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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2135 | Why it always seemed like that one mean friend always gets the best boyfriend… | LESSON LEARNED | Middle_Ad2224 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 537 | Masturbation requires porn apparently | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | Middle_Ad2224 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:54 PM |
| 47 | I just dropped a pick me friend but I feel bad | PICKME CULTURE | Middle_Ad2224 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 7 | It’s crazy that everyone in the comments thinks that porn is required to masturbate | PICKME CULTURE | Middle_Ad2224 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:44 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | Don't settle for less 😆This is what I was wondering too. The actor is attractive but the way the character behaves is extremely unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 43 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:“Why smart women are more likely to be single” The men are roasting themselves now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | It’s crazy that everyone in the comments thinks that porn is required to masturbateOops I will do that, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:51 PM |
| 60 | FactsA lot of pick me’s do this I think because they want to feel special. I know in my pick me days I liked the idea of being the one special person that could fix him. If I lowered my standards enough and put up with bad treamtment enough and was “cool” enough then I would earn his affection which apparently transforms him into an amazing and loving man? The logic doesn’t make sense to me now but that was definitely how I used to think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | “But sex is only a small part of a relationship.”I’m sorry if my message came across wrong, I wasn’t trying to say that women who enjoy sex are wrong or shouldn’t want it. I just wanted to add that the pick me advice to settle for a less attractive man because sex is a small part of the relationship is so ridiculous that even for someone like me who has lost their sex drive it doesn’t make sense. I’m not trying to say it’s wrong for women to think of sex as an important part of a relationship or to have standards about it. I’m trying to say th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 9 | “But sex is only a small part of a relationship.”That advice is ridiculous. I sort of lost my sex when I was being manipulated, raped, cheated on, etc by a NVM in my pick me days. And even though it’s been a year since I dumped him I still don’t really have my sex drive back and so for me sex genuinely isn’t important. But that has nothing to do with me wanting an attractive man, that just means that when I start dating an attractive man I’m not gonna have sex with him. Of course I still want to be attracted to him….like how is this debatable?… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:55 PM |
| 120 | Why it always seemed like that one mean friend always gets the best boyfriend…I actually read this book back in my pick me days and I didn’t get it back then. I thought wow this book is so toxic. It took a lot to get me out of my pick me phase honestly so I’m planning to reread it with my new mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I just dropped a pick me friend but I feel badI guess I cut out too many details trying to keep my post short, but thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | I just dropped a pick me friend but I feel badShe was one of my best friends actually. And I tried for months to gently open her eyes to her pick me attitude without being accusatory and still being supportive. When she told me that she was flirting with her friends boyfriend and was convinced that they had a special connection and he made her feel like she was so special he could cheat that’s when I realized she had a serious problem because it wasn’t just single guys, she needed every guys attention. I’m just curious why do you think we w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | I just dropped a pick me friend but I feel badShe’s a pick me. I mentioned that she starves herself and spends a ton of her money on hair removal because she claims that she doesn’t put effort into her appearance. I mentioned that she confided in me about being boy crazy because she claims that she doesn’t want male attention. But her actions are always about maximizing her appearance and attracting male attention while she says that girly girls are the ones who want male attention and she’s just different. I didn’t write all of this out be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 8 | I just dropped a pick me friend but I feel badYou’re right, prioritizing myself is a new thing for me I used to be an absolute doormat and put all of my energy into being the for others so I’m finding it difficult to do what’s best for myself. But you’re right I need to do it and I shouldn’t feel bad about it. Thank you for the reminder :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre.There is an entire subreddit dedicated to the “nice guy” phenomenon... I mean you can argue that the countless posts of messages showing the guy saying he’s entitled to sex because he was nice was all made up in a conspiracy by women all over the world but at that point you can’t be reasoned with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 04:19 PM |
| 6 | CMV: If you believe it's fine that dating is not fair for men, you have to apply that to women tooIs this a purple pill debate or just men hating women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 06:41 PM |
| 481 | Message to female lurkersI’ve genuinely tried asking why everyone seems to think FDS is toxic. On the male dominated subreddits they all downvoted me without replying and I wasn’t even able to post on the women friendly sub Reddit’s because my post was starting drama. I heard that FDS was super toxic from literally everyone on Reddit so I came here to look and all I see is women lifting each other up?? Being there for one another?? I’m so confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:30 PM |
| 11 | Tired of people trying to sell this idea that posting half naked pics on instagram is empowering to us girls and womenYeah I feel like I can see both sides here. The way women are constantly being told how to look and what to wear is frustrating so I can see how it’s empowering to someone to just wear what they feel comfortable in which could definitely be a bikini at the beach. But I dated a LVM who was constantly talking about how hot other women were while dating me and stalking them online. I feel like having seen how his mind works and his insistence and that all men are naturally wired that way and the wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:28 PM |
| 52 | Men Who Don’t Believe You/ Play Devils Advocate and What It Really MeansI remember telling my ex about a satisfying Reddit argument where a guy claimed that he can’t talk to women cuz women only think about superficial boring things and are incapable of having complex thoughts. I pointed out how dumb he was without revealing whether I was a man or woman but I did say “they” when talking about women in general because I know these types of men will just say I’m an exception if I demonstrate that I have complex thoughts. At some point in the argument he said “your eit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:37 PM |
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