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When you put others first you teach them that you come last
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 04:19 AM
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I’ve been very polite. He’s being greeted everyday. The anger I heard him express was really inappropriate and very petty for what it is. It’s not my fault the convo doesn’t go beyond that. It’s just as much his responsibility to expand on it, if that’s what he wants and it’s somewhat sexist that he thinks any malaise he has with our social exchanges is down to me not performing enough for him as a woman, rather than him not being charming or engaging enough. I doubt this complaint would be made…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 02:24 PM
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It is absolutely this. They love seeing you upset. It raises their ego and sense of self and makes them feel good and important to have a woman crying over them. Withdraw that emotional reaction and show no upset and they’re actually a little disappointed because it suggests they weren’t worth as much to you or as amazing in your mind as they’d thought. There’s usually a hope you’ll fall apart and be unable to function without them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:10 PM
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I disagree. I think many want the pleasure of seeing her reaction. The boost of seeing someone so upset at losing them really satisfies their ego and makes them feel good. Then they can run around and tell others “yeah, bro. she really lost it. isn’t that so annoying?? big gleeful grin”, in a humble brag way that obviously aggrandizes them and raises their value despite them being complete losers. Suddenly everyone will think they’re that guy because they had a decent woman mourning and crying o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:13 AM
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Out here quintuple texting but you the clingy one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:35 PM
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Disgust over what, exactly? I’m sorry just trying to understand. I’ve experienced a lot of bs, just not this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:30 AM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@fiandvinny/video/7039168950617509167?sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7049504689935386118&is_from_webapp=v1&is_copy_url=0 Bf noting everything his girl likes to eat https://www.tiktok.com/@fiandvinny/video/7039515675714391301?sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7049504689935386118&is_from_webapp=v1&is_copy_url=0 If he wanted to, he would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:59 PM
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I like mine cracked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:54 PM
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Yes you were being manipulated and gaslit. But I find the largest problem here is him telling you “you have nothing between your ears”. What makes him feel entitled to talk to you that way? People don’t talk to people they respect that way ever. Think of someone he looks up to, maybe one of his bros, could you ever picture him saying that them? That’s unacceptable. A new boundary for you should be that you don’t allow anyone to call you stupid or a drunk. I understand why you cried but that mean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:37 AM
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"I can't make you feel anything, you are responsible for the way you are feeling" Asshole men love this line. It basically means I can be an ass to you and if you get upset shrug your problem. Because no ones capable of making anyone feel another way. It’s basically like slapping you and then telling you- stop slapping yourself. Never date a man who uses that line. It’s just a blind for emotional abuse and mind games to make you blame yourself when he behaves poorly. It’s a disavowance of all re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:26 AM
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Lol. Wow at “you have a lot of social development ahead of you”. Not what exactly is supposed to be endearing or charming about that. The reality is most men will never be near as emotionally intelligent or socially intelligent as even the most socially underdeveloped woman- they haven’t been socialized to be. Yes, it certainly was projection on his part. You were probably the one with the ability to neg him on that but were too kind to take it there. He took that kindness and got on his high ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:20 PM
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The thing is he would be in shock, ready to fight, if you told him he didn’t treat me amazingly. It was always I’m the only one looking out for you, protecting you! But he was always acting like everything I said couldn’t be true- was just me misperceiving the situation, misreading people and overreacting or having a stick up my ass. It was obvious from the first day we met he wanted to sleep with me/ try and get in with me. But he didn’t even have the social sense to make sure I felt good- smar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:40 PM
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Funny, I have experienced that feeling with men where it’s obvious they feel they’re talking to a child or someone beneath them. Almost like like a bemused attitude where it’s like they think they’re toying with you like a cat does a mouse. Interestingly it’s always been the men least qualified to do so. We used to have this fat barely can read fuck who worked in the mailroom at my job who would assume this huge knowing, cheshire cat smile when I’d talk about my experiences on the job (I’d been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:49 PM
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Why do you assume they need support. Many of them are better off and far more educated about men and self worth than I was at that age and I’m not old. But I already see an improvement in general confidence, standards and boundaries This generation has done the work, more than previous ones. I don’t know that they need help. The correct info and perspectives are out there. It’s becoming a strong part of pop etc in a way it never was in the whiny pick-me ballad songs of the 90s- it’s in the fabri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:49 PM
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How dont they think like us and what did you learn that was mind blowing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:31 PM
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Eh, that’s really not typical of most young girls based on what I’m seeing on social and tiktok. Plenty of them have strong boundaries and will never take the shit their grandmothers took. It’s a little bit condescending when we get these- this younger generation of girls needs as much help as they can get style posts. I don’t find it accurate and no one has been more pick me than some of the 50/60 yr olds I know who have been in marriages to men who cheat and barely even like them for the past …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:28 PM
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ITA. If you don’t care for religion skip this. Those of you who do may appreciate this angle. Viewed from a Judeo-Christian perspective Jesus was supposedly the most perfect man to walk the earth. The completely flawless model of what a HVM should be. He hasn’t walked the earth in 2,000 years and yet people are still willing to both live and die over what he said. That’s how much of a man and a leader he was. 2 millennia later he’s still influencing how people live their very lives. Yet the scri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:35 AM
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Also the haughty opinion that avoidant is best, because being clingy and smothering is the worst. You have to agree that they're brilliant and self-sufficient, because the only other option is needy and overwhelming. The vast majority of men glorify avoidant traits as dominant and boss like and more “male”. It’s part of toxic masculinity and how they’ve been socialized by society. While they look down on securely attached traits as weak and needy and lamely “female”. They think being normally at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:42 PM
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Yes, I made my own comment going into detail about this. It’s about negging black women hair routines as stupid and ghetto specifically. Everyone knows black women spend far more on hair care than white women despite being a far smaller group. Black hair care is a 2 billion dollar industry per year. And black women have to do the most to keep curls defined, de tangled and well moisturized. Curly hair doesn’t distribute moisture down the shaft because of the shape of the strands. So you literally…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:41 AM
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It’s a neg against black woman as a demographic specifically. They spend far more on haircare than any other demographic despite being a minority and often have sinks full of different cream and serums because that is what is needed to keep curls defined, and moisturized etc. It literally takes several different products, silk scarves etc unlike styling straight hair. His saying she doesn’t use a hundred different products equates to she’s not so ghetto and into her hair like these other black b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:31 AM
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What have you discovered about why you tend to both draw and be attracted to those types
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:39 PM
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“as if our relationship was subject to ADA laws or some bullshit” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Come on now. Why didn’t you put up a wheel chair ramp so he could wheel the bullshit in more easily?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:26 PM
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Yeah most people who do it aren’t rolling in the dough any more than their counterparts who choose not to and may also be doing it out of some form of necessity themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:32 PM
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I am the OP. Cool beans. Have a nice day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:08 PM
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IME, most people cannot stand being in their parents house after a certain age and absolutely would not take that opportunity despite the savings. I see tiktoks on it constantly. People comparing the cost of rent in the city to the cost of their mental health from moving back in with their parents because they find living with them so limiting and deeply annoying. Most people would not do it as they view it as lame and imposing on their freedom in ways that are beyond money. They more value bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:02 PM
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I don’t think she was shitting on anyone. Nor is living at home such a huge privilege that one owes it to anyone to acknowledge. It’s not like she’s having someone else pay her way to live lavishly in a high rise and travel extravagantly well into adulthood, etc. I could more so see this if she was a trust fund kid, but anyone should be able to deal with that basic difference. This could run both ways. Should this person have to acknowledge her “privilege” of being able to live alone to the comm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:21 PM
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She doesn’t owe anyone that. Different people have different circumstances. People should be able to accept that without negging others or acting out in bitter ways. It’s basic maturity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:14 PM
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Honestly, it’s getting to the point where almost I almost feel forced to make a bitchy comment back just to defend myself and discourage her from this. Which is honestly, not how I am, at all. Like I have to struggle to even come up with those types of responses. It’s so outside my mild nature- but I think that’s why she feels she can disrespect me and test me like this anyway. I’m coming around to the idea that sometimes people need to be taught you’re not to be trifled with or given a taste of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:57 PM
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Thank you. Honestly, I think I’ll just slow fade her and quietly go on with my business, to grad school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:41 PM
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Yeah, I think this has dragged on longer than normal because it’s become an infrequent relationship. There are long stretches where we don’t speak then reach out again. So with that infrequency of contact and the subtlety of some of it, nothing overtly negative has been said, it’s just a tone- it took a long time for me to discern what was going on or have an awareness of the negativity. A lot of it went over my head for a while. Now being here and looking back, I view it with newfound awareness…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:11 PM
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Yeah, I’m secure in it and almost don’t give it a second thought. But I see she’s using it as a point to look down on me with. Like my still being there makes me a loser. I think she’s struggling hard for her and her kids to stay in housing, so it’s like well at least I’m not so loser I still live at home with my parents. Ironically, my parents have been married a long time and not rich but down to support me financially in anyway they can to make my start in life easier. She comes from a single…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:16 PM
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Yeah, I left a long held job and she called me despite not having done so in ages and rarely ever in our friendship. Tbf, phone just is not our usual method of communication. She’s been in severe financial straits the past few years and struggling to make ends meet. I felt she was calling simply to confirm, gloat in, have secret schadendreude at my finally being unemployed following a years long constant upward trajectory on my former job that she had to watch. No encouragement was offered for m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:08 PM
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It goes far beyond these incidents to be basically undeniable to a reasonable person. You can read what I said in other comments expanding on it. But even so, just know there’s no way I can include every incident in one post and there are considerations that go far beyond what you can see. I think we all know when we’re being negged or someone doesn’t wish us well. And I have a very large slant toward not caring or being sensitive toward what people think of me, so if I have to come to think tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:44 PM
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One thing I didn’t like. I held the same job many years stably through several promotions and a long upward trajectory. When I finally left there I received a text from her saying “Omg. Haven’t heard from you. Just give a thumbs up if all is well.” There was more to it and it was phrased in a way that made it seem obvious to me she’d heard from others that I’d left my long held job and was calling me out on this, pushing me to confirm, stop hiding that I’m not doing so good. I replied saying I’d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:40 PM
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First time in my life I’m possibly having to elevate past a friendship. I’ve had ones fade away but they were good people I still liked and we didn’t part over negativity or trouble, just distance. This is the first I’m having to actively leave one behind to elevate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:28 PM
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“Are you okay…are you sure you’re doing okay?” The friend in question does the exact same thing to me whenever I make a job move or level up in some way. Like let’s say I get a promotion, go back to grad school, start a new job. She keeps asking how it’s “really going. Am I really doing ok”. Even after I’ve said it’s good she’ll persist in a demanding tone with “But am I really understanding things or getting along with people, adjusting??” I feel it has tones of trying to expose the venture as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:21 PM
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Yeah, I haven’t replied to these things or tried to prove myself or compete even though there are many way I would be on top. Which I think is probably even more upsetting to her. Because no jab seems to land and I just seem blissfully content and unaware
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:06 PM
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Great advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:44 PM
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Yes, this is exactly what I am talking about. Friend above even made a similar comment to the one you mentioned about depression. I told a story about visiting my Grandmother who had slight dementia. Her having trouble distinguishing between different family members and making some confused comments that were very funny but also kinda sad. Only to have her come back some months later and very quietly say- “Well at least everyone in my family has their faculties. I’m glad there has been no mental…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:43 PM
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Valid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:08 PM
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I’ve been contemplating this. The questions look totally normal on surface. Like if I cut her off I’d be hard pressed even to explain why, because from the outside it looks like nothings been done. Even these comments are really innocuous unless you know. Nothing openly insulting or inappropriate has been said, or even anything that an onlooker would see as out of order. It’s just that I know they’re for the purpose of negative comparison. I’m not even sure they’re meant to make me feel bad, so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:05 PM
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These kinds of people are neutral at best and narcissistic at worst Truth. One of them is charming to the point of being a small celebrity in his home country and is even somewhat wealthy off of his ability to connect to and charm, seduce people. He’s actually very established and respected in our field. But underneath it, has some super toxic traits when he doesn’t get what he wants. So it’s tough, but I’m standing up for myself and staying free of them. Beyond the professional ask, I didn’t re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:57 PM
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The true crime one seems like a stretch. Maybe they just enjoy drama. Men watch it too. It’s not it’s entire own genre off fearful women entirely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:30 PM
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Are there transcripts for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:12 PM
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Yes, I was. You can engage her for paid advice on specific issues via phone or email. She charges according to length of phone call or email question. I don’t advise it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:33 PM
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I’ve enjoyed her work in some ways. But was kinda turned off when I engaged her for work on a specific issue. You don’t tell a paying client, “Oh, I couldn’t even read all that/ I didn’t even bother reading all that”, after charging them extra for an ask/ question of a specific length. I found her kinda snappish and overly sure without really listening and even a bit rude and glib at points. Would not do again. These online “gurus” have their limits I can go into more detail but will just say sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:29 AM
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“Has high emotjonal intelligence ( although not that much social skills) Funny how people wrongly equate these two. Being social does not necessarily mean being discerning of character or having emotional intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:22 PM
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Yes, it’s 100% a song about a woman seeing how she was d-cked around and manipulated. It is not a song about two people telling their different sides when a relationship ended. I mean, it is on surface but you can see who clearly was most in the wrong/ has the issues You can tell based on what’s said about the guy that he’d be unsuccessful just about any relationship with anyone. It’s him. He’s the problem I don’t think there are two POVs here. This is clearly the guys fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:58 PM
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ROTFL. The coupon was probably expired. Just like his chance to pull this mess. TIMEISUP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:57 PM
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The guy’s a gaslighter though. She’s talking about how he mistreated her and then manipulated her into thinking it was her fault. She was dating an asshole at best. An emotionally abusive gaslighter at worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:52 PM
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If he gives you space….double it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:49 PM
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Yes, how he deals with you when you’re sick says everything. Especially if it is something female oriented- like period cramps, endometriosis etc. Does he treat you like it’s all in your head and you’re being stupid and “unable to think” is a major inconvenience to him that you need to “snap out of”? Marriage vows are in sickness and health. You never know when you may be incapacitated and unable to walk/ wash/ do for yourself etc. Is this the kind of person you can count on to show you kindness…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:19 AM
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