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That’s not true. Divorces are always in women’s favor. So even if he left she would get half his assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:54 PM
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Ok then so women should be submissive and traditional with non-abusive and non cheating husbands right? Bulk of men today who weren’t abusive and don’t cheat got burned hard by their woman not being traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:23 PM
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Evolution is bullshit, and believing in it despite all the science is to lower and limit your intellect as well as success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:06 PM
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Your pessimistic self pity isn’t proof. Sorry, but unless you are physically deformed you can make yourself attractive and even then someone physically deformed could get cosmetic surgery. You have no one to blame but yourself, you want to be a single self putting guy because it excuses you go ahead, but don’t gaslight the rest of us because we ain’t buying it.
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:35 PM
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That’s a very racist comment, I’m not Indian but any race and any ethnicity can have attractive and unattractive people, being Indian doesn’t make someone ugly. Also, I’ve had women choose short guys over me, and I had more money, was taller and attractive.
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:27 PM
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Why are you looking for reasons to be ugly? Stop making excuses, unless you have a physical deformity you can be attractive, will it take effort and hard work? Yes, so don’t be lazy about it and look for pity, that’s borderline sadomasochistic
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:53 PM
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Nah, now you’re making excuses or just trolling. Dark complexion is more attractive to women, ever heard of the tall, dark and handsome moniker? Also no, being bald is attractive, take this from a guy with a head full of hair, many women like bald guys as long as they’re groomed, not balding unkempt, either made neat or shaved clean off. Stop with the BS excuses, anyone from any race or ethnicity can be attractive or unattractive.
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:48 PM
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Well the fact that you say he’s balding right there shows he doesn’t take care of his looks… balding? Shave the remaining hair which likely looks nasty off or make it look neat, if making it neat isn’t nice go bald. Being Indian he has a dark complexion so already an advantage.
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:44 PM
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No. You just completely ignored what I said, anyone can be attractive. Especially in 2022, make the adjustments and stop looking for pity. I was considered ugly in my teens and I corrected to, now I’m consider very good looking.
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:42 PM
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You can be tall and have a sharp jawline yet be ugly... you can be short without a sharp jawline and be good looking. Anyone can be good looking unless they have a physical deformity that requires extensive cosmetic surgery. There's no excuse, if you whine you're only looking for pity out of some sick desire for it.
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:30 PM
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Ok then… so you better do whatever it is to be good looking then, nobody better hear you whine about lacking good looks.
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:06 PM
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That’s my point, re read OP. I even said no one is perfect, but you cannot be imperfect in the fundamentals.
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:36 PM
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He has a girlfriend, you shouldn't engage.
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:57 PM
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I think it’s fear of being labeled creepy, as many women abused that term with men. Also due to fear of rejection.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:15 AM
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You can’t get a woman ready. I tried that when I was a simp for years, it doesn’t work. A woman who likes you is ready for you, they make it easy. All you do is hurt guys and turn them into Pepe Le Pew thinking they could get a woman to like them. Just like you know if you like a woman sexually, women know the same way.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:39 AM
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It’s gaslighting. No one could physically harm you through text messages. And if they were going to harass the woman in person, blocking them won’t stop them.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:26 AM
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So I can’t want sex from a romantic interest? I have to stay platonic with women only?
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:19 AM
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You can’t make a woman want to have sex with you just like you can’t make a guy want to have sex with a woman he isn’t attracted to. Either they want to or not, if they like you they’ll make it easy.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:12 AM
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If a woman makes a man wait very long she doesn’t value him highly sexually, especially if she didn’t wait with other men. I don’t want to be with a woman who’s sexual interest isn’t mutual. Her interest in me needs to match or exceed my sexual interest in her. Only those who feel entitled and/or are desperate will wait long. Women have the right to make a man wait, Men also have the right to leave if a woman makes them wait. Also I made the thread you speak you.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:39 PM
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No, when you’re in a romantic relationship you need to sexually value the person. Otherwise it’s platonic.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:28 PM
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It’s upsetting because they think they aren’t valued sexually and feel stringed along!so they move on.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:56 PM
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Huh? Who’s shaming women for making men wait? Women have every right to make a guy wait. Men have every right to not wait and instead move on to another woman. If you’re upset about that it’s because you feel entitled to that man.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:48 PM
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Sexual value is important for a relationship, if guy leaves after sex he wasn’t the one for you.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:46 PM
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Exact same happens to me. I want a woman who we are mutually sexually and romantically and idealistically perfect together.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:18 PM
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Signs are after 2-3 dates she still cuts you off at 3rd base. You should be having sex by the 1st or 2nd date if she really likes you and trusts you. 3 is pushing it, beyond 3 just move on.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:13 PM
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Yep, Toriguel forever!
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:47 PM
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Sex is not everything but you need to be with someone who’s sexual interest is mutual.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:47 PM
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Why not the consideration for other men she didn’t make wait?
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:21 PM
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Desperate is hanging around in hopes that she has sex with you because you feel entitled to it.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:54 PM
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No one’s crying, I’m simply not desperate to wait. You don’t want to have sex with me? I’ll just find someone else who is… don’t see why that upsets you…
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:50 PM
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Huh? You said I’m trying to dictate a woman’s body. I asked how? All I said is if that a woman makes me wait… I’m out. You don’t get to Dictate whether I choose to date someone nor my preferences.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:49 PM
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No I’m after personality, I just want a woman who has same level of interest sexually. Otherwise we would just be friends.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:48 PM
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When did I dictate what a woman should or shouldn’t do with their body?…
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:46 PM
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There is no pressuring women into sex, don’t lie and make unfounded assumptions If woman doesn’t reciprocate sexual interest I leave, sorry but I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t find me sexually attractive.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:45 PM
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Nah I don’t just want sex, but if you make me wait that shows me you don’t desire me that highly sexually. Especially if she didn’t make others wait.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:37 PM
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Okay then I don’t want a woman who doesn’t feel safe with me.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:35 PM
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Sex isn’t the most important aspect, I’m still leaving as that shows they think sex is the most important aspect. So that’s a bit of a projection in terms of who values sex more.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:34 PM
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Yeah they keep saying I’m entitled because I won’t commit to a woman who won’t have sex with me… so I just gotta be forced to stick with someone who’s sexual interest isn’t mutual?? Wouldn’t I be entitled if I stayed with expectations of sex? Me leaving shows I feel I’m not entitled to it, thus I’m out…
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:18 PM
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I’m not entitled to sex. I just want someone who wants to have sex with me as much as I want to with them. If interest doesn’t match then I’m out.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:15 PM
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No, I’m not entitled to sex, that’s why I leave if they’re unwilling to have sex with me. Only those willing to wait think they’re entitled, hence why they’re waiting and wasting their time.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:06 PM
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If you didn’t want to have sex with someone why would you marry them?
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:05 PM
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So making them wait is just bullshit then, especially when she didn’t make other men wait. If you have to take time to evaluate me before you decide if you want to have sex with me, I don’t want you. I want women who know what they want and want me… women who don’t have to evaluate and play games.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:04 PM
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Then why do those same women have sex so quickly with other men? Don’t gaslight anyone about safety. If it was about safety women wouldn’t have sex with a guy until they knew them for half a year to a year. Also who’s pressuring who? If a woman doesn’t want to have sex with me I walk away, I don’t want to force or pressure anyone.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:02 PM
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Then why do many of those same women not make other guys wait and have sex with them immediately? Don’t gaslight us about safety, if that’s the case then women would never have sex as you really don’t know if someone’s safe until months or even a year.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:01 PM
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Making someone wait for what? Waiting doesn’t make it more special.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:59 PM
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The term “gave it up” just means you Choose to engage in sex. Point is you made the guy wait for the engagement in sex meaning you didn’t desire if that highly, especially if on top of that you chose to engage in sex with men prior to him quicker, meaning you desire the new mate less than older mates. Either way it shows you don’t desire them highly and value them lower, why should a guy be with a woman who doesn’t want them? You can’t complain about guys being desperate then get upset that a gu…
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:51 PM
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*You’re Also who’s talking about tricking or pressuring women into having sex? If they don’t wanna have sex with me, don’t like me or want to make me wait I just leave.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:48 PM
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Oh yes that deals with morality. I thought you meant sex wait time only, while it shows lack of interest and value, it has nothing to do with morality.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:35 PM
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This has nothing to do with morality… not that serious.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:33 PM
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No, that’s not what makes a man upset, it’s that they don’t value them. And yes any man can do something about it… reject them and pursue another woman.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:43 PM
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To say you’re less physical with guys you really like shows there’s issues in how you conduct yourself with romantic partners. You’re supposed to be more physical with those you like, not less.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:39 PM
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It's not that you're a piece of ass. It's that you gave it up easy for other men, meaning you care less and are less sexually attracted to this guy. Answer this: Why should he continue pursuing you when you clearly aren't that sexually attracted to him?
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:32 PM
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In some cases certain men only want sex, they get a little upset and move on. However in most cases guys get really really upset and insulted for the reason I wrote in OP, it shows they value them less, especially if they know that same girl was willing to have sex more easily with another guy, shows they value them less.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:21 PM
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No it reeks of security, walking away when woman isn’t interested is strong and secure. Insecure is being desperate and staying in hopes that you get sex.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:15 PM
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Amen
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:14 PM
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I’m not entitled to it, that’s why I walk away. I don’t want a woman who doesn’t want me sexually or would gaslight me into thinking I was entitled to it.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:13 PM
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Eh if she says no to the kiss the first time, I'm not trying again. Not because I'm scared but because I don't want to be with a woman who rejects my kisses.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:31 PM
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Why you texting in lowercase? Phones automatically make every first word uppercase
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:02 PM
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I’m not gonna lie I gave both jokes upvotes, had me cracking.
/r/seduction04/06/22 07:04 PM
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Her being homeless is intimidating because it would be too obvious that I wanna have sex by offering to get hotel.(roommates)
/r/seduction04/06/22 07:00 PM
0

I try, but with the current climate I don’t wanna do something without consent. You say physical affection but how do I make it clear im sexually interested and escalate it to that level? Though honestly I don’t know if I wanna try as I’ve lost interest since it’s gone nowhere
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:31 PM
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You don’t do that.
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:20 PM
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How do I make it clear?
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:18 PM
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When did I say I just wanted to fuck her? Pursuing someone who doesn’t reciprocate sexual attraction is not only pointless, it’s creepy.
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:18 PM
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My thread is on why she’s giving me more attention and acting clingy cause I withdraw? Shouldn’t she have given it up when I was attempting to escalate?
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:39 PM
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She’s been homeless for at least 5 years.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:17 PM
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Homelessness is no problem for me, I look for a woman with a good personality and who is sexually attractive. It’s the lack of escalation that turns me off, I don’t care if it comes from a rich, poor, middle class woman, if we’re not intimate we’re just friends, and I’m not interested in female friends.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:16 PM
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Then I can’t be with her even if she is interested, I’m not interested in a woman who’s not interested in being physical with me. It is what it is, my problem is her being more excited and now giving me more attention after I started withdrawal.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:08 PM
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I’m gonna avoid her, but blocking her sounds too hard, I don’t want her confronting me in person about it. I’ve already lost interest, if she’s down for more then the door will be reopened, if not then zero contact
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:07 PM
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You’re implying that I would sexually assault her??
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:01 PM
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She does go to a shelter whenever she doesn’t stay at storage facility. She claims to have a job but I doubt it, I don’t wanna call her out on it out of respect. I offer her hotel stay, as a way to help and get closer, but she then says she has to do stuff “at the office”
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:59 PM
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No drugs, claims she has a job too. Stays at storage facility all day.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:51 PM
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I never gave her financial assistance. But you’re right I should cut her off completely, doesn’t escalate yet keeps seeking my attention. The problem is the more I distance myself, act cold or look annoyed, the more desperate she tries to get a banter or convo going. If she’s not gonna be intimate with me why is she wasting my time and not respecting me?
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:39 PM
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So because she’s homeless that automatically means that she’s gonna like me? I think you’re trolling, just because she’s homeless doesn’t mean she’s easy, I treat her like I would any other woman.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:33 PM
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I can’t be interested in a woman if they’re in an unfortunate situation? I’m not like that, I’ll date a woman who’s rich, poor, middle class, whatever, as long as I’m attracted to her.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:21 PM
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A solid 8. I didn’t even know she was homeless until she told me.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:16 PM
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If she brings up needing to stay in area for packagesI’m offering for her to stay at a hotel with me, if she declines then I know it’s gonna be the same games and I won’t waste my time.
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:51 PM
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I didn’t orbit her, I always talk to and date multiple women. This woman is very attractive and we got along well, she’s made me lose interest though and now I talk to even more women, until eventually I find someone who works for me. I’m not gonna be waiting around for this chick, either she’s down for escalating/sex or wasting my time.
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:49 PM
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Doesn’t matter if someone dates a woman 10 even 15 years their Junior. We’re talking late 40s/50s dating 18, 19 year olds and actively seek that age. That is predatory, has nothing to do with jealously, especially someone like me who prefers older women.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:19 PM
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I don’t believe in evolution, so don’t bother with that. The most optimal pick for a mate is the guy who has high social skill, neither the bad boy or “nice guy” have that. There’s no bad boy I’ve ever seen with an attractive woman, they usually date hit chicks, is it better than the simp not getting any? Yes, but is it to brag about? No. Neither are getting the high attractive woman, the idea that bad boys get hot chicks come from self loathing simps or so called “nice guys”, the actual alpha m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:59 PM
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Not true, I’m not a dick yet I pull in more women than nice guys and bad boys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:49 PM
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That right there is “nice guy” thinking. Neither the nice guy or bad boy gets the attractive girl, they usually get the less attractive women. Attractive women usually go out with assertive, same, respectful guys with boundaries. Not weak simps like the nice guys, not insecure belligerent “bad boys”. If you think otherwise you need to go outside. I attract women by being myself fearlessly. This usually intimidates “nice guys” because no nice tactics can counteract my genuine personality and it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:57 PM
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Not at all jealous, attractive women don’t usually date bad boys, the less or unattractive do. I’m neither the bad boy or the nice guy, I’m just a good looking guy with boundaries. I was just responding to the excuse, which was gaslighting to me. Just like a so called nice guy acting nice to get laid or saying they care about the bad girl when we all know they just want them for sex and feel like they won’t get it elsewhere. I call out any BS I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:30 PM
1

Haven’t been 16 in decades
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:18 PM
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That requires fixing, if not then the idea that they can fix the bad boy goes out the window too. By virtue the guy who’s desperate, lonely etc should get priority help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:12 PM
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Yes they do, they’re lonely, that requires more fixing that can be provided by a woman then the bad boy who chooses to behave a certain way, which no woman will fix. So it’s gaslighting, there’s no debating this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:02 PM
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That’s exactly my point, it’s gaslighting, she isn’t trying to fix/help them despite their claims because if she wanted to fix anyone wouldn’t she fix the lonely nice guy who needs twice the fixing/help?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:59 PM
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No, the attractive women will ditch the bad boy as soon as she finds out he’s a bad boy, they have options in more attractive and nice men. The only ones who date and stay with the bad boys are the less attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:58 PM
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Bad comparison, captain save a ho was attracted to the ho because of her physical attractiveness not her personality, he wants to save her because he wants her exclusively and they feel she’s the only woman they can get sex from, if they felt they had options they wouldn’t even try. The woman trying to “fix” the bad boy is actually attracted to his bad boy personality, so the excuse of wanting to fix him is so they don’t look bad, it’s gaslighting, if they wanted to fix someone and help someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:56 PM
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True, you won’t see many attractive women with the bad boys. Bad boys aren’t that attractive, they just have are usually more attractive than the girls they get, and the girls that are with bad boys usually aren’t that attractive. Attractive women usually date guys who are both attractive and good, as they don’t have to settle for bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:50 PM
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This is the comment from another thread that inspired my thread. photo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:47 PM
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So they’re attracted to the bad boy and their excuse of “I wanted to help him” is gaslighting because if they wanted to help anyone, why not the lonely nice guy who needs the fixing/help more than the bad boy? Because they are attracted to that bad boy, so saying they were with them because they wanted to fix them and not because they were attracted to them is gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:42 PM
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Yeah but the difference is Niceguys aren’t attracted to the dysfunctional traits, they are attracted to non-person physical appearance. The women I’m talking about are attracted to the actual toxic personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:39 PM
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Sorry but I don’t buy this, because you thought the bad boys were in “pain”? What about the nice sweet guys you likely rejected for those bad boys who were in Greater pain that needed your help/fix more than the bad boy would? Makes no sense, typically women who like bad boys have issues but they are few, most women you will find are gold and stay away from bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:52 PM
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Ehh asking morning of is risky, they can say yes then change their mind last minute so you wasted your time.
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:55 PM
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Not laziness, just subverts risk. I don’t wanna encounter an Amber Heard type.
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:27 PM
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What constitutes creepy vs non-creepy when it comes to hitting on a woman? Since many non creepy guys hit on women too, if they’re doing something creepy it’s something beyond hitting on them then
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:13 PM
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