Mignonettefrance Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit… Why would we want some balding guy with waning testosterone and ED when we have hot, horny, virile guys our own age for sex? You’re delusional. Oh and my dad has a friend his age named Neil 😂	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 02:35 AM
28	Glamour Mag: If He Wanted To, He Would Is "Horrible Advice" The article was simply click bait. She doesn’t believe a word of what she wrote. Writing a controversial opinion on a popular mainstream idea increases readership and boosts ad revenue. The assholes at The Faux Propaganda Network do it all the time. It’s a powerful tool for mass persuasion. As we know, the herd isn’t comprised of critical thinkers 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/22 02:29 AM
11	The Rise of Gen Z Celibacy (PATREON EXCLUSIVE) It’s here: https://archive.org/details/fds-handbook-v-1.35/mode/1up?view=theater	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/22 12:46 AM
96	Access to HVW is a privilege. Cut off contact the second it does not serve you - you do not have to tolerate anything subpar for even a second. Sperm are so low value that it takes Millions just to find One that’s Maybe good enough for A Single egg. Men thinking having a dick makes them a prize is like having a hot dog and calling it filet mignon 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/22 10:40 PM
144	This example is pick-me nonsense. Stop faking it ladies. There is no such thing as “taking too long”. Men expect orgasms regularly, why can’t we? If you had fun, but didn’t get to climax - you can still tell him you didn’t finish, had a good time & would appreciate him doing more in figuring it out. Or his 🍆 is too short or not shaped to reach your trigger spots.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/22 02:58 AM
25	but doesn't it help? why shouldn't I have these things as a woman? Porn has eroded pretty privilege. A man thought this was a compliment: “You’re so sexy looking, I wonder if you’re into porn as a performer.” 😳 Because of porn-induced performance anxiety, many guys won’t date hot women. Too pretty =🏃‍♂️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 04:37 AM
40	Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️ You’re so right, and it’s insulting when obese/ugly/old/bald men hit on hot women. Men objectify very attractive women even more than they do in general. And if you also have a fit body, they view you as a public commodity and act entitled to your attention. You can’t just give them the 🖕🏿cause you never know if they’ll become violent. Last night I left my table and returned to find a note with a name and number. A second later, an obese bald guy my father’s age was standing over me making a spe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 11:00 PM
38	Women who have high body counts because they want to, or because of the amount of promiscuous men who lie about their intentions? You’re right, they get off on having power over the woman more than the actual sex. It’s all about gamesmanship and being one-up by getting one over on a woman, because they resent our sexual power over them. Casual is perfectly fine when they think they’re the ones using us. They believe women naturally want relationships and use sex to trap men. Funny how the bravado crumbles into indignant slut-shaming rage when we hit it then ghost. They just can’t believe we weren’t after a relationship and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/22 09:56 PM
13	Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laid This is why men are just dick until proven otherwise.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/22 12:59 AM
199	A 52 year old man I know admitted to me that he wants to go for 20-29 year olds 🤢🤮 Asking for your mom’s number is a gigantic 🚩 It’s a well known tactic of pedophiles and other predators to date the mothers of underage girls in order to gain sexual access to their daughters. Seriously, block him and keep your guard up around men who make such comments “in jest”. Doesn’t matter if you think he’s joking - the fact that his mind even went there in the first place is creepy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/22 04:33 AM
17	The results of applying FDS to my dating since having moved. Your experience, sadly, is the norm. It’s going to take time to retrain men who’ve grown lazy and entitled by effortless dating and easy sex. They’ve been spoiled by OLD and porn. We can blame men, but the reality is that human nature follows the path of least resistance and instant gratification. Men have been caught up in the sexual exploitation for profit industry just as women have. And we’ve all paid the price. Unfortunately, men aren’t able to take the lead out of this situation, because t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 01:38 AM
179	I love it when scrotes just perfectly illustrate why we need FDS. This is the type of guy you will weed out with the "unreasonable" rules he mentions You nailed it! These sad, lonely fools cry, “women don’t want me!” - while referring to us as pussy. Real men love and respect women. They value relationships and honor our sexuality. They are deserving of us, because they’ve earned it. Scrotes deserve nothing but our disdain. At the first sign of disrespect from a man, consign him to the scrote category, stop interacting and ignore him into the abyss of oblivion.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 12:38 AM
12	Waiting for Sex: Not a Zero Sum Game Yes, it’s a common fallacy to expect the reverse of something to be true. He won’t respect you if you give it up too fast, but that doesn’t mean he will respect you if you wait. Remember: if he’s not in love with you, he’s likely sleeping with other women, so it’s easy for him to wait. The wisest course of action is to NoT have sex until at least 3 months into an exclusive relationship that was initiated by HiM - and he’s in love with you. Never bring up the relationship - that’s his job. When a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 05:18 AM
12	Lies Men Tell: Women Can't Pairbond Yes, and I’d also advise listening closely to the language a man uses. Any use of PUA/RP lingo is a big 🚩 Familiarize yourself with the terminology so that you’ll recognize men looking to exploit you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 12:29 AM
3	It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄 Men can fuck off with their double standards cause I’ve got eyes too, and ugly is Not my kink. Even if this guy wasn’t an antisocial prick, he’s still ugly AF! Beady dead eyes. Thin too-wide lips curled in a contemptuous sneer. Big potato nose. Doughy face. And the dome cover is a guarantee that he’s balding. Add hair plugs to your list bud! A nice personality might make him friendship material, but he’d still be unfuckable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 09:49 PM
2	He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love. This is from the seduction sub and is typical of the male posters. They idolize PUA losers like Corey Wayne - who looks like a flattered big toe, and tells men that seduction = getting laid, to make women chase, act disinterested, call women chicks 🤬 First of all, if we’re chicks, you’re scrotes, and why are you taking dating advice from a man who resembles a squished toe? 😂 Secondly: Seduction isn’t just sex - it’s about getting what you want, and that can be anything. WTAF? Let the woman pursu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 12:01 PM
1	Love yourself enough to walk away. Have a 3 month No Relationship Rule! Be aware that men manipulate women’s desire for relationships just as they manipulate for sex. Learn to be wary of starting relationships with men the same way you’re wary of having sex with them. Men assume women want commitment, and being wary of entrapment, they fall for women who don’t get into fast relationships, and take advantage of women who do. Don’t give a man access to relationship goodies before he’s asked for commitment and has proven himself rel…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 12:25 AM
2	That time I walked out on a date after his first sentence Now that was a Queenly move! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Ladies, dare to be an “asshole”. Place that crown upon your head and smote that scrote!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 09:22 PM
94	You guysss 🤮🤮🥲 “Ugh- husband woke me up in middle of night for sex and it was gross” True liberation is telling a man to fuck off. Nothing is more empowering 👸	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 09:01 PM
29	On the term 'old wives' tales' in the English language and its cultural relevance Hysterectomy, the removal of a woman’s uterus, was regularly done by male physicians to stop her “hysteria”, since it was believed that the source of our “overly” emotional nature was our womb. Conveniently, this meant that men couldn’t be “hysterical”. So if a young girl was suicidal over her father’s sexual abuse, or a woman was shattered by her husband beating one of her children to death or by him giving her newborn to an orphanage cause the baby looked more like the gardener than him, or an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 02:03 AM
42	Testosterone does NOT cause aggression-men have no excuse There’s so much ageism against women, and medicine is no exception. Geriatric yep, and the lovely term, elderly primigravida is defined as a woman who goes into pregnancy for the first time at the age of 35 years or older. There’s a reason really young men love older women - Mother Nature designed it this way. She wanted women to have healthy offspring for as many years as possible and to have fun doing it! If you’re over 35 and want the best chances of delivering a healthy baby, use the sperm o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 09:30 PM
109	Testosterone does NOT cause aggression-men have no excuse Young men’s testosterone levels have been steadily declining over the past several decades. Researchers noticed this downward trend in the 1980’s and have been tracking global levels with growing concern. Chemicals are thought to be a factor, but no conclusive evidence exists as to the cause of the decline. Low testosterone is directly associated with infertility, poor quality sperm, miscarriage, and birth defects. Older men(over 30) have always had lower fertility, and now low T is threatening …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 08:06 PM
120	Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones) No, never give your phone number until you’re in a relationship. Use an app like burner that gives you a different number. Get a post office box and use it as your address. Don’t let men you’re not in a serious relationship with know your actual physical address. Use Lyft for dates. I don’t even tell men my real first name until they’re vetted 😂 Men are predators, and none are safe until proven otherwise. Prioritize safety!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 10:52 PM
17	If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . . Exactly! Never let fear dictate your choices. Better to fight and take the punches than cower in fear, wringing your hands, and thinking, “Shoulda, coulda, why didn’t I?”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 04:06 AM
39	If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . . 🙌 Yes! When you initiate, it reinforces the notion that they are the prize. It’s unnatural. Eggs don’t chase sperm.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 10:00 PM
111	If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . . The only solution is to speak up. Dare to be shamed. And refuse to care what they think. When you don’t give a fuck, you’re bulletproof.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 09:53 PM
16	I walked away when my needs weren't met Yes! NeVeR ever ask where “this” is going, or bring up the “talk”. Glad you kicked that weirdo to the curb. “Awkward settings”? Wtf who says that? In addition to the great advice you’re getting here, remember this: RP men use withholding as a ploy to make you anxious (dread game). It’s a tactic to get you to chase. From TRP handbook: “Never ask for commitment. Always make the woman work for your exclusivity, and if she doesn’t ask for it, unleash dread…” Make this one of your top dating commandm…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 10:48 AM
288	Play stupid games, win stupid prizes “I was a terrible husband, but I was a really good dad” - No! You obviously fucking weren’t! And now your newest child doesn’t have his mother. Congratulations, here’s your participation 🏆 You admitted you’d tried for an open marriage and when your wife refused, you acted as if anyway. You took advantage of a young naïve woman, alone in a foreign country, and under your subordination working as your low wage receptionist. You hoodwinked her into sex by presenting as her savior. After giving birt…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 12:38 AM
51	The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨ Until he realizes “the alternative” he left his wife for is an undercover sugar baby whose 18 year old boyfriend has an actual working dick 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 12:25 AM
22	The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨ And likely has numerous young bucks chasing after her. Poor sad Mr Limpity Dick 😢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 12:14 AM
34	You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away. Time. A love bomber will rush you into a whirlwind “relationship”. Because they’re insincere pretenders, they’ll fade away if you slow them down and make them wait. Like all men, their primary goal is sex. However, a sincere man will wait (how long? Virtually forever if he’s in love). He’ll care about your comfort and go at your pace. Men who love bomb fall into 2 categories: romantic, idealistic Casanovas: these guys get infatuated fast. Like all love bombers, he’ll make you feel special, but h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 10:53 PM
9	Porn ruins men Yeah, I noticed how he tattled on himself with that little gem right after he gave us the “I’m a good boy” bit about being above cheating. So much nice guy rage behind the mask. He’s angry he’s not still 18, and bending women over his motorcycle. He’s not looking for advice. He’s looking for permission.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 12:25 AM
3	Porn ruins men I’ll bet they all faked it just to shut him up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 12:19 AM
3	Porn ruins men And who changes cars from a stick to automatic just in case he gets a blowie while driving?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 12:16 AM
113	Sigh. Ladies, tell me what you think. If they knew what they were doing, they’d know that orgasm causes an even bigger release of oxytocin in women, strengthening the bonding process. Women in happy relationships orgasm much more than women do in hookups. Because their partners care? Because they ask for what they want? Yes and yes. Women who are into hookups KnOw exactly what they’re doing: they love getting dick, but don’t orgasm with these men cause they DoN’t WaNt to bond with them. What an ego that bottom fool has thinking that…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 05:59 AM
259	How to avoid a situationship? Best advice ever. If you want AnYtHiNg from a man - relationships, resources, help, or even if you’re only wanting great sex, don’t sleep with him! Seduce him into falling in love and he’ll give you everything without you asking for anything. Love is different for men. When they fall in love, they’re sunk! It’s hard to believe unless you’ve experienced it. Be fearless and confident in your value, and never sleep with a man hoping he’ll fall in love - it will backfire. People always assume you’re…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 02:10 AM
2	Liberal feminism at its best Sex posi-“anything goes” current libfem mentality: the cumulative result of 60+ years of the patriarchy hijacking the feminist narrative and manipulating society into adopting the male mating strategy as the “norm”, while devaluing and nullifying the traditional female mating strategy, and ignoring female sexual biology - except as it benefits men. Strategies serving the male mating agenda are disadvantageous to women and endanger all females. Marketed as being superior to traditional female mat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 06:01 AM
4	Liberal feminism at its best Men are doing much worse than sharing nudes with their buddies! I’ve written about this before, but don’t think women realize the scope of the depravity of this type of LVM They’re turning women into free escorts by refusing to date unless they get sex up front. Women looking for LTR’s are coerced into rushed sex under false pretenses and then…ghosted. Or worse…plated. Women always ask me, “Why did he ghost after sex? He said he was looking for a relationship…” Now you know. The “tell” is the gh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 04:17 AM
21	She Needed FDS a Long Time Ago She’s enabling for sure, however, mothers are not responsible for the behaviors of adult men. Fathers, older brothers, and male peers have much more influence on boys - something conveniently overlooked by the patriarchy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/22 12:55 AM
50	I’m still confused as to why some guys still expect us to put out on the first date or do casual hookups. This is why we don’t. Shit like this isn’t fun for us Casual “coerced” sex is a thing for 2 reasons: Single men are getting most of their sexual needs met from online sex workers: porn, OnlyFans, cam girls, and now OLD is being used for free prostitution services because: There’s a movement to boycott dating, which is seen as a scam - a waste of time/money with no guarantee of getting laid. Not giving it up on the first date is considered “withholding sex”, so they’re “withholding relationships” and demanding sex up front. Male entitlement on stero…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/22 04:21 AM
11	"I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage" Men are the world’s most apex predators. They are dangerous by nature. Humans wouldn’t have survived otherwise. Like you said, awareness is key. What makes men dangerous also makes them great protectors.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/22 12:35 AM
1	Is there a cure for pornsickness? The good news is that even TRP has had to acknowledge that porn harms a man’s sexual performance, so lots of guys are giving it up or at least limiting it. Since performance is so important to men that they’re willing to give up porn and wanking, let’s weaponize what motivates them! Once again, from the 48 laws (because RP men use this book as their bible), and as unsavory as it is, for the benefit of all, let’s use whatever the hell works! Law 13: When Asking For Help, Appeal To People’s Self-I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 04:39 AM
0	Is there a cure for pornsickness? You are spot on! TRP tells men to spin plates and avoid any LTR until age 30, and then wife up an 18 year old virgin.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 03:53 AM
3	Men discuss heartache on Reddit’s relationship forum more than women, study finds… but we’re the ones who are missing out. Suuuure. There’s men online trading nude photos of their wives and girlfriends with strangers like trading sports cards. Most of the women have no idea. And the men don’t even know each other. They also secretly take photos, so even if you never send nudes to men (please don’t!), photos of your naked body may be online. They could decide to be better men when caught out, but no, they just devise even more depraved ways to try and get the upper hand. Dominance over the female through sexual exploitation =…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 02:16 AM
5	Men discuss heartache on Reddit’s relationship forum more than women, study finds… but we’re the ones who are missing out. Suuuure. If his mother couldn’t get him to clean his room, what chance do you have?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 02:04 AM
9	Men Double Texting This bullshit is why I don’t do OLD, and except for logistics, I don’t text with men. They must call me on the phone or we won’t ever be talking, much less fucking. Having this standard weeds out low effort men and reveals manipulative men. If his interest is high enough, he’ll man up and call. Save texting for when you’re in a relationship, and show him by having high standards that a relationship with you is earned.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 09:05 AM
16	online vetting, a list Yoga classes (Gosh, why do they want us so bendy lol), dance classes, cooking classes, wine tastings, meetups. Pre-Covid they were hitting up community college classes. A guy mentioned that girls still in high school were taking college courses, and a discussion ensued on which states have lower ages of consent.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/22 05:15 AM
3	Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women. Men are strategists. In business, the military, sports, and in relationships. Their brain wiring makes them very good at playing games of strategy. Yes, women need to read the 48 laws. I’ve studied them for years, along with Robert Greene’s other books. I also highly recommend Sun Tsu’s The Art Of War. The 48 laws are amoral. And many are a function of the dark side of human nature. Morality aside, they do work. That’s why they’re called laws. You don’t have to use them, but be aware that they a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 07:51 AM
3	How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into you It’s actually incredibly easy to know the difference. You need do one thing only: Slow him down! That’s it. A man’s who’s really into you can get over-excited, and this will often come across as love bombing. Rushing to judgment, especially if you’ve been a victim of maliciousness, can cause a good but clueless guy to get tossed. With every new man, say this, “You’re so much fun! I’m happy we’re taking things slow and getting to know each other, because I’m not ready to rush into anything.” The …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 06:44 AM
107	Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women. “Desire often creates paradoxical effects: The more you want something, the more you chase after it, the more it eludes you. The more interest you show, the more you repel the object of your desire. This is because your interest is too strong-it makes people awkward, even fearful. Uncontrollable desire makes you seem weak, unworthy, pathetic. You need to turn YOUR back on what you want, show your contempt and disdain.” - Law 36: Disdain Things You Cannot Have from The 48 Laws of Power by Robert …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 04:43 AM
32	The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasy Cause these old guys grew up in an era when women didn’t make as much money or have as much education. They still live in the Stone Age and believe we need them for resources. The only thing I “need” a man for is dick, and good dick is a young man’s game. But hey, I’ll seduce an older guy for his resources. Use their biases against them. They believe we want them for their resources? Then make them right and take their fucking resources 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 10:35 PM
40	The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasy MILF and Mature are 2 of the most popular categories on pornhub, so liar liar pants on 🔥 to the geezers. Grandpas be chasing teen girls, but the young guys who still have a functional dick are getting off to older women 😆	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 10:27 PM
23	The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasy With technology, women can have babies in our sixties and even beyond if we’re healthy, so our age is fucking irreverent. Fact is men’s fertility peaks at 17 and by 30, it’s much harder to get a woman pregnant. If a 40 year old woman wants a baby, her best chance is the sperm of a very young man. Sorry men, but nature designed women to mate with young guys for optimal offspring. Deal with it. The high miscarriage rate for women over 35 is a result of older men having damaged sperm more often tha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 10:14 PM
35	The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasy A very young guy on an RP forum questioned the “women hit the wall at 30” delusion saying that his observation is that women in their 30’s, 40’s, and even older still look hot and pull way more men than the men in those age groups. He was told, “Well, that’s only the pretty ones-they’re unicorns!”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 10:03 PM
60	They’re “not in a relationship” but “exclusive” after 6 months of dating 🚩🤡and it turns out he’s a creep and a liar Yes, while women often lie about our age because of sexist ageism, men do it to gain sexual access to much younger women. The biggest lie we’re told is that men chase youth because women become less attractive as we age. News flash: women seek youth also-we want virile men-and virility declines sharply after age 40. But men hate losing power, so they perpetuate the myth that aging = loss of beauty (but only for women, of course), thereby keeping all women insecure. The true reason they find olde…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 10:53 PM
33	Dating FDS tips I ask him nothing, because the questions you ask reveal your thinking. Instead, I pay close attention to the questions he asks me. Then I answer in breadcrumbs that arouse his curiosity, but give him no useful info. Getting to know me has to be earned, slowly over time. If you listen without judgment, he’ll tell you more than you need to know. What he freely chooses to disclose reveals his character, and what he doesn’t tell you is where the truth is buried.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 06:19 AM
38	Pretty Privilege is Real, But False and Fleeting. And not just in relationships. Complete strangers treat you like a doll, not a living woman. The worst is when men fall all over themselves for you right in front of their wives and girlfriends. But instead of glaring at their men, they’re glaring at you. Beauty has a mesmerizing effect on guys, but here’s the thing: we’re so used to their buffoonery that we see ThEm as objects. They throw money at you, you treat them as an atm. They not only allow, but ExPeCt you to treat them like trash, so yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 04:55 AM
77	Nah men, women are visual creatures too. Well, I’m not ashamed to admit that I do expect my man to look like a Calvin Klein model while sporting a 9 inch dick - but that’s just me lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 03:44 AM
2	So done with avoidant men. I love philosophy, but mostly, I’m an ardent student of seduction. I highly recommend The Seducer’s Diary if you’re interested in gaining insight into the male seducer’s mind.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 03:22 AM
6	Men's reactions to having their lies exposed Sure you meant to type “cheaters”, but calling these guys “Chesters” is fucking hilarious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 04:47 AM
35	Be careful ladies and especially young women Their value rocketing after 32 lol, yeah they wish. If I want a guy just for sex, I’m going for the young virile ones. And if I want to settle down with just one guy…oh wait, I don’t. Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 02:11 AM
49	Be careful ladies and especially young women Yes, and after reading about the men who trade pictures of their wives and girlfriends with other men online-often without the woman’s knowledge, I believe it’s a good idea to have a “no phone in the room” policy if there’s a chance your clothes may be coming off. It’s what escorts do, and seems wise considering what’s at stake. And just another good reason to make sure a man’s head over heels and cherishes you or is otherwise vetted if you’re looking only for sex, before getting naked with him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 02:01 AM
10	So done with avoidant men. “Once I accept their demands and fully concentrate on them, they go cold and ignore me”, oh my sister, you’ve just explained the problem and found your solution in that one sentence. A man has no right to demand anything from you. They can ask for the moon, but you decide what you give or don’t give. The rule of thumb is to only give as much as benefits you-this is not selfishness, it’s mating intelligence-always give less than he does. Men are givers. They’re wired to be providers-and that incl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 01:35 AM
33	So done with avoidant men. Playing hard to get is a calculated ploy to get the woman to chase. That diabolical tactic is taught along with the “men are the prize” bullshit and is straight out of the RP handbook. It’s literally PUA 101 and a GiGaNtIc 🚩	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 01:00 AM
15	So done with avoidant men. Checking his future plans is good, but manipulative men lie, so I wouldn’t ask him. I’d test him instead. It’s part of my vetting process.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:45 AM
2	So done with avoidant men. Well that means they’d have to take a good hard look at themselves. And that requires too much courage and grit for some people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:38 AM
2	So done with avoidant men. Agree-when there’s that mutual “rightness”, you’ll feel it. What you said about aloofness being there when there’s no spark is my experience also. I’d just posit that it’s when you have butterflies that the self-preservation skill of being aloof can help you slow down and avoid rash decisions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:29 AM
51	So done with avoidant men. Yes! This! When a man likes you, he’ll make things easier for you. You’ll know where you stand without him saying a word. Like my grandma says, “You can’t make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:20 AM
33	So done with avoidant men. A man’s distancing may also be in response to a woman’s behavior and vibe changing as the connection deepens. Often, we start out being carefree but once our bonding hormones are triggered (I don’t even kiss a guy until he’s vetted, cause oxytocin is a bitch in heat lol), we become invested too soon. Men take time to bond, even when strongly attracted to us. Go slow. If he’s for real, he’ll show himself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:16 AM
2	So done with avoidant men. Aloofness has a bad rap, but a measure of it is wise as it allows you the emotional distance to see the reality of the situation before being swept away by romantic/sexual feelings. Being aloof while maintaining warmth is a valuable skill, and tells men that while you are a warm person, you are also discerning and not easily manipulated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 12:02 AM
82	So done with avoidant men. 1000% correct: his interest needs to be high from the start. One of my favorite quotes: “If at first sight a girl does not make such a deep impression on a man that she awakens the ideal, then ordinarily the actuality is not especially desirable; but if she does, then no matter how experienced a person is he usually is rather overwhelmed.” —SØREN KIERKEGAARD, THE SEDUCER'S DIARY	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 11:46 PM
97	So done with avoidant men. Also, pay attention to your own attachment style: if you’re anxious, you’re likely attracting avoidant men. Men aren’t afraid of commitment per se; what they’re afraid of is committing to the wrong woman, so they will (usually unconsciously) test you ie push/pull. Learning the art of detachment will give you the emotional distance necessary to assess his availability and help you gain clarity in understanding your role in this dynamic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 11:40 PM
7	Tell me a pickme runs a page without telling me… If a man treats the mother of his child poorly, he’s a bad father. Motherhood is precious and men need to respect it even if they have issues with the woman. A guy who was trying to ask me out “joked” about hiring a hit man cause he wasn’t allowed to see his 2 y/o son. Fathers don’t lose rights unless they’ve done something bad. I didn’t stick around to find out what he’d done 🚩	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 08:49 PM
2	Dating During This Omicron Phase Take him at his word. And definitely date other men to avoid oneitis, which is a possibility if you keep thinking so much about this guy. If he’s testing you (maybe he’s had a clingy ex), he’ll sense your anxiety. Men are extremely sensitive to our energy. Seeing other guys will help guard against this vibe and keep him out of your head. Because that’s the birthplace of love: thoughts. Let him be the one thinking of you. If he’s for real, he’ll make the effort.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 11:20 AM
3	As funny as this sounds it's really hard to find men who actually like sex Women have higher sex drives overall than men. Ours is more consistent while theirs comes in spurts (pun intended lol). Just like they need rest between orgasms but we can go all night. It’s “manly” to act like he always wants it, even when he doesn’t. Just like we pretend we’re not dtf on the first date when we’d like nothing more than to fuck him on the table and skip dinner.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 07:43 AM
3	As funny as this sounds it's really hard to find men who actually like sex Porn takes away the performance anxiety all men have: he gets off without having to learn dating/seduction skills or worry about rejection. But the price is sexual dysfunction and loneliness. It’s hard not to feel angry when you go out looking gorgeous but 90% of guys can’t hold eye contact or get through a conversation without shaking in fear. Porn has paralyzed men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 06:54 AM
3	Man(27) gets 17 year old pregnant after one night stand and absolves any fault "she was drunk but she wasn't sLoPpy dRuNk" It’s about dominating you. By getting you to act against your own best interest (risking pregnancy, disease, pain) and submit to him, he exerts dominance over you. Because men have evolved to be marketing geniuses, they’ve managed to convince women that the male sex drive is so much greater and more necessary than ours, that this behavior is about the sex itself. It’s not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 04:42 AM
3	The Dangers Pick Mes Pose to FDS Women No, he wasn’t joking at all. What he was doing was testing her by baiting with a tidbit of the truth to see how she’d handle it. In order words: “How hard would it be to step out on this bitch and get away with it?” When her reaction was negative, he quickly backtracked and tried to make it into a joke. Classic sexual boundaries testing behavior.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 04:13 AM
2	Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now? Exactly! I think of men doing online dating the same as I think of men doing porn: they’re sitting around in their unwashed underwear whacking off to images of women they’d like to fuck, but aren’t doing anything that’s actually going to get them fucked. IRL men only for me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 03:59 AM
3	Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now? That’s what I was thinking, too, and that he’d expect her to buy him something like a whole new wardrobe, cause he lives out of his car.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 03:51 AM
2	Criticism & Men Defensiveness is the number one indicator that you’ll always have problems with this guy. Psychologist John Gottman calls these traits “The 4 horsemen of relationship apocalypse”: Defensiveness, Stonewalling (aka the silent treatment), Criticism (not the constructive type), and Contempt. Any one of these is a mega 🚩 Two or more, you’d better sleep with one eye open.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 02:52 AM
1	8 Signs of a Low Value Man They are professional actors. Some were so good looking that I lost focus on what was being said lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 02:27 AM
8	Pickmeisha Rehabilitation: First steps Standards/Expectations: I have only 3, because in order to feel these, all the necessary ingredients (trust, respect, etc ) will be there: Overwhelming mutual attraction and great sex. Proud to be with each other in every way. He’s willing and able to protect and provide. A dealbreaker is anything that sets off my internal alarms. It’s just that simple. When the fire alarm goes off, I don’t stay in the building trying to make sense of it, I run the hell away!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 11:04 PM
1	Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about. Social media is the number one tool men are using to gather information on women for the sole purpose of seduction. Then afterwards, they share your info with each other and laugh about it. Nothing you post on social media is private-nothing, no matter what controls you set. And once you post anything online, or through your phone, it’s there forever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 10:02 AM
1	Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about. It’s not about the sex. By “helping” other men score, what he’s actually doing is showing dominance. Men are competitive and by impressing other men, they gain status. The way they do this is by dominating women. We tend to think of domination as acting aggressively, but it’s really about motive. The sweetest guy can be dominating you without you realizing it until his agenda is revealed. Men are chameleons and ruthless with women. Like a magician’s slight of hand blinds you to the trickery, a c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 09:49 AM
12	Having a relationship start from a hook up is not the flex you think it is “I can think of no scenario in which immediately having sex with a guy benefits women” - In fact, you get so much more when you don’t have sex with a guy. It’s the AnTiCiPaTiOn of sex and the uncertainty of getting it that fuels desire. And it’s the chase that makes men vulnerable to falling hard for a woman. It’s why the PUA’s scream “don’t chase women” and their strategy is always sex first to make you bond and fall in love while they avoid the chase and the risk of falling for you. So remembe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 05:12 AM
20	Going for a man you think is below you, only to have it backfire. Has anyone else dealt with this? He better be hot as fuck - yes indeed! I’m so sick of the “women aren’t as visual as men and don’t care as much about looks as men do” bullshit. That myth comes from the old days when women were dependent on men and didn’t have the luxury of passing on the ugly but stable husband dude and holding out for the hottie.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 03:54 AM
33	'Body count': Do people count and what even matters? You are under no obligation to reveal your sexual status to a man - any man! Why do women feel we must be open and honest about every single damned thing? Especially since we’ll be judged according to his double standardized moral code. Unless you have a medical issue that could affect him, it’s none of his business. Write your own rules, and refuse to play by his. It’s a myth that a man can tell if a woman is a virgin. Even a doctor can’t tell with any certainty unless trauma is evident, and ev…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 08:57 PM
71	what happens when you initiafe contact even once And he was manipulative with his acting annoyed. He wanted to create dissonance in your mind so that you’d change your behavior. Whether consciously or not, guys have learned to manipulate women into compliance using guilt, shame, sympathy, and fear. When a guy triggers any of these feelings, it’s a gigantic 🚩	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 02:09 AM
16	what happens when you initiafe contact even once Yes! Men tend to see women as reflections of themselves ego-wise. Having high standards and consistently enforcing them makes you hard to get and therefore makes him “The Man”. How do you teach people to treat you with respect? It’s simple: Don’t tolerate disrespect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 02:03 AM
96	what happens when you initiafe contact even once His sudden annoyance after an otherwise positive date, plus his veto of meeting you with friends and instead offering you a Netflix date, validates his expectation of third date sex. Because that was his expectation, he interpreted you contacting him as proof that you wanted sex. Never ever “date down”. He’ll feel lucky for 2 seconds until his insecurities bubble up. Men believe that beautiful women who date below their league must have major flaws, otherwise she’d have options. And because she’…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 01:48 AM