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Some of you are missing the point. She’s not saying that YOU can’t do these things yourself. She’s saying that it makes more sense to date a guy who upgrades your life over one who detracts from it. I’m personally sick of working and doing everything on my own, so I’ll definitely take a relationship where I can kick up my feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:44 AM
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I recently thought about how filthy and sexually depraved men are; they constantly want to show off their dicks or fuck anything that moves. How could nature create such creatures? All women who show off their naked bodies freely for them and allow access to free sex are a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:07 AM
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Don’t forget that there are some LVW here who advocate for casual sex and regular fuck buddies. I’m not sure how being ejaculated inside of and put at risk for STDs or pregnancy are “empowering”, but all this empowerment doesn’t seem to be working for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:21 PM
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She’s a pedophile too. Anyone who helps them cover their tracks should be branded as such and put in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:10 PM
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It’s sad that you have to defend yourself and your partner. Some of these posters have come from banned subs where hating all men and finding fault with anything they do is the norm. Your guy’s comment sounded completely normal to me. Wishing you two good luck in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:14 AM
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5’10” and up, with 6’1” being the dream. 5’8”-5’9” is fine, but anything shorter just doesn’t do it for me unless he’s very good lucking and has a very nice body.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:08 AM
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Yikes, he's old enough to have established himself a bit. I hope he gets his shit together after you called him out. Much older men who are willing to date someone way younger are unlikely to be HVM imo. Looks like she said that she’s the 28 year old. It’s not a very smart move to be a single, 28 year old mother trying to date a 22 year old. Most of them are not going to be mentally or financially established.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:04 AM
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I've noticed a lot of baited content posted as well as a few regular commentators that have questionable activity on their accounts. (eg they participate in FDS/porn free relationships but still post lewd comments in porn subs.) I too noticed some accounts with questionable activity. One such account had a poster who was tagged as an FDS Strategist, yet she had posts about being a former sex worker, freely sending nudes to a group chat with a married man in it, and a bunch of other questionable …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:30 AM
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FWB are not people in their minds. They see them as blow up dolls to be used whenever they please and if they can’t use them, why bother? I feel cheap just thinking about allowing someone like this to access my body while I get no real value in return for a high risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:50 AM
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Listen, after all the FWB infiltration going on, I was ready to downvote this post into the next century. Thankfully it’s the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:23 PM
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Good post! This is the type of information that I find useful. I’ve definitely seen 3 in action, but from the outside (I was friends with a couple). I always knew the “I’m too busy” excuse was a lie, but that was just really blatant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:47 AM
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You’re using her example to extend to others who don’t do the same, though. No, I’m responding to her claims that FWB can be strategic using her own posts that admit that she has or had a FWB who is a LVM, which contradicts the purpose of dating to get into a relationship with a HVM. For some reason some of you cannot grasp that I do not care about you or your FWB Bettie anecdotes since you’ve not shown how they benefit the majority of the women practicing FDS. I’m thankful that this thread has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:41 AM
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Who said you needed to FWB a LVM? I’ve had HVM I simply wasn’t compatible with who were amenable to such an arrangement. It’s weird you immediately jump to the conclusion that someone should even be speaking with an LVM outside of work. Um, hello. The poster made a thread on “strategically” having a FWB that she linked in which she explicitly said herself that her FWB was a LVM. We clearly have different definitions of HVM, so no, I did not jump to that conclusion. Edit: if you’re also apart of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:26 AM
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FWB is mentioned in the handbook specifically as something women also may have to vet for. It’s advised not to make your serious prospect an fwb. Casual ONS etc is also not advised. Please read the handbook before making such statements.https://imgur.com/a/V79hM1n That does not say that FWB are supported or promoted by FDS. Jammies herself said that several of the other mods do not support it and one of these mods even made a thread against it. Furthermore, fucking a LVM for free is counterprodu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:29 AM
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The person you're arguing with is a FDS strategy coach who has written strategy posts about how judicious use of FWB can help you. That’s quite obvious at this point, and I’ve intentionally ignored those types of threads without caring to see who the author is. I made a general comment, but I would’ve ignored this thread as well if I’d known it’d turn into a FWB protest. I’ve blocked her now so problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:33 AM
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I'm not saying FWB is a good strategy for everyone but it works for me and it works for some other women as well. The need for you to respond to a comment about FWB not even directed at you comes across as you not giving a fuck about any other women but yourself and the small minority who think it is a useful “strategy” to fuck LVM. FFS, I get that it may work for you and that’s fine, but I’m not interested in anecdotes that contradict the core of this sub and put more women in harms way than no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:28 AM
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That's a great idea. Because it obviously triggers you and causes you to go off on angry judgmental rants. A critical response to a matter that contradicts the values and goals of this sub is a “judgmental rant”? LOL, this must be a side effect of fucking a LVM who is a so-called “friend with benefits”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:12 AM
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You were the one who first brought up FWB and I felt the need to respond because all the knee jerk anti FWB reactions are a huge problem here imo and are getting in the way of being being able to discuss FWB strategically. I made a post about this. Read it if you like. I don't have the energy to get into this argument yet again but I voiced my opinions on this subject there. I read your thread. Here’s an excerpt of something that I’ll say would be seen as a sign of low value l if it came from a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:02 AM
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Pretty much my sentiments. I’m also sick of the low-effort memes that are being constantly reposted. I’m here for solutions and strategies, not rants about how they’ve dumped their LVM for the fourth time and have (maybe) learned their lesson, or how they think it’s fine to have friends with benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 12:53 AM
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This is culture specific. Some Asian groups are more loud, opinionated, and affectionate, but Japanese people are generally taught to restrain their emotions. They are very much for the group, not the individual, and loud displays of public affection are looked down upon. They are also a high context society, so you often have to rely on unspoken cues to figure out their true feelings. If this is a problem for you then you may want to find one who has been exposed to and accepted Western values,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:05 AM
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I thought it was just my city, but it looks like OKC attracts the uglies worldwide. Ended up just deleting the app in its entirety because of how unappealing 95% of the men were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:19 PM
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Sad. I’ve had men in the past who weren’t into me willingly walk me to safety without even having to ask them. But now the “equal rights, equal fights” BS is in with some men. What doesn’t help this type of attitude is the extreme feminist narrative that women are just as physically strong as men and can take care of everything for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:12 AM
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You sound like a great catch, especially since you’re in a better financial and physical position than most Americans. I compromised once about height and looks and while he was a much better boyfriend than my better looking exes, I could only focus on how ugly he was. So I won’t be doing that again and I’d suggest that no one compromise. You’ll constantly focus on what is physically wrong with them and that’s not fair to them or you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:18 PM
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Gross!!! I bet this lame isn’t even attractive, so he has no redeeming qualities. OLD is like a mine filled with shit that might occasionally produce a good nugget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:58 PM
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I am not advertising for coffee dates, this is my anecdote. I don’t mind meeting for coffee, but I make it clear that I don’t consider it a date. So no kiss or even a hug should be expected. That way if I dislike him I can make a clean cut. But if I like him and he doesn’t step it up to something more formal, I cut my losses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:19 AM
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At least Hispanic men are usually willing to marry their baby mama or take care of their kids. They put family first. Black men abandon their kids and don’t think black women are even worthy of verbally defending. So of course a black woman being allowed to stay home and care for her kids is a no no for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:57 AM
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Great post. What people fail to realize is that she said “most likely”, making it obvious that she knows marriage won’t work 100% of the time. Still, it’s better than being knocked up by a random.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:17 AM
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Whorephobic (a term used by sex workers to describe hatred toward sex workers that can be both relational, systemic, and societal), with comments on one post saying that abusive men should see sex workers instead of “normal women.” What a load of dramatic crap. This sub does not hate sex workers. It’s just not a place that supports that lifestyle and for good reason. My friend who otherwise enjoys FDS says she doesn’t like “how they talk about sex workers or treat them as separate from the gener…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:50 PM
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Yet there are posters here claiming that sexual history doesn’t matter. I would never want to be with someone like this, but following their logic it would be “wrong” and “childish” for me to ask about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:24 AM
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Exactly!!! I’m sick of this “genital herpes and oral herpes are the exact same thing” narrative. OP, I’m not shaming you, but most herpes 1 transmissions worldwide are transmitted through non-sexual contact. This is not the same for herpes 2. Furthermore, you can have type 1 and never ever transmit it if you don’t perform oral sex on your partner. It’s not often the case with type 1, but either version of the virus can seriously diminish one’s quality of life. I recently learned that people have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 07:07 PM
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Beautifully written story. I would love to read more from you. Ben reminds me of an old friend who is now married with a stable job, his own home, and a baby. He was also accused by an attention seeker of being a possible sexual threat to her. I know that everyone is capable of evil, but he is one of the most inoffensive people that I’ve ever met. Like I say I hate men, but he’s one reason I don’t actually hate all of them. I could’ve walked naked in front of him and he would’ve had a heart atta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:24 AM
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Yeah, I want sex too but I have higher standards for myself and these standards are more important than fucking some LVM for an hour or so. I doubt that they’re even getting each one of these men tested, who go on to fuck countless other people. I also doubt that these men are HVM, so again, what’s the point of allowing these posters to bring that energy here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:08 AM
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What is the point in them being in this sub if they don’t want a relationship? Isn’t that the point of dating? Knowing most men, the fact is that they won’t have an incentive to treat you well if they know that they can fuck for free. So it makes no sense for FWB types to bring their energy here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:56 AM
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The ultimate response. OP should’ve photoshopped 40 lbs onto herself and sent it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:00 AM
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I did read through both posts, what I got is that he's been paying for everything in the apartment for the last 6 months, including the 2 since they split and he left the apartment and moved in with a family member (hence the two different numbers mentioned), giving her space to sort herself, her feelings and a new place. That’s exactly what he was trying to say. He hasn’t been living there for the past two months. As hateful as I can be towards men, I can still use reason and logic. If a man we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 07:43 AM
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If you ladies are on a dating site that asks questions about anal and he shows positive feelings for it, run for the hills. Also, bring it up when you can and pretend to be into it. That’s how I find men out. I’m a retired registered nurse. I worked in ICU/trauma in a major metropolitan Level I facility for over a decade. Let me be clear: anal sex is high-risk sexual behavior for a reason. It invariably causes physiological damage, particularly when practiced repeatedly over time. Nothing you sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:49 PM
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Wonderfully put! I agree, and as someone half black who is VERY ambiguous (think Jennifer Beals), I say this advice is solid for all women of color (with the exception of the unique issue between black women and black men), because the same fetishistic shit ends up peddled just with different language when you’re of a different perceived color/culture. I’m not trying to start a battle between the races, but you all can express your struggles without trying to co-opt ours, or tell us that we are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:40 PM
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Yeah, he’s trying to look slimmer than he actually is. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:29 AM
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He doesn’t even look like he showers. She’s very pretty; he’d be lucky if she allowed him to lick her feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:11 AM
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I don’t even really like oral sex, especially because of the higher rates of HSV1 that have resulted from people demanding more and more of it. I’ve also had to hide many of these OrAL sEX mEaNs hEs a ReAl mAN posts because they are slightly disturbing. If a man does not want to put his mouth in your genitals, the answer isn’t to pressure him, but to find someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:41 AM
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Thank you for responding! I think there are many here who’ve slept with a high amount of people, so they feel targeted when some of us express our preference. But that’s ridiculous because we aren’t trying to date them. Furthermore, it doesn’t mean they are “bad” people for having high body counts. They just aren’t compatible with me and my lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:03 PM
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I’m not offended. I guessed that you would assume something about their character based on that number (like the men in the linked post do) but you said you won’t. So I asked you to explain what it does mean for you. I make assumptions and judgements 24/7 about everyone’s character on even the tiniest things, but that doesn’t mean I’m correct 100% of the time. If you don’t want to say what this number means to you / don’t know how to articulate it, that’s fine. What’s the point? I posted to reac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:09 PM
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What is it that you’re trying to find out by asking their number? Their number, lol. It’s my own personal preference. The same with my height, weight, looks, and other preferences. If it offends you that’s on you, because I will not budge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:56 PM
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There are better ways of determining a man’s values and intentions than the number of people he’s slept with, IMO. A low number doesn’t equate with being a good person, especially for men I never correlated the amount of sex partners one has to how “good” or “bad” a person is. That’s absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:52 PM
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I don’t think anyone has to, but I have no problem disclosing. I mean am I in the minority for caring about a guy’s number? I would not want to date a guy my age who has had sex with 100 people. I saw a video where another guy said 1000 and it was absolutely revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:36 PM
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All I can think about it how feces comes from there and the smell it tends to have. Then there’s the fact that doing it repeatedly will lead to your asshole being permanently stretched. Please don’t respond with how your asshole is special because you’ve taken the right steps to not have it stretched out or to keep from shitting yourself. If you have to do all of that it’s a problem, so it’s an all around NO for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:02 PM
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Mine did that too!! It made me so angry. I have an extremely high sex drive and almost nothing has worked to stop it. Birth Control helped, but it also gave me negative side effects. It’s been years since I’ve had sex and I’m starting to catch myself losing control. I’ve been tempted to meet up with men just for sex, but of course I come to my senses. I wish dildos didn’t repulse me so much or that I liked women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:49 AM
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Yeah, I like having my bags carried for me and I like having doors opened for me. I already pamper myself, but why can’t he pamper me too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 06:10 PM
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I’d walk out if a man showed up to a date 100 lbs bigger than advertised. There’s nothing more unattractive than a fat, flabby man with breasts as big as mine. They are delusional to think that an in shape woman would desire them and I’m repulsed when one looks at me in that way. It indicates a lack of discipline and laziness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:57 AM
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Yes it is. But like most things in life, we don’t have to agree with every single thing that is promoted here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:44 AM
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Of course the Nat All Men brigade showed up in that thread to complain about the woman’s message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:30 PM
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What are some other ways that you go about torturing men? I think the one you listed above is excellent, but I would like more tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 10:01 AM
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Teach me your ways, wise one. I’m now seriously interested in destroying the ego of one of these dirty losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:28 PM
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they are shit-tested and picked on constantly and are lucky if they haven't been confronted with the threat of violence by less attractive, jealous men. I’m a woman and I’ve definitely noticed this. The uglier males will also try to make the better looking ones come across as being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:23 PM
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If you had been apart of this study you would’ve been the exception, but you weren’t and so it doesn’t change the fact that most of the women surveyed liked muscular guys. Going off of OP’s post, I definitely prefer fit or more athletic looking men. Not necessarily super buff with an 8 pack, but definitely not dad bod territory. I have no problem admitting this and I seek out men with fit shapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:06 PM
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Yeah it’s not reasonable to expect all women to never send nudes. They will do it anyway. That’s why I also said to never show your face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:29 PM
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I’m glad that you’re done with him. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:46 PM
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Oh he needs to shut the fuck up. I bet he’s looked at plenty of women naked who were someone’s girlfriends, mothers, daughters, etc. I don’t like him already and I don’t know either of you. I understand why you’re crying, but you should not feel bad at all. These losers love finding ways to manipulate and control women. Do you not know anyone who can pay the leaker a visit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:21 PM
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It IS. I do not understand why women are being policed so bad about things most everyone has seen. Even more so when they didn’t intend for it to happen. YOU are the victim, not the villain. Remember that. If anyone I knew ever had that happen to them I’d find the person who did it and have them beaten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:13 PM
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I assume you’re an adult, so the people calling you those names are childish fucking idiots. No one should’ve posted your nudes, but please don’t feel ashamed. You did nothing wrong. A word to other women; if you’re going to send nudes, make sure your face isn’t in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 06:22 PM
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“Black men are just no-good and no-account")" on a regular basis and then is pissed off when said "niggaz ain't got time for her trifilin' ass" and they end up hooking up with White girls. Is that why biracial children with black “fathers” are also abandoned by these losers at damn near the same rates as black children? With your high HIV, high unemployment, high incarceration, and low educational attainment rates, one can only hope that black American kangs continue to take their royal selves t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/19 06:24 AM
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That might work long-term, if you're already his type and he actually likes you back, but what usually happens is, he'll say yes, even if he's not into you, because free sex. 9 out of 10, if he didn't approach you first you're not his type. And make no mistake, the vast majority is thoroughly capable of making a move if they are 100% excited about you. The rest is a toss up between neckbeard territory and actual luck. Sooner or later, you'll either end up broken up, in a dead bedroom and/or chea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 09:31 AM
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A woman who feels empowered by going on a coffee date and then getting used as a sperm deposit box can continue to feel so, but I do not want to deal with them. Good call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 09:28 AM
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Look at all the moids in here crying and whining about “not all men”, while ignoring the fact that a vast majority of them disrespect women they don’t perceive to be attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 09:22 AM
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