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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
94	I wasn't left for Chad		Midwesthermit	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/20 03:45 PM

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3	I wasn't left for Chad I am starting to suspect I had a mild case of it with her as well. Like a high functioning one. Similar situation with her, except we were together for years and she informed me of the abuse only after we were apart. There was a lot of underlying stuff there, and us splitting triggered an avalanche. She seems to have stabilized a bit now. That's part of why I am glad she broke contact with me. I never would have stopped trying. She shows more self awareness than a hardline BPD though, so I am no…	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/20 06:18 PM
7	I wasn't left for Chad Yeah, you are better at elaborating what I mean to say. I think their methods and experiences revolve around women with personality disorders. They attracted them in the first place, got burned, got angry. Now they use tactics which naturally draw such women and further convince them that this is how women are generally. When I was following some of this stuff, I was attracting textbook borderlines. And yes, the break was a waste of time.	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/20 06:00 PM
16	I wasn't left for Chad It was a break and I went from my totally confident self to somewhat insecure, yes. I used the gym to try to grow back my long lost muscles and this helped the confidence issues significantly. I had been living life in autopilot and did my best to be more aggressive in my pursuits and goals (RP gets this right). It's the mind games advocated by RP that I think are BS. Sure, this shit works great on insecure, BPD women under the right circumstances. My ex already thought I had other options. When…	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/20 05:15 PM

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