MidlifeReformation Archive

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2	How do you mentally cope with paying alimony? I came here to deal with the mental anguish like OP. This is why I dig Reddit, as this response is getting saved and read daily. Props for the wisdom. I will also add that I've been a stoicism fan since I knew divorce was eventually going to come 6 years ago. Also, your idea about talking to your future self is similar to something I started doing last week, leaving messages for myself on an app. I've developed a detached "me" that is giving advice to the scared "me". Basically, it's the advice …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/23 01:51 AM
3	Handling a Fearful-Avoidant Wife Really good post OP and I appreciate you taking the time to put it together. Certainly if I had read this as a newbie, I might have taken it as a "this is my wife" and left it at that, and still been a co-dependent beta that's constantly in her "get away from me...come to me I need you" frame. That's what bought me to MRP in the first place. However, 2.5 years into MRP, I've observed the exact same behaviors and have used many of the tactics you've outlined. While AWALT may apply, I think beha…	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/05/19 02:17 PM