorce or separation, what's one thing you wish someone had told you before you started dating again?This is a brilliant and refreshing perspective, thank you. It's great to hear the positive side, that doing the self-work really does pay off. The idea of having clarity on what you want is something a lot of people struggle to find. Thanks for the insight! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/25 01:34 PM |
| 6 | Social anxiety after divorce.Mate, I've been there. A few years ago, I could walk into a room and charm my way through anything. After my divorce, I could barely hold eye contact with the barista handing me a coffee. It messes with your head in ways you don’t expect. Confidence doesn’t vanish overnight, it just goes into hiding while you adjust to your new norm. Here’s what helped me: Start small. No “dates”, just interactions. Chat with a barista, ask about the new coffee or specials, just say something and engage with the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/25 09:41 AM |
| 6 | First postYou’re not alone, not in the dark, not in the drinking, not in the “I’ve tried everything and still feel like I’m walking around with a hole in my chest” bit. Anniversaries hit like a punch to the chest, even years later. You’re grieving not just the person, but the version of your life you thought you’d still be living. And yeah, it’s brutal when the therapy tools and distractions don’t feel like they do anything to help. I've been where you are right now and you are doing the right thing, you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/25 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Dads who have been through a divorce or separation, what's one thing you wish someone had told you before you started dating again?This is fantastic, thank you so much for taking the time to write it all out. It's exactly the kind of real-world, no-nonsense insight I was hoping for. The point about dating for fun rather than to find love immediately really resonates with my character's journey. This is incredibly helpful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/25 08:19 AM |
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