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| 3 | I noticed this one girl was writing random things in cursive during class. I asked her what she was doing and she said she does it for fun.Then she randomly wrote my name in cursive. Why did she do that?Don’t overthink things. What IS, for sure, true is that she showed interest in you. Take it for what it is, she wrote your name down after you initiated an interaction. That’s a positive response no matter how small. Rather than interpret the meaning, turn a small opportunity into an even larger one. If you know about the “Foot-in-the-Door” technique then consider the situation you described as door being opened up just enough for you to inch your pinky through. Depending on how quickly, when, a… | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Need advice when it comes to my current ‘progress’Thanks for clarifying! At the end of the day the advice is is supposed to help you! If you feel you have things figured out, go forth! I hope your analyses are accurate and prove useful for you! I hope I didn’t come off as insulting, it was never my intent and I apologize if that was the case! And yes I have somewhat of a psych background but I only apply it to daily life, I’m no expert! If I were you, I would suggest taking a class or researching social psychology. It’s a nice mix between socio… | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Need advice when it comes to my current ‘progress’I hope I can help! Your biggest hurdle is going to be Effort. You’ll need to find purpose within yourself to socialize. I’m a stranger reading your post for the first time and the only emotion I felt was “melancholy” or “gloomy”. You don’t seem too eager to meet new people and that can be picked up subtly. I could be wrong, and, if I am, good! Because you’ll need effort if you’re going to seek your own improvement! 1). Socializing includes speaking to people you don’t already talk to. I know it … | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 11:24 AM |
| 2 | What the hell is wrong with me?You said it yourself: being single for 1.5 yrs after a 7 yr relationship? You’re fresh out when you compare being single to your relationship. And even more, you’re 7 years outside of being alone. It will take time for your mind and body to adjust. I don’t know you, but the way you describe the situation doesn’t seem as though you are a perfectionist. Rather, I think your individual growth has been stunted after entering a relationship, and, now that you’re out of it and pursuing dating, you sta… | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Can I hear people’s experience with what happened after they got lean and fitPeople here will tell you it’s ALL about confidence and how you feel internally about yourself. You can go to some of my previous comments and see me speaking on similar solutions! By no means is any of it false, but to believe that a more trained physique will have little to no effect on your social/dating life would be a huge error. Let’s be honest: We DO live in a society where a thinner/muscular frame is more accepted and it’s been like that whether we agree with it or not. Body positivity o… | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Time to take back what is mineTake it one day at a time. Right now you’re excited and eager to “get back out there” and that’s great. Keep that energy for as long as you can because in order to return to being the confident, self-assured man you used to be you will need to consistently put yourself into situation that allow you to exhibit those qualities. And if you haven’t been exhibiting those qualities for a while, it will be somewhat of an uphill battle. However, maintaining a positive attitude will make all the differen… | /r/seduction | 25/09/20 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Are people just naturally gifted with good social skills for dating interactions?Yes and no. In life, there are going to be people that have an affinity for certain things but EVERYONE has to practice and maintain. How you do that all depends on how you perceive yourself and daily life. The trick isn’t to practice your social skills (how to smile, when to make a joke, how long to laugh, eye contact, active listening, etc.). Social skills will come with time, what you need to focus on is getting COMFORTABLE when socializing. Think of the event of having a conversation as a ro… | /r/seduction | 24/09/20 08:48 AM |
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