Mikeraplb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Cold approach is not seduction. Just because she gives you her number doesn’t mean she likes you or wants to see you again. As a guy who had 25 lays from my first 500 cold approaches, followed by 3 from my next 500 (and my looks didn't change, only my personality due to a head injury), I can tell you this is absolute nonsense. I used to believe it is all looks, but this data tells me the exact opposite.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 09:45 PM
2	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? The only way I cope with rejections is by looking back at my past lays / successes because that proves I'm not unattractive.	/r/seduction	11/11/21 10:21 AM
1	How do I get rid of the idea that I'm not good enough for women? Unfortunately in my experience the only way to get rid of a belief like this is by proving that you are good enough by, uh, getting women... I understand that's not what you want to hear, most likely. I used to have a lot of self-loathing & thought women detested me. The only way I was able to fix that was by improving my success with them & getting more dates & hookups, which gave my brain positive reference experiences to fall back on. When I used to get rejected it would crush me, but now tha…	/r/seduction	11/10/21 02:49 PM
1	Is daygame supposed to be this hard? OP, the question is too broad. Without knowing what you're saying to these girls, what you look like, your age, what your vibe is like, how you do the approach etc, it's impossible to answer this. You've left out key details. 2 numbers out of 25 approaches is pretty poor. I number close 1 in 3 & that's pretty normal for anyone who does daygame consistently. So no it's not supposed to be this hard. It's something you're doing / a way you're acting which is giving you these results.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 11:25 AM
2	Is daygame supposed to be this hard? Stop projecting your mental illness & poor socialisation (which prevents you being successful at daygame) onto other men. The OP is probably not like you.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 11:23 AM
1	LOOKING FOR DAYGAME WINGS IN LONDON, APPLY WITHIN Anyone who wants to wing with you is a fucking nutcase. You're shit at daygame & creeping women out. Fortunately you're decent looking so you could get away with online game, but cold approaching is not made for men with extremely poor social skills.	/r/seduction	25/09/21 08:44 AM
2	London daygame, what did I do wrong!? YOU SHOULD NOT BE DAYGAMING. You have autism. It was not built for people like you. Stick with online game	/r/seduction	25/09/21 08:37 AM
1	Cold approach DAYGAME is addictive DISCLAIMER: No one should listen to the OP. The OP is 'first-person approacher' & he's an aspie loser who never understood how to actually daygame	/r/seduction	25/09/21 08:36 AM
1	Daygame NIGHTMARE! (My daygame experience and story) Dude, your approaches were all over YouTube. Everyone could see you were dogshit at them. Don't try & pretend you have any credibility in this space. You didn't approach correctly, period.	/r/seduction	29/08/21 06:05 PM
1	Daygame NIGHTMARE! (My daygame experience and story) Sounds like you were approaching the wrong way. You may have done many things wrong: - You didn't leave enough physical space between yourself & the girl when you approached, creeping her out. - You weren't doing the London daygame model correctly or perhaps were asking weird questions? - Your SMV was far, far lower than the girls you were approaching - You misjudged their age badly (sounds like this one is accurate). etc.... there could be 50+ reasons. Specifically on the age point, if I see a …	/r/seduction	15/08/21 09:09 PM
1	After how many cold approaches did you get your first date? Yeah don't listen to his advice. Cold approach is sufficient but you have to have realistic expectations in terms of the SMV of the girls you're approaching vs your own SMV, etc. Massive numbers game as well of course.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 01:02 PM
1	Don't pursue women who don't want you, focus on the ones that do want you Without seeing a pic of you / a pic of the types of girls you're into then there's no way of helping you	/r/seduction	21/04/21 08:11 AM
1	Don't pursue women who don't want you, focus on the ones that do want you It's never the case that no woman wants you. Every man will have at least a few options, however these options might not be desirable to him. For example many guys complain they get no matches on Tinder. Usually however they can get at least a few matches but those matches aren't attractive enough in their eyes. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but sometimes lowering your standards is the most realistic option. If I exclusively aimed for girls who are a 7/10 or above, I'd probably get laid 1x…	/r/seduction	20/04/21 10:01 PM