MikeJamesReal1981 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasons He also banged average looking women most of the time.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 12:30 PM
1	alan rodger currie and david x on the proper approach. What part of socially intelligent calibrated opener / approach didn't you understand?	/r/seduction	24/12/24 12:13 PM
1	alan rodger currie and david x on the proper approach. Do you have a counter point? That's not an argument. Think about this "You can be direct-indirect and not cause ASD responses by using a little social intelligence in what you say, but subcommunicating powerfully with voice tone, physical presence, proximity to the girl etc." And contrast it with what Mode One advocates. Think about it. If you stick to Mode One, are you by definition going to turn off some girls who would be open to a more nuanced approach, by slavishly sticking to the Mode One …	/r/seduction	24/12/24 07:49 AM
1	alan rodger currie and david x on the proper approach. I've no interest in trying Mode One for the reasons I outlined. I developped my own system which is extremely effective and worked well for me and others. Plus I'm not a follower at all, and I trust my own intellect and intuition over other people's. Plus, as I say, his approach is literally retarded. It's anti-game.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 07:39 AM
53	Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasons This is drivel. For a start, the hotter girls in most civilised clubs are NOT drunk. This was true 10 years ago when I used to club regularly, and it's even more true now (zoomies hardly drink). There is some truth to relying on alcohol as a crutch, but throw in some daygame to get used to approaching sober to counteract this. Do both for best effects.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 07:32 AM
2	alan rodger currie and david x on the proper approach. ARC is a total clown, and his Mode One system is autistic bullshit. Go try and hit on a hot high self esteem girl with no finesse as Mode One advocates and see what happens. He's got no infields, no evidence. Slavishly sticking to one "system" is low IQ retardery. You can be direct-indirect and not cause ASD responses by using a little social intelligence in what you say, but subcommunicating powerfully with voice tone, physical presence, proximity to the girl etc. Think about it: what % of girl…	/r/seduction	24/12/24 07:30 AM
3	Day game / OLD game while traveling when you don’t know local language? Approach directly, state your intent. Learn a few phrases in said foreign tongue and bust them out with a wry smile, or deliberate mis-pronounciation. Girls think it's cute. Done!	/r/seduction	22/12/24 11:00 AM
1	Simple and effective answers to compliments "One does one's best" "I do try" "I know". Then change subject. That's all you need really.	/r/seduction	22/12/24 10:58 AM
2	Probable blunder needing advice It's done now, though it's probably nothing to worry about. If she responds well, organise a meet and escalate there. If she references the "flirty" text, just lol with plentiful emojis and say "I guess I got a little carried away with Christmas Spirit!" Then arrange the date. Not a serious issue I think.	/r/seduction	22/12/24 10:58 AM
6	I needa make a change asap Acknowledge It: Feeling lonely and horny is normal, but don’t dwell—use it as motivation to change. Get Active: Hit the gym or pick up a hobby. Physical activity boosts mood and confidence. Socialize with Purpose: Go to new places or events where you can meet people. Use dating apps strategically—don’t half-ass it. Replace Porn: Swap it with exercise or engaging content that keeps your mind off it. Even video games! Focus on Effort: Nothing happens without action—take small steps and build momen…	/r/seduction	20/12/24 05:18 AM
7	Where to find girls my age?? Shopping malls in local area Coffee shops And definitely clothing stores where young girls love to hang out.	/r/seduction	19/12/24 05:39 AM
2	Besides "clubs" or "bars" where are the most appropriate places to approach women? How would one go about it? Coffee shops High end clothing stores and health food stores. Larger the better. Direct street stops (this is an art form in itself) Some great cities (I lean mostly towards Eastern and Central Europe) Europe / UK Prague Warsaw Belgrade Zagreb London (avoid Oxford street and go to South Kensington) Southern Coast of Spain SE Asia Manila Cebu USA LA Austin Miami	/r/seduction	19/12/24 05:37 AM
4	Long eye contact when walking It depends on the conviction with which you deliver it and your subcommunications. The content of the words is largely irrelevant unless you say something truly retarded. If you got burned, you cannot extrapolate your individual bad experience to make judgements on the efficacy of a technique or mindset. I'd hazard a guess you came across as hesitant / nervous / unsure etc.	/r/seduction	17/12/24 02:19 PM
8	Gym game? He already said some of the women are giving him eye contact and approach invitations. Women don't do that if they are not receptive to an approach.	/r/seduction	17/12/24 12:59 PM
21	Long eye contact when walking Yes, hold the eye contact and give an acknowledgement that you're communicating: A little wink A smile A gesture Depending on your mood. Once you're within talking distance, get her to stop and you can just open with "Hey" or "I think we had a moment back there". Acknowledge the eye contact and it sets the tone for the interaction.	/r/seduction	17/12/24 12:58 PM
-1	are dating the same guy facebook groups Facebook groups are private and often have strict vetting processes to prevent fake accounts or infiltrators. That’s likely why you're having trouble joining, even with a new female profile. These groups prioritize security and community trust, which can make access tough for outsiders. If you’re genuinely concerned about your picture or name being shared in one of these groups, here are a few steps you can take: Ask a Trusted Female Friend: If you have a close friend who’s already part of one o…	/r/seduction	17/12/24 10:04 AM