Mijoivana Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Takeaways from the docu series 'The Dating Project'	Discussion	Mijoivana	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:40 AM
1	Watch "The Dating Project Proves Why Men Are Going Their Own Way \| Women Prefer Hook Up Culture" on YouTube	Discussion	Mijoivana	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 11:34 PM
0	Psychology Today article on research findings On the women that initiate divorce	Discussion	Mijoivana	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:15 AM

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0	Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her job You dont need to make it some character flaw with her when you just need to go on and stay in your lane. If this is going to be a sticking point, it is on you to sort that out with yourself. Go on and Date around your level. Dont come down on people with where they are economically. Especially a woman. There is a bevy of fine women who say they cant find enough high earners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 03:58 AM
0	Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover? What we talking about. The general consensus amongst men is that is the natural order of things. Mothers priority is to her children. Any man complaining about that sounds like a loser or the type that would get the types who abandon their children for a man. Cause that's a thing too. Those people are the bottom barrel and deserve each other. In 2024,single mothers are for funzy only. She come swing by when she text you cause she needs some loving too. And she fine, so we can get it in. But she'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 05:34 PM
1	All is fair in love and war - Border Crisis That was just an Internet content trend. And Its online rhetoric of the goofy weirdos who just talk online. The people that have the ability to travel abroad will either have their wits or they just end up getting themselves hurt. People have always sought out a different life abroad. I've been preparing for 15 years now, cause when I go for it I'm set on making it the landing stick. For my own life enjoyment itself. Not women though. 🇯🇵 🛫	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/24 04:04 AM
3	Male surplus is a problem The biggest threat is not incels, lol. It is already the robbers and thieves that escalate to random violence in their acts. Around late teens to mid 20s are peak mayhem. The last couple of years and they've notably gotten younger in the US. But that's beside the point, They all Dgaf in the current state of things and push and prod their boundaries and are getting more and more abrasive. We high tailed it outta Oakland. They just shut down In n' out for safety. Squatters have taken over a multi …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 02:44 PM
1	Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much? Naw I did. In response to You speaking in terms of elsewhere or what have you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/24 03:39 PM
3	Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much? You are literally disregarding his statement to the fact that in the US there is no singular cultural values and beliefs. You are going into the extremes with hypothetical scenarios. The US is a hostile environment for employees the labor laws are ass. And childcare is super expensive. Coming out of the pandemic, A lot of mothers pointed out that their earnings were just going toward childcare and expenses for their job. People make their own sacrifices and are more resourceful than a lot of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/24 03:09 PM
1	Why is Dating Supposed to be a Meritocracy? We are at the dawn of the digital era timeline. This got warped with the use of the dating apps and depending on just those as the the only social avenues for your dating pool that is available to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 08:25 AM
1	Why go on dates if he's not attractive ? And social bred narcissism traits and in large amounts	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 12:31 PM
2	What is the main reason men are single 2023 We're not existing as a monolith. And guys can want relationships and after so long just move on as living a life where that is not their sole focus and priority. They're the pursuers, women are not going to. You'd have to get back to how we used to live a life that puts you in social circles with people that will align with your values. This then branched off into varying degrees of your social circles and networks of family friends, people you came across and built a rapport with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 04:47 PM
3	90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypes Its the attention and validation seeking that's a real thing that can become a serious issue with some women. Not all mature and grow out from that. You can see the difference women who's posts are genuinely just sharing moments of them sharing a moment in time they wanted to share with the friends and family that follow them. Versus women's pages that have ulterior motives. If it's not for business and actually making monetary gains from your platforms. Some of us genuinely get nothing from soc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 09:06 AM
1	You should "choose better" aswell That's part of why we're here, they've kinda always been in the middle of us men and women as we engage with our angry guys of purple pill and Igor is their spirit animal. Its good for them to be engaged with us who and question their perhaps misguided ideas or misplaced frustrations. I tend to start getting too Igor as I'm isolated last couple years. Purple pills the neutral ground to engage with opposing views because the R pill got completely nuked out of reddit hence my Edit of words. This i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 03:06 AM
1	Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about? By what metric are we rating their unattractiveness? Their own lives experiences and then self critique in comparison to their peers whom ganer more and or allot of attention? If she's a cold and down to earth person,she is capable of being like a mother to a flame. But the caveat is she is receptive in kind. I approach with further interest when it's clear that she was or is. I have been the guy that went with the bigger sister to the one who had to have all the attention and got it. But she wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 02:51 PM
2	Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of? Oh my bad,I got lost in the replies and it looked like you were agreeing to guy going on about that Simp life and lover of sluts up there, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:55 AM
5	Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of? Amber Heard is just most famous case study. Currently working on my dissertation on rise in narcissism in women of the western world. Most specifically the US. The have categorized it in the counseling fields as 'social media narcissism'. Issues of a troubled childhood and adolescence not worked on as they've grown up on social media, Skewing expectations to the realities of life and relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 06:59 PM
1	Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of? Cat_Lover you naughty little slut!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 06:47 PM
2	Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why? It's literally been found in data statistical samples that are drawn. That's why you cant put dating and relationship data statistics on a pedestal. There's always things that skew the data drawn, or bias confirmation to only look at certain demographics and then they are generalized. In this case, men consider and perceive being in a relationship as exclusive and monogamous. Womens perception is different. Any guy who's ever had the conversation "so what are we?" Shows us all this. You are not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 06:03 PM
1	There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? That's just the loudest never ending banter brigade that go on about it. Theres the unheard and unseen that don't give a crap, we just chilling and lost in any concept of nuance. Would rather stay single then deal mess with women were not super into and want a relationship with. Dating and seeking just to indulge in instant gratifying pleasures gets satiated if you lived a full life past your 20s before this current mess of a dating market.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 03:35 PM
1	There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? There's literally a new post that was above this one in my feed. Two chromosomes taking notice of the Facebook groups where you have to be a woman in the city for "Are we dating the same guy?" 🤣 There zeroing in on the chads and Tyrone's in the groups. One dude submitted a consulting asshole video from Cappy on YouTube recently. And could guys sweating if out in the comments about how they are going to come after him like some enemy of the state shit from the fembots or something, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 03:27 PM
1	There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? There's literally a new post that was above this one in my feed. Two chromosomes taking notice of the Facebook groups where you have to be a woman in the city for "Are we dating the same guy?" 🤣 There zeroing in on the chads and Tyrone's in the groups. One dude submitted a consulting asshole video from Cappy on YouTube recently. And could guys sweating if out in the comments about how they are going to come after him like some enemy of the state shit from the fembots or something, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 03:26 PM
3	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? I haven't stayed on the red pill platforms as we saw the young generation of our men discover the manosphere. It wasn't spoken from a place of empowerment. Everything was dearest mindsets and started being a drag and couldn't have any fun anymore, lolm	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 09:07 AM
2	Prediction - In the near future, porn tech will get exponentially better and might kill dating & relationships I got the synopsis for my 6 part HBO mini series: In a Dystopian future, Women have become infertile. Men testosterone levels have turned them into cuck soy boyz. And The next tech boom was to invest all human creativity and engineering into replacing each gender. The men built the most advanced AI in human history.As they felt this was as close as they could get the feeling, of a doll with a hole in it. The women have built their A.I. Adonis. A man who would submit to their every whim, who was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 08:54 AM
2	Why makes someone undateable? Shylin is that you girl? I mean you have options, but like you said. You just didn't like your choices. Atleast you keep it moving instead of wasting their time. The mental trap I put myself in was being in am LTR that, judging from the feedback of the current dating market is. Not many of the younger Generations are going to get to experience like we used in our early youth. A positive and influence to my life and elevated me as a person but requires humility. As most people think life is just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 11:40 PM
1	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever The data was pulled from woman who were voluntarily single and childless. Not the other demographics of women who admit to struggles in dating as well. And it's completely different life for people looking to always want a happy life and for themselves is fine. But then theres all these people out here in different cultures that live within the IS as well and it's not a debate of us not prioritizing our families. We look for people with our shared values and morals and in this darker world. Fulf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:28 PM
11	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever Finally someone is commenting on this as I don't see my experience represented or talked about in these spaces. It's crazy looking on this thread and everyone's got that very gender war BS at each other. With some sense of bitter resentment toward the opposite sex. I grew up in in southern California. Moved to rural suburbs and some years back. The sense of community and families all around. Conservative region but no politics come up, lowr crime rate. And huge population increase from people mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 03:57 PM
1	Are most men with women that they are not physically attracted to? OPs in the process of being officially diagnosed with autism so... they're social interpretations of their reality and people is a whole different thing. No ones telling anyone to date or be with people your not attracted to. I've found that Neuro-divergent people will kind of Cosplay/NPC in relationships with people. I'm good with roaming the earth in peace and solitude until I'm gone before I could ever be in a relationship with someone I don't truly care about. It's pathetic. The other person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 01:50 PM
3	Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not. Finally, Thank you. Love seeing someone had an aligned experience or feelings on meeting people. It's absurd people downing on people that they say they're not even trying to deal with anyways so they come off as an obtuse ass hat. 'Eww, these women are ran through.' She ain't trying to break you off a piece to begin with, so what are we doing besides cope, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/22 04:02 AM
4	Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why? Your seeing what it looks like when now two entire generations social lives who's time has been spent soley on the internet. That's a first in history. We don't know what the consequences of that are for the emotional, social learning, maturing & necessary growth in order to operate better in healthy relationships. You lose that when meeting people in person and amongst your social circles in dating went entirely focused on OLD for people. We now spend more time doing talk dates and arguing with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 10:02 AM
2	Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why? Get offline more. I still have not come across anyone who says aloud alpha, beta and rates themselves at the highest markers in regards to a pole number.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 09:53 AM
2	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. I read that Just fine btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 01:23 AM
4	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. It's changes as you age. I had an entire friends sitcom group of us from teens into our early 20s. And everyone starts having different lifestyles and growing their own families. If I made friends with a girl who's in a relationship, any insecurities from her man. And it's problems. I can be friend s with girls that are like a sister buddy to me plenty. But not a girl in really into and am aware of my emotional interest right up front. But as I am older, I'm looking for wifey out here and not ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 01:17 AM
4	CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't. "Now accepting simp applications" 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 05:14 PM
6	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. But then your only hearing from the ones that do all that. So say I went mgtow years ago and just chilling doing my own thang and never labeled myself that. But here I am. What up. Alright now. I'm gonna go my own way again and off the grid. :End correspondence	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 07:18 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yup, eventually you have to choose to emotionally move on and can come and peek a classic channel here and there. But same dudes in comments sections regurgitating the same shit or dudes be speaking from a place of fear with women. And i refuse to lock myself into the limiting mental models. I'm just prepared to act accordingly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 07:47 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Backstreet Boys have the classics that are still some bangers. Quit playing games with my heart on full blast baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 09:22 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread When we first started this sub it was me trying to challenge theses young incels and you can tell some of them are on the autism spectrum. And then we got blown up with a mix like no other subs offer. But I haven't seen the incel boys much out here anymore like we used to. Not all of them were the stereotype toxic ones. And it's good to engage without many different points of views we got in here so it challenged people's echo chambers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 09:20 PM
3	Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men). Fuck online dating. There's a greater contrast for overall needed comradety and friendship I've never heard of how many are going without these days out here. Because they're a giant part of becoming a more well rounded and joyful person. Your boys witl check you on your BS and keep you humbled when their you're real boy. Im an introvert gets thrown around so much I've found most of the time it's an easy cop out for shitty soft skills and laziness to go through the social schooling that keeps th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 03:11 AM
1	For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle? They're for me to enjoy especially the likes of right wing conservative women like Brett Copper. Aye dios Mamacita.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 04:28 AM
1	What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke? "Miss coastFI_chaser please come see me after class."	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 04:05 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Are people still super into it? That first season struck the nerve of the zeitgeist. Where that shit was everywhere because it was that fire of a show. But feel it kinda lost its wings after the not meh of season 2 being eh good. Kinda f the same story and then season 3 storylines having it's moments. Still classic. But it's Netflix hail Marys are nothing of note and every so often a hit show drops.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 01:56 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread "You cheated on me. When I specifically asked you not to."	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 01:43 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Y'all are tripping. I saw the gorgeous librarian at my local library had a Hufflepuff pin and closed in on my approach,lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 08:34 AM
5	The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractiveness If we're keeping it 💯 then. As a guy there's all the pretty good looking women a self respecting man would have sex. And it ends there at lost nut clarity. So I'd be under the the best sex I've ever had, what is the Vagine spell and your in lust. But it in fact does have a dropoff point. To quote Eddie in coming to america "I want a woman who stimulates my mind as well as my loins."	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 06:48 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Gawed you two with this back and forth banter on every thread is our subs version of pam and Jim,lmao 🤣. I love it 😎	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 10:11 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'm more concerned on the content of a persons character and of shawty is into me as well then my race. However I appreciate and love my culture and so a woman of my heritage has intrinsic qualities I adore and admire. I'm Hispanic and am not bilingual and so not being fluent in Spanish has and does hurt me when am engaging with my Spanish speaking ladies. They tend to not like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 05:14 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well my ethnicity is also including my culture and everything I love about my Hispanic heritage. They radiate to me from a woman so I'm more attracted to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 03:54 AM
31	are women not as attractive ? Your attracted to what your attracted to dude. It's ok if your not attracted to women and trying to go through the thoughts about it in your head and sharing with us on here about it. But some of the most beautiful women I've see and known did not wear make up or need any for that matter. Happy pride month everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 07:02 AM
1	The One Standard That Fixes Modern Dating Excuse me but Such a babe, speaks with such passion and intellect.. Moving on, so It's a choice to be your authentic self in regards to relationships with others. You can grow out of it or stay loving in some realm. I don't want every woman, I want a woman who is for me. I've developed myself to get what I want and need by being honest. Wether i win some and I lose some. It's trying to not come from a place of lack and scarcity when I look at relationships and marriage. Im crashing and burning o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/22 11:25 AM
3	The One Standard That Fixes Modern Dating But then why is the feedback from the loudest women who share about their grievances with men. All the men are trash and fuccboi rhetoric is never linked to a certain stereotype of a dude by those women. But then those women are a stereotype of themselves as well sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/22 11:04 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yoo, this friend is super sus	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 04:32 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I still never been on over there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 05:34 AM
1	What are some dating hills that you will die on? Oh Jesus,lmao. Wtf with this comment sounds way off. So woman are just always left to be taken taken advantage of and some naive RP archetypes that have no discernment of their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 10:41 PM
2	Sex In LTRs Mega-Thread Right,I feel you on this sentiment, with all my interactions with red pill has existed only within online spaces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 01:25 AM
0	Sex In LTRs Mega-Thread Ok either way. So I'm wondering cause of your title caption or what you call it. Would a potential therefore be preferably blue pill of sorts? Or I kind don't know what people mean with blue?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 01:02 AM
2	Sex In LTRs Mega-Thread It's been nice when the woman goes gggrrr when I bent over in front of her and she pounced on me like the lioness she is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 12:58 AM
0	Sex In LTRs Mega-Thread Hey Jan. You got a blue pill husband yeah?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 12:55 AM
6	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. The older you get the easier it should be to vet people and can tell if you want to continue seeing a person beyond even the date has ended. Not everyone out here is a potential narcissist with emotional issues. Seeing everyone as a potential sociopath says mode on you than people in healthy relationships. That's across the board, there's sociopathic manipulators out here too, Ala Jada. I don't have the time nor energy to multi date, that is all just rationalizing relationships that can often be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 10:19 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh most def, I just ain't got the time for any of that from people so I just disengage. And the older I get the less I am concerned at wether or not I have all these very American centric obsessed to status markers that get hammered into conditioning us into believing into what makes someone some sort of productive value than worthy of love or something. Unplugging and taking the red pill is so much more than just the dating culture and the dynamics of men and women..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 12:40 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I have been finding women behaving in this manner alot as of late. It left me feeling as of, not even being seen, you know. I was wondering if it was most especially prevalent because of my location being in Utah. I mean I know they're not all like this, so why it's frustrating having had an LTR that was nothing but the best thing that's ever happened to me and changed my life for the better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 09:51 PM
3	Quesiton for Older Members: What changes have you observed in the dating market; has it gotten better or worse; and what solutions do you have? Oh forsure, but if it was off of OLD I wasn't going on dates with strangers. It was already established relationships within social circles and friends groups is how people would meet each other and even have someone give a reference for a homie. But I also am attracted to the person more over than just the physical attributes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 12:44 AM
3	Quesiton for Older Members: What changes have you observed in the dating market; has it gotten better or worse; and what solutions do you have? I known and had conversations with one of the site engineers for one of the dating apps. I will definitely say that I do not want a third party website being in control to wether or not am I getting an authentic experience based on what I tell the search preference I am looking for? Or being swayed and geared toward what some 3rd entity who's best interest is to keep me on there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 12:31 AM
3	Quesiton for Older Members: What changes have you observed in the dating market; has it gotten better or worse; and what solutions do you have? I don't know, to be fair. Where were at now? The it was actually a good era. I enjoyed not having to constantly be kept up on the worries of the world. And yes if you had to get out of the house and learn how to socialize to be able to date and meet the opposite sex. That's what separated those who were willing to overcome failures, rejection over and over again and became a more well rounded person. You met and got to know the person more or less who you dated. It wasn't just mass of strangers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 10:58 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread People wanting to feel special without having to do something of significance that makes that person special and the labels of gender, sexual orientation and mental or emotional disorder is their entire identity. And the levels to which people self diagnose is disturbing & insulting to the people who are professionally diagnosed and suffer with the shame that can come with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 05:08 PM
3	Statistically speaking: Getting married is financially reckless for wealthy men Well wealthy couples stay intact and the wealthy know brokerage their generational wealth as well so they keep their shit intact. Both sides have high risk to lose alot, they most likely to have shit signed that probably very good attorneys helped put together for them so that whoever of wealth is protected and they other is broken off a severance package. I do not count celebraties, they're in an entirely different world so I don't pay mind to how it goes down with them. But there's plenty data…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 04:10 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Significant other has been around for a long time as far as I can remember. But then of course it becomes an acronym on the internet,and with all the miriad of situations people got going on. So gives context for a post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 05:32 AM
6	One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some men Naw I appreciate this post. As it confirms and gives insight what's been talked about but don't see anyone think I'm with self awareness about it like that. For youngsters now who've only ever known a world with the internet and social media, I think it so overexposed you and has the ability to warp attraction and desire. Im just old enough in the pocket of coming of age when smartphones came out and social media. So I wasn't looking at all that thirsty all day. Only to what my life was exposed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 03:27 AM
1	Psychology Today article on research findings On the women that initiate divorce Of course they would be, most of their adult life was designed to take upon their roles in their professional careers. Or people allow themselves to confirm to societal norms. There's more single Americans today, then there's ever been since the days collections even started. Hold not done. Im jumping back and forth here. We look at the data and use this in regards to my profession and where to hear our focus on to yield best results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 05:20 AM
1	Psychology Today article on research findings On the women that initiate divorce Corrected, thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:48 AM
1	Psychology Today article on research findings On the women that initiate divorce Oh ok, sorry it's been a little contentious in here as of late. So in all the RP spaces to even just all the women driven dating relationship discussion platforms. The highest percentage of divorces in the US were intimated by women. This has always been hammered to oblivion. And any insights, shows how and why those people's values systems were not set up for marriages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:46 AM
2	Psychology Today article on research findings On the women that initiate divorce No my guy, that is your perception. I do not post this because I have any emotional investment toward this or that. I'm presenting results of research alot of people were probably asking for for a long time. It looks into what was it that set up the women who filed for divorce. It doesn't just allow them to blame it on well it was all the men's fault. It just looks at the facts of what were they going for and what is actually needed for a good partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:25 AM
2	Psychology Today article on research findings On the women that initiate divorce link to article. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/finding-new-home/202203/research-sheds-light-why-women-initiate-divorce	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 04:16 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No ones pushing anyone away, dudes that feel pushed away maybe just can't handle that smoke is what I see when you don't pander to the woe is me. Why Can't handle different perspectives, get frustrated with married women telling them their own opinions. What good is Awareness of we're not becoming better in awareness. We know the RP data, that is why we are here. They're not telling me things we don't already know. But the neverending defeatist mindset. The same dudes want to just excuse not wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 06:55 AM
1	Men Should Appreciate Hypergamy This is a very western views toward the modern dating market that we've built for ourselves here it seems. We continue it, by regurgitating the data. It doesn't mean that it's not still there, I just come to an understanding but it keeps dudes into this stick mindset that a person is always this and or that. I was born and raised here but my heritage and culture allows me to pull from other value systems and ideas that give me different perspectives. I say this in that it's weird in other parts …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 05:15 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread The point was for all the RP rhetoric to finally have a space where we challenge our ideas. I pull from all ends of self awareness, I'm not married to my perspectives. I want to tussle in the debate. I see I'm needed in here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 03:04 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oof, for a boring circle jerk of regurgitating data and statistics in attempts to rationalize why women in the west are not the princesses our 14 year old selves once fantasized or lead to believe they'd be? I mean I would ask myself first why do I feel this way in the first place dude. The entire point of this sub is to pull people out of their echoes Chambers that stunt actual growth. I want to contend and challenge each other's ideas. Not just agree with everything that reaffirms why it's suc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 02:50 AM
13	What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle? We should just keep the aspects that were set in place within the society perhaps for good reasons, like shared value systems that were actually working for us. As its very clear what we have been doing, it ain't working. Someone ls character, having a sense of duty, to be of service to ones family and loved ones therefore overall communities, is not to supposed to all about making you happy all the time. But on the other side actually give you more fullfilled and meaningful life. Their wanting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 07:10 PM
4	Takeaways from the docu series 'The Dating Project' Video reel from highlights daily. They present a topic and each clip is presented of the best scenes. The women speak for themselves. https://youtu.be/pqXPBR0trvk	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 06:09 AM
1	Takeaways from the docu series 'The Dating Project' No,no these are students in those college years. They're all over the place, so they're all over the place and contradicting feelings. Your still discovering or realizing these facets of where we're at nowadays. The professor is admitting that her preconceived notions of men and women were still operating how they used to. And men were adapting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 06:07 AM
4	Takeaways from the docu series 'The Dating Project' I thought it great this professor is giving them their homework that was a challenge. That every single one of them has to start engaging IRL to get the social approaching again. And the faces of the girls, 😆. So You want me to go up to Chad, but then that opens me up to him saying he's actually not attracted to me. Just how it plays itself out speaks for itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 06:00 AM
2	Takeaways from the docu series 'The Dating Project' Oh thank you, Editing for clarity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:50 AM
2	Takeaways from the docu series 'The Dating Project' There's a fascinating new video from highlights daily that was from the women's perspectives and you only hear from them. Link to video. https://youtu.be/pqXPBR0trvk	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:47 AM
1	Watch "The Dating Project Proves Why Men Are Going Their Own Way \| Women Prefer Hook Up Culture" on YouTube Highlights from the docu series 'The Dating Project', a university professor chronicling her research into the current dating market and her surprising findings. She gives her students a challenge to complete each week, one is everyone has to approach their crush. One of the girl students_" I was outgoing with my friend David but as soon as I'd see my crush,I was afraid to go up to him. What if he didn't like me. That was on me to have to find out now. But I found when I got to know him, I reali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 11:47 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread The optics has been everything in regards to western modern dating with most women. Wether they would openly admit it or not. Most women cannot entertain a guy who doesn't make the same or more than they do. They cannot respect him, we've seen this over and over it's solidified into the consciousness of American men. There's the exceptions of course. I'm not intimidated by high earning performing women, get after it booboo. But what are you about beyond the surface. You ain't got room for fruitf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 11:36 PM
4	How do average people succeed in dating if they don't have looks nor wealth? The arrogance to put upon assumptions into others personal relationships. The most intimate and nuanced of incredible cascading shades of grey of the black and white views we hold of the world. To know of it, to know that only going through your darkest times in your life and having someone who actually cares about you, stands by your side in your darkest hours. People change, we do not live as a static existence. We are fluid and therefore, we can come to know and experience love. To know what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 05:50 AM
10	How do average people succeed in dating if they don't have looks nor wealth? The internet lives in extremes, there are total sunsets of people you never see get talked about in these spaces, maybe because it doesn't fit the regurgitating narrative. The middle incomes and supposed lower class that I've just known as people ,are out raising their little families they forged,they ain't perfect but they got each other, makes the suffering of all the BS worth going through. Basic Average type dudes I grew up became a better man, as they each took upon the responsibility that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 07:07 PM
32	How do average people succeed in dating if they don't have looks nor wealth? Huh, it's funny how the people not focusing all their time and energy on those matters,.actually manage to find each other based on who they are and where they live out their lives without analysing it to death.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 12:59 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread This a real one out here	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 09:08 PM
1	Question to involuntary single men: have you ever been criticized or shamed for being single? Why do you interpret my statement like that? I don't put people on scales of I'm going up or down. Do you like the idea that if someone were to date you, they are dating down? Wether we like it or not, yes on the open dating market yes our socio economic level is going to determine our experience and options. As a man, I do not pander to my dudes. So yeah, I may be good looking but being broke I know I'm not gonna be a viable option to women out here so Im kinda stuck and that hurts bruh. But I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 03:20 PM
1	Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements? Yooo,lol. It was cool that shswty's taste is 90s throwback feminite rockers,lol. They were glam but they gonna be stealing yo girl too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 12:23 AM
13	Q4W What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements? Bruh, that is hilarious when someone asks the question & then repulsed & hate the answers, because it doesn't adhere to the typical RP rhetoric or something as it seems to come off atleast, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 10:39 PM
1	Question to involuntary single men: have you ever been criticized or shamed for being single? I appreciate you letting me get back to ya correctly my G. And that we can have a raport of back & forth like this. This is what this sub is for. I most especially want to challenge my youngsters ideas and ways of thinking out here. . Alot of dudes need to socialize in the first place and start building a social circle that would make them grown into a more well rounded person that would be more into getting exposed to say more women and friends than they otherwise would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:47 AM
1	Question to involuntary single men: have you ever been criticized or shamed for being single? What, not everyone's fat out here, is that all were seeing or can get to talk to us? Some dudes need to socially interact to get better at talking with girls. How fat is off putting? chubby, not super skinny? Can you see the person for who they are? Idk Im an outlier then because I'll rock it. And I love them big thighs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 03:59 AM
0	Question to involuntary single men: have you ever been criticized or shamed for being single? This is what I've been thinking what's up with so many my younger dudes out there. Wondering if also the internet generations expectations of women to all be some ridiculous IG models, they have been skewed from my social media and sites.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:11 AM
5	For all the people who say that modern dating is not hard at all for men It would be pointless regurgitating agreements on every thread. These married women are needed on this sub to have open discussion and challenge the young guys echoes Chambers because sausage fest gets old up in here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:40 AM
7	Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustrated Were at the dawn of the digital age. Let machines do all the jobs no one wants to do anyways. No one wins the rat race,and men easily adapt. We can be happy with very little, and all the rhetoric of shitting on men is wanting to force men to comply to their models of how we should live our lives. Yet women were free to go and find themselves being liberated. Women can go off and be happy then. It's not on us to make them happy, that's their responsibility now. My For us It's our turn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 08:32 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread That's crazy to me. Only someone who hasn't gotten to go down on a woman you had the crazy hots for and your like a kid at Christmas morning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 03:40 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hold up. Who TF said that in the first place, oh the person your seeing? Uh huh	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 03:33 PM
1	What are single/childless women past 40 really like? Are they really happy or not? Oh very good comment here, Perspective everyone need to keep in mind. It's all about wether or not people got to make the choice to be living in their outcomes they end up living in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 11:07 PM
1	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? No one literally cares,we each have our own lives to tend to. This life is too dang short to be worrying about what women are doing. Just create a better life for yourself should be top priority over always looking toward women to make it better type energy. You spend years wasting time doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:25 PM
2	Despite TRPers assuming that women are a hivemind in reality women have much more varied tastes than men Lmao, ok i wasn't alone on that then. I don't know if it was because I'm not Canadian.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 01:51 AM
3	Highest SMV Male Career There's been a doctor who would stop by the streams on one of the manosphere platforms and talk to us about what her marriage situation at home with her and her spouse as they had children and they prioritized her career cause she making that serious paper that would support them. Plus cause, shes a doctor,lol. It was good for us to hear because it broke us out of our echo chamber of only talking about certain types of men and women. That we make our choices and trade offs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 02:31 AM
2	Do we need each other? Your confirming your cognitive beliefs bias by applying in particular the feminist are saying the same. Yes, your listening to what confirms this. I am not married to my perspectives and try and push back from staying in the extremes. Because more often than not happy people, are just too busy living out their lives IRL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 07:47 PM
10	Do we need each other? It's when someone seems to continue to pay attention to what they say they don't want or need in their life. If they are their own island, then they would have carried on with themselves. Assuming a couple is fake yet they are strangers is us projecting our own perceptions on to others. It comes off as from an insecure place, if we assume they're all being fake then i can confirm that I'm not missing out on what I never had.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 07:04 PM
3	What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships? Yes I was wondering that, I want to dice deeper into then what can be correlated from that. However research articles will side note the data, stating that to they want to stay away from correlating statements that make generalized assumptions. As e each marriage has its own dynamics within them that create very uniques situations. One divorced redditor commented on a post, had said he had always been best friends with his ex wife and they were still really close. They were still living in the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 11:47 PM
2	What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships? Yes, this is open discussions and I want want people to recognize other perspectives that is not talked about online when it comes to dating and relationships in the west. More particularly in the states, the dating market is very bleak as of late. Most Especially as we are about to enter year 3 in a Pandi.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 08:56 PM
22	What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships? I don't care if you a women has a high body count. But through from what I gathered in my own lived experiences and as I looked at the data of statistics of high who are the most successful in LTR in their lives and marriages. Its people with low body counts. The women who were the most likely to become dissatisfied in their marriages and LTRs reported to have promiscuous past with high body counts. The number one reason for filing for divorce is the least the most vague none, that they were jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 07:50 PM
1	Losing weight only unlocks your potential physical attractiveness. It is not in itself the attractor. I went from 260lbs to 190lbs. I am 34 and in the best shape of my life and the oldest I've ever been. When I put it like that to myself m, it's crazy feeling good to me. It was for me, I needed discipline that was void on my life. To pull myself forward and was part of my inner self reflection and healing. Everything else came on the other side of that. The interactions with people changed, and I never had women look at me in these ways before, especially the types of women I catch looking over …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 07:20 AM
1	The female sexual strategy (hypergamy) cannot be understood without reference to the male sexual strategy (polygamy). The world and it's inhabitants are not back and white, for human relationships are unfold in grey areas of people personal lives. The internet seems to always live in the extremes, there's entire subset of men and women I've never seen discussed much if at all in those the Oscars that talk alot about these topics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 03:05 AM
2	What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship? But then they weren't the wholesome loving kind of men. They were unfortunately just the type that you have engaged with. Them we project onto other the colors of our experiences. And so this type of energy will continue to only attract more brokenness as healthy minded people can see that and often times is self prophetizing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 01:12 AM
1	Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father? I mean sure bro. But as a bro I got to keep it 💯 with ya and am a little weary that you'd want a total commitment upfront full tilt right out the gate. And I would need time to build that bromance connection with us two chads just tired in a weary world who come together to carry our asses on into the sunset and with some combined finances we can retire out this bitch hella quick. And you would need to just allow me to assert my parental authority with Jr. Is all. And your weekend Sanchas is yo …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 01:32 PM