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Exactly. Everything in moderation FFS. Dick no worky with too much porn and porn is extreme. Most women don’t want to be treated like that. Let’s fill our heads with better things but sure, have a wank every now and then to something tasteful.
/r/MensRights30/12/25 01:46 AM
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Depends. If he’s caught up in all the tech layoffs but actively looking for work, sure. If he’s lazy and doesn’t want to work and just live off me then no. I just ended 14 months of unemployment but I applied for 100s of jobs. The job market just sucks. I did stop dating though because I felt it was unfair to ask a guy to date me while I was unemployed.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 04:12 PM
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All very well said and true. I’d be very happy with a guy who had a decent job, average or below average looking if he treated me well and loved me.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 03:53 PM
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I disagree. I’ve both experienced it personally and I’m a hiring manager in tech. Below is a Pew independent study. I didn’t say women couldn’t participate in domestic violence but it does lean towards men in greater numbers and greater severity. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/03/01/the-enduring-grip-of-the-gender-pay-gap/
/r/MensRights17/10/23 01:51 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, I’m a liberal woman from CA and I get cancelled on Reddit. I no longer know the definition of feminism and just switched parties from Democrat to Independent. I’ve unsubscribed from all the feminism subs because I no longer recognize the voices there. There has to be something in the middle. I can see men are under attack now, have high rates or suicide, and fewer getting advanced degrees. There’s an epidemic of loneliness and the dating apps must be infuriating.…
/r/MensRights16/10/23 10:28 PM
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I try to go out once a week to a local pub to put myself out there but otherwise shy and introverted. The apps a full of chadfishers and scammers so it’s become really difficult to meet people. I’ve basically thrown in the towel.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 08:36 PM
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For me, it’s absolute fear of rejection. I guess I just grew up believing that men have a type and if you aren’t that type, then don’t bother. Since you don’t know what a guy likes, it’s super scary to approach first. I mean I’ve had guys say some pretty mean things to me too that kind of reinforced that belief and a boyfriend who would drone on about skinny blondes while I am a curvy brunette.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:04 PM
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I wouldn’t disagree with that either. I read studies in it in the past. That doesn’t prohibit women who excel in these areas though from having careers. I was never into architecture until I saw a building by Zara Hadid, loved it and found out she was woman. She made it because I believe her father supported her dreams and she’s phenomenal.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 03:40 PM
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If you mean building physically I would tend to agree. We don’t have the physical strength and most of us don’t relish hard physical labor. There’s no way my body could take it and it’s something I admire about men.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 12:41 AM
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Women can build just as well as men. We just have different traits on how we get the work done. Look up McKinsey’s gender study. The sexes actually compliment each other if they would stop trying to dominate each other
/r/MensRights31/08/23 07:42 PM
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Like how likely really is is that women are going to end up running things and keep men in cages for sperm. 😂 Social media is ridiculous. I do feel the separation between the sexes especially since Me Too. I think that movement put a light on all the crappy behavior of men forcing sex on women to get jobs which was needed but then that turned into vilifying all men. Men are angry now. Sadly, there’s been a 30% increase in suicides for the last decade with 70% of those being men. I don’t think th…
/r/MensRights31/08/23 03:59 PM
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I think social media gives voices to the radicals on both sides of the aisles. We have been undergoing this shift though in the last 40 years where women are becoming earners and there’s not a need for men’s physical strength. The thing is we evolved as basically animals where men’s strength protected women and families. That evolutionary trait just didn’t disappear. So I feel like men are feeling a bit lost. I value traits like strength and protective natures in a partner but I also feel like t…
/r/MensRights31/08/23 03:44 PM
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I feel that the majority of us, despite our party affiliation, are aligned on the major issues. I was always liberal but I’m not liberal enough any longer for them and am called a bigot anytime I try to stand up for women’s sports. I now live in a conservative town and I’ve spoken with my new conservative friends and we are 100% aligned. They are not on board with the radical views of the right either. The extreme voices on each side have the megaphone though. Abortion - they don’t like it but d…
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:16 PM
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I moved to Tahoe. Small Mountain community. So happy I got out of Portland. I would drive along the Columbia behind the airport and there were caravans of homeless (worse up 33rd) and there would be fires and burning garbage. It was like a third world country. I never felt safe. Forget driving anywhere because they would steal your catalytic converter. Two were hacked off in our work parking lot like 50ft from the front door.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:01 PM
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Yeah…because that’s how far left Portland is. Even a Liberal Californian doesn’t fit in.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 04:07 AM
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Women are helping to erase women’s sports, private places and words like “mother”. They are so tyrannical in their pursuit for inclusivity, they are destroying long fought for women’s rights. I won’t vote as a Democrat any longer because of it. Portland takes it to a whole other level though. They are militant in their approach. I was more scared to live there than a red state!
/r/MensRights29/08/23 03:41 AM
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Get out man! I bailed after a year last year! I don’t even have to lock my doors where I live now. Felt like some future dystopia. Fuck I was so depressed there.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 03:28 AM
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I ran from Portland last year. I was so excited to live in the PNW but the homeless, garbage and ultra far left politics were too much for me. After a creep followed me home from work and a guy was murdered in front of my apartment complex, I moved back to Cali. There are some nice people there but it just wasn’t for me.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 03:22 AM
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A night out with some girls giggling and being silly would be good for you. Give them a chance.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 05:57 PM
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They are doing the best they can too. Girls can be shy and awkward. It’s hard to approach a man.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 05:44 PM
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Yeah the next step is to have positive conversations with them so they like you and want to spend more time with you. If they like you enough, you get to FORNICATE 😁 This is the way it works. If you don’t talk to them or are a jerk, you never will get to the next step.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 05:28 PM
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The step before FORNICATION is TALKING to a girl. 😁
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 04:37 PM
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The step before FORNICATION is TALKING to a girl. 😁
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 04:37 PM
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The step before FORNICATION is TALKING to a girl. 😁
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 04:37 PM
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Have you ever stopped to think that maybe those boring conversations are girls trying to make small talk to get to know you? That’s the first step. Make friends, try to find things in common or share things you like to do. There’s a lot more to life than just getting laid.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 03:08 PM
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It could be she feels the clothing isn’t “masculine”. Everyone’s taste for fashion is different. A crop top would be hard for me to see on a man.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:08 PM
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I think it’s counter productive to make blanket statements, like “all men/women are this way”. I think social media amplifies all the worse behaviors because it triggers people and we fight so it’s creating a false sense of reality. I’ve known some awesome men who have supported me and helped move my career forward but I’ve also experienced bullying from men for working in a male dominated career.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 01:40 PM
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It was in 2016 so perhaps times have changed. I still doubt older generations would be accepting of it though.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 01:02 AM
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Yeah I would be nervous using Tinder. A woman at work had her profile revealed and everyone made fun of her.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:50 PM
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Yep, my last relationships were all Millenial guys and they were super nice but also didn’t really invest in a relationship. I felt they were more like FWB. I wanted more but never pushed because I don’t feel like I have the right given I was so much older than them.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:45 PM
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These are confusing times. There are the Tate followers and pretty radical feminists going to town on men. Shitty dating apps using algorithms that don’t actually connect people so they can continue to make money. Confusing gender roles (and gender). Social media toxicity. Not all women and not all men are bad. We just stopped listening to each other and interacting except online which is a horrible place.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:19 PM
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It’s harder the older you get to get back in shape. Constantly fighting my body now but I’m active. My issues are around my income too. Whereas I don’t talk about my income, they always ask and I think it makes them feel bad or something. These are weird times where women starting earning more and I don’t think men know what to do with that. We push them into the “provider” role and then women end up making more in some cases so it fucks with them. Not positive just tossing out uneducated though…
/r/MensRights29/07/23 11:05 PM
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It’s my greatest life wish to meet a man that would feel protective of me and loved me. I’ve come to the realization that it’s unlikely to happen now. I’m 49, still pretty but a little plump so I just don’t get a lot of matches on dating apps.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 10:27 PM
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Please don’t. As a woman, I’m attracted to masculinity. I have not seen the Barbie movie but I’ve read comments from both side of the isle. I wish there was a way to bring women true equality without making men feel emasculated. When we get it right and partner up, life is beautiful.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 08:15 PM
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Social media is really toxic hun. It’s representative of all the bad and very little good we see in the other sex. Really it’s a form of entertainment. I’m also attracted to crap I shouldn’t read that makes me angry. It’s addictive.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 08:03 PM
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Extremism on both sides causes conflict. I don’t think we should blame each other though and we need each other to feel complete. The world has gotten hard enough these past 20 years. I think it’s important for both sexes to have their places to vent but also participate in other spaces. I think if we both did that we would get to see the other side and come together more on issues. I don’t think the average man would have any issue addressing the pay gap yet we blame men for this while it’s gre…
/r/MensRights23/07/23 09:46 PM
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I’m a woman and I actually agree with you. I’ve been banned from at least 3 feminism subs on Reddit for having opposing views on trans women in women’s sports and private places. I just joined MensRights just to see the other side and try to learn. I got auto banned from one other feminism site. So now they want to control what content I chose to interact with?! Wtf?! I don’t hate men but I am frustrated by them. That doesn’t mean you cancel men. I also think something is going on with men. From…
/r/MensRights23/07/23 08:34 PM
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I only ask about employment because that’s important. Not income though. I just want to know they have some sort of established career. I’m actually usually the breadwinner in my relationships and that’s ok.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:18 PM
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I never like men because I’m afraid I’m not their type. I’ve always felt that men are very particular. I would feel embarrassed to like someone and not receive a response but realize this is what you guys go through. Me and most women I know do not have massively high standards for men. I’m happy with average everything and a nice personality.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:21 AM
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There’s a been a 30% in suicides recently and 70% are men. There’s definitely something going on. Life is freaking hard and don’t think we prepare our youth well to survive. The US is especially survival of the fittest.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 02:02 PM
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I can see this. One of the most frustrating experiences (pretty common for women) is getting your voice silenced. It’s just too bad there aren’t better male role models online so grievances can be heard and redirected towards more positive and productive tactics.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 01:59 PM
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Dating is super hard right now. We are really divided as a country on so many issues. I think the younger generations are less likely to talk out their issues with people and seem to just block rather than deal with the confrontation. Some people are just jerks too. Just shrug this off and keep trying.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 12:52 AM
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Normally to get blocked you would have had to do something pretty egregious. Do you have any online presence stating any alternative views especially about women? There are also those sites “are you dating my boyfriend”.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 11:10 PM
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If you really want to know if it’s you, contact the girl and tell her that you are sincerely looking to improve in relationships and you would appreciate her honesty as to what you could have done better. Other than that, it’s hard to find a partner. So many things have to line up.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 10:39 PM
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