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| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sJust stop with the "you won't date 18 year old models in your 30s" strawman altogether. It's the subject of the post we're on about. Pretending it isn't is the strawman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’s10 years or more age gap when you add them up is 7.6%. ...and this seems like not a rare occurrence to you how? 1.6% for fifteen year age gaps?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:22 AM |
| 14 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingOkay, now imagine the guy is blindingly handsome. Poof, there went all the fear I'm a lesbian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:28 PM |
| – | Do you think there should be laws against "being creepy" or should the laws of dating be controlled by the state?The other day I saw a guy argue it wasn't creepy, just cringe, for a guy to grab a cosplayer arm to stop her from leaving after saying something gross to her. So, yes, but no. I don't think being Boo Radley should be a punishable crime. But I also think people who assault, harass, stalk, grope, etc, always minimize their behavior. And the cop openly said "yes, but its not illegal to be creepy..." and that excited me. Ive witnessed women on here claim harassment, and have had personal experiences… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sI think if you are going to offer that last paragraph as a confound, you should provide data showing that the couples weren’t 35 and 20 Well, statistical literacy would show any reasonable person that in accordance with the trend in your own data towards similarly aged cohorts, and with having to be a portion of only 18.8% of all couples with over 6+ year age gaps, it's incredibly unlikely that the majority of the 18.8 was comprised of a bigger gap rather than the next most standard deviation. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:41 PM |
| -1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sKind of the exact same thing OP did in their post. Telling men that something which really isn't that hard to achieve in the future is not going to happen. It's not though. You're arguments would force women to settle down younger and give up a lot of opportunity, they make women objects with expiries. Telling men they likely won't get women who are much younger and more attractive than them isn't really the same as warding off women rejecting you with a fantasy that someday she'll regret it bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:28 PM |
| 2 | About what percentage of women do you think completely do not care about height?I've been increasingly baffled by this talking point, because I don't really see women wear heels anymore, and heels themselves don't literally add the total heel height to your height (really, look it up). I feel old sometimes because those Jeffree Campbell shoes were big when I graduated highschool and now girls going out shoes are like, air force 1s. It's a conversation I'm really not impacted by because I'm gay, and only 5 feet tall. So even in dating only other women, they've all been talle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sIn 40% of households women make more money, and the majority of women work. We have pretty stagnant class mobility and most people date within their economic class. I'm not saying its impossible to become rich and therefore get hot young chicks to date you. But in the way its also not impossible to become a rockstar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sMen are not commodities on the shelf The irony in saying this while arguing men can get early 20s girls regardless of statistical improbability or women's preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:01 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sThe post isn't about what you want, it's about what is realistic. Their point is much younger women aren't likely to date you, despite popular redpill talking points about hitting the wall and having to settle while men get better and date 20 year olds. The majority of relationships have 1-2 year age gap, the second largest group has a 3 year age gap. People do not date well outside their age range you believe men cannot push their own preference on the dating market because reasons? Yes, reason… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’s...31-26...you have a five year age gap with someone in their mid twenties and you think that disproves OP's point that young women want partners their own age? Bro you literally could have been in highschool together. You're not an older man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:37 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sAccording to 2017 US Current Population Survey, 18.8 percent, nearly 1 in 5, of US marriages had husband at least six years older than wife. That's a bit of wriggling. A normal standard deviation of grouping where the largest portion of couples are 1-2 years apart in age by the same data. You're also intentionally ignoring how it's written. It's 6+ years because so many fewer people proportionately date farther than 5 years outside of their own age that 5% comprises all of those relationships. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:32 PM |
| -2 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sI feel like I see a particular type of person (usually a younger woman) who hates the idea that men can improve over time and have more success/options in the future. I mean...yes? The fantasy of having a better dating pool when you're older and successful, and specifically being able to date women who have things you don't (looks + youth) is fundamentally a 'you'll be sorry!!!' fantasy of rejected young men. When it's brought up to women, it's brought up only to convince them to settle for some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:24 PM |
| 2 | When the reason of guilt is brought up with autistic men in red pill.use not wanting to take advantage of them as justification. Despite OP's claim, I have never seen a single woman say she won't date autistic men for fear of taking advantage. I've seen plenty say they won't because autistic men use autism as an excuse to violate boundaries or be misogynistic and play dumb about it, and I could understand people being upset with this but OP made up a non-existent stereotype to be mad at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 01:22 PM |
| 16 | Why don't women get heat for dating career-oriented men and then complaining about how the man works long hours and is rarely at home?Your argument was that women are blaming men for being career oriented when they sought that quality out. Giselle is both massively independently wealthy herself and therefore not in any need of a partner who isn't at home but has a good career, but also literally had a plan for him to work and retire and he reneged. Your example doesn't work, saying maybe a non existent flipped example of your own chosen example would work has no value as an argument. The genders aren't reversed, and almost uni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is the Nice Guy misunderstood or am I projecting?Literally not what you proposed, dude. ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:06 PM |
| – | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeWhat are you on about exactly? I didn't say anything about myself man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeAh my mistake, it's only a logical fallacy if it's your bros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill Praxeology can be quite useful, while Red Pill Philosophy is pure stupidityThis isn't a unique take. Most people agree that RP gets men by giving them a kernel of actionanle self help. Take control of your life, clean your room, exercise, have financial goals, etc.. The issue is it's not useful because of the philosophy, the practical elements can be had anywhere, it's not inherent to RP. You could do all the same things with a self help book, except the self help book doesn't convince all of its constituents to dehumanize half the planet, and make half of its constitu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:53 PM |
| – | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeThe amount of obese 5s flocking to the free drug dude was astonishing. Hey, personal attacks are allowed for everyone again? ...hmm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:36 PM |
| – | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsIt's okay to feel insecure ad hominem 🤔 He opened with 'ad hominem' attacks and played the same awww weeee Baby I'm so right you're so wrong schtick, there's literally no point in arguing with someone like that. He's disrespectful, argued in bad faith, and married to his ideas since he just shoved another source confirming he same thing under my nose without ever processing what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:28 PM |
| 0 | Is the Nice Guy misunderstood or am I projecting?So fellas, this here would be an example of why a woman would rightfully feel betrayed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy don’t women attempt to make themselves cum more? Why is the onus always on the man? You're barking up the wrong tree for this. I'm a lesbian, I literally cannot place the onus on you to make me come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itBut my thoughts on women being responsible for the orgasm gap, are a different conversation. Simply, yikes. First, Waiting doesn’t prevent any of the negatives you just mentioned. Those are all possible down the line as well. Someone asked why wait. These realities for women present why there isn't an incentive to have sex initially. If it can suck anytime there's no point in giving it to a man now because he wants it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:37 PM |
| 0 | What are some examples of hypocrisy? How do you define it?I don't think they do either. A double standard is a bad thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:34 PM |
| 0 | What are some examples of hypocrisy? How do you define it?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itHow many times do you come when you have sex versus the average woman do you think? For a guy, having any sex is a baseline good time, even bad pizza is good pizza. For a girl, it's a crapshoot whether some guy knows where the clit is. And you can get pregnant. Plenty of logical reason to wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itYOU SNOOZE, YOU LOSE. What you want isn't equality in preferences, but that women somehow come to regret there's. We're in a subreddit of countless men who believe women should not be promiscuous, and should have less sexusl experience than him. This viewpoint contradicts also wanting a woman to put out immediately. I’m not bragging, I’m simply stating what’s been a successful strategy for someone that’s currently in a fulfilling relationship like me: I’ve never agreed to attending a date unless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itOP isn't just presenting that it's okay to have preferences, OP is presenting that it should be okay but that society favors a hypocritical view from women. Someone saying it is okay in response to a it should be okay isn't a restatement, its a rebuttal that things already are the way someone is arguing they aren't but should be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:13 PM |
| 4 | What are some examples of hypocrisy? How do you define it?There really isn't. Men feel aggrieved at women's preferences when they see height requirement in a tinder bio. Whereas literally just the other day this one guy made a bunch of posts to the10thdentist about mail order brides being okay and insisting the women who criticize it are overweight middle-aged women being insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:08 PM |
| 7 | What are some examples of hypocrisy? How do you define it?They're not agreeing , they're explaining a difference. Hypocrisy is when you think something is wrong but still do it. A double standard is when you hold other people or groups to a different standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Is the Nice Guy misunderstood or am I projecting?It's normal and natural to form a friendship and then develop a crush/romantic feelings. The nice guy phenomena is people who are doing favors, being friendl, etc, only in the hopes of eventually being rewarded with sex or romance. This is criticized because according to women they feel betrayed. “They thought they had a friend but he just wanted to fuck her.” Like damn, I thought this was a surprisingly cynical interpretation when I first heard that. I didn‘t get why being friends and then even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsGod, you're dense. And still wrong. But it's clear from the way you operate and your condescension that you aren't worth arguing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsEven on a very simplistic basis, the vast majority of women prefer an older man (51.5% prefer a man at least 2-3 years older). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships It is statistically improbable for the average person to find a person the exact same age. That the average discrepancy in age is 2 years supports the opposite of what you are saying. It's impossible to take you seriously with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid?Literally yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid?In what reality is out and out communism not woke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The "Sex Recession" concept alarmist.What about that report there is 60% men who are single compared to 30% of women? Sorry, are 30% of women lesbians in this estimate? How would that work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)Men have very little control over it, due to addictive dopamine pathways Take some responsibility for yourself, Jesus H Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)You're really out of touch with women, women love line cooks to the degree that it's a meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)Women use the labor/service of the cashier at the gas station, and yet they would almost certainly not want to marry that guy Women aren't participating the root cause of considering that person undesirable, though. There's much more clear relationship between consuming porn and sexual material, and viewing the same women as undesirable because precisely because you've viewed them. It isn't that a woman uses gas in her car that makes gas station attendant undesirable. Regardless of your personal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:17 PM |
| – | Everybody acknowledges that making friends as an adult is very hard but we still think it’s easy to join in established social circlesI think plenty of men are. But I think the ones who feel it's hopeless and come here aren't, or aren't yet. I'm a lesbian, so it's not really the equivalent experience. But it does have the unique experience of having to make peace that a lot of my attempted connections won't, as you worded it, yied anything I'm seeking, simply because more women are straight that gay or bi. The answer is that I enjoy those social circles for their value, rather than making them a tedious middle step on my way t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:46 PM |
| 0 | The fundamental difference between “red pill” and “blue pill” is how rigidly “roles” are defined in a romantic relationshipThe blue pill isn't truly an ideology, but a responsive critique to the red pill. I don't mean that there's a lack of ideological belief, but it isn't a group in the same way. It would kind of be like saying Leah Remini's anti scientology work is like that because anti scientologists tend to see hierarchy as bad. 'Blue pilled' people critique the red pill because we don't believe in prescriptive gender roles, among other things. Even if you do believe in prescriptive gender roles, it's a bit non… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:39 PM |
| – | Everybody acknowledges that making friends as an adult is very hard but we still think it’s easy to join in established social circlesFriends =\= social circle. Your friends are in your social circle, but your kick boxing class, people you meet at game night at the comic shop, coworkers, any neighbors you actually talk to, are your social circle. It's just easier imo to make connections organically that way than to use apps or cold approach strangers. It's hard to make friends as adults because in school you formed friendships from passive proximity all day. As an adult, you make friends by doing activities or talking to peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:22 PM |
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