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| 1 | Thought that her changing her last name was important to me but now I am not so sureI think you are almost correct, except it is actually the opposite...she is the one who wants to signal her supposed submissiveness, while not actually being that way. Whereas I believe my girlfriend plans to keep her last name to signal her own "independence" while actually being a complete non-feminist | /r/askMRP | 15/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Thought that her changing her last name was important to me but now I am not so sureMaybe, but it's more like a silly feminist thing...her mom kept her maiden name and taught her that name changing is bad her whole life. My point is that giving her a silly ideological victory doesn't matter in the long run, when she is the absolute opposite of a feminist in every other area. I used my friend's wife as an example because it defies the standard logic that changing their name is a symbol of "submitting" to their man. If my friend is any example, that couldn't be further from the t… | /r/askMRP | 14/09/21 08:49 PM |
| 7 | Thought that her changing her last name was important to me but now I am not so sureLmao | /r/askMRP | 14/09/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?Rich is an exaggeration. My dad made a half a million dollars this year by investing smartly and hitting his sales goals at his job. He has also been suffering in hostile work environments for 40 years. Now he's retiring. So it's important to put everything into perspective. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?I am going to talk to my uncle as soon as possible to see what he thinks. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?Well yeah bro that's what I did | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?Shouting obscenities at me in a very loud tone, banging metal wrenches against his hand as he berated me, looking like he wanted to bash my head in... | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?It's a long story but eventually I signed a sworn statement outlining his behavior and how I did not feel safe in the room with him. Despite the fact that my boss witnessed it, he wouldn't vouch for me because the coworker was his friend. My boss's boss said that it was "my word as a new employee against his". And that was that. I even had my uncle, a $900 an hour lawyer, write the statement for me. Trust me I tried my hardest. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?Yes, that is kind of how I see it already. My plan is to just not let this bother me at all. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?Okay, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 04:16 PM |
| -2 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?To be perfectly honest, as shitty as this sounds, my parents are rich and can support me until I find a new job. 3 months of unemployment don't matter to me. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 04:11 PM |
| -1 | Girlfriend's feminist mom is trying to convince her to break up with me when she goes to college, tells her I am too controlling, etc.Its not really a long distance relationship. We see each other every weekend and in the middle of the week and we are like over 60 miles away. She will actually be closer. Also she is not that hot. She is a 10/10 to me personally, but other guys probably have to squint a little to look at her. I have seen the type of guys who hit on her and nobody can compare to me. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 05:27 PM |
| 11 | Girlfriend's feminist mom is trying to convince her to break up with me when she goes to college, tells her I am too controlling, etc.Her dad is weird, he's a nice enough guy but definitely pussy whipped by the mom. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Those of you with girlfriends: what do you do with them, mid-week, during covid to keep things varied and interesting?Nice, that sounds just like me and my girl. We do big brother/little sister roleplay often and it's always fun. Again, me personally I am happy enough having sex and eating out every wednesday just worried that her dumbass female brain is going to get desensitized to it after a while. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 9 | Musician Phil Collins got Red Pilled the hard way, and made (what should be) the anthem for Red Pill men.I have never been cheated on (to my knowledge) or hurt really, but still I will never trust a woman. At the end of the day I can only trust myself and look out for my own best interests. I have just seen too much shit to go back. I'd rather be a stud muffin carpenter than a world renowned singer who gets turned into a schmuck by his wife. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/21 12:02 PM |
| 0 | A group of my friends acted weird around me all day on saturday and proceeded to not invite me to their dinner party that evening. What is the correct way to react to this social situation?So I should just be like, I missed you and everyone this weekend, what was that all about? Not in like a super aggressive way but just like a normal tone of voice. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | A group of my friends acted weird around me all day on saturday and proceeded to not invite me to their dinner party that evening. What is the correct way to react to this social situation?Should I really mention it though? I will see the guy who's apartment it was tonight because we have to meet to exchange a key to a local building we are using for something today. Not going to see diploma guy for another 3 weeks. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 2 | A group of my friends acted weird around me all day on saturday and proceeded to not invite me to their dinner party that evening. What is the correct way to react to this social situation?Yeah, I am serious. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | "There's no I in Threesome": A Movie ReviewWell said man. This story just made me cry on the inside. :( | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Plate/fwb of <2 years wants a relationship. I’d appreciate some good advice on vetting. This will be a bit long, I’ll do my best to space it out.Army national guard culture is more relationship based than hookup based. In my unit almost everyone is in a relationship and they talk about their spouses often. It does not surprise me that she wants a relationship because every time people ask her, how is your relationship going and she has to say "oh well we're not really official..." it's fucking embarrassing. Even the guys who fuck around instead of getting into a relationship are looked down upon. I can't advise you on anything else excep… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | How can I ever compete with guys who straight up rejected my girlfriend?Ok 👍 | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 3 | How can I ever compete with guys who straight up rejected my girlfriend?Wouldn't it stand to reason that girls with higher self esteem are worse because they know they have their pick of guys and don't need to stay with a guy (i e acting in abundance). | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | How can I ever compete with guys who straight up rejected my girlfriend?No she didn't really up her smv, if anything she feels fat due to the 5-10 pounds she gained during covid. If she did up her smv, like lost weight and got better at makeup or something, what would you have said? I know that true, natural chads like tom brady would never want my girl. But I am talking average guys who rejected her. I am confident but obviously it is eating at me a bit and that is why I posted here. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How can I ever compete with guys who straight up rejected my girlfriend?She has gained 5-10 pounds since being in a relationship with me and while she holds the weight in the right places, feels disgusting. She works in a retail business and seeing exactly the kind of guys who hit on her makes me feel I have nothing to worry about. But that's besides the point, if it is bad for me that she has low self esteem, but bad for it to improve, what exactly is good for the guy in the relationship? just having good self esteem from the start? | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | How can I ever compete with guys who straight up rejected my girlfriend?In terms of looks, she has exceptionally nice big tits and I have always loved tits more than anything else. her face looks very cute to me and I don't really care what other people think. She has nice long black hair etc...there is a long list of things I like about her physically. for sex she has a really high sex drive and is willing to have sex with me for multiple sessions every time we hang out. she has never rejected me once. I taught her how to give me good blowiobs and she swallows. she… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop failing shit tests where my girlfriend mentions us breaking upI just want you to know I took your advice, when she did it again last night I just said "those jokes are getting really tiresome". And then later in the night she made one more comment that was kind of like that and I said look, I am tired of you making jokes about us breaking up and my future girlfriends, it's callous and people who are in love don't talk like that. She said she was sorry and she wouldn't do it again. I also said I just want to enjoy our time together without talking about the… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop failing shit tests where my girlfriend mentions us breaking upTalking to her directly about how it bothers me goes against the red pill. If I tell her that it bothers me, that shows weakness. As far as she should be concerned, she can say any stupid "jokes" she wants and as long as it doesn't become true disrespect and I am happy in our relationship, I should just show strength and be unaffected by her stupidity. There are other ways to curtail a woman's behavior but I don't think telling her that I am bothered is appropriate. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 09:20 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop failing shit tests where my girlfriend mentions us breaking upI read her text messages, to see if she was taking me for a ride. Good news, my girlfriend is faithful, she does not message other guys, she says nice things about me to all her friends except for one. Her one best friend encourages her to break up with me. This is a friend who has a very weird personality and has never had a boyfriend, likely very jealous. I can't tell her to stop talking about our relationship with this friend, that would be insane. I am confident and well put together. I can … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop failing shit tests where my girlfriend mentions us breaking upIn all seriousness though I have no recourse here. All I can really do is fuck her as many times as humanly possible before it ends. And not react when she says stupid stuff. anything I say really will make me look weak! | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop failing shit tests where my girlfriend mentions us breaking upHow do I not get rattled by her. Somehow I have made great strides in being resilient in other parts of my life and am able to deal with extreme stress. But she just gets me sometimes | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How should I deal with my bitter, beta male coworker for the next 7 months until he retires?spent about 20 minutes taking a dump. It is pretty normal to do that at my workplace, weare pretty relaxed. As I said, my coworker then spent a solid 30-35 minutes in there right after me. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | How should I deal with my bitter, beta male coworker for the next 7 months until he retires?My boss is really cool and likes me. However he also likes my coworker, who sucks up to him all the time. Do you really think that it is a good idea to tattle on him to the boss? I took 2 hours of leave to go home early today because my coworker was making me feel extremely uncomfortable. I just said it was to prepare for tomorrow's snow storm. The worst thing I can imagine is my boss telling my coworker to be nicer to me...I don't see how a good outcome can possibly come out of that. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 10:25 PM |
| 7 | How should I deal with my bitter, beta male coworker for the next 7 months until he retires?unfortunately not a good plan, this is a great job and I will have a tenured position and my own shop when he retires. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsYep | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsThank you for the support brother | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsI am not sexually experienced enough to know if it is me. And she is not sexually experienced enough to know if it is her. So we are both in uncharted territory. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsYeah, this is my own insecurity in my own head. Like, my brain is telling me that her lack of partners means that she thinks that other guys would be able to give her an orgasm, because she hasn't dated enough guys to figure out that other guys wouldn't make a difference. I am telling you, I have a little too much caffeine and my mind goes wild. I literally just saw her at her work and ate lunch together and she seems like she is so happy with me. I was so happy to see her after not seeing her o… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsYeah my last "girlfriend" (who I only ever fucked a few times before we broke up) said she never had an orgasm at all before. And she had been with 2 guys already. But this girl I feel like she might have an unrealistic expectation of having orgasms with me because of being inexperienced. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsWhen we first started having sex it was so tight that I could barely get in there. I highly doubt that is the problem but if it is, not much I can do so thanks for the advice bro... | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsAlright I'll look into it | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsAlright | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsYeah me and her both agree that porn is bad and she definitely doesn't watch it. But I didn't know that it really worked like that with girls, you would think the more the masturbate the hornier they would be otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsYes, we do a lot of foreplay, sometimes I will kiss her and dry hump her for 30 minutes before we even take our clothes off and she has the best time after that. But still no orgasms. Honestly even when I stick it right in for a quicky she gets wet to the point of getting her stuff all over my crotch. never had a problem with that. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsIs that a good or bad thing? | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsshe fingers herself a lot of the time while we have sex which I thought was the normal thing for girls to do. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsShe says she masturbates every day and thinks about me. occasionally she has laid on top of me and does it. it was very jack hammer ish but it didn't occur to me that it would have any effect on sex. In fact we both thought that it was good if a girl masturbates because then they are hornier all the time and it's like a feedback loop (compared to guys masturbating which is always bad). She doesn't watch porn. She is down to fuck every time I see her no matter what. we have sex for hours and I co… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:07 PM |
| 26 | Which self-help book impacted your life the most?Just read it again lol | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 08:55 PM |
| 106 | Which self-help book impacted your life the most?How to win friends and influence people, it teaches you how to play the blue pill system and get ahead in a blue pill world. It turns out that “being alpha” is not the be all end all in social interactions. There is a lot of tact involved in getting blue polled people to like you. There’s a certain way that you have to talk to people, tell people what to do, ask favors of people, etc. really useful book, I re read it often. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Nobody is giving away million dollar adviceThe video is weird. They talk about "making money" and "putting money back into your business" in a really vague way. Like it's a video game. Or treadmill that prints 1000 dollars every hour you run on it. As someone who has worked in small organizations such as a pool cleaning business, it's hard to always make a good decision. How do you make the right call for how many ads to rent or how many bags of calcium to buy or which guy will be the best manager? The answer is: sometimes nobody knows. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/18 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Nobody is giving away million dollar adviceSorry you didn't like my post. I think what you just said adds to what I said, making it a productive discussion. Thanks for responding. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Whenever a discussion involves "Nature vs Nurture" why does it seem women mostly take the side of "Nurture"?Both men and women take the most feel good position on the debate. Bottom line, we don’t know, and it’s probably both. You can look at twin studies and there are many examples when they are extremely different from each other. And yet some other times, twins grow up separately and are remarkably similar. So it just depends. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Is there EVER a valid time to text when they haven't replied to your invitation?Well, I disagree. There's advice that you can give this guy other than "read the sidebar". | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 02:58 AM |
| 9 | Is there EVER a valid time to text when they haven't replied to your invitation?This is not real advice. "Be more alpha" is an obvious and pointless thing to say. You could also tell this guy to gain 20 pounds of muscle and earn 2 million dollars, that would help him get girls. But that is stupid and doesn't help him right now in any way. Questions like this are completely fine, guys should always have a good place to go to get advice from RP men. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Advice of how to produce attraction as a disabled personSeek out girls with a disability to match yours. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Can a short guy ever be in the top 20%Kevin Hart is 5’4” lol. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Can a short guy ever be in the top 20%Yes. I know this short guy who’s this celebrated jazz trumpet player in NYC. He’s the biggest douche I’ve ever met but he gets laid all the time. If you want to get girls, become extremely high status. Not interning, we’re talking VP of the company. Then you will have no problem getting laid. Right now, you’re fucked. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it beta to make self deprecating jokes?Exactly, along with making fun of myself I also make fun of other people. The issue is when people actually get insulted when I make a joke about them, after they just made a joke about me. They dish it out but they can't take it. So I'm going to work now and I'm going to not have people make fun of me. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it beta to make self deprecating jokes?That’s the thing, I feel like my sense of humor makes it so that when people actually try to shit on me for real and I say “don’t bust my balls” it has some weight. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 02:42 PM |
| 5 | [Premature Ejaculation] Help, i ejaculate 3 times before i even get my pants off and it destroys my confidence everytime im with womenWow, that is a serious addiction. I thought I was addicted spending 15 minutes every other day | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 11:18 PM |
| 2 | How to train girls to clean, cook, and tend to me?It’s stupid to look at people’s post history. Would you like me to read your old posts? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | How to train girls to clean, cook, and tend to me?This is stupid. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 04:17 AM |
| 7 | My gf could be smoking hot but has almost no skill in creating sex appeal, how can I encourage her to develop some?I would be okay with that situation. Makeup and expensive clothes are fucking dumb. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How should I deal with my verbally abusive parents?I would like to move out and deliver pizzas 40 hours a week, but my Jewish parents look down upon that like crazy. Same thing with plumbing, electric work, pretty much anything that interests me. They actually want to pay for more school for me so they can hang it over my head. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How can I establish a healthy frequency of sex in my relationship?Alright. I didn't know what to expect entering a relationship with a virgin. My previous experience with women has been with sluts so if we were hanging out, it was to have sex. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Is there a way to "snap out" of hardcore depression/personal inner crises?Ayahuasca is one that has more upsides since it does not want you to do it daily. I don't know if that was purposeful, but I got a kick out of it. That drug truly has a mind of its own. It wants to open up your mind. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/16 02:47 AM |
| 6 | are non closeted gays happier and less stressed out than straight men?Music major here. I have a lot of experience with this topic because in my field there are as many gay guys as straight guys. The main reason that gay guys act so differently is because of the different standards with which you they are judged. Because they are not trying to attract women, they don't have any incentive to hold frame and keep an even mood throughout the day. The men they are interested in will be choosing based on looks primarily (just like what straight guys look for in girls). … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 04:39 PM |
| 5 | [RP Theory] Is the RP in a second wave?Remember, it can take many years for a wimpy, skinny beta to accept that they will never find that perfect woman who will play Minecraft with them, cuddle after sex, and be someone who they can "open up to". Even after 3 years of TRP (21 now), I am still overcoming the injustice that I went through during my adolescence. Shit, I felt betrayed by my whole family for beta-shaming me my whole life. I was always the skinny, nerdy, sensitive guy, and it shattered my whole life to pieces when I realiz… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself. "What are you going to do about it?"Wow. Great post, thanks for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 01:47 AM |
| 2 | High School Feminist English Teacher's Writing Assignment on Feminism: Indoctrination or Education?This is a troll post. I did some internships as a teacher's assistant in highschool and the kids don't write like that. The "assignment sheet" and "essay" were clearly written by op. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Olympian leaves her husband and daughter to pursue a life of prostitution, and tingles, in Vegas.I'm sorry but this reeks of bullshit. Are you trying to tell me that having manic and depressive episodes makes you a liar? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Mineral deficiencies are extremely common in the 1st world. If you’ve never specifically examined or addressed this, you’re likely suffering and don’t even know it.For years. I'm not defeated, I've actually accepted the reality of my situation and stopped crying about it. All I can do now is play my cards as best I can. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR]: "It's not creepy if you're not ugly": from the belly of the beast itselfI kind of agree, so I'll offer you a more believable anecdote. I went to a party this past weekend at a beautiful girl's apartment. She invited many of her beautiful friends, and a bunch of guys, a couple of whom were beta as fuck. I got a lot of attention from all the girls there, which was very nice. I just showed up in nice clothes, sat around taking shots and smoking weed while pretending to listen to the people talking to me. I just gave off a good vibe and it was lots of fun. I noticed tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Mineral deficiencies are extremely common in the 1st world. If you’ve never specifically examined or addressed this, you’re likely suffering and don’t even know it.Sounds just like me. I have narcolepsy, low-t and depression. The only thing that gets me out of bed at this point is chugging coffee and running straight to the gym for a workout. So if you eat and exercise well and you still feel tired, congrats, you're fucked. Welcome to the club. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Anecdote of Girl Riding the Carousel and Having Her Beta Buxs tooEveryone goes to parties with the company of shitty "friends". Both guys and girls. For years I have been removing as many low quality people from my social circles and replacing them only with high quality people. Still, it's not like I can have a party with only high quality people, it's impossible. There has to be a mix. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 03:41 AM |
| 14 | I experienced what it's like to be a very attractive male. Or as I like to call it- My tinder experiment with a red pill twist.Interesting study. I hope that in the end, you were at least able to get some practice with having the right attitude when talking to women. Can we see a comparison between actual pictures of you and the pictures that you used on the fake profile? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 04:23 PM |
| 6 | What these girls did to a boy with autism is sick, and so is this feminist’s responseWe don't have to imagine it, we know what happens then. Remember the public reaction to the steubenville rape case? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 09:02 PM |
| 9 | The Red Pill Truth About So-Called Rape CultureWhat are lmr and smv | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 11:55 AM |
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