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Thanks for your reply. I've actually read your book. It was very insightful. I especially loved the title, "How To Win Internet Pissing Contests Using Humble Brags".
/r/askMRP13/01/18 06:48 PM
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We both work. She's a morning person and gets up at 6.30am so she can get into the office early. I'm a night owl. My work is creative and the most creative time for me is between 10pm-1am. That's when the muse is at her strongest and I use that time to develop any creative projects / processes I'm working on. So I get up most days at 7.30am If most guys want to get up first in their household, then that's great for them. It's not for me.
/r/askMRP13/01/18 10:54 AM
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I read the book again yesterday. While I found some of it applicable to me, 95% of it isn't. I reckon you could apply 5% of the behaviours or traits in this book to most people - at least in part. If 95% of the bahaviours and traits apply, then you really are in the shit. The one thin I'm taking away from the book is the Breaking Free Activity No. 46. It's a good general list that pretty anybody would do well to keep in mind. Not just Nice Guys.
/r/askMRP13/01/18 10:49 AM
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Thanks for the replies - good to get a perspective on things. I obviously overthought this one and took the wrong decision / action. I've started reading NMMNG. I made the mistake last of thinking that - as not all of it applied to me - then none of it did. I'm reading it now from a totally different perspective. Never thought of myself as passive aggressive. Ugh. Gotta cut that shit out. Anyhow, thanks again. As usual, you've all made very valid points.
/r/askMRP12/01/18 04:15 PM
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I've been avoiding that book, thinking it didn't apply to me but you're not the first person to tell me to read & digest it. I won't ignore the advice a second time. Thanks.
/r/askMRP12/01/18 11:45 AM
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OK, thanks.
/r/askMRP12/01/18 11:16 AM
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What would you have done in this situation?
/r/askMRP12/01/18 11:11 AM
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You should NEVER let a woman dress you. Firstly, because if you do - she's being the mammy. Secondly, because most women have shit taste in men's clothes (in fact most women have shit taste in clothes, full stop), and thirdly, as man, you should know (or should learn to know) how to dress yourself.
/r/askMRP12/01/18 11:10 AM
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Don't go snooping on her internet history or tracking her on Google Maps - it could well reveal a load of stuff you don't know or even want to know about. Even if it doesn't, it's a very easy thing to become obsessed with and it will drive you nuts. I speak of this from experience. I went there once and will never go back again. Also, if she figures out or suspects that you are snooping on her, she'll see it as being weak & controlling behaviour.
/r/askMRP10/01/18 03:37 PM
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Humble brag.
/r/askMRP10/01/18 01:20 AM
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Ah.. now it makes perfect sense! Thanks for that. It's been bugging me for ages.
/r/askMRP09/01/18 11:57 AM
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OP: Why is your life so shit? What's wrong with you? OP: My life is brilliant. Look at how good it is. OP: My life used to be shit. Mental monkey table tennis, Round 1.
/r/askMRP09/01/18 10:59 AM
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WISNIFG Will do, thanks for the heads up.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 10:26 PM
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OK brothers... so, after a good night's sleep and an afternoon of sitting down and looking at this thread and my notes, I've decided on a plan of action for this month: Join a gym (did this on the way to the office) & go 3-4 times a week. Starting Monday.. I've booked a session with a trainer as I'm a clueless concentration camp skinny fuck. Read up on and learn how to pass shit tests. Read up on and learn how to develop frame Read up on and learn how to develop game Start dating my wife again. …
/r/askMRP06/01/18 04:38 PM
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I discovered the Red Pill very recently - I'd read a bit about it in Athol's book, had skimmed a few bits on the internet - Rollo, this forum, some other blogs. It never really hit me exactly what it was until I found Hunter's "Family Alpha" blogs. I found them very refreshing to read - direct, straight to the point, no fucking around. Then I listened to a podcast he links on his site. I love the way he talks - clear, confident, masculine, knows what he's at & knows what he want. He mentioned th…
/r/askMRP06/01/18 10:44 AM
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Brilliant post. I've read quite a bit about preselection. This visualisation really brings home exactly what it means. Thanks.
/r/askMRP06/01/18 10:24 AM
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TBH, it was a major monkey rattling around in my brain playing ping pong (love that expression) for a couple of weeks after the festival. But if she did, then I can hardly blame her. Either way, the whole thing has opened my eyes to the real world and I see things very differently now than I did 6 months ago. I haven't fully digested it all, still working my way through things but I'm 100% confident that in another 6 months time, I'll be a hell of a better man than I was 6 months ago. If she dec…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 10:37 PM
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It's possible that she did cheat on me - at the very least, she wanted to. If it happened, it happened. Nothing I can do about that now.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 10:15 PM
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I came on here thinking I'd get some kudos for the progress I've made so far. Instead, I've been told i look like I stepped out of a concentration camp, have no abundance mentality, am failing shit tests, am still stuck in her frame and that I let shit rattle around in my head like a bunch of fucking monkeys playing ping pong. I thought I would be greeted with some amount of respect for my gains, but instead of that I got a sharp kick to the balls and when I fell to the floor half of you jumped …
/r/askMRP05/01/18 09:43 PM
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I have No More Mr. Nice Guy.. but I only skimmed read it. I'll go back and give it a proper read. Will also have a read of "When I Say No I Feel Guilty." Thanks!
/r/askMRP05/01/18 08:15 PM
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OK, I have a question... My wife rang me this morning - she had car trouble and had to leave it in the garage. I said I'd pick her up at 5pm as she'd have no car. Packed the kids into the car & collected her. I was insulating the attic today and was a roll short, so I stopped off to get another roll. Decided to swing into McDonalds to treat the kids (and I was starving... been eating vegetarian the last two weeks). Anyhow, all was fine, she was chatting away about her day at work, I was fooling …
/r/askMRP05/01/18 08:09 PM
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My gaming and having fun have been crap of late. Really need to up the ante there.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 07:58 PM
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Love this analogy!
/r/askMRP05/01/18 07:49 PM
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:)
/r/askMRP05/01/18 06:52 PM
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All of this makes a lot of sense. Thanks for taking the time to reply. Well, thanks to everyone really... to be honest, the last 5 months since she dropped the bombshell have been a headfuck and an emotional heart fuck at times. Then at the same time, setting up & running a business, getting really shit advice at the start, then discovering Athol's books (major help) eating as many other books as I can in the rest of the time, reading the forums, taking up a boxing class, getting out and meeting…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 06:52 PM
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Thanks BPP.. I've only just discovered the idea of dread levels via your (really excellent podcasts) so I can't respond properly to this as yet. I aim to do a first read of your book this weekend and I'll post again with my thoughts after I've finished it.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 06:39 PM
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No, definitely want to put on more muscle on my top half - arms and chest. Six pack is on the hitlist too. But nothing extreme. Bigger arm & chest muscles, more defined & toned body, but without looking like a weightlifter. It's just not me, or who I want to be.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 04:31 PM
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I don't agree with this. Firstly because there's obviously a difference between what she says and what she does and secondly because cutting her out of my life entirely right now would definitely be going full Rambo. I know she says she's not attracted anymore but I still see signs of it from the way she looks at me and smiles at me to the way she opens up and talks to me. It definitely isn't what it used to be but it's definitely not gone either.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 04:20 PM
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Sorry, what I should have posted is that I said to her that I wasn't going back to being the person she stopped being attracted to. The beta house & child minder with no income and no life outside of the house or the family. I realise now that I'm still not the person I once was before that - otherwise she'd be still attracted to me - but I'm working my way towards that.. and hopefully an even better version of that.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 03:13 PM
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I spent the day yesterday listening to your podcasts. Great work!! Bought the book straight afterwards. On chapter 2 now. Loving it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 03:06 PM
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Hard to swallow this reply in one gulp. But you are 100% correct. Thanks for being so brutally honest.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 02:57 PM
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Thanks man. Really appreciate this. Can't believe I fucked up on the bedroom move. I haven't moved back since.. that was a month ago. Should I just move back in an say fuck it.. it's my bed, my house ? Definitely going to slow the roll as you say. I've been doing my own things and paying her little attention, having fun with her. I realise that although I'm heading in the right direction that I'm fucking up a lot on my path here and there... the books I've read have been brilliant but to get fee…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 02:54 PM
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Oh, wrong place. My bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 02:06 PM
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