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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | How much are you paying in alimony? | Midnight_Cereal_Bowl | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/25 04:42 PM |
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| 1 | How much are you paying in alimony?Can i ask what your income is? Im trying to figure out what percentage And wow, 6.5 years for 11 yrs of marriage? That's intense. Im looking at 3 years for 9 years of marriage, but shes taking 40% of my net | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/26 11:59 PM |
| 3 | helpGoddamn, that was perfectly said. Can I bring all my relationship problems to you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 05:26 AM |
| 3 | alimony and child support changes after ex remarries?I think this depends on your state but i would guess any changes to support payments will have to go through the court. Alimony should end but child support won't and much even go up if it had been reduced by the alimony | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 05:21 AM |
| 2 | alimony and child support changes after ex remarries?That's how mine is too. I think its pretty common. You're paying a reduced CS while you're paying alimony, but once alimony ends then CS goes up to what is should have been. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 05:19 AM |
| 4 | Need advice on a situationWait what? She's making decisions for how you are going to take care of your parents? And when you can see them. Like, a nursing home curfew? Dude, nip this in the bud now. Stand your ground, be firm. She does not get to tell you what you are going to do with your parents and she doesn't get to set your schedule. The two of you can respectfully discuss expectations and wishes, but she does not have decision-making authority here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 05:14 AM |
| 5 | Tough timesFirst off, fuck her. You don't have to be her friend and you can be as angry at her as you want to be. There is no moral obligation to be her friend. A good coparent, yes. But you don't owe her anything more than that, so she can just go fuck right off. Second, what are your hobbies? How do you like to spend your free time? You need to start focusing on yourself. Men typically have a harder time building friend groups, but when we do it's usually through shared activities. Join a gym and start d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Its OverThis sucks. This is how I feel too. She asked for the divorce and is walking around our house like she's some victim, telling me how hard this has been for her. And I believe it is, but you know what she doesn't have to deal with? Being rejected and left by the person you thought was going to be by your side for the rest of your life. I fought so hard for us while she just pushed me away. At the end of the day I can hold my head up that I did everything in my power to save our marriage. She can … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Teens and custodyTough situation. My kids are younger so I don't have an opinion worth anything, but it seems like at some point they should have a say? Im guessing you could force him since its probably outlined that way in the divorce decree but I would think the best approach would be to have a discussion with your ex, as terrible as that probably seems. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 11:19 PM |
| 11 | She wanted to prove she could do it without me 🤣I dont think so. Just leave them out of it entirely. They'll understand when they're adults and they don't need to know now | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 06:21 PM |
| 25 | She wanted to prove she could do it without me 🤣Mid-life identity crisis? Check. Heavily influenced by social media? Check. Therapist encouraging her that divorce is the answer to her relationship problems? Check. Her living entirely off my support payments so she can focus on her hobbies while insisting that she just wanted her own "independence" and hates the fact that she feels reliant on me at all and just wants to be totally on her own? Double check! Hey did we get divorced by the same woman?! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 06:19 PM |
| 3 | How much are you paying in alimony?Wow. That's insane | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Finally hitting me that this will be the last Christmas I’ll get to spend with my kids in our home. Anyone else experienced this?OP you doing ok? This is so hard but the comment "maybe it would be best for everyone if this were my last christmas period" is really worrisome. You are those kids dad. Its not just that they want you or love you- they need you. They need you more than they need anything else, only tied with how much they need their mom. They need you more than they need that house and more than they need whatever else your self-sacrifice is going to provide for them. So please, first, if you are seriously thin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/25 09:07 PM |
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