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Be confident, be passionate, be a great communicator
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:21 PM
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Yeah, I personally dislike when people downplay compliments honestly. Makes me feel like “just say thank you dammit.” I don’t mind a returned compliment though. As long as it’s meaningful.
/r/seduction27/12/21 09:52 PM
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I would say that social energy is a positive but that’s more so in a different environment. As for your second question, I wouldn’t agree that “forward women” aren’t worth the trouble. Really just depends on who you’re looking for ya know? Your match might be more introverted or more outgoing, based on you.
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:28 AM
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Make the moves. Start small. By the sounds of it, she won’t be the first to initiate things. Let me tell you a story. I met this girl at thanksgiving dinner with my family. She seemed very shy from the very beginning, but I talked to her and signaled interest. Fast forward, we hang out for the first time. Not much physical contact. Maybe a hug. Went for a kiss, got curved. She mentioned that she still wants to hang out though. Next time, I make sure there’s more physical contact. Little things. …
/r/seduction18/12/21 10:53 AM
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Women will approach based on the energy you give off and how much they’re attracted to you. They may not blatantly say “hey you’re cute, here’s my #.” But they will give you the opportunity to approach them in an easier way. Heard of proximity? Women that are attracted to you will place themselves near you, whether that be standing near you in a concert, on the wall close by in the pool hall, or even sit directly next to you. Pay attention to body language and you’ll see what I mean. Doesn’t mat…
/r/seduction18/12/21 07:36 AM
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I think i agree with this to an extent. It kinda falls onto the roles that have been created in society as well. Many many factors go into it, and there are always exceptions. What I would like anyone reading this to take away though, is that acting and feeling confident will almost always impact your endeavors in a positive manner. Be proactive, not passive. Make things happen, act instead of reacting. The ladies are drawn to this, consciously and subconsciously
/r/seduction18/12/21 12:45 AM
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They’re 100% nervous about confrontation, that’s why it’s so rare to see a woman approaching a guy compared to guys approaching ladies. I saw something yesterday along the lines of “a man will approach a woman he finds attractive, a woman will approach a man she finds irresistible.” Even in this scenario, the woman probably needs to hype herself up to open up the conversation and get going. You bring up a few great points too, peacocking should be a part of every man’s strategy to some degree. M…
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:29 PM
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I’ve heard of this one actually. Not necessarily “bring your work to a bar” but bring a book. Think about it. Typically the people that are sitting at a bar don’t have much in their hands besides a beer, maybe an appetizer or something. Having an activity you’re actively doing draws people in. If you’re sitting there with a book, people will ask you what it’s about. Where’d you get it? How is it? The chances of them talking to you are higher because they have something that you can talk about im…
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:53 PM
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100%. What guys gotta realize on dates is that if she’s there with you, she wants you to take the lead. She wants you to speak your mind and not be shy. Let her know that you want her, but don’t directly say it. Make her put it together based on your actions, the way you speak to her, the way you talk to her. In the case where your date is sitting far from you, or on the other side of the table, make your desires known. Don’t sit there and wish she did it herself. Step up, and make it playful ju…
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:39 PM
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I mean, that’s one perspective. Your post seems to be trying to prove the point that nightlife doesn’t get results by the sound of it? Would I be correct to say this? Or is it more of you don’t enjoy nightlife because it’s expensive? It’s definitely an investment to be buying drinks and Ubering around. On paper, it’s “free” to swipe through apps, yes. But results are so much easier in person. If a woman is attracted and you approach at the right time in public, your chances of successfully makin…
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:00 AM
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r/dating_advice r/dating These ones are great to do research in while browsing Reddit, because you can see issues that people are going through and plausible solutions in the comments. You can even read the post and try to come up with solutions yourself before reading the comments.
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:07 AM
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One thing I’ve learned is that fortune favors the bold. Say what’s on your mind. Be your own person, don’t agree just to agree. Stand true to who you are, and be unapologetic about it. There’s a difference between being a closed minded asshole and forging your own opinions on things. Talk to that cute cashier. Accept invites to events. Live life for the sake of living it. If someone flakes on plans that you were excited about, don’t let that get you down and ruin the day/night. Still go out and …
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:35 AM
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You seem like you’re on the right track. The biggest missing puzzle piece for you sounds like it’s your confidence. The only way you’re gonna get more comfortable doing the field work is…. Doing the field work. Start small and work from there. Do things deliberately. Pay attention. Have a game plan. Don’t wing it unless you’ve already seen a woman a few times. Speak your mind. Shoot your shot. Beyond that, keep doing what you’re doing. You’re on the path of self improvement and that’s what REALL…
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:57 PM
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Man, some of these comments are wild. Just keep yourself accountable. If she asks you a question, answer it. Elaborate a little bit if you need to and then move your focus to her. It should be fairly balanced if the girl is interested in you, she will piggyback off whatever you said.
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:30 AM
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Make sure to keep in mind the difference between a cold approach and a warm approach. When starting out, try to warm up to them a little first. Eye contact, a smile. Even a cheers from across the bar. She doesn’t owe you anything, and who knows, maybe she was having a bad day. Don’t let her get you down buddy.
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:39 AM
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I mean. She came to you hoping you’d be there for her, and you showed her that your mind was elsewhere. You already know what you did wrong, don’t make that mistake again. She’s more than sexual actions. Be better.
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:40 AM
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Sometimes the best kisses are the ones that only include one set of lips. Try exciting your lady by kissing her neck, gently caressing the most sensitive parts of her. Sliding your lips all over from bottom to top. As long as you’re putting some passion and fire into it, there’s not too much you can do wrong. Careful of going overboard, I would start small and build up from there to avoid awkward situations
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:38 AM
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You’ve been with him for 5 months as you say, if you’re in decent shape he definitely is appreciating your body. He may just want to keep things professional. You know what’s funny though? Your last line. Sounds like you want him too. But you’re “playing it cool”. If you want him, let him know. See what happens, keep it low pressure. See how he reacts and act accordingly. Better than sitting agonizing about “is this normal?” “Why do guys not say anything??” Don’t be afraid to take control and go…
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:22 AM
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You’ll be waiting for the “perfect opportunity” forever. Don’t overthink it, just get in there. I think the best time would be close to the end of class. Ask her about an assignment, to go over a term from class, whatever. Talk to her and make her laugh a little bit. I wouldn’t sit next to her for the lesson though, build some rapport first.
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:12 AM
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That’s a great response. Don’t be afraid to throw her a compliment either, just don’t shower her with affection or it’ll chase her away. Good luck
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:18 PM
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Be smooth, acknowledge the compliment gracefully, make her laugh and keep the conversation moving. Flirty texts are important, it builds a rapport so that if/when you meet, there’s already a connection and established attraction on both sides
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:45 PM
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Maybe you could go to hers for a movie night? I mean typically when you get invited to someone’s place there’s a sexual undertone, and that might have scared her off a little bit, as you mentioned she’s religious. She’s interested, just not for that particular plan. Try something else a little more convenient for here and she’s more likely to say yes. An hour drive, plus a movie and whatever other conspicuous activities you get into, plus another hour drive back is time consuming. That’s a big f…
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:43 PM
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I’ve noticed that although many women are passive when it comes to showing interest, they’ll do very little things. They’ll position themselves closer to you, they’ll make eye contact, their body language will be open and inviting. It depends on where you are of course, but if she seems like she would give you a good conversation, take your shot. Better to shoot the shot and miss than you wish you would’ve gone for it.
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:59 PM
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That’s not very covert, but seems like it’d be fun regardless
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:48 AM
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I appreciate your insight. I’ll check it out for curiosity’s sake
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:30 PM
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I’m having an internal battle with this right now. I would consider myself pretty genuine and I’m always myself. It’s hard for me to come with terms with manipulating people, and it feels like that’s the way to go to get the ladies’ attention these days. They don’t really want someone who is gonna be straightforward and real with them off the rip. They want to go on an emotional roller coaster with a chad who doesn’t even connect with them. At least around my age of 22. OP, would you actually re…
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:22 PM
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Keep it short, simple and to the point. In this scenario, you could say anything reasonably friendly and she would likely react positively to it. When you see girls show you obvious signs like this you should 100% pounce on it if you’re interested. That’s their way of expressing they want to be approached. She probably felt rejected by you since you saw the signs but didn’t act on it. For example I was just at a club this past weekend dancing, and I noticed a girl looking over at me. We both wer…
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:18 AM
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I like the tip about having a backup story is things go quiet. Will definitely use that one
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:31 AM
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Society tells them that they don’t have to say anything. They show you hints that YOU as the guy have to pick up on and pounce on. She’s asking herself the same question, “why wouldn’t he say anything? I just stared at him and made it obvious. Did he not want to get laid?” You gotta learn to notice these things and take the chances you get
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:25 AM
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Eye contact from a girl, multiple times, is your doorway to approach her. Take note and don’t make the mistake again good sir.
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:06 AM
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I think I’m pretty attractive then
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:06 AM
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She’s shy. It’ll take time for her to break out of her shell and become more comfortable with you. Take her being quieter and more reserved as her caring about how you view her. My opinion based on everything you posted here. Edit: forgot the answer last question. It depends on the context of her turning away from you. If you approach a stranger and she turns away from you, yes. That would be a hint. If you have built a rapport with a girl, who chooses to sit next to you, strike up a conversatio…
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:50 PM
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Get more comfortable talking to strangers. This seems to be the biggest thing holding you back. Make them laugh. If you need to, simply ask them questions about them. Be genuine though, don’t ask questions just to ask. Ask questions you’re really curious about. Get to know them. Don’t be afraid to talk to guys either, if a woman sees you having fun and socializing she might think that you could show her a good time to. You have a huge advantage being 6’3”, fit, attractive, as you described yours…
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:26 PM
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Tease him. Make it start before you get anywhere near the bed. Make him crave you throughout the day. This can be done with pictures, light touches, whispering dirty things into his ear. Figure out what your guy likes. Personally I like my neck kissed, when a woman takes my clothes off slowly, kisses and touches parts of my that she’s attracted to. Squeezing my arms, a little bite here or there. There are so many things you can do to make him fantasize about the moment until it happens. He won’t…
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:09 PM
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Be funny, say things to her that she’ll remember, create inside jokes. When you joke around with her, lightly touch her elbow, or shoulder. Lightly. Ask her about herself and maintain good eye contact.
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:05 AM
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Force yourself to do it. Save yourself the regret next time. You’ll feel happier for putting yourself out there. You could’ve had a lady to go shopping with you and you missed out because you psyched yourself out. I don’t mean to sound like I’m blaming you here, but you have the power to create these connections. You making excuses is you stopping yourself from doing so. Think about that
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:01 AM
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Well, as sad as it may sound to hear, a woman who doesn’t want a second date won’t want sex from you. If you say you suck at making people laugh, you could try to improve this skill. It’s one of the best ways to make someone like you, and want to see you again. Do you get to the point of kissing these women? Do you touch them lightly and establish a sexual undertone? There’s something powerful about first meeting someone, and having the knowledge that you’re both attracted to eachother. Feed int…
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:28 AM
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I’d like you to be a little more specific. I’ll do my best to explain it to you here. Let’s say you see a girl that you’d like to speak to out at a bar. First, observe the vibes she’s giving off. Is she glued to her friends? Is her body language open or closed? Is she having fun? Timing is as important as confidence or good looks are in this context. Don’t walk up to a girl as her friend is about to vomit or something. When you approach, keep it light and simple. Hey, I like your style! How’d yo…
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:04 AM
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How do you expect to have sex with someone that you barely know? How do you expect someone to WANT to have sex with you if you’re a stranger? This is the entire science of the “approach” you are attracted to her, and you want to show her what you can offer her in terms of laughs, values, etc. It’s already pretty much laid out
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:48 PM
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Ask for…. Sex? Pretty much in my last comment, build a rapport together. You shouldn’t “ask” for sex. It’s something that you build up to naturally. Show potential partners what you have to offer, looks, personality, value. Date. Get to know eachother. It should very naturally come if you’re both interested after a few dates.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:45 PM
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Planes might crash into your forehead, but this comment went right right over your head. There’s a lot of women out there who want a taller partner, and any guy shorter than X for her doesn’t have a chance in hell.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:35 PM
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That’s dedication, all these different things taking up your time. You’ll have plenty of life to live good sir. I completely understand you don’t wanna miss opportunities, maybe try to plan things out more. The timing seemed awkward for both of you, and thankfully you were able to laugh it off with her easily! That’s such a positive. Keep your head up, and stay on track! I believe in you.
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:42 PM
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One step at a time. Take a moment to collect your thoughts before you approach. What have you noticed about her? Her hair? Her shoes, her style? Choose something that she consciously made a decision about. She can’t change the way her face looks, or the color of her eyes. Try to make her laugh. This is an easy way in. Keep things lighthearted. Just practice with people. Throw out any “what if she shuts me down” scenarios. As of right now, you need to simply get more comfortable approaching attra…
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:11 PM
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There’s probably some truth to it but I can’t be convinced by this article alone. This guy sounds really full of himself (he might be telling the truth, maybe not) but he didn’t really use any sort of statistics or proof. He kinda just said a lotta things and the audience can choose to believe or not. Another thing to be mentioned, everyone is different. The same thing will NOT work on every girl out there. He can fuck any girl within 30 minutes? I just don’t believe that. It’s definitely intere…
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:48 AM
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Work on your confidence. If you were to become a girl for 5 minutes, and look at your current, male, body, what would you find attractive? What would you wish was different? Hit the gym. Work on your style. Invest in some cologne. Become the best version of you that you can imagine. Don’t worry about finding someone until you can make yourself whole. You aren’t whole right now and it’s apparent by the way you talk about yourself.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:29 AM
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Sex is a lot easier with someone that you’re bonded with. Take some time to find someone that you enjoy being around, not just that you’re attracted to. This will take the pressure off because you’re just having a good time with someone that you’re comfortable experiencing new things with. If you need some time to yourself, go ahead and do that. You seemed rushed into this situation, even though it was something you were interested in doing. Anyone with sexual experience will tell you that we’ve…
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:23 AM
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Did you head out alone? How did you get into the game with the first 2 ladies?
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:55 AM
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